Nalapho yeyona nto awayehlala ngayo amanqini. Xa ethetha ngalo mdlalo wamanqindi uthi “Umdlalo wamanqindi ngumdlalo obalinganisayo abantu, ngaphakathi eqongeni, ngaphandle – nokuba usisityebi okanye ihlwempu. Ndandithanda ukuzilolonga nzima ngamanqindi kuba ndandincedakala ukususa uxinizelelo olwaloyamene nezinto zepolitiki” – Mandela, Long walk to freedom, page 193. i must say all of the questions were great with the exceptions of number 5( i see where you’re coming from though, but jay--z is not cool and defintely not cooler than someone living for the lord.). it seems as though you defintely care for sure about the woman. i don’t want to jump to any conclusions, as though you wouldn’t have shared the gospel with her after presenting those 4 thought provoking questions first. nokuba, i do agree with a fellow commenter(jonreagan) on this blog. the gospel is the only heart/mind--changer. it would be great if she heard it from someone(like you) who’s also involved in music(although you both are on different paths) and know the depth of it’s influence. thanks trip for your willingness to serve our lord, it’s encouraging to someone like me who’s very timid when it comes to building relationships with people and sharing the gospel. uthixo akusikelele wena nosapho lwakho!