Question: are you an infj esfj?
Answer: An INFJ usually (not always) will get along better with an ISFJ/ESFJ type than an ESTJ/ISTJ type, simply because both are concerned very much with maintaining harmony and will work to take care of each other's feelings. ... The INFJ, in turn, can view the SJ as being “boring”, lacking vision, or being overly traditional.