Let us make mistakes!
Tags: learning
Published: 2021-08-26 21:47:55

Students always love school and do not spend the first day of school without a smile. It may be sad at first to be separated from family and stay at school, but after spending a few moments, this funny sadness turns into happiness.


But why do our students feel sad and upset after attending school after a while ??


Has their interest in the lesson diminished? Is there a problem with the education system? Excessive homework? Or ..... there may be all these problems, but then why do students do their homework with a lack of interest? Why do they go to school again despite the problems of the educational system? Let's examine this issue together. The student enters the school with a sense of excitement and starts learning until it is time to give back what he has learned! If he makes a mistake in solving the exercise, he will face violence from the teacher or punishment. Now suppose the teacher does not punish him, but the student's mind punishes him! In this case, he says to himself: << What a mistake! I showed myself weak and if I make a mistake in solving the exercise next time, they will not like me and will not let me in any discussion because I am a weak human being. Wow, don't make fun of me >> and the phobia of "I will always be the best" starts to form and forces the student to cheat instead of thinking about practicing and finding the right solution! And look for a ready answer instead of learning knowledge and solving its problems in learning. And not having the right to make mistakes causes the thirst for learning to subside.

Why are we so insistent that everyone is the first student? (Of course, we should not be lazy)

If a teacher complains about him during a wrong course of teaching, he will never be ridiculed or disliked! The first time he hears this, he is not allowed to make any mistakes!

The mistake of a teacher can be forgiven and forgotten, but there is no way to compensate for the mistake of a student ??

And this is not fair :(

It is not fair that we only care about the score of twenty, not learning, it is not fair to force everyone to get a high score in math ............

Of course, there are compassionate teachers, kind teachers who force you to

They do not make mistakes, but they make you understand that no matter what your shortcomings are, do not give up.

The same feeling that "you must always be perfect!". "You must always be the best." "You must not make a mistake." "You should not confess to ignorance" and ..... the most optimistic state of a perfectionist who never takes action and when he starts a task, before anything wrong, he thinks to the point that he regrets doing it. We cultivate. Such people do little in life and thousands of thoughts and ideas that could make a lot of good and beautiful things suffocate. These people always consider their work to be the best and perfect, because they have spent all their efforts. So what do we do now? Shouldn't we go to school? The teacher whose job it is to correct should not object? Immigrate to study? I must say that I think the only solution to this problem is for you to institutionalize in yourself the fact that no human being is perfect and that we humans have the right to make mistakes and that we should never be ashamed of making mistakes or not knowing anything. Our approach in any subject should be reviewed and criticized in order to achieve more development and success. We are not always supposed to be perfect because our nature is flawed, so no matter how much we learn, it is less! Instill this belief both in yourself and in your children to achieve human perfection. If this does not happen, the school, which is the most important humanizing institution, will become a place that only friends can tolerate, and never humanization and personality correction. It does not happen in it and this makes us an unhappy society or country in which it is not possible to develop and enthusiasm for education and construction. Never, never be afraid to make fun of a mistake !! Never.

Maybe that's why we are so resilient to "change."

This issue is afraid of being ridiculed and not accepting mistakes or stubbornness with ourselves to correct the place of further discussion. We should pay more attention to any of the behaviors that arise because of this issue and the problems and injuries that occur as a result of this issue. I do not comment on any of them because I do not have the expertise and just by writing this text I wanted to say that "do not be afraid to make mistakes"