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Product: Ready to Make Pillow Talk Worth It? : Conversation Starters for Couples That Transform your Marriage with Thought Provoking, Trust Enhancing, and Trauma ... Personal Relationships Series)
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Encourage the Vulnerable, Difficult, and Fun Communication Necessary to Build Strong Relationships and Fortify Them Against Dysfunction, Divorce, or Separation.

Proven Communication Tools to Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship and Fall in Love With Your Partner All Over Again

“How was your day?”

“Good, how was yours?”

“Good, thanks.”

“Ok, good.”

When you first started dating your partner, you could talk about anything for hours.

Perhaps you’ve been together for a while now -- it can feel like the conversation is on an endless cycle of repeat, which then inevitably causes silence to dominate your time together.

Perhaps you are going through hurt feelings, stressful dilemmas, or bitter resentments that you have no idea how to bring up without causing WWIII.

Perhaps you feel a wall developing and you feel helpless to stop it.

Every relationship goes through its phases, some harder than others, but that doesn’t mean you should simply accept you are powerless and passively sit by and wait for the phase to run its course.

You can break the cycle and proactively take your marriage to the next level.

Every couple eventually struggles to talk openly about difficult subjects, upsetting situations, and disturbing setbacks.

What if you could turn that loop or that lump in your throat into a spiral of loving, honest, and exciting connection?

The secret is communication.

And where can couples have the best, most open communication?

In bed.

You might think that good communication is about talking. And you’re about 50% right -- but it goes much deeper than that.

Good communication is a skill. It’s about listening; it’s about asking the right type of questionsand it’s about vulnerability.

The problem with getting so comfortable with someone is you think you already know everything about them and can automatically predict their feelings, their answers, and their reactions.

But you are wrong.

The thing to keep in mind is -- we are complex beings. We change, we develop, and we evolve.

So, it’s impossible and terribly unfair to stop trying to truly know, love, and appreciate your partner without constant lines of communication.

In Ready to Make Pillow Talk Worth It?, you will discover:

An arsenal of questions to spark refreshing debates and healing conversations, and transform your relationship every time
Conversation tools that lead to a more meaningful connection with your partner
Ways to uncover the depths of your partner -- as well as yourself
Things you wouldn’t normally think to ask but you should
Conversations starters that trigger answers you wouldn’t expect (in a good way)
How not to start a conversation -- and where people go wrong in communicating with loved ones
A multitude of topics from discussing fun memories to healthy conflict resolution -- and how to approach differences
The essential communication ingredients to a happy, long-lasting relationship

And much more.

Even the most in-sync couples can encounter bumps in communication.