In sickness and in health until death do us part. All I am saying is if the guy has infected you that is a sign that he was promiscuous and only IF he is the one who infected you. You did not tell me what your status was before you met this man or that the two of you went for tests before you had unprotected sex. It would be surely be unfair to always blame men for infecting women because sometimes it is the women who are infecting the men. However, regardless of who infected who, what is important at this point is to make sure that if you decide to remain in this relationship that both of you are taking the ARVs religiously and practising safe sex. These days Aids no longer kills and it is just like any other chronic disease - if one takes their medication and eats healthy food you will live as long as or longer than people who don’t have Aids.