My 14th Birthday: 14+2 Things I'd Tell My Younger Self
Tags: watercooler, motivation, beginners
Published: 2023-11-04 07:34:19

Today, I am turning 14 and it got me thinking about what I've learned and what I wish I had known earlier. Life is an exciting journey full of opportunities to grow and learn. I can't help but think about how my past experiences have shaped me. If I could talk to my younger self, here are 14 pieces of advice I'd share.

1. **Nothing Really Matters at ALL**
Your worries and fears are nothing compared to the vastness of the universe. Focus on what truly makes you happy and helps others, because that's what matters the most.

2. **It's Okay to Make Mistakes and Fail**
Move quickly, decide quickly, learn fast, fail faster but never stop!*

3. **Embrace Uniqueness**
Comparison is the thief of joy. You don't have to be like everyone else, don't worry about fitting in the crowd. Embrace your uniqueness, and be proud of who you are. 

4. **Prioritization**
Everything in life is about prioritization.* Prioritization helps you focus on what truly matters and makes the best use of your resources.

5. **Follow Your Passion**
Discover what you're passionate about and pursue it with all your heart. Passion trumps sacrifice when you want to build something big.

6. **Keep Learning and Keep Trying**
Education is a gift. Keep learning, exploring new things, and never stop being curious. If you never try, you will never know.*

7. **Ask for Help**
It's okay to ask for help when you need it. No one has all the answers.

8. **Be Patient / Practice Deferred Gratification**
Great things take time to achieve. Deferred gratification involves delaying instant satisfaction for a more significant, future benefit.

9. **Overcome the Fear**
Don't let fear hold you back from exploring and learning new things.

10. **How You Learn Everyday and Whom You Learn From Are Very Important***
Books are a fantastic way to learn about the world and expand your knowledge. Another effective way to learn is by engaging in intellectual discussions.*

11. **Fire >>> Skill Set**
The fire in a person is more important than the skill set.*

12. **The Next Level**
It's all about taking it to the next level. Except, the next level never comes.*

13. **Capability. Attitude. A deep sense of purpose in what we are doing.***
The three essential elements required for success are Capability, a Positive Attitude and Meaningful Purpose. These three factors will work together to help you excel in your chasings and find fulfilment in your actions.

14. **Are you having fun?***
No matter where you are in your life, you must ask yourself this question.*

15. **Be more Execution-Based* (Bonus)**
Get better 1% every day**. Consistent and purposeful execution, no matter how small, can lead to very meaningful progress over periods.

16. **Take Chances (Bonus)**
Step out of your comfort zone and take the opportunity.  You'll be amazed at what you can achieve.

Do you have any advice for yourself or words of guidance for me as I turn 14 today?

Share your thoughts in the comments below. 🎂🎉

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*From the book [Unlocking Unicorn Secrets](https://www.penguin.co.in/book/unlocking-unicorn-secrets/)
**From the book [Atomic Habits](https://jamesclear.com/atomic-habits)