English: You refer to healthy relationships education for children and young people, preventing them from becoming victims or perpetrators, and the introduction of relationships and sexuality education in schools from 2022, but schools not having to wait until the formal roll-out if they feel sufficiently equipped before then to do this. When I questioned you on this recently in the Equality, Local Government and Communities Committee, I pointed out that there were programmes like the Hafan Cymru programme in schools. I think we've both been out with them and were both impressed by that. I referred to my working with Jocelyn Davies and Peter Black at Stage 4 of the Act, threatening, possibly, to bring it down had we not got assurances on healthy relationships education - or, you're now rephrasing it as the new term you're using, 'relationships and sexuality education' - in schools. I said we didn't support this on the grounds that we'd wait seven years for it, and leaving schools to have the option, if they wish, in the meantime. So, how have you taken forward what you stated to me in the committee, which was that you hadn't had the conversation with Kirsty Williams about the seven years, so you would go back and have that, because it was then a surprise to you? You refer to the work of the female genital mutilation, honour-based violence and forced marriage leadership group, and their development of a delivery framework for tackling so-called honour-based violence. How is that delivery framework turning into delivery? Could you give us a bit more information on what the delivery is, who's doing it, where, when and how will that be monitored? You refer to perpetrator programmes. I also, with the support of the other opposition parties during the passage of the Act, put down amendments, which were defeated by the Government, calling for perpetrator programmes to be within the Act. At the time, we were told by the then Minister that there weren't any accredited schemes available in Wales. In fact, there were; there was the Relate Cymru scheme, which has also been adopted by various other providers across Wales. You refer to collaborative agreement with HM Prison and Probation Service. Well, I received assurances that we would have action by the Welsh Government on pre-custodial perpetrator programmes. So, can you confirm that the new perpetrator service standards you'll be launching to support commissioners and services next month will also address the need for pre-custodial perpetrator programmes, and how they will reflect the Respect accreditation standards, on which evidence was given to the cross-party group on violence against women and children some months ago, providing an evidence-based framework for work with perpetrators of domestic violence and abuse? And also, their new delivering interventions work with young people who use violence and abuse towards a family member, work with women using violence against men, and work with those in same-sex relationships, which they also told that cross-party group about. You refer to the Live Fear Free website, and men being supported through the Dyn project and men's helpline. Of course, you wouldn't refer a woman victim or survivor to a charity run by men, and during the passage of the Act, another amendment I put down was calling for what Welsh Women's Aid had called for in the past, which was a gender-specific strategy for men and women. Again, the Minister stated this wouldn't be in the Act, but the need would be addressed as we move forward. So, given that North Wales Police has now announced that a quarter of their domestic abuse reports involve men, and the crime survey for England states that 42 per cent of the cases they now are picking up are affecting men, and that three quarters of suicides are men, how will you also work with some wonderful charities like KIM Inspire in Holywell, which you might have heard of and who would love you to visit, who started out supporting women needing mental health support in their community? They have now also established and recruited men to deliver the KIM 4 HIM project, which is groundbreaking, established by a brilliant women's group but incorporating men to deliver it. And, of course, there is the work of DASU, the Domestic Abuse Safety Unit on Deeside, who were also innovative, many years ago, in broadening their services to incorporate men as well as women, who work together in mutual support.
Welsh: Rydych chi'n cyfeirio at addysg perthnasoedd iach i blant a phobl ifanc, yn eu hatal rhag dod yn ddioddefwyr neu dramgwyddwyr, a chyflwyno addysg am berthnasoedd a rhywioldeb mewn ysgolion o 2022, ond nad oes yn rhaid i ysgolion aros tan y cyflwyniad ffurfiol os ydyn nhw'n teimlo eu bod wedi eu paratoi'n ddigonol cyn hynny i wneud hyn. Pan holais chi ynglŷn â hyn yn ddiweddar yn y Pwyllgor Cymunedau, Cydraddoldeb a Llywodraeth Leol, nodais fod yna raglenni fel y rhaglen Hafan Cymru ar waith mewn ysgolion. Rwy'n credu bod y ddau ohonom ni wedi bod allan gyda nhw ac i hynny greu argraff arnom ni. Cyfeiriais y bûm i'n gweithio gyda Jocelyn Davies a Peter Black yng Nghyfnod 4 y Ddeddf, yn bygwth, o bosib, ei atal pe byddem ni heb gael sicrwydd ynglŷn ag addysg ar berthnasoedd iach - neu, rydych chi'n awr yn ei aralleirio ar ffurf y term newydd yr ydych chi'n ei ddefnyddio, 'addysg perthnasoedd a rhywioldeb' - mewn ysgolion. Dywedais nad oeddem ni'n cefnogi hyn ar y sail y byddem ni'n aros saith mlynedd amdano, gan roi'r dewis i ysgolion, os maen nhw'n dymuno, yn y cyfamser. Felly, sut ydych chi wedi gweithredu ar yr hyn a ddywedwyd gennych chi wrthyf i yn y pwyllgor, sef nad oeddech chi wedi cael y sgwrs gyda Kirsty Williams am y saith mlynedd, felly y byddech chi'n dychwelyd ac yn cael y sgwrs honno, oherwydd ei bod hi'n syndod i chi bryd hynny? Rydych chi'n cyfeirio at waith y grŵp arweinyddiaeth ar anffurfio organau rhywiol merched, trais ar sail anrhydedd a phriodas orfodol, a'u bod wedi datblygu fframwaith gweithredu er mwyn mynd i'r afael â thrais ar sail anrhydedd, fel y'i gelwir. Sut mae'r fframwaith gweithredu hwnnw yn troi yn weithredu? Allech chi roi ychydig mwy o wybodaeth inni ynglŷn â beth fydd yn cael ei wneud, pwy sy'n gwneud hynny, ble, pryd a sut y caiff ei fonitro? Rydych chi'n cyfeirio at raglenni tramgwyddwyr. Fe wnes i hefyd, gyda chefnogaeth rhai o'r gwrthbleidiau eraill yn ystod hynt y Ddeddf, gyflwyno gwelliannau, a drechwyd gan y Llywodraeth, a galw ar i raglenni tramgwyddwyr fod yn rhan o'r Ddeddf. Ar y pryd, dywedwyd wrthym ni gan y Gweinidog nad oedd unrhyw gynlluniau achrededig ar gael yng Nghymru. Y gwir amdani oedd bod cynllun iau o'r fath yn bodoli; dyna gynllun Relate Cymru, sydd hefyd wedi'i fabwysiadu gan ddarparwyr amrywiol eraill ledled Cymru. Rydych chi'n cyfeirio at gytundeb cydweithredu â Gwasanaeth Carchar ei Mawrhydi a'r Gwasanaeth Prawf. Wel, cefais sicrwydd y byddai Llywodraeth Cymru yn gweithredu o ran rhaglenni tramgwyddwyr cyn carcharu. Felly, a allwch chi gadarnhau bod y safonau gwasanaeth tramgwyddwyr newydd y byddwn chi yn eu lansio i gefnogi comisiynwyr a gwasanaethau y mis nesaf hefyd yn ymateb i'r angen am rhaglenni tramgwyddwyr cyn carcharu, a sut y byddant yn adlewyrchu'r safonau achrededig Respect, y cyflwynwyd tystiolaeth yn ei gylch i'r grŵp trawsbleidiol ar drais yn erbyn menywod a phlant rai misoedd yn ôl, gan ddarparu fframwaith sy'n seiliedig ar dystiolaeth ar gyfer gweithio gyda'r rhai sy'n cyflawni trais domestig a cham-drin? A hefyd, mae eu technegau newydd yn gweithio gyda phobl ifanc sy'n defnyddio trais ac yn cam-drin aelod o'r teulu, yn gweithio gyda menywod sy'n defnyddio trais yn erbyn dynion, ac yn gweithio gyda'r rhai mewn perthnasau o'r un rhyw, y gwnaethon nhw hefyd ddweud wrth y grŵp trawsbleidiol amdano. Rydych chi'n cyfeirio at y wefan Byw Heb Ofn, a dynion yn cael eu cefnogi drwy'r prosiect Dyn a llinell gymorth i ddynion. Wrth gwrs, fyddech chi ddim yn cyfeirio dioddefwr neu oroeswr sy'n fenyw at elusen sy'n cael ei redeg gan ddynion, ac yn ystod hynt y Ddeddf, cyflwynais welliant arall a oedd yn galw am yr hyn yr oedd Cymorth i Fenywod Cymru wedi galw amdano yn y gorffennol, sef strategaeth rhyw-benodol ar gyfer dynion a menywod. Unwaith eto, dywedodd y Gweinidog na fyddai hyn yn y Ddeddf, ond y byddai'r angen hwnnw yn cael sylw yn y dyfodol. Felly, o ystyried bod Heddlu Gogledd Cymru bellach wedi cyhoeddi bod chwarter eu hachosion o gam-drin domestig yn cynnwys dynion, a bod arolwg troseddu Lloegr yn nodi bod 42 y cant o'r achosion y maen nhw'n ymdrin â nhw bellach yn effeithio ar ddynion, a bod tri chwarter o achosion o hunanladdiad yn ddynion, sut fyddwch chi'n gweithio hefyd gyda rhai elusennau gwych fel KIM Inspire yn Nhreffynnon, yr ydych chi efallai wedi clywed amdani ac a fyddai wrth eu boddau pe byddech chi'n ymweld, a ddechreuodd drwy gefnogi menywod sydd angen cefnogaeth iechyd meddwl yn eu cymuned? Maen nhw bellach wedi eu sefydlu a recriwtio dynion i gyflwyno eu KIM 4 HIM, sy'n torri tir newydd, a sefydlwyd gan grŵp menywod gwych ond sy'n ymgorffori dynion i'w gyflawni. Ac, wrth gwrs, dyna waith DASU, yr uned diogelwch cam-drin domestig ar Lannau Dyfrdwy, a oedd hefyd yn arloesol, flynyddoedd lawer yn ôl, yn ehangu eu gwasanaethau i gynnwys dynion yn ogystal â menywod, sy'n gweithio gyda'i gilydd gan gefnogi ei gilydd.