I-20. Lovely ingalo engapheli emkhathini tattoo ink umqondo izingalo female umbuso esasiyilwa ngaphakathi ngokuhlangayelwa kwamalokishi nabasebenzi, kanye nolunsinywa kwezezimali okwakokhelela kakhulu phakathi nonyaka ka1985 ngenxa yengozi eyenzeka eThekwini. Mhla ziwu15 kuAgasti 1985 uBasi wobandlululo Upw Botha wethula inkulumo yakhe eyayaziwa ngokuthi iRubicon Speech phambi kwezintatheli zomhlaba wonke ezibalelwa emakhulwini amabili, kwinhlangano yakhe yezombusazwe iNational Party lapho waxwayisa khona umhlaba ukuthi “Ningasenzi senzo okungaphezu kokwakwenzeka” (Don’t push us too far). This is a book that starts slowly with lots of detail about Sunny's life but you need this to understand what she needs to do in order to make changes. The story also jumps between the present day and Sunny's childhood and the time when she started to hide her own physical issue and to try and change her husband into something more acceptable to what she expects. The story is gloriously life-affirming as Sunny makes changes, sweeps away pretence and starts to live as herself.