Portia Nelson
Portia Nelson (born Betty Mae Nelson; May 27, 1920 – March 6, 2001) was an American popular singer, songwriter, actress, and author. She was best known for her appearances in 1950s cabarets, where she sang soprano. In 1965, she portrayed the cantankerous Sister Berthe in the film version of "The Sound of Music"; she also had a minor role as Sarah in the musical "Doctor Dolittle"; on TV's "All My Children" Nelson played the long-running role of nanny Mrs. Gurney. Her book of poetic musings, "There's a Hole in My Sidewalk: The Romance of Self-Discovery , became a mainstay of twelve-step programs. Early life and education. Nelson was born in Brigham City, Utah on May 27, 1920 and was the youngest of nine children. (The Danish family name of Nielsen had been anglicized before her birth.) Her Mormon family owned a farm; her father was also a railroad worker. At a young age, Nelson taught herself to play piano; after two years at Weber College in Ogden, Utah she quit school and moved to Los Angeles. Early career. While attending an LDS Church service in L.A. in 1945, Nelson met the King Sisters, the popular 	Portia Nelson
22168040	swing-era vocal quartet, also from Utah. The sisters were employed by bandleader Alvino Rey; and since Nelson needed a job, they hired her to come on the road as their secretary. In the months that followed, she took one of her first steps as a musician by writing a few vocal arrangements for the group. Back home in Los Angeles in early 1946, Nelson worked briefly as secretary to film director André de Toth; she held another secretarial job in the publicity department of United Artists Pictures. Around that time she adopted the name Portia, a nickname that friends 	Portia Nelson
22168041	gave her based on her love of the popular radio soap opera Portia Faces Life". She was known for occasionally sitting at pianos on the lot and demonstrating songs, and word of her vocal talents spread. Jane Russell was then on the lot making a film, "Young Widow"; one day they talked about songs they both liked, and Nelson performed one at the piano. "What the hell are you doing pounding a typewriter? ... You should be singing," said Russell. Nelson would later work for Russell as a vocal coach. After Nelson's death, Russell said that she "had a high , clear voice, with such intonation and shading! Her lyrics were sung with such understanding that you felt you'd heard a poem sung." Through Ida Lupino, Nelson met Nick Arden, a lyricist who was planning to open a small nightclub in Sherman Oaks, California. She and Arden teamed to write a song, "It's as Simple as That." Nelson recorded the demo, which reached the hands of singer Jo Stafford; on October 18, 1946, Stafford recorded the ballad for Capitol as the B-side of "September Song." The disc didn't chart, but once his nightclub had opened Arden hired  Nelson to make her debut there as a singer. Her accompanist was Walter Gross, a former staff pianist at CBS radio and the composer of a standard written that year, "Tenderly". Early cabaret work. After leaving Nick Arden's, Nelson continued to work day jobs, while singing sporadically. In 1949 she performed at the Café Gala, a cabaret on Hollywood's Sunset Strip; singer-pianist Bobby Short entertained. Recalled Short in his 1995 autobiography "Bobby Short: The Life and Times of a Saloon Singer": "Portia walked onto the floor of the Gala, tall, poised, goddesslike in floating chiffon – and singing  in a way that was all her own. She was a smash." It was at the Café Gala that Nelson was heard by Herbert Jacoby, the owner (with Max Gordon) of Manhattan's preeminent cabaret, the Blue Angel. Jacoby invited her to sing there. In January 1950, Nelson moved to New York; soon after she was performing on one of the Blue Angel's four-act bills. She would sing there on and off until 1959, sharing rosters with Carol Channing, Pearl Bailey, Imogene Coca, Orson Bean, Wally Cox, Harry Belafonte, Johnny Mathis, and other budding stars. Nelson sometimes performed  in the front lounge, where her accompanist was William Roy, a young pianist and composer who was just beginning a fifty-year career as a musical director for many of cabaret's greatest performers. In 1951 Nelson would also appear at the New York lounge Celeste, accompanied by songwriter and pianist Bart Howard, who soon became the emcee at the Blue Angel. At Celeste, Nelson performed many of the songs (including "In Other Words," later retitled "Fly Me to the Moon") that she would gather on her album "Let Me Love You: Portia Nelson Sings the Songs of Bart Howard . She championed Howard for the rest of her career. The singer had made an auspicious recorded debut with the album Love Songs for a Late Evening", released in 1953 by Columbia's Masterworks division, normally reserved for classical artists. The "New Yorker" reviewer Rogers Whitaker wrote in his liner notes: "One has only to hear the delicate phrasing and effortless command of melody to understand why she could immediately create such a stir." Theater and other recordings. Nelson was also a frequent participant in a series of recorded re-creations of classic musicals, produced by Columbia president and producer Goddard  Lieberson. The singer was heard on "Roberta", "The Boys from Syracuse", "On Your Toes", and "Oklahoma!" A recording of Noël Coward's "Bitter Sweet", which featured Nelson and singer Robert Rounseville, remains unissued; according to Nelson, its release was nixed by Coward, who disapproved of it. Her other early recorded work include the 1956 album, "Autumn Leaves" (on the Dolphin label); she wrote arrangements for the album "Stritch" by Elaine Stritch, released on Dolphin in 1956. In 1954, Nelson originated the role of Miss Minerva Oliver in "The Golden Apple", John Latouche's musical adaptation of Homer's "Iliad" and  Odyssey. "The Golden Apple" opened off-Broadway at the Phoenix Theatre, then moved to Broadway's Alvin Theatre, where it ran from April through August. In 1955, she contributed material to the Broadway review "Almost Crazy", which lasted just 16 performances. She continued to sing at the Blue Angel and other cabarets, including New York's Bon Soir and Downstairs at the Upstairs, the Colony in London, and Bricktop's in Rome. In 1959, she began hosting her own musical radio show, "Sunday in New York", produced by Allen Ludden. Tracks from the series would later comprise Nelson's 1994  CD, "Sunday in New York", released on the Lockett-Palmer label. Los Angeles. Her cabaret career, like the scene itself, was starting to wane, and in 1960 Nelson moved to Los Angeles. There she maintained a dual career as a writer of special musical material (for Carol Burnett, Debbie Reynolds, Marlene Dietrich, Julie Andrews, and others) and as vocal coach to such actors as Rod Steiger. She also became an actress who specialized, inadvertently, in roles of nuns. In "The Sound of Music" (1965), Nelson played Sister Berthe, who saved the von Trapp family in pre-World War II Austria  by sabotaging a Nazi car. Nelson uttered the memorable line, "Reverend Mother, I have sinned." The next year she appeared as Sister Elizabeth in the film comedy "The Trouble with Angels". In 1967 Nelson appeared as Sister Benedict on the TV western "The Big Valley" in the episode titled "Days of Grace." She appeared in the movie "Doctor Dolittle" and worked as consulting producer and writer for the 1969 TV special, "Debbie Reynolds and the Sound of Children". During her L.A. years, Nelson studied painting with celebrity portraitist and art teacher Richard McKenzie, who was Fred Astaire's son-in -law and who owned an art gallery in Beverly Hills. In honor of Nelson's repeated castings as a nun, the gallery hosted an exhibition of nun paintings by Nelson and other artists. When her friend Rock Hudson was preparing to record his first and only album, "Rock, Gently: Rock Hudson Sings the Songs of Rod McKuen" (on the Stanyan label) in 1970, Nelson coached the actor vocally. Another friend, the actor, screenwriter, and novelist Tom Tryon, cast her as the busybody Mrs. Rowe in the 1972 film version of his thriller novel, "The Other". New York. In the 1960s  Nelson had sung little; her only album of that decade, "Picadilly Pickle: Lady Nelson and the Lords", was a rock-and-roll spoof on which Nelson played Vox organ and didn't sing. Around 1971, she returned to New York and made a rare cabaret appearance at the short-lived club Mary Mary, owned by singer-actress Mary McCarty. In 1976, with a cabaret renaissance underway in New York and other cities, Nelson made her official singing comeback with an engagement at the Manhattan club Brothers & Sisters; thereafter she sang at other New York clubs (The Ballroom, Ted Hook's  OnStage, Freddy's Supper Club) and at the Mocambo in San Francisco. Reviewing her appearance at The Ballroom, Rex Reed wrote: "With silver hair rising to a peak atop sleek chiffon and mile-long pearls, Miss Nelson is as graceful and refined to observe as she is to listen to." Acting work, 1970s-1980s. From May through November 1976, Nelson played the small role of Therese, a spinster, in the touring company of "The Baker's Wife", a musical by Stephen Schwartz and Joseph Stein. The show was Broadway-bound, but closed in Washington, D.C. before its New York opening. Nelson  continued to act, taking on roles in the soap operas "The Doctors" and "All My Children" (in which she played the recurring role of nanny Rachel Gurney) and appearing on numerous TV commercials. She was also seen on an episode of the sitcom "Chico and the Man" and in the movie "Can't Stop the Music" (1980), which starred the Village People. Writing. Nelson was a cancer survivor, having conquered breast cancer after a mastectomy in 1973. Four years later, Popular Library published Nelson's milestone book, "There's a Hole in My Sidewalk: The Romance of Self-Discovery". (Beyond  Words Publishing reissued it in 1993.) Its cover appears on a poster displayed in the office of Sean McGuire, the fictional psychologist portrayed by Robin Williams in the film "Good Will Hunting" (1997). Nelson turned the book into an off-Broadway musical, presented at the York Theatre in Manhattan. One of her poems, "Autobiography in Five Short Chapters", went on to become a highly popular self-help and recovery text: <poem style= margin-left:0.3em;"> Chapter I I walk down the street. It takes me forever to find a way out. Chapter II I walk down the same street . I can't believe I am in the same place. It still takes a long time to get out. Chapter III I walk down the same street. It is "my" fault. I get out immediately. Chapter IV I walk down the same street. Chapter V I walk down another street.</poem> The poem (which was often uncredited to Nelson) was adopted by motivational speakers and reprinted in "The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying" by Sogyal Rinpoche, as well as in the foreword of TV actress Roseanne Barr's autobiography, "My Lives". Jazz singer Dianne Reeves set the poem to  music and recorded it as "The First Five Chapters" on her live CD "In the Moment" (2000). Later life and death. In the early 1990s, a bout with throat and tongue cancer – which Nelson, who never smoked, blamed on her years of singing in smoky nightclubs – robbed her of her soprano voice. Within a couple of years she had resumed singing in a low, husky speech-song style, while devoting more attention to her songwriting. By the end of her career Nelson had written hundreds of songs, as well as scores for various book musicals and animated films. All went  unproduced, but Nelson was lavished with accolades for her accomplishments. In October 1992, the Mabel Mercer Foundation honored her with its Premier Cabaret Classic Award. On January 20, 1993, at the inauguration of President Bill Clinton, the mezzo-soprano Marilyn Horne, a close friend of hers, sang the song that would become Nelson's trademark, "Make a Rainbow". Nelson had written it in the 1960s and dedicated it to Horne's bi-racial daughter Angela. In 1996, Nelson's "As I Remember Him" was voted Song of the Year by the Manhattan Association of Cabarets and Clubs (MAC). That same  year, Backstage magazine honored her for lifetime achievement at its annual Bistro Awards. Also in 1996, DRG Records issued "This Life", a CD of her original songs as sung by cabaret artists Margaret Whiting, Amanda McBroom, Ann Hampton Callaway, Deborah Tranelli, Nancy LaMott, and Nelson herself. DRG also reissued Nelson's three solo albums of the 1950s. In early 2001, she was honored at a MAC/ASCAP Songwriters' Showcase in New York; around that time she made her last appearance at a performance of a revue of her songs, "This Life", at the New York cabaret Don't Tell Mama . By now her cancer had recurred, and the singer died in her apartment on March 6, 2001. At her request, Nelson's ashes were spread by friends and family at the Kolob Canyons in Utah's Zion National Park, one of her favorite childhood recreational spots. Also per her wishes, the singer's writings, photographs, recordings, press clippings, and personal memorabilia were donated to the New York Public Library to establish the Portia Nelson Archive at the Library for the Performing Arts in New York City.