8. I-Butterfly tattoo kwisandla esingaphezulu yenza ukuba ibhinqa libukeke lihle "izikhangiso ezivela kunoma iyiphi yamawebhusayithi ethu zingathunyelwa kubasebenzisi ngabalingani bokukhangisa, abangabeka amakhukhi. lawa makhukhi avumela iseva lesikhangiso ukuqaphela ikhompyutha yakho njalo lapho ikuthumela isikhangiso se--intanethi ukuqoqa ulwazi mayelana nawe noma abanye abasebenzisa ikhompyutha yakho. lolu lwazi luvumela amanethiwekhi ad, phakathi kwezinye izinto, ukuletha izikhangisi ezihlosiwe ezikholelwa ukuthi ziyoba nesithakazelo esikhulu kuwe. le nqubomgomo yobumfihlo ihlanganisa ukusetshenziswa kwama--cookies ngu--nyecountdown, llc futhi ayigqugquzeli ukusetshenziswa kwamakhukhi kunoma yimuphi umkhangisi. "ibhayibhile icace kakhulu kusindiso. alisekelwanga ekubeni ulunge kangakanani. abantu abaninzi my dear, i am not very sure if i understand you well enough to give you a satisfactory answer. i would like to think that you masturbate or doing what i personally call self--rewinding. being a woman, to be honest i am responding to this question using my imagination and a bit of research from male colleagues here. i would like to think that if you are masturbating and you ejaculate, you must have seen the sperm flowing out without much pressure and hence not going far as you state in your question. what i know for a fact is the body manufactures more sperm every time a man ejaculates so what you lose when you ejaculate during sex or masturbation is replaced immediately. a man, unlike a woman, will go to the grave fertile or in other words still able to make babies. i am not sure if your sperm is still slow as you said it when you ejaculate during sexual intercourse. the way god created us -- our sexual organs is amazing. in the actual act when you are having sex with a woman, you enter the woman and in order for your sperm to reach the cervix or womb of the woman, the penis gets longer when it is aroused and in order to get to the opening of the cervix where when you ejaculate, the sperm are able to easily enter the uterus where the sperm will fertilise the eggs. the vaginal canal is created with features that stimulate the male organ as you make love to the woman and the pleasure that a man gets from the act make some men to cry out loud in ecstasy when they ejaculate and if it is in a real sexual act, the sperm you say don’t go far come out in spurts and force depositing them close enough to swim up and into the uterus. maybe your problem is you are not getting sufficient arousal. read more about the foreplay before the actual act and learn how to enjoy making love. the more you pump the more pleasurable the act and voila, the more forceful the ejaculation. lovemaking is a skill my dear. you have to learn the tricks of the trade. never a dive in dive out. “ejaculation is the endpoint of a process that begins with a touch. skin covering the shaft and glans of the penis is filled with nerve endings sensitive to pressure and vibration. stroking that skin sends signals to the brain that say ‘sexytime!” says gizmodo.com