English: I have to congratulate Cardiff University for actually looking at this; for seeing the link between all violence and relationship violence, and doing some work underneath it. I think that there is more work that needs to be done. What we have here in this headline is just that: figures. But what we really need to start to understand is what's behind those figures, what is it that produces those figures? When we say that it's a public health issue, it is, but the emotional scars will stay with people for life, and the mental stress and the stigma will also potentially stay with those individuals for life. To experience that at such a young time, when you're first starting out on your journey as an independent individual, is really, really difficult. Some five years ago, I did a very quick online survey of 100 young people under the age of 21, and I was shocked then by the responses to several questions, but one specifically:'Do you think it's okay to slap your partner?' Over 50 per cent said, 'Yes, that's fine', and there wasn't really a great separation between girls and boys, although there were more girls than boys who thought that that was okay. So, knowing that, then, and knowing this, now, I think the best thing that perhaps we can do, moving forward, is to ensure that all places where children are and where they congregate, whether that's a school, a sports club, a youth club, or any other venue, we have well-supported and funded programmes that teach them about control, and what control looks like. If they happen to meet somebody who says, 'I think it's great, you look lovely, let's have a nice meal at home', and every time, you're only ever being taken out to where they live, and being more and more isolated, individual young people will think that that's a compliment; they won't necessarily see that that's the start of a controlling, potentially highly abusive and dangerous situation for them to be in. There are many organisations out there who offer this help, and many organisations who would be pleased to help us help those young people. So, my question here today is knowing what we know now, we can't afford to ignore it, we can't afford for any of those young people to become one of those statistics that I had, the candles here - 163 women killed by men last year. So, we must intervene now, and we must, actually, now put our money where our mouth is.
Welsh: Mae'n rhaid imi longyfarch Prifysgol Caerdydd am edrych ar hyn mewn gwirionedd; am weld y cysylltiad rhwng trais yn gyffredinol a thrais mewn perthynas, a gwneud gwaith arno. Credaf fod angen gwneud mwy o waith. Yr unig beth sydd gennym yn y pennawd yw hynny'n union: ffigurau. Ond mae angen inni ddechrau deall beth sydd y tu ôl i'r ffigurau hynny, beth sy'n cynhyrchu'r ffigurau hynny? Pan fyddwn yn dweud ei fod yn fater iechyd cyhoeddus, mae hynny'n wir, ond bydd y creithiau emosiynol yn aros gyda phobl am oes, a bydd y straen feddyliol a'r stigma hefyd, o bosibl, yn aros gyda'r unigolion hynny am oes. Mae profi hynny mor ifanc, pan fyddwch yn cychwyn ar eich taith fel unigolyn annibynnol, yn wirioneddol anodd. Oddeutu pum mlynedd yn ôl, cynhaliais arolwg cyflym ar-lein i 100 o bobl ifanc dan 21 oed, ac fe'm synnwyd gan yr ymatebion i sawl cwestiwn, ond un yn benodol: 'A ydych chi'n credu ei bod hi'n iawn i slapio eich partner?' Dywedodd dros 50 y cant, 'Ydw, mae hynny'n iawn', ac nid oedd gwahaniaeth mawr rhwng merched a bechgyn, er bod mwy o ferched na bechgyn yn meddwl bod hynny'n iawn. Felly, o wybod hynny, a chan wybod hyn yn awr, credaf mai'r peth gorau y gallwn ei wneud, wrth symud ymlaen, yw sicrhau, ym mhob man lle mae plant a lle mae plant yn ymgynnull, boed yn yr ysgol, mewn clwb chwaraeon, clwb ieuenctid, neu unrhyw leoliad arall, fod gennym raglenni wedi'u cefnogi a'u hariannu'n dda sy'n eu haddysgu am reolaeth, a sut beth yw rheolaeth. Os ydynt yn digwydd cyfarfod â rhywun sy'n dweud, 'Rwy'n credu ei fod yn wych, rwyt ti'n edrych yn hyfryd, gad i ni gael pryd o fwyd braf gartref', a bob tro, ni fyddant yn mynd â chi i unman heblaw lle maent yn byw, a chael eich ynysu fwyfwy, bydd rhai pobl ifanc yn meddwl bod hynny'n ganmoliaeth; ni fyddant o reidrwydd yn gweld y gallai hynny arwain at reoli, a sefyllfa a allai fod yn hynod o gamdriniol a pheryglus iddynt fod ynddi. Mae llawer o sefydliadau'n cynnig y cymorth hwn, a llawer o sefydliadau a fyddai'n falch o'n helpu ni i helpu'r bobl ifanc hynny. Felly, fy nghwestiwn i yma heddiw yw, gan gwybod yr hyn rydym yn ei wybod yn awr, ni allwn fforddio ei anwybyddu, ni allwn fforddio i unrhyw un o'r bobl ifanc hynny ddod yn un o'r ystadegau a gefais, y canhwyllau yma - 163 o fenywod a gafodd eu lladd gan ddynion y llynedd. Felly, mae'n rhaid inni ymyrryd yn awr, ac mae'n rhaid inni roi ein harian ar ein gair mewn gwirionedd.