You are always paying for it

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"'''You are always paying for it'''" is a common line that people give, when men express dismay at engaging with [[pussy cartel|the pussy cartel]].

The meaning of the phrase is that women today, unlike men, always expect some form of payment, future payment, or 'return on investment' for sex, that goes beyond the physical pleasure of sex. Which is basically true. For example, women browse lingerie magazines as if they are conducting a business strategy to maximize profits from customers, rather than 'oh wow this looks good'.

== Analysis ==
There are several interpretations of the meaning "paying for it" that can be further specified:

* Monetarily: In perhaps the most literal meaning of the phrase, a man might explicitly pay a prostitute with a monetary currency in exchange for sex. Or, the exchange may be implicit, as is frequently the case in [[Betabux|betabuxxing]] and some [[SEAmaxx|SEAmaxxing]] scenarios.
* Emotionally: Alternatively, the payment may be interpreted in terms of attention, time, and mental energy. The most severe examples may be instances of divorce-raping and babytrapping, which entail both emotional and monetary costs. 
* Physically: A man might catch a STD, particularly from prostitutes, or very possibly from a [[Becky]] or [[Stacy]]. In other cases, male competition for pussy can turn violent, most prevalently in traditional human and primate [[Dominance hierarchy|dominance hierarchies]]. 
* Socially: While relationships are generally considered a social boon, women who are particularly psychopathic, narcissistic, or borderline may isolate a man from his family and friends.

==Variations==
*"Whether it's a hooker or your wife, you're always paying for it."<ref>http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0803/11/acd.02.html</ref> --David Letterman
*"You’re always paying for it darling. The difference is, our costs are fixed and posted right there on the door.<ref>https://www.businessinsider.my/2020/04/page/299</ref><ref>https://dnyuz.com/2020/04/05/westworld-all-the-details-you-might-have-missed-in-the-mother-of-exiles/</ref> --Maeve from the TV show ''Westworld''
*"you are always paying for it one way or another"<ref>https://9gag.com/gag/a5WMQnL</ref> --9gag user suqamadiqe
*"You are always paying for it as a man. I've never had a single date where the girl paid for everything, then took me in her car, brought me to her apartment and had sex with me."<ref>https://www.mmo-champion.com/threads/1861804-Brothels/page63</ref> --haxartus from mmo-champion.com
*"As blokes we are always paying for it. Be it financially or mentally"<ref>https://www.arrse.co.uk/community/threads/modern-warfare-3.162735/page-18</ref> --fourEM from arrse.co.uk
*"In some way, shape, or form, you are always paying for it."<ref>https://www.tigerdroppings.com/rant/o-t-lounge/strippers/16559179/</ref> --southernelite from tigerdroppings.com
*"you are always paying for it. whether it is with your time, sanity, dinner, movies, or just 200 bucks up front and see you next week. either way... you always pay"<ref>https://forums.nasioc.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1469237</ref> --Qcanfixit from forums.nasioc.com
==Gallery==
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==See also==
*[[Pussy cartel]]
*[[Women don't owe you anything]]
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