16 Nxa ungosakhulayo ohlala kwelinye ilizwe njalo ucabanga ukungena lebandla elisebenzisa ulimi olukhulunywa kuleyondawo zibuze imibuzo elandelayo: Kungani ngifuna ukungena lebandla lelo? Ukuya kulo kuzanginceda yini ukuthi ngisondele kuJehova? (Jak. 4:8) Okwenza ngiye kulo yikuthi kangifuni ukuba seduze labazali bami yini kumbe ngibalekela imisebenzi ethile ebandleni engikulo? Omunye udadewethu okuthiwa nguNadia osebenza eBhetheli uthi: “Sathi sesikhulakhulile mina labanawami sasesifuna ukuyangena lebandla elalisebenzisa ulimi lwakuleyondawo.” Lanxa kunjalo abazali babo abazange babavumele ukuthi baye kulelobandla ngoba bananzelela ukuthi kwakungasoze kubancede. UNadia uthi: “Siyababonga abazali bethu ngokusebenza kwabo nzima besifundisa ulimi lwabo lokusikhuthaza ukuthi siqhubeke singena lebandla ababekulo. Lokhu kusincedile kakhulu njalo kusenze senelisa lokunceda abanye ukuthi bafunde ngoJehova.” Hi I don't know what to do anymore my boyfriend and I keep fighting about me cheating but im not cheating on him and doesn't believe to a point he stole my Facebook pin just to see I don't talk to guys n he has seen it still don't listen I don't he even told me how he almost bugged my phone so that he could listen to my calls n told him if you find it in your heart to see im nt cheating let me go he said no. Even yesterday we had fight because some guys said they where dating me and I don't believe some guys said that as he did lie alot n made stories about me cheating while I don't idk what wrong here he keeps believing rumours than me. Please help what can I do let it go n end it or try n fix it as I have tried and still no change in him??