it is a mistake to suppose that evidence of endowment with the holy spirit is speaking in tongues. if we may go to the book of acts chapter 1 verse 8, when christ amplifies the promise of the holy spirit he says when it has come the effect will be effective and extensive witnessing, that is preaching the gospel to all nations kindred, tongue and people. while speaking in tongues is a gift of the spirit, inability to, doesn't mean that one hasn?t received the spirit of god. like all other spiritual gifts it is given at god?s discretion to whom he chooses, the woman is expected to buy a live chicken, seven candles, pay r50 and bring silver coins to open or ask for the light from the angels of the church. she also have to buy a case of cold drinks that will be shared among church members. this can only be done after the birth of the baby but there are certain times that she should come back to church based on the gender of the child. like if it’s a boy, she is expected to come back after six weeks whereas for a girl it is after three months. they believe that boys are stronger and they heal quickly than girls. on this day both parents are expected to be at church for the ceremony as it is also combined with introducing the child.