Tamar Braxton’s Nigerian boyfriend reveals how broken he met the American singer a year ago-A Nigerian man dating singer Tamar Braxton has revealed new information about their relationship -He talked about how he met her broken and replaced all her pain from the past with unconditional love -Braxton also dropped a comment under the post in which she appreciated her lover It was a roller coaster of emotions between American singer and songwriter Tamar Braxton and her Nigerian boyfriend David Adefeso, after the latter shared a lengthy post on social media in which he talked about their relationship. In the post shared by Adefeso, he talked about how he met the singer about 12 months ago and how she was in a broken emotional state due to some of the pain and series of unfortunate events that had played out in her life. He said seeing her like that left him with a choice of either continuing to let her experience the torture and manipulation she had endured for over 3 decades, or to be a kind and loving partner. Adefeso said choosing the latter option resulted into an outstanding result. READ ALSO: What American lady did after Nigerian man begged her to marry him so that he can travel abroad "This is what I inherited so I had a choice: to continue the emotional and psychological abuse she had endured for almost 3 decades by being aggressively controlling and manipulative or to be a kind, gentle and loving friend and lover to the woman I love- Well, I chose the latter, and the results have been outstanding!" Adefeso said. The singer’s lover went on to disclose that his woman is now in a much better place over the past few months since their relationship. He used the opportunity to charge other men, particularly black men, to do better in the way they treat women, emphasizing the need for them to understand that it is their duty and responsibility to stand by their women. "A word to our strong black men who are in relationships with our beautiful black women- when you make a commitment to love that sista, it is your duty and responsibility to stand by your woman. Period!" he said. Read his full post below: PAY ATTENTION: Read best news on Nigeria's #1 news app PAY ATTENTION: Get your daily relationship tips and advice on Africa Love Aid group Among those who were spotted in the comment section was the American singer herself, who appeared to be totally smitten by the words of her darling partner. She expressed that he continues to leave her speechless and added that she has never known any man to love her so much despite her flaws and scars. Braxton expressed her appreciation to her lover for being patient and supportive while she continues to work on being a better version of herself. "I appreciate your patience as I continue to work on myself to be better not only for myself and beans but for you!! You are worth leaving my painful, self-righteous, self-absorbed, attention seeking, sometimes pathetic past behind." she said. READ ALSO: NAIJ.com upgrades to Legit.ng: a letter from our Editor-in-Chief Bayo Olupohunda See screenshots of her comment below: Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously gathered that the RnB superstar lost her 24-year-old niece several weeks ago to a mysterious illness. It was reported that the family believed that the young lady died after she suffered a heart attack. NAIJ.com (naija.ng) -> Legit.ng We have upgraded to serve you better Should a woman marry a man without a job? | Legit TV Source: Legit.ng -A Nigerian man dating singer Tamar Braxton has revealed new information about their relationship -He talked about how he met her broken and replaced all her pain from the past with unconditional love -Braxton also dropped a comment under the post in which she appreciated her lover READ ALSO: PAY ATTENTION: PAY ATTENTION: READ ALSO: Legit.ng Legit.ng