Lastly, what can also help you is to stop thinking about this as Zulu, Xhosa or us separated by languages. Most black people speak multiple languages within the same family and ULTIMATELY we are the NGUNI Nation together. So, once you start thinking Nguni and looking which strictly NGUNI tribes exist then you will have your answer. For instance, the Vendas and Pedis have the same tribes (names and everything) and they live with Zulus in Limpompo but they say they are different because f languages. The tribes within Pedi and Venda are also the same tribes within Zulu and Xhosa. Cases in point are Pai or Mbai or Kamba or Mkabayi or Mamba or Bhayi people – these are people from Mbonambi and the Xhosa, Zulu and Venda and Pedi and Lesotho or Sotho Kings come from these people. UMkabayi was King Shaka’s aunt. What is the difference between Lobengula, Lovedu, Mbedu or Mbedwini or Dube people. These are the same tribes but Lobengula is taken to be the Tswana-speaking Zulus in Rustenberg in Phokeng and surrounds (Ndwandwe-Langa), Lovedu are both Venda and Pedi (Molapo or Mlambo or Sambo people), Dube (Zulu and Ndebele – I live in deep Zululand and there is a Dube Chiefdom – the main one in KZN just outside my township), Mbedu/Mbedwini = Qwabe/Makhanya/Mahaye/Magaye/Ngai/Khai – remember Xhosas live in CisKHAI and TransKHAI. Think of South Africa as split between Mthethwa people and Shaba/Xaba people.No language monikers. Burn them, then you will start seeing the truth.