This may work for some people but it definitely didn't work me. I read Steve Harvey's 'Think like a man, act like a lady' and his rule can be applied to both men and women. He says that we should wait 90 days before having sex with the person that we are dating. I think everyone's time frame may be different; however, we all know that when you sleep with a prospective , it may cloud your judgement at a very critical time: the formative stage. I recommend keeping things simple and sex-free in the beginning of every relationship to find out if you really like someone. beytullah aksoy shopping mall investment and shopping mall ( re) development in i̇stanbul, türkiye. ukwazisa isithethi ( kwibanga 10) ( ngokufanelekileyo –. there is nothing wrong ngeoral sex, into edingakalayo yikuhlanzeka nje kuphela. uma usazi ukuthi you will do it make sure ukuthi ugezile loma ozokwenza laye ugezile. yinto enhle kakhulu i oral sex. loma uyenza ngomlomo loma ngeminwe kuyafana yinto enhle kakhulu njalo akekho ongayenzi lento. i am not sure nge anal sex, i have my reservations ngayo, kodwa angingeke ngibagcone abayenzayo uma bevumelene. i am 100% against homosexuality, kodwa angiboni ukuthi i anal sex iyafana lobutabane, abanye bathi buqala kanjalo ubutane, kodwa angikholwa ukuthi kuqinisekile lokhu.