😖 I’m Always Frustrated! But Here’s Why I Won’t Give up
Tags: motivation, webdev, beginners, productivity
Published: 2023-11-02 13:00:00

## Tips for coping with programming frustrations.

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Whew I’m tired!

As we know, coding can be **incredibly** frustrating.

Whether it's a complicated error message, a bug that seems impossible to fix, or a concept that feels just out of reach, programming problems can quickly pile up and seem hopeless.

As a developer, I find myself constantly running into walls 🚧.

Sometimes the smallest issues get really under my skin, making me bury my head in my hands and groan loudly. I'll stare at the screen feeling totally lost, wondering if I have what it takes to be a programmer 😫.

But over time, I’ve learned a few techniques to better deal with the inevitable frustrations of programming in a healthy way.

Validating those feelings rather than ignoring them has been **crucial** for me.

I now know that some frustration is normal when taking on tough coding challenges. I go easier on myself when I get stuck.

I’ve also found that **taking a short break** from the computer to recharge is hugely beneficial. Stepping away for a few minutes to go for a walk or listen to music gives me the space I need to look at problems with fresh eyes.

And while my instinct is to keep ploughing ahead, I’m getting better at slowing down and reading error messages or documentation carefully when I’m really stuck.

Rather than seeing them as confusing jargon, I’m learning to dig into them for clues.

Coding can be frustrating, no doubt. But giving in to discouragement and despair [stops progress](https://dev.to/evergrowingdev/dealing-with-the-things-that-hold-you-back-when-learning-to-code-1lgn) and creativity.

By dealing with irritation through **self-compassion, patience,** and **careful analysis**, I’m able to push through the tough times.

As an ever-growing dev, I'm still learning, but I won't give up on coding!

Here’s hope I cope…

## Validating the Frustration ✅

It's completely natural to feel frustrated when you encounter a coding challenge that you can't immediately solve.

As opposed to positive emotions, frustration arises when something blocks you from reaching your goal.

When you run into a puzzling bug or find yourself unable to implement a complex feature, that frustration signals that there's an [obstacle](https://dev.to/evergrowingdev/stuck-on-code-heres-how-to-unblock-yourself-3bo9) in your way.

Rather than bottling up that irritation or pretending it doesn't exist, validate that you are indeed feeling frustrated.

Accept that the frustration is there so you can deal with it [productively](https://dev.to/evergrowingdev/learning-to-code-the-productive-way-2okj). Pushing down negative emotions often just makes them resurface later on in an unhealthy way.

By acknowledging your frustration, you also acknowledge the difficulty of what you're trying to accomplish.

> Coding is hard work!

When you validate your irritation, you recognise the effort it takes to code rather than beating yourself up.

Being in tune with your emotions and how challenges impact you also builds self-awareness and emotional intelligence.

Navigating coding roadblocks requires technical skill but also **emotional skill**.

Mindfulness about what causes frustration can help you isolate where your skills still need sharpening.

The next time you slam your laptop shut in irritation, take a breath and recognise that the frustration simply signals a need for more learning and problem-solving ahead.

Validate it, then move forward with a level head.

## Review Errors Carefully 🔎

When you encounter a cryptic error message or unexpected behaviour in your code, it's tempting to gloss over it and continue ahead hoping the problem resolves itself.

However, taking the time to slowly and methodically review errors is crucial for efficient troubleshooting.

Start by reading the error message closely and multiple times over. Circle or highlight any keywords, function names, line numbers, or filenames that appear. This helps identify the exact location and nature of the issue.

If needed, look up error codes or syntax you don't recognise to better understand their meaning.

Take notes mapping out the logic flow leading to the error. This helps recreate the steps before the failure and pinpoint where things went off course.

Comments in your code can also trace the execution.

Carefully dissecting an error often reveals that the true problem is located earlier in the code than where the error happens.

Tracing through the code flow with a fine-tooth comb avoids overlooking subtle details.

While reviewing errors thoroughly may feel tedious, it ultimately assists in solving the underlying problem compared to taking shots in the dark.

Step-by-step analysis also builds familiarity with common errors that speed up future troubleshooting.

When errors arise, stay calm and take the time needed to properly diagnose.

Careful attention to details in error messages provides the clues you need to debug efficiently.

## Read Documentation/References 📖

When you get stuck on a coding problem, your first instinct may be to keep hammering away at it until a solution reveals itself.

However, taking a step back to consult the documentation and other helpful references can provide invaluable knowledge.

Official documentation for languages and libraries offers insights straight from the source.

Tutorials, API references, and usage guides can help clarify complex concepts and give working examples for comparison.

For example, when I was confused about how to share state between components with React hooks, I reviewed the [React docs](https://react.dev/reference/react) on using the useContext hook. The examples showing how to create and provide a context from a parent component down to children really helped me understand the proper patterns to follow.

I also regularly go to sources like MDN Web Docs, CSS-Tricks, and freeCodeCamp when I'm stuck.

These sites allow you to search for specific error messages or scenarios to see if others have encountered the same issue.

> There's no need to reinvent the wheel!

Remember, even expert programmers routinely reference documentation and external resources.

Don't feel like you should just know the answer.

Taking the time to consult additional materials will deepen your understanding and unlock solutions.

## Learn from Mistakes 📝

As frustrating as errors and bugs can be in the moment, they provide great opportunities for learning if you take the time to reflect on them.

Rather than moving on immediately after fixing a problem, **analyse what went wrong** to deepen understanding.

Carefully examine errors to understand their **root cause**. Look for flaws in your understanding or gaps in your skills.

If your logic was flawed, take steps to strengthen your problem-solving process. For syntax issues, get more familiar with the language.

Debugging is also a chance to **identify your blind spots**. Write down common error types and mistakes so you can watch out for them in the future and avoid making the same ones repeatedly.

Rather than viewing mistakes as failures, reframe them as learning opportunities.

The best programmers have made every error imaginable and learned from them.

When you encounter a setback, think "_What is this teaching me?_”.

## Be Kind to Yourself 😊

When you're stuck on a coding problem, it's easy to beat yourself up and question your abilities.

> But remember **to be kind to yourself** throughout the learning process.

Developing self-compassion is key to sustaining energy and motivation.

Understand that challenges and mistakes are inevitable when coding, even for the most experienced programmers.

You are not silly or lacking intelligence when things get difficult. It’s a **normal part of the journey**.

Rather than engaging in negative self-talk that erodes confidence, rethink those thoughts compassionately. “_I’m still learning_” is more constructive than “_I’m not good enough._”

**Be your own cheerleader**.

Celebrate mini-milestones, like fixing a small bug or grasping a new concept.

Recognise the hard work you’re putting in rather than focusing exclusively on the end goal. Progress takes patience.

When you’re truly stuck, avoid putting excessive pressure on yourself.

Step away and [reset](https://dev.to/evergrowingdev/what-happens-when-you-let-go-in-programming-surprising-results-2pdd) rather than forcing solutions through frustration and stress. Come back refreshed with renewed energy.

Staying positive in the face of challenges leads to greater persistence and creativity.

**Believe in your abilities**, maintain realistic expectations, and code patiently.

You’ve got this!

## Conclusion

Coding can be a rollercoaster of emotions - a ride I can’t seem to get off! 😅

But managing frustrations skilfully is key to long-term success.

By validating irritation rather than suppressing it, taking breaks to reset your mind, carefully examining errors, and showing self-compassion, you can navigate those inevitable coding roadblocks.

Remember that **each bug makes you wiser** and brings you one step closer to deeper understanding.

Progress requires patience with yourself and the process. You will get better with time and experience.

While the path may not always be smooth, adopting healthy coping strategies keeps you moving forward with positivity.

Coding is a journey of [small victories that compound](https://dev.to/evergrowingdev/the-crazy-compounding-effect-of-coding-2g6n).

Keep at it, and have faith that things will click into place with consistent practice.

Frustration today doesn’t mean frustration tomorrow.

And I’m not giving up!

From your fellow ever-growing dev,

Cherlock Code

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