mfundo mkhize -- august 31, 2015 kunqobe owaselesotho kowe--mandela marathon. usethi khumu ebholeni umahlangu here also would be the platform where she would be advised about how a married women should behave where she’s getting married to. they’d also let her be aware that the going will get tough at times and she’ll wish to return home, but a true women who wants to build a family will percevere. they’d alert her about the common problems and help her how to deal with them. then they would sing, dance and enjoy thee food of the meat of the goat that was slaughtered. this would go on until early hours of the morning when they are all exhausted. they’d eventually take a nap and wake up at the dawn of the morning. they would go to the river to bath and get water and start preparing for the big day. my name nomvuyiseko eunica beme(dlamini,zizi) i’m looking for my father’s family his name(nomathumbu,wilson beme)he pass on when i was 5years. what i know he left his brother at home. he got married to my mother her name makhazasi anna bucibo and they were bless with 5 kids mabandla,mandlakayise,muziwamandla,nomana and me i’m the last born. all the boys pass on now we left only two of us