Question: what to say to an old friend who is dying?
Answer: Don't say, “It's going to be OK” ... , But do say something. ... , Do make clear that you'll be there for them. ... , Do be careful about saying, “I'll pray for you” ... , Do try to create a semblance of normalcy. ... , Do ask how they're doing — today. ... , Do be a good listener. ... , Don't get squirmy at the end.