Question: how to change my relationship with money?
Answer: Be willing to have money. When you are willing to have money, you stop being focused on “not enough” or just getting by or spending it all. ... 
Commit to creating wealth. Take a look at your finances. ... 
Educate yourself about money. ... 
Ask for the money. ... 
Use your money to make money. ... 
Be willing to be kind to yourself.