kusethulo sayo inkosi upano ngubane yathi isihlalo ngesikayisemkhulu umayizekanye. wathi uyamazi ummangali ofuna ukubuyiselwa isihlalo futhi unguyise. waveza nokuthi kwabe kunemihlangano ebibanjwa emsinga nasegoli ngenhloso yokumketula nokuthi umndeni wamvimba ethi uyothela amanzi esilweni. By all accounts are words could be no truer, for a believer or not. I must emphasize you use toward the direct,” I never cared, ngempela, what ethnicity my wife was to become, as I first choice would have seen her as black.” Like many, I have stuggled in my Faith as seeking duty in His will, but I do believe with all that is me, that He will send me the desires of my heart ( not just a personal preference) because for me, I believe that is where apart of my patience and/or Faith is developing. As I do agree with YOUR story as it is YOUR testimony, I equally hold account to waiting for what seems the impossible because it lead by a desire, a need, not just a want. To be more specific: I would physically love to be in the company of David Beckham, Chris Hemsworth, and Ben Affleck (when single), but I have no desire to marry them; not when my heart desires the beauty, strength, character, and valor of the wonderfully-created black man! Had we remained in a world free from sin, this probably would not be a much concern, but in a world were such a beautifully-made human has been degraded, humiliated, chastised, disrespected, njll…I foresee no need not to complete my journey with him sent by Him. okokugcina, kwami, given today’s disconcerning examples of a black man, I want and need my son to see that what once was, (a good man like his father before he passed) can still and will be again…….