"abantu bakudala babelwazi uthando njalo imizi yabo yayihlala iqinile. umuntu wayekhetha ukuthi ahlale lomuntu ongelanotho, ongela ngitsho lenkomo ngoba emnika uthando olujulileyo njalo oluvutha bhe! ukuqokelela olunye ulwazi ngomguli, oku kungaquka imibuzo yembali yamayeza, ukuxilongwa komzimba kwakunye novavanyo lokuqonda isifo. uvavanyo lokuqonda isifo luhlobo lovavanyo oluye lwenziwe ukuncedisa isiphumo sokuxilonga okanye ukufumana unobangelasifo. uvavanyo lokuqonda isifo lungasetyenziswa ekuqondeni okunokwenzeka malunga nempilo ebantwini abanesisifo esikhoyo. You are WAY cooler than Jay-Z! Interesting that you posted this today. I came across B’s video, “Best Thing I Never Had,” last night on youtube while going through some 80’s songs. (??!!) It started out with her in white lingerie, if I can even call it that. My heart hurt as I watched it! It’s so painful to see her & so many other beautiful & amazing artists sell themselves with sex & flaunt their sexuality. nokuba, I have to ask, where are the MEN in their lives? Where are their fathers & husbands? Shouldn’t B’s father AND Jay-Z be “fighting” for her with all that they are? Shouldn’t they be protecting her & honoring her with everything in them? I’ll be the first to say that women need to stop flaunting themselves, but I will also challenge men to step up to the plate & start honoring women. Let’s create a society where women are celebrated & honored for their TRUE BEAUTY & where men are RESPECTED. I’ll get off my soap box now. :)