in this article we are looking at how to address a girl that has given birth outside of wedlock. nowadays, they will call this young woman ‘mother of so and so’, in the olden days this was a taboo. a woman should be called by her first name by her family members and neighbours because she is still considered a child since she is not married. only when she visits her boyfriend’s home that she can be called ‘mother of so and so’. the was mainly done because of not wanting to confuse the ancestors for the new addition in the family of the boy and from her home they also considered her as a child so when her name changes it is believed that ancestors cannot recognise her. "8048* the big kahuna* 3 min. walk to beach access* private pool* tiki bar* rec. room w/pool table -- izindlu iyaqashisa e--rodanthe, north carolina, united states