Confidence

Categories: Chadsplanation, Emotions

[[File:Confidence2.jpg|thumb|right|"Fake it till you make it"]]
'''Confidence''' is often cited as the key to [[ascending]] from inceldom. "Just be confident bro" is among the most commonly [[chadsplaining]] platitudes but also among the most patronizing and illogical. Confidence derives from having achieved something, or having the ability to do things. Confidence can't just be plucked out of thin air. The pharase "just be confident" makes about as much sense as saying "try to be angry" or "pretend you find it funny". Although there are some actors who have the ability create the genuine impression that they are amused or angry, it takes a lot of skill, and usually people can tell if you're fake laughing. Similarly, people will eventually be able to tell that you feigned confidence is staged. 

Furthermore, it disregards the [[halo effect]] and [[failo effect]] whereby an attractive man's shyness might be regarded as endearing, while an ugly man's confident approach might be interpreted as [[sexual harassment]]. Furthermore, confidence and "[[holding frame]]" can be perceived as arrogant in ugly men, as people subconsciously view them as lower status and will lead to [[Normie|normies]] trying to "put them in their place."
[[File:Confidence.jpg|thumb|none|Women love confidence]]
== Memes ==
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File:St. Bo2cel confident.png|See: [[St. Blackops2cel]].  
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==See also==
* [[Personality]]
* [[Shyness]]
* [[Love shy]]
* [[Butterflies in the stomach]]
* [[Attraction ambiguity problem]]
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