Ukwakheka "umhlengikazi ophethe bangempela" lwakhiwe ngokucophelela ngochwepheshe. Kuphela indlela abanekhono ekukhetheni ezisebenzayo kungenzeka ukwakha isidakamizwa okuyinto kunemiphumela emihle emzimbeni futhi has cishe akukho Izimo. Any parent knows that when raising children, there are a lot of areas which can be hard to tackle, and each child needs their own care plan. But we all know that fire is dangerous, therefore we warn children of the dangers in a way which they can understand. We don’t allow them to learn that fire is dangerous by letting them play with it. The scars and pain would be felt long after the damage would have been done if this was so. In the same way, why should we be asked to allow our children to be involved in programs which inherently ask children to suspend their trust in their family unit for providing the guidance needed to work their way through issues of puberty, maturation and development and be subject to “education” well beyond the scope of anti-bullying and acceptance of diversity. Yet this is what the Safe Schools Program asks us to do.