Misogyny

[[File:Taliban beating woman in public RAWA.jpg|thumb|right|225px|[[Taliban]] enforcer beats a woman for failing to remain covered, 2001.]]
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{{cquote|That men are afraid of women is not — despite the headlines — news. Men will always be afraid of women, so long as [[patriarchy]] lasts, for the same reason that millionaires will always tremble at [[Communism|the]] [[Communist glossary#Revolution|thought]] of [[revolution]]. The master fears the [[slave]]. The slave might revolt. There does not seem to be any reason why women should not enslave men. Men have enslaved women for ten thousand years. If it is woman's turn now, who can have the gall to object? For that matter, woman still has a biological function to perform. Man is extinct. Insemination will require tomorrow only common salt and cheap electricity.|||Gershon Legman<ref>''Love & Death: A Study in Censorship'' by G. Legman (1949) Breaking Point.</ref>{{rp|83}}}}
'''Misogyny''' is the hatred of [[women]].<ref name="Merriam-Webster">[https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/misogyny Mysogyny]. Merriam-Webster Dictionary.</ref> A few countries, notably some [[Islamist|Islamic]], [[Jewish]], and [[Christian]] states, have encoded misogynistic viewpoints into [[Shari’a|their laws]]. Some of these states give husbands and fathers full legal rights over their wives and daughters; prevent women from accessing public services without permission of their husbands or fathers; and legally limit the ability of women to participate in society by preventing them from holding jobs, driving, or accessing the press. These legal moves are often combined with a social blindness towards violence against women, up to and including the crimes of [[rape]] and murder ("[[honor killings]]"). 

Misogyny is not synonymous with [[sexism]], or [[discrimination]] on the basis of sex. Sexism against women involves [[stereotyping]] as the weaker or inferior sex compared to men, defining their roles in society as subservient to men, defining and limiting permissible behaviour and agency accordingly. Misogyny is how this sexism against women is enforced. Women stepping outside the role handed to them by sexists and/or a sexist society can face ridicule, shaming, and verbal, physical, or sexual abuse. This can be meted out by a partner, their families, their peers, and society at large, or it can come through legal measures. The effect is to keep women in their place or else face the consequences.

Blatant and subtle institutionalized and social misogyny is still encountered everywhere in the world. This can manifest itself in laws regulating reproduction (specifically [[birth control]] and [[abortion]]) which prevent a woman from fully controlling her life, social barriers to accessing political and economic power, [[rape culture]], and acceptance of domestic abuse. It is largely a consequence of human history. Old habits die hard. Human history is largely a history of misogyny; it has only been in the last 200 years that women in any country have begun to find any measure of equality.

A formidable part of the discussion concerning misogyny involves statements and opinions that the term is used as a tool to further other causes, or silence criticism where real sexism (or misogyny) is not present. The topic is heated at times, while very few people considering themselves [[secular]] will actually oppose the idea of [[equal rights]] for both sexes.

Many of the world's religions have their beginnings in strongly patriarchal cultures, and as such may still have misogynistic elements.

==Abrahamic religions==
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All three major Abrahamic religions have historically devalued women; in fact, [[Original sin|the fall of man]] is placed right at the feet of [[Eve]] as [[scapegoat]], a perfect indication of the role women will play in the religions. 

====Judaism====
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Women are traditionally prohibited from being priests or rabbis ({{bible|Leviticus|21}}), which continues today in [[Orthodox Judaism]] and, to a lesser extent, in Conservative Judaism. The [[menstruation|menstrual blood]] is considered to be a defilement; a menstruating woman was "put apart for her uncleanness," and a man was not allowed to approach the altar if he had touched menstrual blood without ritual washing ({{bible|Leviticus|15|19|33}}).

To be fair, that the ancient [[Israelite]]s lived in a desert and they had limited access to water, and thus could not bathe like we do, probably has a lot to do with this taboo. Menstruation is extremely messy and menstrual blood leaves stains, as well as smelling rather unpleasant. Furthermore, menstrual seclusion was often, in practice, a break from one's usual work and a chance to relax.

Historically, while Jewish leaders generally frowned upon "[[Domestic violence|striking a wife]] without reason", they offered some very generous definitions of what qualifies as a "reason".<ref>[https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/domestic-violence-in-jewish-law/ Domestic Violence in Jewish Law: How Judaism views wifebeating.] by Naomi Graetz, ''My Jewish Learning''. "However, the attitude of rabbinic sources toward  perceived 'bad wives' is ambivalent, and wife beating is occasionally sanctioned if it is for the purpose of chastisement or education."</ref><ref>[http://jwa.org/encyclopedia/article/wifebeating-in-jewish-tradition Wifebeating in Jewish Tradition] by Noami Graetz (27 February 2009) ''Jewish Women's Archive''.</ref> Nevertheless, [[divorce]] was considered more appropriate.  

[[Virgin]] women who were raped by a man were to be married by their rapist once he paid fifty shekels of silver to her father ({{bible|Deuteronomy|22|28|29}}) and any vows made by a woman could be nullified by her father or her husband ({{bible|Numbers|30|3|15}}). [[Polygamy|Having multiple wives]] was also accepted ({{bible|Deuteronomy|21|15|17}}, {{bible|Genesis|4|19|24}}, and {{bible|2 Samuel|3|2|5}}), whereas there are no known examples of Jewish wives having multiple husbands. Adultery led one to be put to death ({{bible|Leviticus|20|10}}) and the daughters of priests who were [[Prostitution|"whores"]] were also to be burned to death ({{bible|Leviticus|21|9}}). It was also better to offer women to be raped rather than have a man be raped ({{bible|Judges|19|24}}).

====Christianity====
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[[File:Ball-gagged woman in rope bondage with bondage rigger at BoundCon 2015.jpg|thumb|right|165px|Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law. — 1 Corinthians 14:34]]
Christianity has long prohibited women from being [[priest]]s; the [[Bible]] explicitly states that no woman shall teach any man ({{bible|1 Timothy|2|12}}). The Catechism of the [[Catholic Church]] also offers an explanation as to why they only allow male priests.
{{cquote|Only a [[Baptism|baptized]] man (vir) validly receives sacred ordination. The [[Lord]] [[Jesus]] chose men (viri) to form the college of the twelve apostles, and the apostles did the same when they chose collaborators to succeed them in their ministry. The college of bishops, with whom the priests are united in the priesthood, makes the college of the twelve an ever-present and ever-active reality until [[Second Coming|Christ’s return]]. The Church recognizes herself to be bound by this choice made by the Lord himself. For this reason the ordination of women is not possible.<ref>[http://www.ncregister.com/blog/kschiffer/jesus-christ-will-never-allow-his-church-to-ordain-women-to-the-priesthood Jesus Christ Will Never Allow His Church to Ordain Women to the Priesthood by Kathy Schiffer, National Catholic Register, May 4, 2017]</ref>}}

Most Christians outside of [[extremist]] [[Fundamentalist Christianity|fundamentalists]], however, consider that the primary reason for this was not that Christianity considered women inferior, but due to the culture of that time not giving women an educational opportunity. As a result of this, it was hard for women at that time and culture to be knowledgeable in [[theological]] matters. However, in modern times, many women hold positions as pastors and priests in multiple denominations.

Some [[Protestant]] religions take a different view and {{wpl|Ordination of women in Protestant denominations|ordain women priests|,}} though not all denominations are accepting of the idea. 

Jesus is alleged to have protected a woman from being stoned to death, by telling them, "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone," ({{bible|John|8|7}}) and he is alleged to have taught his theology to women ({{bible|Luke|10|38}}). Then again, all twelve of the {{wpl|Apostles}} in the canonical bible were male ([[Judas]] was also replaced by a male). It has been argued that Jesus was not as misogynistic as the religion which was to take his name, as the [[Gnostic|Gnosticism]] [[Gospel of Mary]] and [[Gospel of Thomas]] suggest that [[Mary Magdalene]] was not a "hanger on", but rather, was a full disciple in her own right. There are also suggestions that the very early church had conflicting views on women, as the third century sarcophagus found in Santa Maria Antiqua painted women in roles of authority.<ref>[http://employees.oneonta.edu/farberas/arth/smarthistory/early_christianity_smarthistory.html Early Christian Art and Architecture]</ref> This kind of argument would not convince a fundamentalist, as it would require the Bible to not be literally true or inerrant. More liberal Christians who view the Bible as a work of [[literature]] written by humans might find it more compelling.

The [[New Testament]] has some passages suggesting that women remained in a inferior position to men. In {{bible|1 Corinthians|11|7}}, [[Paul of Tarsus]] argued that man's head should remain uncovered as he was the glory of God whereas woman was the glory of the man and therefore should cover one's head. Though to be fair, Paul was afraid of fallen [[angels]] coming down from [[Heaven]], impregnating women, and raising a race of [[nephilim]] ({{bible|1 Corinthians|11|10}}). Women were also supposed to be subservient and silent ({{bible|1 Corinthians|14|34}}, {{bible|Ephesians|5|22}}).

However, many of the Bible verses cited today to promote misogynistic attitudes were not the words of [[Jesus]], but those of [[Paul of Tarsus]] (or rather, those of his subsequent redactors), and many argue that Apostle Paul's claims were not against women's inherent value as inferior to men, but mostly related to the culture at the time, which limited women in terms of education and [[gender]] roles, making them less suitable to be religious leaders at the time. 

After [[Saudi Arabia]] gave women the right to vote in 2011, there became only one country in the world that hasn't extended voting privileges to women. And that country is… the [[Vatican City]].<ref>[https://www.bustle.com/articles/105598-theres-1-country-where-women-cant-vote-its-seriously-time-for-it-to-break-with There's 1 Country Where Women Can't Vote & It's Seriously Time For It To Break With "Tradition" by Lauren Holter]</ref>{{efn|There are still some remaining [[Monarchy|monarchies]] and [[dictatorship]]s, such as [[North Korea]]. Those can't be considered misogynistic in the principle of voting, however, as ''no one'' has the right to vote.}} Some pastors and churches have had a distinctly misogynistic attitude, such as the now-defunct [[megachurch]] Mars Hill and its former pastor Mark Driscoll.<ref>[https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/acts-of-faith/wp/2017/10/20/why-is-a-popular-interfaith-website-giving-a-disgraced-misogynistic-pastor-a-platform/ Why is a popular interfaith website giving a disgraced misogynistic pastor a platform?] by Kirsten Powers (October 20, 2017) ''The Washington Post''</ref> Driscoll argued that one's penis was on loan from God and God created women to be penis homes.<ref>[https://web.archive.org/web/20240119131548/https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2749401/Megachurch-closes-branches-pastor-calls-women-penis-homes.html Pastor Mark Driscoll Called Women "Penis Homes"] by Libby Anne (September 8, 2014) ''Daily Mail'' (archived from January 19, 2024).</ref>

====Islam====
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In the {{quran|4}}, ''Woman'', outlines the acceptance of man as the head of the household, and that a man is allowed to have up to four wives if he supports them all equally and if he only marries his second/third/fourth wives for the purpose of supporting them economically. 
The {{quran|4|34}} of this sura reads:
{{quotebox|Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as [[Allah]] has guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them, and leave them alone in the sleeping-places and beat them; then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great.}}

Wives are expected to be obedient, and husbands are allowed to beat them, among other [[Muhammad#Women|problems]]. Despite the fact that the religion codifies a lesser role for women, and that modern Islam has plenty of followers who prefer to hide their women, [[Mohammad]] was far less misogynistic than others of his time, but [[Mohammad]] was [[Presentism|very misogynistic by contemporary standards]].<ref name=cross>[https://web.archive.org/web/20140712213614/https://crossexamined.org/status-women-according-islam/ The status of women according to Islam.] by Jonathan McLatchie] (April 12, 2014) ''Crossexamined.org'' (archived from July 12, 2014).</ref>

The ''Sunan Abu Dawud'' [[hadith]] permits the rape of female captives even if those captives are married. 
{{quotebox|The Apostle of Allah sent a military expedition to Autas on the occasion of the battle of Hunain. They met their enemy and fought with them. They defeated them and took them captives. Some of the companions of the Apostle of Allah were reluctant to have intercourse with the female captives in the presence of their husbands who were unbelievers. So Allah, the Exalted, sent down the Qur’anic verse: “And all married women are forbidden unto you save those (captives) whom your right hands possess."<ref name=cross/><ref>[https://sunnah.com/abudawud/12/110 Marriage (Kitab Al-Nikah)- part of the ''Sunan Abu Dawud'']</ref>}}
The ''Sahih Muslim'' hadith also supports this idea.
{{quotebox|Abu Sirma said to Abu Sa’id al Khadri (Allah be pleased with him): O Abu Sa’id, did you hear Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) mentioning al-‘azl? He said: Yes, and added: We went out with Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) on the expedition to the Bi’l-Mustaliq and took captive some excellent Arab women; and we desired them, for we were suffering from the absence of our wives, (but at the same time) we also desired ransom for them. So we decided to have sexual [[intercourse]] with them but by observing ‘azl (coitus interruptus). But we said: We are doing an act whereas Allah’s Messenger is amongst us; why not ask him? So we asked Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him), and he said: It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is born up to the Day of Resurrection will be born.<ref name=cross/><ref>[https://web.archive.org/web/20180322070722/http://hadithcollection.com/sahihmuslim/136-Sahih%20Muslim%20Book%2008.%20Marriage/11334-sahih-muslim-book-008-hadith-number-3371.html Sahih Muslim Book 008, Hadith Number 3371] ''Hadith Collection'' (archived from March 22, 2018).</ref>}}

Both the {{wpl|Sunan Abu Dawud}} and the {{wpl|Sahih Muslim}} are part of the {{wpl|Kutub al-Sittah}} and are considered to be canonical sayings or acts of the Islamic prophet [[Muhammad]] by practitioners of [[Sunni]] Islam. The [[Qur'an]] also teaches its followers that the testimony of one man is equal to the testimony of two women<ref>[https://quran.com/2/282 Qur'an - Surah Al-Baqara 282]</ref> and the {{wpl|Sahih Al-Bukhari}} teaches that the majority of [[Hell]]'s inhabitants were women.<ref>[https://muflihun.com/bukhari/6/301 Sahih Al-Bukhari - volume 1, book 6, no. 301]</ref>

The women [[Aisha|Aisha bint Abu Bakr]] and {{wpl|Khadija bint Khuwaylid}} were important in the spread of Islam. Yet today, few Muslims accept women as imams, and a handful of Muslims (including, it would appear, the entire governments of [[Iran]] and [[Saudi Arabia]]) believe that the Qu'ran teaches that women should not even be [[Education|educated]] in anything besides [[Kinder, Küche, Kirche|how to be a good little skivvy]].

An interesting study of 19<sup>th</sup> century urban-dwellers in the [[Ottoman Empire]] concluded that wives in polygynous Islamic societies had greater rights under [[sharia]] than their sisters in the monogamous [[Armenian]] and [[Greek]] Christian cultures had under their native customary law. As a result, women from Christian communities sometimes attempted to infiltrate sharia courts in order to secure rights such as divorce or inheritance.<ref>''Encyclopedia of Women and Islamic Cultures: Family, Law and Politics'', edited by Suad Joseph et al. (2003) Brill. ISBN 9004128182.</ref>{{rp|10-14}}

==Indic religions==
====Buddhism====
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According to Professor of Religion Bernard Faure, "like most clerical discourses, Buddhism is indeed relentlessly misogynist, but as far as misogynist discourses go, it is one of the most flexible and open to multiplicity and contradiction".<ref>''The Power of Denial: Buddhism, Purity, and Gender'' by Bernard Faure (2003) Princeton University Press. ISBN 140082561X.</ref>{{rp|9}} Buddhism is misogynist, but as far as religions go, it isn't the most misogynist religion around.

* Buddha openly says that there will never be a female Buddha because women are women in the ''Aparimitayur Sutra''. Women must achieve "enough merit to be a man", be born as men, and then become Buddha.<ref>http://freethoughtnation.com/buddhist-sexism/</ref> In the popular Jataka tales of Gautama's past lives, although he [[Reincarnation|reincarnates]] as multiple animals, none of them are women. Buddha later contradicts himself in the ''Vimalakirti Sutra'' and says that since gender is unreal, none of this [[bullshit]] matters and that women can be enlightened.<ref name="B&W">{{cite web |url=http://buddhism.about.com/od/becomingabuddhist/a/sexism.htm |title=Buddhism and Sexism: Can There Be Buddhist Gender Equality? |author=Barbara O'Brien}}</ref>

* Women can never be [[monks]]. They can be [[nun]]s or ''bhikkhuni'', but they are oftentimes viewed as inferior to monks in terms of social position.<ref>http://harvardmagazine.com/2004/11/separate-and-unequal.html</ref> However, in most East Asian countries, Buddhist nuns are viewed as the equals of monks both spiritually and socially.<ref>http://www.buddhanet.net/e-learning/history/women_world.htm</ref>

* Buddha openly predicted that letting women become nuns will "ruin" Buddhism and make his teachings last half as long when his foster mother/maternal aunt asked to be ordained. He later relented, but gave more rules of conduct for nuns to follow than monks.<ref name="B&W" /><ref>http://www.buddhanet.net/e-learning/history/pajapati.htm</ref>

Like all religions, Buddhism isn't practiced the same everywhere; as a result, some interpretations will be much more misogynist than others depending on location. Buddhists that believe Buddha is the reincarnation of Vishnu usually believe that one of Vishnu's incarnations was Mohini, who was a woman.

====Hinduism====
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Hinduism is not particularly misogynistic either.<ref>{{wpa|Women in Hinduism}}</ref> Their highest concept, Brahman, the Ultimate Reality, is genderless. They also have both male and female [[gods]] in prominent roles as part of their pantheon and there are {{wpl|Women in Hinduism|more goddess temples than those of gods}}. There are also passages in their texts that support the dignity of women, such as the following:

{{cquote|One who wishes that a daughter should be born who would be a scholar and attain a full term of life, should have rice cooked with sesamum, and both should eat it with clarified butter. Then the creators (would-be parents) would indeed be able to produce such a daughter.|||Verse 6.4.17 Brihadaranyaka Upanishad}}

The {{wpl|Manusmriti}} is inconsistent on women's rights. Some passages argue that women should obey and seek protection of her father and worship her husband as a god, while other passages declare that women must be honored, adorned, and revered. It also provides women with [[property]] rights.

However, in practice, Indian Hindu families more often than not subscribe to a patriarchal [[worldview]], with men given the role of breadwinners and women consigned to domestic duties. Women in conservative Hindu households are expected to ask for their husband's permission to pursue their own interests and may be barred from having a job, with the ban on women working held up as a "family tradition".

====Sikhism====
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Sikhism is one of the few religions that believe in gender equality and they have disassociated themselves from the Indian [[caste system]].

==Notable misogynists==
Misogynists have left their mark on the world, causing much grief for women everywhere:

* John Knox, the [[Calvinism|Calvinist]] [[preacher]], wrote a misogynist tract entitled ''{{wpl|The First Blast of the Trumpet Against the Monstrous Regiment of Women|The First Blast of the Trumpet Against the Monstrous Regiment of Women|,}}'' which made Biblical arguments as to the inferiority of women. This was a veiled political attack against the Catholic queens of his day, which backfired ''spectacularly'' on him when the Protestant Queen Elizabeth I came to power in [[England]]. His weaseling "apology" only served to tick her off more.
*The [[Nazi]]s were a very misogynist bunch, due to their obsession with physical strength, martial matters, ''etc.'' Consequently, they aimed to limit the role of women in society, strongly promoting the traditional gender roles with the slogan "[[Kinder, Küche, Kirche]]." [[Fascism]] is an incredibly misogynist political [[ideology]], as women in both [[Nazi Germany]] and [[Benito Mussolini|Fascist Italy]] lost numerous rights when fascism took over.<ref>http://samjcousins.wordpress.com/2013/01/04/the-position-of-women-in-fascist-society/</ref><ref>https://bobhistory.wikispaces.com/Treatment+of+Women+in+Fascist+Italy+and+Nazi+Germany</ref>
* [[Phyllis Schlafly]] thought that women are only good for being mothers, the dickens with any ''other'' abilities they might have, such as [[Hypocrisy|being lawyers and public speakers]]. Troublingly, she also believed that [[Marital rape|men have the right to rape their wives]], and her belief in female inferiority is shared by her son [[Andrew Schlafly]], who [[Irony|worships her as a goddess]].

==Historical misogyny?==
There are examples of misogyny in historic persons, but talking about them needs to be approached carefully. Many people think that, because a person said something that modern people would consider sexist, they are sexist. Because women, historically, occupied a lower position, it was common for people in days gone by to casually say things we would consider sexist.

An example of this is [[Muhammad]], who argued that women were inferior to men. In Book 6 of the ''Sahih al-Bukhari'', when explaining to women of the Musalla why they were 'deficient', he said, ''"Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man? This is the deficiency in her intelligence."''<ref>http://www.usc.edu/org/cmje/religious-texts/hadith/bukhari/006-sbt.php#001.006.301 ''Translation of Sahih al-Bukhari, Book 6'', 1:6:301</ref> Yet, he emphasized the role of women as teachers in his religion, his wives being important religious aspects in his band.{{fact}}

[[Presentism]] is the fallacy of judging historical figures or events through a modern perspective rather than the appropriate historical context, especially when considering the difference between good-intentioned sexism and misogyny.  Consider, for example, {{bible|Numbers|31|18}}. This Bible passage could be construed as misogynistic as it advocated for the sexual slavery of virgin women, but was it actually misogynistic? If one reads {{bible|Numbers|31|7}} and {{bible|Numbers|31|17}}, one will see that the males were killed whereas the virgin females were kept alive. It can be argued that the males suffered a worse fate by dying, but it can be also argued that the females are kept alive only for their sexual function, which can in turn be viewed as women being treated as sex property and reward, which is an ongoing and consistent theme in the Bible. On the other hand, this may also be considered [[Misandry|misandrist]] as males are killed for lacking reproducibility, but men are also viewed as a standard "unit" (holding positions of power and holding property and all); kings are killed as described in the [[Numbers]] passage; which can be another argument for misogyny. All in all, {{bible|Numbers|31|18}} was certainly [[genocidal]], Midianite-hating, and self-interested.

==See also==
* [[Misandry]]
* [[Manosphere]]
* [[Mansplaining]]
* [[Sexism]]
* [[Transmisogyny]]

==External links==
*[http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/misogyny.shtml What is Misogyny?]
*[http://www.splcenter.org/get-informed/intelligence-report/browse-all-issues/2012/spring/misogyny-the-sites Misogyny: The Sites]
*[http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/06/21/christian-domestic-discipline-spanking-jesus-marriage_n_3479646.html?utm_source=concierge&utm_medium=onsite&utm_campaign=sailthru%2Bslider%2Bb Christian Domestic Discipline Promotes Spanking Wives To Maintain Biblical Marriage]
*[http://www.alternet.org/belief/20-vile-quotes-against-women-religious-leaders-st-augustine-pat-robertson?paging=off 20 Vile Quotes Against Women By Religious Leaders From St. Augustine to Pat Robertson]
*[http://www.butterfliesandwheels.org/2016/banter-is-a-ritualised-social-practice-essential-to-structural-sexual-inequality/ Banter is a ritualised social practice essential to structural sexual inequality.]
*[http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-22975103 Violence against women worldwide is 'epidemic']

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