umsebenzi wokucwenga ngokuyinhloko owokuphelelisa ukholo lwabantu futhi ekugcineni ufinyelela esimweni lapho khona ufuna ukuhamba kodwa ungakwazi, lapho abanye abantu bephelelwe yinhlansi yethemba kodwa basenalo ukholo lwabo, lapho abantu bengasenalo ithemba ngekusasa labo, kungalesi sikhathi kuphela lapho ukucwenga kukankulunkulu kuyophela khona. isintu asikafiki esigabeni lapho sishaya khona uzamthilili phakathi kokuphila nokufa—asikakunambithi ukufa, ngakho ukucwengwa akukho ekugcineni. ngisho nalabo ababesezinyathelweni zabenzi bokubi abakacwengwa ngokuphelele, kodwa ujobe wakuqeda ukucwengwa kwakhe, engenalutho angancika kulo. abantu kumele badlule ekucwengweni kuze kufike ezingeni abangasenathemba kulo kanye nento abangancika kuyo—yilapho kuphela lapho beyocwengwa khona ngempela. ngesikhathi sabenzi bokubi, izinhliziyo zenu zazihlale zithule phambi kukankulunkulu. kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yena wenzani futhi akunandaba ukuthi intando yakhe yayiyini, nanihlale nilalela amalungiselelo akhe futhi ekugcineni, naqonda yonke into. lokho kusho ukuthi inkazimulo yokubona ubuso bukankulunkulu ungaba nayo kuphela lapho ungcwele noma uma ufakaza. uma ungeke ufakaze ngaye, awunayo inkazimulo yokubona ubuso bakhe. uma uhlehla noma ukhononda ngonkulunkulu lapho ubhekene nokucwengwa, uhluleka ukufakaza ngaye, ube yinhlekisa kusathane, ngeke ukuzuze ukubonakala kukankulunkulu. uma ufana nojobe, owaqalekisa inyama yakhe phakathi nezilingo futhi wangakhononda ngonkulunkulu, futhi owakwazi ukuzonda inyama yakhe ngaphandle kokukhononda noma ukona ngamazwi akhe, lokho kuwukufakaza. lapho udlula ekucwengweni ngokwezinga elithile futhi usengafana nojobe, ulalele ngokuphelele phambi kukankulunkulu ngaphandle kwezinye izimfuno ngaye noma kwemibono yakho, unkulunkulu uyobonakala kuwe. manje unkulunkulu akabonakali kuwe ngenxa yokuthi unemibono eminingi kangaka, ukukhetha kwakho, imicabango enobugovu, izimfuno zomuntu nezinto ezithandwa inyama, futhi awufaneleki ukubona ubuso bakhe. uma ubona unkulunkulu, uyomlinganisa ngemibono yakho—bese kuba nguwe ombethela esiphambanweni. uma wehlelwa izinto eziningi ezingahambisani nemibono yakho kodwa ukwazi ukuzibekela eceleni futhi wazi izenzo zikankulunkulu kulezi zinto, futhi phakathi nokucwengwa wembula inhliziyo yakho yokuthanda unkulunkulu, lokhu kuwukufakaza. uma ikhaya lakho linokuthula, ujabulela ukunethezeka kwenyama, kungekho okushushisayo, abafowenu nodadewenu ebandleni bekulalela, ungayibonisa yini inhliziyo yakho yokuthanda unkulunkulu? ingabe lokhu kungakucwenga? uthando lwakho ngonkulunkulu lungaboniswa kuphela ngokucwengwa, futhi ungapheleliswa kuphela ngezinto ezenzekayo kodwa ezingahambisani nemibono yakho. unkulunkulu ukuphelelisa ngezinto eziningi ezingezinhle, nezinsizi eziningi. unkulunkulu ukuvumela ukuba uthole ulwazi futhi akuphelelise ngezenzo eziningi zikasathane, izinsolo, nezinkulumo zabantu abaningi.