Question: what to say to someone dealing with family problems?
Answer: Let them know you are there. Lots of people can find it hard to open up about how they're feeling. ... 
Support them to seek help. Supporting your friend or loved one to seek help can be really important. ... 
Don't be critical. ... 
Think about what you say. ... 
Ask them what helps. ... 
Help them to plan ahead. ... 
Stay in touch. ... 
Look after yourself.