baningi amahemuhemu, inhlebo kanye izinganekwane elihlobene ne endaweni e moscow, lefortovo umhubhe. liyini iqiniso? IPirates iveze ukuthi isisayinise uThamsanqa Sangweni obegijima kuChippa United. USangweni udlala indawo efanayo nekaJali. sigaba sekucala setiboshwa tase robben island bekuma khoikhoi asekapa labephikisana nekuphatsa kwema dutch. letinye tiboshwa bekubantfu bangaphandle njengebantfu base indonesia. lesigaba sebantfu sesibili bekubantfu bemdzabu base eastern cape lababanjwa bafakwa kulena island, ngalesinye sikhatsi bahamba nebafati babo nebantfwana. nilijwayele igama elithi “inkolelo--ze,” akunjalo? nesiko lendabuko, kodwa ngeke sikhulume ngalezo namhlanje, esikhundleni salokho ngizoxoxa ngokujwayelekile ukuhlangabezana nakho: ubungoma, ukubhula okusazokwenzeka, ukushisa impepho, nokukhuleka kubuddha. abanye abantu bayabhula, abanye bakhuleka kubuddha, kanti abanye babhula ngokusazokwenzeka ngokufunda noma ngokuvumela umuntu ukuthi afunde izici zabo zobuso. ingabe bangaki kini abake babhula ngokusazokwenzeka noma bafundwa ubuso? lena yiyonanto abantu abanesasasa ngayo, akunjalo? (yebo.) kungani kunjalo? ingabe ikuphi ukusizakala abantu abakutholayo ekubhuleni ngokusazokwenzeka noma ubungoma? ingabe uhlobo luni lokweneliseka abalutholayo? (usikisiki lokwazi okufihlekile.) ingabe usikisiki lokwazi okufihlekile nje? akukwazi ukuba yilokho. ingabe yini inhloso yokubhula? kungani bekwenza? ingabe akukhona ukubona ikusasa? abanye abantu bafundwa ubuso ukubikezela ikusasa, abanye bakwenza ukuze babone noma bazoba nenhlanhla noma cha. abanye abantu bakwenza ukuze babone ukuthi umshado wabo uyobanjani, kanti nabanye bakwenza ukubona ukuthi iyiphi inhlanhla unyaka ozayo ozoyiletha. abanye abantu bafundwa ubuso babo ukubona amathuba abo nawamadodana noma amadodakazi abo, futhi abanye osomabhizinisi bakwenzela ukubona ukuthi bazokwenza imali engakanani ukuze bathole ukuqondiswa ukuze bazi ukuthi kufanele benzenjani. ingabe okokwenelisa usikisiki lokwazi okufihlakele nje? uma abantu befundwa ubuso babo noma benza lolu hlobo lwezinto, okokusizakala kwabo uqobo kwakusasa futhi bakholwa ukuthi konke lokhu kuxhumene kakhulu nalokho abakudalelwe. ingabe inoma iyiphi yalezi zinto iwusizo? (cha.) kungani ingelona usizo? akuyona yini into enhle ukwazi kancane ngalokho? lokhu kukusiza ukuthi wazi ukuthi ishwa lingakwehlela nini, ukuze ukwazi ukuligwema uma ube wazi ngaphambilini, akunjalo? ukubhula ngokusazokwenzeka kungakusiza ukuthi uqondiswe mayelana nenhlanhla yakho, ukuze unyaka ozayo ukulungele futhi ukwazi ukuceba ngokwenza ibhizinisi. ingabe kulusizo lokho? kodwa ukuthi kuwusizo akuhlangane nathi, ngeke sixoxe ngakho namuhla; ingxoxo yethu ayiphathelene nalokhu okuqukethwe lapha kanye nalesi sihloko. ingabe usathane uyisebenzisa kanjani inkolelo--ze ukonakalisa umuntu? lokho abantu abakwaziyo ngezinto ezinjengobungoma, ukufunda ubuso, nokubhula ngokusazokwenzeka ukuze bazi ukuthi inhlanhla yabo izobanjani kusasa nokuthi indlela ngaphambili injani, kodwa ekugcineni, ingabe izandla zikabani ezilawula lezi zinto kakade? (izandla zikankulunkulu.) basezandleni zikankulunkulu. ngokusebenzisa lezi zindlela, ingabe yini usathane afuna abantu bayazi? usathane ufuna ukusebenzisa ukufunda ubuso nokubhula ngokusazokwenzeka ukutshela abantu ukuthi uyazi ngenhlanhla yabo engaphambili, futhi usathane ufuna ukutshela abantu ukuthi uyazazi lezi zinto futhi uyazilawula. usathane ufuna ukusebenzisa leli thuba nokusebenzisa lezi zindlela ukulawula abantu ukuze abantu bakholwe kuye ngokumpumpuzela futhi balalele wonke amazwi akhe. ngokwesibonelo, uma ufundwa ubuso, uma indoda ebhulayo ivala amehlo ayo ikutshele ngakho konke okwenzeke kuwe kulamashumi eminyaka edlule ngokucace bha, uzizwa kanjani ngaphakathi? ngokushesha ungazizwa, “unemba ngqo! angikaze ngitshele muntu ngaphambilini ngezinto ezenzeka kimi kudala, uzazi kanjani? ngiyasithanda ngempela lesi sangoma!” akunzima kakhulu ukuthi usathane azi ngokwenzeke kuwe, akunjalo? unkulunkulu ukuhole kwaze kwaba namhlanje, futhi usathane naye wonakalise abantu sonke lesi sikhathi futhi ukulandelile. ukudlula kwamashumi eminyaka kuwe akulutho kusathane futhi akunzima ukuthi yena azazi lezi zinto. uma wazi ukuthi lokho usathane akushilo kuqondile, ingabe awumniki yini inhliziyo yakho? ikusasa nenhlanhla yakho ingabe awuthembeli ekulawuleni kwakhe? ngokuphazima kweso, inhliziyo yakho iba nokumhlonipha noma ukumazisa, futhi kwabanye abantu, imiphefumulo yabo kungenzeka ukuthi seyihlithwe nguye. futhi uzosibuza isangoma ngokushesha: “yini okumele ngiyenze okulandelayo? yini ekufanele ngiyigweme kulo nyaka ozayo? ingabe yiziphi izinto okufanele ngingazenzi?” futhi sizobe sesithi ungayi laphaya, ungakwenzi lokhu, ungazigqoki izingubo eziwumbala othize, ungavami ukuya ezindaweni ezinjengalezi, futhi yenza ezinye izinto nakakhulu…. ngeke yini uthathe konke akushoyo ukugcine enhliziyweni? ungakufaka ekhanda ngokushesha kunezwi likankulunkulu. kungani ungakufaka ekhanda ngokushesha okungaka? ngoba uyofuna ukuthembela kusathane ukuthola inhlanhla. akukhona yini lapho ethatha khona inhliziyo yakho? uma amazwi akhe egcwaliseka njengoba bekubikezelwe, ngeke yini ufune ukuphindela kuye ngqo ukuthola ukuthi iyiphi inhlanhla unyaka olandelayo ozoyiletha? (yebo.) uzokwenza noma yini usathane akutshela ukuthi uyenze futhi uzogwema izinto athi uzigweme, ingabe awulaleli yini yonke into ayishoyo? ngokushesha okukhulu, uyowela ekusingatheni kwakhe, weduswe, bese uba ngaphansi kokulawula kwakhe. lokhu kwenzeka ngoba ukholwa ukuthi lokho akushoyo kuyiqiniso futhi ukholwa ukuthi uyazi ngezimpilo zenu zangaphambilini, ngempilo yakho manje, nalokho ikusasa elizokuletha. lena iyona indlela usathane ayisebenzisayo ukulawula abantu. kodwa eqinisweni, ubani ngempela olawulayo? unkulunkulu uqobo lwakhe, hhayi usathane. usathane umane esebenzisa ubuqili bakhe kulesimo esinjalo ukuphamba abantu abangenalwazi, ukuphamba abantu ababona umhlaba ophathekayo kuphela ukuthi bakholwe futhi bathembele kuyena. bazobe sebewela ezandleni zikasathane futhi balalele wonke amazwi akhe. kepha usathane uyabayeka yini uma abantu befuna ukukholwa kunkulunkulu futhi bamlandele unkulunkulu? kulesimo, ingabe abantu bawela ezandleni zikasathane ngempela? (yebo.) singasho sithi ukuziphatha kukasathane ngale ndlela akanamahloni ngempela? (yebo.) singakusho ngani lokhu? lawa ngamacebo okulutha nokukhohlisa. usathane akanamahloni futhi usathane udukisa abantu ukuthi bacabange ukuthi ulawula konke okwabo futhi ukhohlisa abantu ukuthi bacabange ukuthi ulawula lokho abakudalelwe. lokhu kwenza abantu abangenalwazi bafike lapho bemlalela ngokuphelele futhi uyabakhohlisa ngomusho noma emibili nje futhi ekudidekeni kwabo, abantu bayamkhothamela. ngakho, ingabe yiziphi izinhlobo zezindlela usathane azisebenzisayo, ingabe yini ayishoyo ukwenza wena ukuthi ukholwe kuye? ngokwesibonelo, kungenzeka ukuthi awuzange umtshele usathane ukuthi bangaki abantu abasemndenini wakho, kodwa angasho ukuthi bangaki abantu emndenini wakho, neminyaka yabazali bakho nabantabakho. uma ubunezinsolo nokungabaza kwakho ekuqaleni, ngeke yini uzwe ukuthi ungamkholwa nakakhulu emuva kokuzwa lokho? usathane angabe esesho ukuthi ubunzima kanjani umsebenzi kuwe kamuva nje, ukuthi abaphathi bakho abakuniki ukwaziswa okukufanele futhi bahlale bemelene nawe, nokunye. emuva kokuzwa lokho, ungacabanga, “kuyiqiniso ngempela! izinto bezingahambi kahle emsebenzini.” ngakho ungamkholwa usathane nakakhulu. angabe esesho okunye ukukukhohlisa, akwenze umkholwe kunakuqala. kancane kancane, ungazithola ungasakwazi ukunqaba nokuba nezinsolo ngaye. usathane umane asebenzise amaqhinga ambalwa angasho lutho, ngisho amaqhinga amancanyane, ukukuthwebula. lapho ekuthwebula, ngeke ukwazi ukuthola amabombo akho, uzobe sewungazi ukuthi kufanele wenzenjani, futhi uzoqala ulandele lokho okushiwo usathane. lena yindlela “ehlakaniphe ngokudlulele” usathane ayisebenzisayo ukonakalisa umuntu lapho uwela ogibeni lwakhe ungaqondile futhi uyengwe nguye. usathane ukutshela izinto ezimbalwa abantu abacabanga ukuthi izinto ezinhle, futhi ubese ekutshela okufanele ukwenze nalokho okufanele ukugweme futhi yingaleyo ndlela lapho uqala ukuhamba leyo ndlela. uma uke waqala wahamba ngaleyo ndlela kuzoba yinkinga njalo kuwe; uzohlala njalo ucabanga ngalokho usathane akushilo nalokho akutshele ukuthi ukwenze, futhi uzongenwa ungazi nguye. kungani lokhu? ingoba isintu siswele iqiniso ngakho abakwazi ukumelana nokulinga nokuyenga kukasathane. sibhekene nobubi kanye nobuqili bukasathane, ukukhohlisa, kanye nokuba nenzondo kwakhe, isintu asinalwazi, asivuthiwe futhi sibuthakathaka, akunjalo? (yebo.) abantu bayakhohliswa futhi bayengwe, kancane kancane, izindlela zikasathane ezinhlobonhlobo, ngoba abanalo ikhono lokuhlukanisa phakathi kokuhle nokubi. baswele lesiqu, kanye nekhono lokunqoba usathane.