Iyini ‘indawo esithekile’ kaJehova futhi isivikela kanjani? (IHubo 91) This got me thinking about the power of appreciation in our family lives and the way we praise and encourage our children. If you spend most of your time being positive yet finish your sentences with but you negate all the positive things youve already said to your kids and they will only remember the words after your but. Uyazi, mzala mina ngangingezwa. I had a brother who is now late, wayewuthela umchamo engutsheni umangale ukuthi kanti umgqomo uchithekile yini. So one day ngathathi rekeni le eyokubopha imali, ngabopha intenene yakhe. As usual utshomi wazitshiya njengenjayelo kanti mamo mina ngangibophe kakhulu. Nxa uyazi ibaloon evutheliweyo that is how big okuyi ntenene kwakhe turned to be, wavuka esehlabumkhosi okuyirekeni sekungenile kwamuthimfi, I literally circumsised him, phela waze wayakhitshwa esibhedhlela isingenile ingasaqumeki. I was beaten by my dad that day ongakaze ukubone. That's how he stopped from wetting his bed waze wazifela nje two years ago everytime nxa engagabaza I used to tease him about the incident