Being Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable -
Tags: productivity, beginners, career
Published: 2020-04-26 15:15:36

# Introduction
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We are living in interesting & unprecedented times in history which require us to be outside of our comfort zone. Like many people who are suddenly thrust into **working from home** without much preparation. To even recent events like [oil dropping to negative $40](https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2020-04-19/oil-drops-to-18-year-low-on-global-demand-crunch-storage-woes) in the history of our dependence on it.

Sometimes it might not feel bad to be outside your own comfort zone. Like in trying out a new flavour, learning to cook or bake, reading a new book or watching a Broadway musical. Focusing inward in journaling or starting your own side hustles/passion projects/side projects in preparation of being fired. I sure had fun taking on challenges like doing 500 push-ups and reading 3 books in a week. Watching "Phantom of the Opera" online had made me put it as my bucket list to want to watch it live in New York.
 
# Taking Action with Calculated Risk
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As I grow older, I learnt that I should put myself in an uncomfortable situation. To grow so that I get to have a better reward. Which sometimes requires me to be **aware** and **focus** on the risk that comes with it. Like there was a time. When I was given the option to choose to take the **easy** way of not going for an internship in my trade school or the **hard** way. Which requires me to attend night classes with chances that my grades will be affected greatly. 

Eventually, I took the harder route and knowing full well of the consequences that came with it. **Confidence** develops as I became comfortable to take on more risk and the discomfort it gives. If I were to fail which does come with the territory over the years. Which might seem crazy or foolhardy at that time to go for a full marathon without much training & preparation. 

Even till this day, I guess I would not have reaped the rewards or did not learnt a lot of myself and made a bunch of friends or tightly knitted brothers that I can count on if I needed it. Without taking those calculated risk. Therefore do not be **afraid** to learn to take the risk in life. Even if it feels really **uncomfortable** to step out of your comfort zone to **rise to the challenge** to operate at a **higher standard** do it anyway with **full focus** on the endeavour.

# Living with Less
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In stoic philosophy, there is a practice to induce **discomfort** in your own life. You learn to be **grateful** for what you have in life,  humbled with **clarity** that you could actually live with less. Which explains the growing popularity towards **minimalism**. Due to the benefit that it gives, as a form of **practice** that shapes one's outlook in life.

Adopting spending habits like spending more on **higher quality** products which **last longer** & offers a **better** experience. Having less clutter so that you can focus your energy on things that is more important in life.  Like educating and cultivating your mind, deepening your relationships with your love ones or starting the side projects that you had put aside due to lack of time.

# Tough Times Don't Last, Only Tough Men Do
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While I was undergoing training as a **prisoner of war** due to my military vocation. I kept repeating this mantra in my mind to remind myself to **never give up**. The problems that I have now **shall pass** as long as I **endure** & **thrive** in it. While undergoing this hardship that is placed upon me to test me. To raise to the occasion and operate on a higher standard in my life. 

This has proven useful in times that I really wanted to **give up** as emotional, physical or mental toll upon me was great. I'm sure you won't be undergoing the prisoner of war training as I do. I'm pretty sure there will be times that you would want to take the **easy way** out. Like drinking your sorrows away or taking other stimulants to make you forget about it for just the moment. I found that **scheduling time** for activities like exercising, mediation, reading a book. Even just **journaling** your thoughts in a quiet environment with just a pen and a notebook helps a lot.

# Conclusion
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I hope this will be useful for you while everyone is experiencing these times of **uncertainty** and **upheaval** that is affecting us in many ways. In life, we are always given **two** choices. One is to become a **victim** of our circumstances. The other is to become a **victor** to take advantage of the **deck of cards** you are given and to thrive as an individual.  

I wish that you choose to be a **victor** of your circumstances instead of being a **victim**. Especially in these times that require you to be **grounded** while everything is going to hell. To transform yourself to be a **badass** in these time of **crisis** and **uncertainty** like [David Goggins](https://youtu.be/S9jhbkpwZnw). 

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# References
* [Oil Drops to Negative $40](https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2020-04-19/oil-drops-to-18-year-low-on-global-demand-crunch-storage-woes)
* [Boyd: The Fighter Pilot Who Changed the Art of War](https://amzn.to/2xAeJwF)
*  [DAVID GOGGINS - CAN’T HURT ME - PART 1/2](https://youtu.be/S9jhbkpwZnw)
*  [Cant' Hurt Me By David Goggins](https://amzn.to/2Y0Yeob)
*  [Mediation By Marcus Aurelius ](https://amzn.to/3eAgc6t)
*  [Stoicism 101 - A Practical Guide for Entrepeneuers](https://tim.blog/2009/04/13/stoicism-101-a-practical-guide-for-entrepreneurs/)
* [Ryan Holiday - Stoicism](https://tim.blog/2020/04/09/ryan-holiday-stoicism/)
* [How To Get Comfortable With Being Uncomfortable According to a Green Beret](https://www.inc.com/chris-dessi/how-to-get-comfortable-with-being-uncomfortable-according-to-a-green-beret.html)
* [Extreme Ownership](https://amzn.to/34OBg4R)
* [Undraw](https://undraw.co/illustrations)