Question: things a man should do before he dies?
Answer: Apologize. ... 
Take down that wall. ... 
Lose 15 pounds without talking about it. ... 
Take one stunning train trip. ... 
Preemptively say, "I'm sorry, too" when in the midst of a vicious argument with a loved one. ... 
Spend an uncomfortable amount of money on a really good suit.
Leave a tip big enough to upset you.