Question: what are the three ingredients required for a healthy relationship life orientation?
Answer: Honesty. Love is honest, brutally honest. ... 
Intellectual Compatibility. Two people must be friends in mind, not necessarily like-minded, but equal-minded. ... 
Communication. "We never argue or fight." That's not something to brag about. ... 
Compromise. ... 
Understanding. ... 
Patience. ... 
Sex.