“Esikuncomayo ukuthi abafuye izinja bazisuse lapho kuzobe kuqhunyiswa khona izikwibhisi, uma bengeke bakwazi ukwenza njalo siye sithi okungenani kumele bazivalele endaweni ephephile ezingeke ziphume kuyo uma sezizwa umsindo. Okunye okusizayo ukuthi ngesikhathi zivalelwe endlini kuvulwe umsakazo kakhulu ukuze zingakuzwa ukuqhuma okungaphandle,” kusho yena. “Asiyazi imbangela yokubulawa kwamalungu omndeni nomfana obulewe ngasesitolo. Empeleni sikhathazekile ngokubulawa kwabantu kule ndawo njengoba sebengaphezu kuka-20 abantu bebulawa kusuka ngo-2018. Umphakathi usuyesaba, asihlezi neze kahle,” kusho uNkk Hadebe. We focused on women from the olden day’s vs twenty first century. Gogo Mzobe shared her experiences as a woman of how the times have changed. She mentioned that education was a big NO for girls in the olden days, they were only expected to help their mothers to learn about womanhood so that they will be able to build their own houses when they come of age. Even when they were married they did not have a voice in the household and even in the well-being of their children only men took decisions and even discussed family issues. When compared to today’s women they are educated, women can choose if they want to have children or get married. They even work to bring income in their families, they can take important decisions even on behalf of the husband.