umuntu ozokhethwa kumele ahlakaniphe ngokweqile, i--self starter / i--forward thinker, i--tech savy, amakhono axazululelayo okuxazulula inkinga, ahlelwe ngendlela emangalisayo, ajwayelene nezinhlelo ezijwayelekile zobuciko, onobuntu obuhle, onobuntu obunobungane, + lesi isikhundla sokungena kodwa hhayi kwabaqalayo. lo mbukiso unesheduli eqinile, edinga kakhulu futhi ozobhala kufanele abekezele, abhekane nengcindezi kahle, abe nemoto ethembekile futhi ajwayele abathengisi bezimboni bendawo. UNawol Solange naye uhlala ematasa nge-Maleec encane njengoba ebizwa. On profile wakhe Instagram, uthanda nje ukwabelana izithombe ingane yabo uthando. the man who i was in a relationship with, has been known to be a bad boy in the music industry. i am not attracted to bad boys usually; however, in this case, i thought that i could have an effect on him (he convinced me that he wanted to be a better person for me and what we had). i forgot that if someone is afraid of commitment, their issues are bigger than who i am because i am not the cause; their past is. until they decide to heal and make an effort to do so, i have no business being with them because i will only sacrifice myself and all of the previous time that i have spent doing the work to be met with disappointment and manipulation. which, is what happened. a healthy relationship is made up of two people who are trying to better themselves, not just one. ‘better’ does not mean materials or status but it means growing into your authentic power without needing external validation to know your worth.