12.7. ikhabinethi ivumele ukukhutjhwa kwesikhibelelo somthethomlingwa wemisebenzi yeposo kugazede karhulumende ukwenzelela bona umphakathi uphawule. lokhu kukhibelela umthetho okhitjelelweko wemisebenzi yeposo (umthetho nomboro 124 womnyaka we--1998). great to all of you who have married children of god. we should marry people who know how to love us and that will love us! this info is for daters only–not married couples; ngakho, if you’re married, stay married, please! if you are dating, then ask god to show who you are supposed to marry–because you don’t know sincerely! people can play nice--nice/hypocrite well for different reasons and fool you, people can be good people(but not the right one for the road that god has for you–not compatible spiritually–even 2 children of god may have 2 different roads that do not line up; remember the bible verses where i believe the disciples rebuked a man of god because he was not associated with them directly; ujesu’ answer shows that people can have acceptable missions to god, but be incompatible; then again, god told hosea to marry a prostitute–if my memory serves me correctly). ngakho, by choosing the wrong one(sometimes, a child of god can be the wrong one for you), you might miss out on blessings that might only be unlocked with the right one. you may even bring a curse to you; your kids might be sickly or some may die before you; you might not be the right parent for you child; you may be infertile or infertile for a long time; you love one another and something’s still not right; you might get someone who has fooled you(there are witches, wizards, hypocrites, violent abusers, uncaring naggers, cheaters, ascribers to open sex or lgbt lifestyles, mentally unstable people, ascribers to bestiality–who only use the family pet as a cover, atheists or agnostics–who have used religion to win you over, liars, the narcissistic or selfish, alcoholics and drugheads, conpeople and getting illegal money, pagans/satanists, lazy people, the childish–negatively speaking, kunjalo, verbal abusers, cursers, people who will never repent, serial killers, pedophiles/incestuous people, njll. out there).