Wakhe unyana Boguslav wafunda eGroningen, eUtrecht naseParis. E Belarus, okulufaneleyo iziza ezimbini ubuncinane - e Zhodino, lusekelwe, kwaye Slutsk, apho abaninzi: ndafumana yaseMagdeburg, walungiselela iinqaba ezintsha, bahlanganisana apha ukuze ilayibrari archive. njengawo nawuphi na umnqweno, umntu unokungawuvumeli ukuba ukhule okanye enze ngokuvumelana nawo. njani? ibhayibhile ithi: ‘qhubekani nihamba ngokomoya anisayi kulawulwa yiminqweno yenyama konke konke.’—galati 5:16 L: The family of the bride-to-be. It is a way of showing their acceptance and giving your son their blessing. The sheep stands at the door. They will not call it a sheep, though; they will call it a chicken.5 You [the man’s representatives] accept the sheep and ask the young men of that family [the woman’s family] to slaughter it for you. They will then ask you to lend them a knife to slaughter the sheep. If you do not have a knife, then you will have to give them another bottle of brandy. What are you buying with that bottle of brandy? You are buying that knife that you could not provide. If you do not have another bottle of brandy, then you will have to take 50 rand or so out of your wallets. In doing this, you are buying the knife that is going to slaughter that sheep.