English: So, I'd like to congratulate Leanne on the timing of this debate, because, obviously it coincides with the disgraceful situation that occurred in Cyprus. It seems to me that the message is loud and clear that nobody should go on holiday to Cyprus, because the criminal justice system in Cyprus simply won't keep you safe. The failure by the Cypriot police to follow the most basic procedural safeguards when interviewing this young woman is something I hope we will never see again in this country. And I'm assuming that, eventually, it will lead to a reversal of the decision that was handed down in the courts. I'm sure it has been counterproductive - their attempt to protect the image of Cyprus as a tourist destination has actually had the reverse outcome. I just wanted to talk a little bit about the conviction rates. I'm pleased that south Wales is actually doing a lot better than the other three police forces, because 55 in 100 domestic abuse crimes they deal with do lead to prosecution, compared with 27 or 28 out of 100 in other policing areas. And this is better, but, obviously, it's not sufficient, because we have to remember that, on top of the ones that are recorded as domestic violence crimes, there are many other incidents that the police deal with that are not recorded as a crime. And then, of course, there are all the others that never go anywhere near the police. Last week, I was fascinated to listen to Sally Challen and her son David talk about their situation, and congratulations to Bethan Sayed for organising that. For those who are not familiar with this, here's a woman in her sixties who, after years and years of marriage, suddenly decided that she had to kill this man. And, of course, it was after years of coercive control that was in plan sight to her friends, not so much her family, but her friends, her neighbours, and in some instances, the police. So, what could anybody have done to prevent that level of coercion leading to the unfortunate death of somebody who was, obviously, a very unpleasant guy? And nobody spoke up in his favour. All the people at the trial were supportive of this woman - all the friends of the family, the relatives, including her two sons. It does tell us, as Sally said, that there are all too many people who face this sort of situation. What she said in an interview was, 'A lot of the problem is that women don't know they're in a relationship of coercive control. It's family, friends and relatives who do see it. Somehow they have to speak to that person and convince them to leave. They don't seem to be able to break that tie. It's a very strong tie and the women are very vulnerable'. And, obviously, she's speaking about herself, but there are many other people in Sally Challen's situation. So, I think, finally, I just want to say it's so important that we've got our relationship and sexuality curriculum coming up because this is where we will get good relationships built into our young people and that emotional resilience that goes with that.
Welsh: Felly, hoffwn longyfarch Leanne ar amseriad y ddadl hon, oherwydd, yn amlwg, mae'n cyd-fynd â'r sefyllfa warthus a ddigwyddodd yng Nghyprus. Mae'n ymddangos i mi fod y neges yn glir na ddylai neb fynd ar wyliau i Gyprus, oherwydd ni fydd y system cyfiawnder troseddol yng Nghyprus yn eich cadw'n ddiogel. Mae methiant heddlu Cyprus i ddilyn y mesurau diogelu gweithdrefnol mwyaf sylfaenol wrth gyfweld â'r ferch ifanc hon yn rhywbeth y gobeithiaf na fyddwn byth yn ei weld eto yn y wlad hon. Ac rwy'n tybio y bydd, yn y pen draw, yn arwain at wrthdroi'r penderfyniad a wnaed gan y llysoedd. Rwy'n siŵr ei fod wedi bod yn wrthgynhyrchiol - mae eu hymgais i ddiogelu delwedd Cyprus fel cyrchfan i dwristiaid wedi cael y canlyniad croes i hynny mewn gwirionedd. Roeddwn eisiau siarad ychydig am gyfraddau euogfarnu. Rwy'n falch fod de Cymru yn gwneud yn llawer gwell na'r tri heddlu arall, oherwydd mae 55 o bob 100 o droseddau cam-drin domestig y maent yn ymdrin â hwy yn arwain at erlyniad, o'i gymharu â 27 neu 28 y 100 yn yr ardaloedd plismona eraill. Ac mae hynny'n well, ond yn amlwg, nid yw'n ddigon, oherwydd mae'n rhaid inni gofio, yn ychwanegol at y rhai sy'n cael eu cofnodi fel troseddau trais yn y cartref, mae'r heddlu'n ymdrin â llawer o ddigwyddiadau eraill nad ydynt yn cael eu cofnodi fel trosedd. Ac wedyn, wrth gwrs, ceir yr holl bobl eraill nad ydynt byth yn mynd yn agos at yr heddlu. Yr wythnos diwethaf, roedd yn ddiddorol iawn gwrando ar Sally Challen a'i mab David yn siarad am eu sefyllfa, a llongyfarchiadau i Bethan Sayed am drefnu hynny. I'r rhai nad ydynt yn gyfarwydd â hyn, dyma fenyw yn ei chwedegau a benderfynodd yn sydyn, ar ôl blynyddoedd a blynyddoedd o briodas, fod yn rhaid iddi ladd y dyn hwn. Ac wrth gwrs, digwyddodd hynny ar ôl blynyddoedd o reolaeth drwy orfodaeth a oedd yn amlwg i'w ffrindiau, nid yn gymaint i'w theulu, ond i'w ffrindiau, ei chymdogion, ac mewn rhai achosion, yr heddlu. Felly, beth allai rhywun fod wedi'i wneud i atal y lefel honno o orfodaeth rhag arwain at farwolaeth anffodus rhywun a oedd, yn amlwg, yn ddyn annymunol iawn? Ac ni siaradodd neb o'i blaid. Roedd yr holl bobl yn yr achos yn gefnogol i'r ddynes hon - holl gyfeillion y teulu, y perthnasau, gan gynnwys ei dau fab. Mae'n dweud wrthym, fel y dywedodd Sally, fod llawer gormod o bobl yn wynebu sefyllfa o'r fath. Yr hyn a ddywedodd mewn cyfweliad oedd, Mae llawer o'r broblem yn deillio o'r ffaith nad yw menywod yn gwybod eu bod mewn perthynas sy'n seiliedig ar reolaeth drwy orfodaeth. Teulu, ffrindiau a pherthnasau sy'n ei weld. Rywsut mae'n rhaid iddynt siarad â'r person dan sylw a'u darbwyllo i adael. Nid ydynt fel pe baent yn gallu torri'r cwlwm hwnnw. Mae'n gwlwm cryf iawn ac mae'r menywod yn fregus iawn. Ac yn amlwg, mae hi'n siarad amdani ei hun, ond mae llawer o bobl eraill yn sefyllfa Sally Challen. Felly, rwy'n meddwl, yn olaf, fy mod am ddweud ei bod mor bwysig ein bod yn cyflwyno ein cwricwlwm cydberthynas a rhywioldeb oherwydd dyma lle gallwn feithrin gallu ein pobl ifanc i gael perthynas dda ag eraill a'r gwydnwch emosiynol a ddaw yn sgil hynny.