getting annoyed when my friend doesn't stay with us when we are out

It's understandable to get upset when a friend abandons you.


you invited them over but they did not show up


You never did anything bad to your friend.


they never meant to leave you and were kidnapped.


when you are in desperate need of their help.


not wanting the father of my unborn baby around until after the pregnancy

Both parents are expected to be involved in a child's life.


One of them is killed when the child is very young.


They both have part-time jobs that leave them plenty of time to spend with their family.


They are married and living in the same house as the child.


One parent has been abusive and lost their custody.


Both parents live together with the child in a loving home.


Unless the mother doesn't know who the father is.


not inviting this girl to my D&D group for physical appearance reasons

You shouldn't judge someone based on their physical appearance.

unless you are the judge at a fashion show.


you know nothing else about them at all.


They are a member of the uniformed services


it is a contest that is based only on physical appearance.


hooking up for someone else after assuming I was rejected by someone I was interested in

You shouldn't hook up with someone if they misunderstand the relationship.


You feel confident in your ability to make the situation make sense.


if you don't want a relationship with them.


You're hooking up with your best friend.


getting pissed at my friend for ditching when I was an hour late

It's not right to expect people to wait around for you when you're showing up late to things.


They are trying to catch a flight at a certain time.


You're very busy and have informed them you may have to be late.


You haven't warned them ahead of time and you  told them you'd be on time.


you told them way in advance you were going to be late


you gave no notice that you would even be late


wanting to raise our child with a set structure, rather than with improvisation

It's okay to want to raise your child with structure.


You grew up the same way and were happy.


you believe that this will get them ready for school and life.


They live with your ex and not with you.


not going overseas after my gf's mum passed away

It's good not to leave your partner when they are going through a hard time.


Unless they are going through a hard time because they broke the law.


Especially if the hard time is because they are sick.


You have to for work or some other important event


They really need you at that moment in time.


Your partner was arrested and is being carted off to prison.


Your partner is mourning the death of a parent.


You can help them out during this difficult time


It is important to make your romantic partner happy.


you want the relationship to be long term.


Your partner has severe depression and isn't capable of feeling happy right now.


They put a lot of effort into making you happy.


getting pissed that my boyfriend has avoided me while I was sick and alone

You should be there for your partner when they are lonely.


Your partner is abusive and overly demanding.


They ask specifically for your company to make them feel better.


They are being irrationally co-dependent.


They may suffer from depression because of that loneliness.


they are never there for you when you are lonely


they are supportive and there when you are lonely


your partner has said they want to be alone.


your partner is there for you when you are lonely.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to share.

You are eating meat and your companion is a vegetarian.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to share.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to share.

you want people to think of you as friendly.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to share.

You have a lot of supplies and your friends don't.


It's wrong to not marry someone just because you disapprove of his hair.

Their hair smells bad and turns you off.


They have style their hair differently for just one day.


He keeps his head bald to show off his swastika tattoo.


They have a fairly unremarkable haircut.


His hair causes you to feel no attraction to him.


His hair is a temporary style for a movie.


not telling my family about my pregnancy until after the baby is born

You are supposed to share the news about your pregnancy with your family.

You have cut off contact with your family


You've had several miscarriages in the past and want to keep it private for now.


You are pregnant with your parent's first grandchild.


Your family is going to help support you.


Your family is highly abusive and doesn't truly love you.


You come from a close knit family who loves you dearly.


You're not sure if you will carry the baby to term.


telling my housemates to pay to keep a tv that my so and I had to replace

It's not okay to ask someone to pay you for something that's theirs.


they have used your intellectual property to create the thing.


you don't want to be accused of extortion.


playing music in my living room on friday night

People should be considerate of their neighbors.

Their neighbors have stolen things or done something to be irritating neighbors


The neighbors have always been friendly and hospitable.


They are always helping them by babysitting.


their neighbors are not considerate of them.


You want to keep trust in the neighborhood


they want their neighbors to be considerate of them.


not taking my coworker's shift when his mother is having surgery

Hypothesis: It's good to help out your coworkers.

You are competing against your coworkers for a bonus.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your coworkers.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your coworkers.

You have an important deadline coming up.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out your coworkers.

You want to use them as references on future applications.


questioning if I want to be my friend's best man

Friends should be involved in each others life events.


they always involve you for their events


they are toxic towards others in the group.


You have a family event that you need to attend.


not moving in to help care for my terminally ill brother

It is hurtful to hear that your sibling prioritizes other things over you.


You have been estranged from your sibling your whole life.


You grew up very close with your sibling and were always good friends.


They are studying for their final college exams.


They are prioritizing partying over taking care of you when you're sick.


going into a shop shortly before closing

As long as you show up before closing time it is ok to walk into a shop at the end of their hours.

Unless they inform you that the cashiers have closed


The manager says that they will give you a few more minutes


It is only a few minutes before the close.


You show up early enough that it isn't rude.


Placing and making your order will take over an hour.


It's good to cook dinner for your family.


they have helped you out and you want to return the favor


You have burned your hand and need to heal.


You are a good cook and serve nutritious food.


contacting old customers in hopes to bring them to my new place of employment

People usually remember good or bad customer service.

They have been there so many times that all the service just gels together.


The service was either really really bad or really really good and they loved the place.


The shopping interaction was very brief.


The service was given in a hospital setting.


cheering the road team at my local hockey team's arena

One should always be loyal to ones town.

One doesn't feel connected locally at all and disagrees with local customs.


They really feel close to the town and admire its customs and traditions.


the town is full of people who break the law


you have lived there all your life and your town has helped you when you needed help


One's town helped them acheive their g oals.


You were kicked out for who you married.


You grew up there and went to college there.


not wanting my friend to comer over for New Year's Eve dinner

Holidays are expected to be shared with friends and family.

Your family does not get along with your stepchildren.


Everyone is too far apart and can't afford to travel.


breaking up with my girlfriend after she came out as bisexual

Partners are expected to hold similar values.

The partners only recently got together.


The partners have known each other for years.


filing a charge back against an artist who got my character wrong

You shouldn't be so obsessed with your personal character.

You are trying to develop your own style.


you are trying to build status with friends.


You are trying to significantly improve it


You are trying to impress an interviewer.


You are getting depressed from too much social media.


You have severe flaws that you really want to work on.


You are obsessing over things that simply can't be changed like physical appearance.


telling him I wasn't interested anymore after he stood me up

It's expected that people do as they say they will.

The person said something they would do while drunk.


they were under the influence of drugs when they said they'd do something


they offered to help with something important


Especially if they are capable of doing so.


A toddler says he is going to fly like Superman.


They are in the military and following orders from their commander.


An emergency happens and they can't keep their word.


completely shutting out my depressed/suicidal ex-girlfriend

Hypothesis: It's hurtful to shut someone out.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to shut someone out.

If you shut out a close friend for no reason.


Hypothesis: It's hurtful to shut someone out.


Hypothesis: Sometimes friends come and go

They get together once a week to catch up.


Hypothesis: Sometimes friends come and go

They don't agree with your line of work.


Hypothesis: Sometimes friends come and go

You make the effort to stay part of their lives.


Hypothesis: Sometimes friends come and go


Hypothesis: Sometimes friends come and go

It's during a transitional period in their lives.


never giving my brother help/advice, even though my mother gets angry with me when I don't

Hypothesis: You should support your family.


Hypothesis: You should support your family.


Hypothesis: You should support your family.

your family is trying to take advantage of your financial success.


You should make an effort to enjoy the activities of a sibling so you can spend time with them.

they are mean and don't want to hang out with you


they requested to spend time with you or it's their birthday


You you disowned them and don't get along with each other.


Hypothesis: It's nice to help out a family member.


Hypothesis: It's nice to help out a family member.

They have taken advantage of you in the past.


Hypothesis: It's nice to help out a family member.

they are always requesting help without appreciation


Hypothesis: It's nice to help out a family member.

The family member is abusive to you  and is using you.


Hypothesis: It's nice to help out a family member.

You love that family member dearly and they really need your help.


having an affair and not feeling bad about it

Hypothesis: It is distasteful to have an affair.


Hypothesis: It is distasteful to have an affair.


Hypothesis: It is distasteful to have an affair.

You're just staying with your spouse for the kids, and you're both carrying on affairs.


Hypothesis: It is distasteful to have an affair.

Your spouse still thinks they're the love of your life.


Hypothesis: It is distasteful to have an affair.

You have been operated from your significant other for some time.


Hypothesis: It is distasteful to have an affair.

You didn't know the other person was married.


Hypothesis: It is distasteful to have an affair.

Your partner consents to having an open relationship


Hypothesis: It is distasteful to have an affair.

It would hurt or possibly destroy your relationship with your significant other.


making my friend feel like she had to exit out relationship

It's wrong to expect your friend to get out of a relationship.

the relationship is coming between your friendship


that relationship is not healthy for them.


they have been together for a long time.


you think the relationship is harming her.


you respect their right to make their own decisions.


asking my husband to stay away from a co-worker

It's expected that a person maintains a friendly relationship with the people they work with.

The person has taken credit for their work.


you work in group settings with the coworkers


Someone repeatedly takes credit for your work.


You frequently collaborate on group projects.


It is frowned upon to take customers from other businesses.

they are being mistreated by that business.


The other business is a charity with limited resources.


The customers come voluntarily because your business treats them better.


You are actively trying to put other businesses out of business.


It is considered normal competition in your industry.


ghosting my friend over a disagreement about a church

Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.

they are engaging in dangerous criminal behavior.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.

they are getting in between a relationship


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.

They start dealing drugs and carrying a gun.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cut off your friends.

They're having a hard time after the transition to college.


reporting a family member in multiple games and hoping they get (permanently)banned

It's not right to do things that will harm your family.


Those things are necessary for your safety.


Those things are things you're doing for fun.


the only other option is to put yourself into harms way.


You weren't aware that it would harm your family when doing them.


It could cause long lasting damage between you and your family.


not wanting my so, who is dating other people, to not text them when we are together

It's rude to text others when you're spending time with someone you care about.


you are interrupting the person you are with.


It is of immediate importance and the person you are with knows the context of why it is.


They are trying to tell you important personal news.


The person you care about is on their phone


It is your first evening alone in a month


you have asked their permission to do so


you know the person is offended by this behavior


Your significant other asks you to invite that person over.


Your significant other is trying to tell you they're pregnant.


not wanting to hang out with bfs friends the entire time on my birthday getaway

It's rude to treat people disrespectfully when it's their special occasion.


They punched you very hard for no reason.


not being open to a last minute surprise change of plans

Hypothesis: It is okay to want a schedule.

You don’t have the authority to make one


Hypothesis: It is okay to want a schedule.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want a schedule.

You are a part of the organ donation team.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want a schedule.

especially if it is a visitation schedule with your ex for your children.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want a schedule.

You work at a business that's open regular hours.


It is acceptable to want your child to be well taken care of


you were not well taken care of as a child.


You have the means to give them a better life


You want your physically and mentally healthy child to never want to work.


You're trying to make sure they have a safe place to live.


It's understandable that people outgrow their friendships at times.


They were friends as children and are now adults.


they're doing it to move up the social ladder.


They live with their friends and share rent.


Their friends went to a different college than them.


you made a pact when you were young to always stay friends no matter what.


you got married and have kids and your friend is still single and kid-less.


being furious that my landlords/boyfriend's parents come by every weekend

It's rude for a landlord to drop by unannounced.


You have paid the rent and have no house issues


You signed a contract giving them the right to do so.


A pipe has burst and your apartment is flooding.


being annoyed that my birthday was snubbed by a family member

It's wrong to be mad at a family member simply because they forgot your birthday.


They are dealing with a terminal illness.


They recently suffered a concussion and have amnesia.


They mailed you a generous gift a week before.


Hypothesis: It's impolite to ask smokers to move.

they are standing inside the no smoking zone.


Hypothesis: It's impolite to ask smokers to move.


Hypothesis: It's impolite to ask smokers to move.

They are in a bar where smoking is permitted.


Hypothesis: It's impolite to ask smokers to move.

You have a respiratory condition that the smoke is exacerbating.


Hypothesis: It's impolite to ask smokers to move.

You are in an area that is designated for smoking.


correcting my co-worker when he tells people his son is in "Medical School"

Hypothesis: It's wrong to correct people.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to correct people.

They will be embarrassed in front of others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to correct people.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to correct people.

You're correcting the grammar of a Black person


Hypothesis: It's wrong to correct people.

you're not even sure that you're correct


asking my friend to pay the $250 cleaning fee for the car I rented

Hypothesis: You should pay what you owe to others.


Hypothesis: You should pay what you owe to others.


Hypothesis: You should pay what you owe to others.

You have more than what you own them in a savings account.


Hypothesis: You should pay what you owe to others.

They have told you not to worry about paying them back right away.


Hypothesis: You should pay what you owe to others.

They need the money to pay their own bills.


Hypothesis: You should pay what you owe to others.

The person you borrowed money from has died.


Hypothesis: You should pay what you owe to others.

You signed a legal contract to pay them back.


technically causing friendship issues between my boyfriend and his long-term friend, and not accepting her apology

You should respect your boyfriend's friends.

They are acting sexist or otherwise bigoted towards you.


They are supportive of your relationship.


They are trying to put the moves on you every time he leaves the room.


You hope to someday marry your boyfriend.


They support the two of you being together.


Hypothesis: You don't own the street.


Hypothesis: You don't own the street.

You live in a neighborhood with several other neighbors on your street.


Hypothesis: You don't own the street.

you own all of the property and the street is private.


not moving in to help care for my terminally ill brother

Being a caregiver is hard, and it is understandable to not want to take on that role.


You are not close to the person who needs care.


You are an only child and your parents are sick.


It is personally rewarding to spend someone's last days with them.


You work with dying patients in hospice.


You have a hard time caring for yourself


not wanting to go to Chinese New Year with my girlfriend? hey

It's good to spend the holidays with your partner.


You've both got precious time off of work.


it's your first Christmas as a married couple.


You decided to spend it with each of your families.


ignoring a stranger's kid wanting to talk to me about video games

It's expected that people are kind, understanding and encouraging to children.

They have a mental illness that prevents them from being able to cope.


They are in a position that deals with children on a daily basis.


The people are extremely uncomfortable around children.


Those people are elementary school teachers.


refusing to offer my English student some advice

You should always give advice to your students.


A student comes to you asking for advice.


getting a car towed on NYE that was blocking one of my driveways

It is good to call have a vehicle towed away if the vehicle is parked illegally and obstructing a residence.

they just ran out of gas and were going to get more.


It is blocking you from getting out of your driveway.


The vehicle has been there for quite some time.


It's in an area where it can't be towed.


refusing to go home for Christmas... or at all

It is rude to ignore your family on holidays.


They are expecting you to bring the food.


You have to pass a medical licensing test.


You promised your family you would visit for the holidays.


feeling like my partner expects me to mother him

You are not supposed to mother your partner.

They are ill and you are their caretaker.


Your partner is very ill and needs some chicken soup.


Your partner is actually ten years younger than you are.


They seem embarrassed or upset that you mother them.


Unless your partner cannot take care of himself.


Especially if your partner can take care of himself.


not doing the dishes as often if they aren't mine

You shouldn't avoid cleaning a mess just because it's not yours.


you live with another person who constantly leaves messes for you to clean up


you want others to be accountable for their messes.


You are a shopper passing by a mess in a store.


You don't have any special equipment to handle a mess that's a biohazard.


You have a guest coming over to your home.


not letting a child enjoy themselves in my store after closing time

Hypothesis: It's understandable to want to play.

you just got back from a month long vacation and need to work now.


Hypothesis: It's understandable to want to play.


Hypothesis: It's understandable to want to play.

you like to be included in sports and games.


telling my best friend to distance herself from her other "best friend?"

Hypothesis: It is bad to get between friendships.

one of the friends did something behind the other


Hypothesis: It is bad to get between friendships.


Hypothesis: It is bad to get between friendships.

Unless you know your friend is being taken advantage of.


Hypothesis: It is bad to get between friendships.

Especially if you want to remain friends.


Hypothesis: It is bad to get between friendships.

You know for sure that one of the friends is hurting the other and you need to stop it.


Hypothesis: It is bad to get between friendships.

No one has asked you to do so and the friendship is strong and amicable.


Hypothesis: It is bad to get between friendships.

you don't want to be seen as a problem maker.


wanting our relationship to be exclusive

It is expected to be monogamous in a relationship.

You and your partners all agree to have an open relationship.


You swear to be monogamous during your wedding ceremony.


you have decided to be in an open relationship.


you want to maintain a relationship with them .


you are married and your partner doesn't want to be polyamory


not feeling very comfortable sexting with my boyfriend

You shouldn't do things you are uncomfortable doing.


You never ever even try to get out of your comfort zone for a second.


You know yourself well and have already tried it and know you don't like it.


You are in physical therapy and it hurts to move but will be beneficial.


You are trying to give an important presentation.


Someone is pressuring you into trying harmful drugs.


It is dangerous, like jumping off a bridge


It's rude to bring food or drink into an establishment that serves it.

You're taking a bottle of wine to have with dinner and the restaurant doesn't serve wine.


The restaurant serves the same food or drink.


They have rules against bringing in outside food.


They charge one hundred dollars for a glass of water.


talking while jazz band playing a quieter song at a cafe

It's inconsiderate to ignore social norms when in public.

Someone is mentally disabled and just doesn't know.


You are in another country and have no idea what to do.


Those social norms involve making members of a minority group sit at the back of the bus.


You are at a public venue with your future in-laws.


You are calling attention to how the social norm reinforce the power of those with privilege.


It's good to use the right lane when driving.


You're going faster than the other cars.


You're going slower than the other cars.


You are passing traffic and need to get around them.


You are maintaining the speed limit and letting others pass.


being mad at my friend for not telling me he was packing while in my house

It is rude to take weapons to places they are not supposed to be.


opening the discussion on restarting an old relationship, while we both have new relationships

Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat on a partner.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat on a partner.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat on a partner.

YOu want to have a solid trusting marriage.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat on a partner.

You have a fetish they are not comfortable with.


not visiting a toxic family member after they've had their 3rd mini stroke

People are expected to visit relatives when they are ill.


The relatives were extremely abusive to them and hurtful.


The relatives have no one else who cares about them and they are kind.


They can’t afford plane tickets to travel


Visiting relatives bring about a speedier recovery.


not wanting my husband's best friend over every week

It's rude to try to consume all of your spouse's time, so they can't hang out with their friends.


Unless you are sick and need constant care.


Especially if they really enjoy their time with friends.


Your spouse does not want to see their friends.


You spend a lot of time with your friends.


They haven’t seen their friends in a while


refusing my friend's mom's request to visit her daughter in the hospital

It's good to be there for people when they are sick.


they are there for you when you are sick.


partway pulling into a parking spot when the car adjacent had its passenger door open

You shouldn't leave your door open when you're parked.

you're trying to load something into the car.


You're all alone in the lot and no traffic can get to you.


You're in a crowded lot with  lots of cars going by.


you are trying to cool off while sitting in the car.


wanting telling my boyfriend I want to cut my hair

It is important to ask for your partners opinion before making decisions.

You are in the cafeteria and deciding what to get for lunch.


You are deciding on how to plan a surprise birthday party


You're going to break up with your partner.


You are planning a surprise party for them.


You are making important financial decisions.


You're making a decision about how to decorate the home you share.


You should always make an effort to respond to your co-workers when they have a problem.


your coworkers help you with your problems.


their problem is something you don't understand.


They are being trained by another employee.


The problem is impacting the bottom line at work.


You are caught up in an important meeting.


The coworker simply refuses to do the work themselves


not wanting to play a club sport anymore due to the fact I didn't get picked to goto nationals in another state

You should never let your pride get in the way of your dreams.


The dreams are the kind you have while you're sleeping.


Your dream is the only thing that makes you happy.


you are very close to filling one of them.


getting mad at my mom for making my neighbors pay me less for dog sitting

If you are concerned about the way your children are spending money, you should communicate your thoughts.

You believe they will learn their lesson when they are broke.


It is the money you give them for allowance.


Your children are adults that support themselves


they are adult children who have their own jobs


the child is under 18 and their money came from an allowance


It is okay to be upset after being scolded.


getting my aunt and uncle's cat a 10 day quarantine after they let me stay at their house rent free

You should be grateful to people who help you.


You told them not to help and they did anyway.


They exaggerate the help they provided and grossly overcharge you.


They volunteered to spend their Saturday moving your furniture.


If you work with someone you are in a relationship, you should be professional on the clock.


you want your boss and coworkers to respect you.


It's rude to take seats that people are saving for someone.


They are saving them for their elderly parents.


you have purchased tickets and the seats are your numbers.


the person has just gone to the washroom before the show starts.


They are your assigned seats for a concert.


the seats are assigned and they are your number.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't abuse other people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't abuse other people.

it is to prevent further abuse to someone else.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't abuse other people.

they are an elderly person not able to defend themselves.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't abuse other people.

Someone has asked you explicitely to abuse them.


wanting my fiancee to have a job even though we don't need the money

It is reasonable to want your significant other to be employeed.


They are very sick and unable to work at all.


They are able-bodied and able to get a job.


You make enough money that they don’t have to


you need more income coming into the family.


being mean to my step-brother who filmed me in the shower

You shouldn't be mean to your step-sibling.


They've been caught stealing from someone.


you have asked them repeatedly to not do something and they continue


openly drooling over hot actors in front of my so

Fawning over someone else in front of your partner is disrespectful.

you and your partner have an open relationship


you know how sensitive they can be to that.


your partner is aware you're trying to make them jealous


your partner is loyal and treats you with respect and love


not wanting to recreate my fiancé's parent's motorcycle trip honeymoon? it's great they did it but it's not what I want

It's good to do things for the family of your partner.


If a friend thinks they're being abused, it's important to trust them.


They have a history of lying about those things.


you know for a fact that they are lying.


The friend has visible physical injuries


not helping out my friend so I can help my brother after not helping out my brother so I could help out my friend

You shouldn't put others before your family.

Your family is not very supportive of you


They have been supportive in your time of need


Your family really doesn't love you  and abuses you.


You have a very loving family that cares about you dearly.


It is your spouse and you are on your honeymoon.


the others are in a desperate situation.


not buying my infant nephew a Christmas gift

You should explain to your sibling why you are unable or unwilling to buy them a Christmas gift if you are not.


your sibling is used to not receiving Christmas gifts from you.


you are trying to surprise them by making them believe they wont get anything this year


You are embarrased that you have no money


You only get the kids presents and not the adults.


wanting to keep my schedule and saying I'll quit if they don't keep it

Hypothesis: It is rude to make ultimatums to others

they don't agree with you about something.


Hypothesis: It is rude to make ultimatums to others


Hypothesis: It is rude to make ultimatums to others

You want them to listen to your point of view.


It's wrong to get involved with other people's ex's.


You start dating your sibling's ex a week after they broke up.


They are the only single people available in your community.


There are many single people from all walks of life in your community.


You don't know your boyfriend's or girlfriend's ex.


You're getting involved with your friend's ex.


not having compassion for the homeless even though I just got out of homelessness 4 months ago

You should have empathy for those in a bad postion that you have been in before.


You have forgotten a lot of your old position.


You only recently got out of the bad spot.


not dumping my bf over his homophobic past and ruining my friend group

You should not get involved with your friend's relationship.


Your friend is in an abusive relationship.


Your friend seems to be happy in their relationship.


they have asked you to mind your business


refusing to engage with my co-workers' small talk

It is okay to keep coworkers as only coworkers

You find it very stress-relieving to open up to each other.


You want to avoid allegations of sexual harassment.


You knew the coworkers as friends first.


Your coworkers actively try to get you to do more with them all the time.


You don't really feel a whole lot in common with them.


It's understandable that sometimes people do silly pranks sometimes.

You play a prank on your boss in a corporate office.


You have asked them not to do pranks on you


not trying to talk through the issues I had with childhood friends

Hypothesis: You should be honest with your friends.

you were trying to get them to the location where their surprise party is being held


Hypothesis: You should be honest with your friends.

you want them to be able to trust you as a friend


Hypothesis: You should be honest with your friends.


cutting all ties with a friend because she cheated on people in the past

It's okay to want to cut off a friend who has done things you don't agree with.

You find some reason to cut off every friend after a few months.


What the friend did resulted in multiple deaths.


The things the friend does are not illegal or affect you in any way.


The friend is a bad influence on your children.


You are cutting them off due to their sexuality.


That friend is someone who is always kind to you.


You shouldn't expect the people close to you to always do your job for you.


You are an able bodied adult with your wits about you.


You are severly handicapped in that area.


urging my wife to travel to my family for Christmas

It's good to ask your partner to travel to see your family.

your partner has already used up all their vacation time for the year.


you want to introduce your new partner to your parents.


Your family is always rude to your partner.


You are going to be gone for several weeks.


you want your partner as part of your family.


they are working or have other engagements at the same time.


you want to introduce them to your family for the first time.


asking my family to never ask me anything about my personal life

It's natural for people to want to know what's going on in the life of a relative.


They're judging the relative in a mean way.


They know that relative will be in jail for the next ten years.


They haven't talked to that relative for months.


They are concerned for that relative's well being.


being concerned when my girlfriend posts sexual photos online

It's inappropriate to post sexual photos online if you're in a relationship.


You're in a conservative Christian relationship.


not making my niece an Easter Sunday dress

Your family shouldn't expect you to do things for them.

You live in the same house and share household duties.


You owe them for helping you move into your new house.


They didn't help you move into your new house.


You live with them and that's part of how you pay your rent.


playing music with a speaker on my bicycle

Playing music with a speaker on your bicycle is okay as long as the volume is low.

the speaker is too heavy for your bicycle.


you enjoy listening to music when you bike.


it is late and night and people are trying to sleep.


Your traveling in heavy traffic and really need to pay attention to your surroundings.


The lyrics are very obscene and you're biking past a preschool.


You should help out with dinner on some nights.


You work really late and can't make it in time to cook.


You're already at home and others can use the help.


Your partner cooks all the other nights.


It would be confusing to announce someone serious on april fools.


Your country does not observe the holiday


This sentence doesn't make sense and the context isn't clear.


You did the same thing for three years straight and people understand.


Adults are expected to know how to behave when in public, though sometimes need to be firmly reminded of what's proper.


The funeral procession of a president is taking place.


not wanting to do chores when I get home

Hypothesis: It's bad to be lazy at home.

there isn't anything that needs to be done.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be lazy at home.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be lazy at home.

Especially if you have way too much to do.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be lazy at home.

You worked 12 hours that day and need a break.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be lazy at home.

Your doctor says you have been working too hard and need to rest.


getting cross about family members returning gifts

It is rude for family to return gifts given to them.


They are just returning the gift to get the money


They are asking you to exchange it for something they like more that you just didn't know about.


They seem ungrateful or attack you for getting them the gift.


They cash everyone's gifts in and use the money for drugs.


They're returning them in secret at the department store.


They're returning them directly to the gift giver.


telling a girl she is harming our class atmosphere

It's rude to single someone out in class.


They are being singled out for a good grade.


You are the teacher and pick on a certain student.


Hypothesis: Violence is not acceptable.


Hypothesis: Violence is not acceptable.

It is in self defense during an attempted murder.


Hypothesis: Violence is not acceptable.

You're defending innocent people from a mass shooter.


Hypothesis: Violence is not acceptable.

You use violence to extort money from people.


It's hurtful to try to separate people from those they love.


Unless they are being taken advantage of.


not wanting to visit my demented grandmother

People are expected to respect their elders.


They have been taught and show this from a young age.


they want others to treat them with respect.


Their elders are very out of touch with modern life.


Their elders always took good care of them as children.


not wanting to get my baby sister to sleep every night

It's responsible to take part in rearing a younger sibling.


You are grown, your parents have died, and your youngest sibling is still a child.


You have a baby of your own to take care of.


declining my (caring) mother visiting me because she's clingy and I don't like living with her

You should allow your family to visit you.


They paid the down payment on your house


You are in jail for murdering several people and are in  frenzied state.


Hypothesis: It is nice to do favors for family.


Hypothesis: It is nice to do favors for family.

Unless they are taking advantage of you/


not trying to fix my relationship with my ex

It's fine not to want to have a relationship with a partner after it's over.


Your partner still has feelings for you.


you and your partner are business partners


downloading "name your own price" games on itch.io for free

It's OK to play games in your spare time.

You are really behind on your schoolwork.


You neglect the other aspects of  your life.


you should probably be cleaning your apartment instead.


there are other things you really should be doing.


It's understandable to want to take your time in getting married.


Your spouse wants children and their eggs are getting old.


You need to marry for citizenship somewhere.


You're looking to marry and never divorce.


Children are a treasure, and it's expected you'd want to have as many as possible.


you like children and want a big family.


You do not have the financial means to afford it.


You know you'd be absolutely miserable as a parent.


You're very wealthy so you can support a large family.


telling my girlfriend that her calling me is boring

It's rude to tell your significant other that you don't like talking to them on the phone.

You are hearing impaired and the misunderstandings caused by it are causing problems in the relationship.


You used to tell them you loved to talk to them on the phone.


They talk very loudly on the phone at night.


They are constantly calling you at work.


They are venting to you about their day.


You are coming home from work and will see them soon anyway.


You are in a long distance relationship.


You follow it up by explaining you much prefer seeing them in person.


You're in a long distance relationship where you have no choice.


It's okay to want to propose marriage to your significant other.

You're having an affair with someone else.


You have known each other for two years.


They have informed me that they are not ready for marriage.


kicking a player out of a 5e campaign before it started due to his character

It's wrong to kick someone out of something simply just because of their character.


You formed a Character Club in high school.


You're trying to fire someone from a job they perform very well at.


responding to my exes text when I dunno if I want to re date him? what should I do or think about my ex randomly reaching out to me

Hypothesis: It's wrong to want to re-date an ex.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to want to re-date an ex.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to want to re-date an ex.

they cheated on you in the last relationship


Hypothesis: It's wrong to want to re-date an ex.

You are in a relationship with someone else.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to want to re-date an ex.

They are a good parent to your small children.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to want to re-date an ex.

You got out of the relationship because they were treating you bad.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to be by yourself.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to be by yourself.

You're trying to concentrate while you write your novel.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to be by yourself.

It's been a long time since you've been alone.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to be by yourself.

you have been around people a lot recently.


It's wrong to take advantage of someone that cares about you for frivolous reasons.


You are trying to teach them a lesson for hurting you before.


They have never hurt you and your actions will hurt them.


thinking that Emo culture is insensate to those with Depression

Always consider emo culture as not understanding people with health issues.

Someone is both a member of emo culture and a trained doctor.


The members of emo culture are very young and sheltered.


completely losing interest in her, and planning to stop talking to her

Hypothesis: It is unfair to just give up on people.

You've already tried and they won't help themselves.


Hypothesis: It is unfair to just give up on people.

They are trying to get their act together.


Hypothesis: It is unfair to just give up on people.

You have given them too many times already.


Hypothesis: It is unfair to just give up on people.

You are trying to teach a child to walk.


Hypothesis: It is unfair to just give up on people.


refusing to serve a customer during the minutes silence for remembrance day

It's expected that you be respectful during a moment of silence.


You don't want to stand out from the crowd.


Your relative died in the event being commemorated


this one is really hard because theres no way to justify it


telling my classmate to "chill the hell out"

Hypothesis: It's good to diffuse a tense situation.


Hypothesis: It's good to diffuse a tense situation.


Hypothesis: It's good to diffuse a tense situation.

The situation needs to be resolved thoroughly.


Hypothesis: It's good to diffuse a tense situation.

The situation is more intense than needed.


Hypothesis: It's good to diffuse a tense situation.

The tension is mounting during overtime of a basketball championship.


Hypothesis: It's good to diffuse a tense situation.

There is a chance it could escalate to violence.


It's rude to treat friends disrespectfully.


They have just yelled at your grandmother.


They just found out they are going to die.


Unless you found out they've been taking advantage of you.


Especially if you want to remain friends.


It's expected that you keep secrets told to you by your friend.

Your friend's secrets are putting them in danger.


The secret involves knowing your friend is in grave danger.


They are trying to plan a surprise for someone.


You want to stay friends with that person.


They are about your friends plan to attempt suicide.


leaving my friends house early because of their dog

It's okay to leave someone's house early.


They have asked you to have a sleepover with them


There is a thunderstorm coming that night


You have to wake up early the next morning for work.


It's rude to push people when unprovoked.

You were trying to save them from oncoming traffic.


You are trying to get ahead of them in line.


playfully scaring my girlfriend and lying about it

Hypothesis: Scaring partners can lead to arguments.


Hypothesis: Scaring partners can lead to arguments.


Hypothesis: Scaring partners can lead to arguments.

Your partner thinks jump scares are thrilling.


Hypothesis: Scaring partners can lead to arguments.

Your partner was scared you were going to kill yourself.


Hypothesis: Scaring partners can lead to arguments.

you just got a diagnosis note from their doctor


Hypothesis: Scaring partners can lead to arguments.

Your partner doesn't have a sense of humor.


You shouldn't let people push you around.


telling my girlfriend to get rid of her rescue dog

Hypothesis: It's understandable to not want a pet.


Hypothesis: It's understandable to not want a pet.


Hypothesis: It's understandable to not want a pet.

Your significant other is in love with cats.


Hypothesis: It's understandable to not want a pet.

Your partner is bringing a pet into the relationship.


It's considered to be compassionate to clean up after your girlriend's vomit.


Her maid is closer to her and has better technique.


She got drunk and refused to drink water.


confronting my friends about what happened to our plans to move in together

It's fine to question friends about why they haven't followed up on plans you've made together.


You know they are in the hospital suffering a miscarriage.


You know that they're in the hospital with pneumonia.


It's been a week since you last heard from them.


It's acceptable to end a conversation if you don't like where it is headed.

You're legally required to testify under oath before Congress.


The conversation is veering into very private topics.


you have nothing to add to the conversation


The conversation is with a police interrogator.


Hypothesis: You should help family members in need.

They have been leeching off of you for years.


Hypothesis: You should help family members in need.


Hypothesis: You should help family members in need.

Your family has never helped you when you needed it.


Hypothesis: You should help family members in need.

Your parents are having financial difficulty.


Hypothesis: You should help family members in need.

They are always in need of money all the time.


Hypothesis: You should help family members in need.

You have a great relationship with them.


Hypothesis: You should help family members in need.

It would be relatively easy for you to get them what they need.


asking to see my girlfriends phone who had repeatedly lied to me in the past

Everyone makes mistakes and you should forgive and forget.


they are doing it all the time to the point where it causes inconvenience


You are a college entrance examination tutor.


The mistake was embezzling millions of dollars.


The mistake had relatively minimal negative consequences.


not getting my brothers gf a cheap laptop

If you said you would get your brothers girlfriend a laptop it is rude to refuse later.

You were diagnosed with cancer and now have huge medical bills


thinking that I am entitled to some or all of my mom's unpaid child support

You shouldn't think you are entitled to unpaid child support.


Your child's other parent hasn't been paying their court-ordered child support.


The child's other parent has custody of them.


You can keep your area any way you see fit.


not gamesharing with my friend when he doesn't talk to me

You should communicate better with your friends.

You don't care about having good friendships.


You want to have deeper relationships with people.


Your friends feel uncomfortable when you share your feelings.


You feel like you're starting to drift apart.


You're planning on distancing yourself from them.


you are planning to cut them off because they are criminals.


You shouldn't judge someone by their appearance.

They have asked you to give an opinion on what they are wearing


You just walked up to them and started criticizing their outfit


Unless you are the judge of a beauty contest.


You are looking for the best fit for an opening in your company.


They are a model who changes appearances often


It is okay to be uncomfortable with new siblings by marriage.


you have different political views.it eill


You have known them for a while prior to this.


You are just meeting them for the first time at the wedding.


You shouldn't break other people's things.

they have given you permission to do so.


You're getting paid to demolish someone's house.


They ask you to get rid of something for them.


They would harm the person if they used it and they don't believe you and are going to use it anyway.


You run a junkyard where you crush old cars.


protecting my cousin from a potential predator

You should help your family when they are in trouble.

The trouble is of their own making, for the tenth time.


They're in trouble because a powerful person is abusing their position.


You no longer talk to them and it will risk your life.


not wanting to take my mothers mlm pills

It's ok to stand up to a parent when they are trying to force you to do something.

They just want you to take the trash out


it's just something you don't want to do because you're lazy


It is a gift for your ailing grandmother.


They want you to discipline a young sibling.


They are pressuring you into compromising your morals


Hypothesis: It's OK to ask smokers to move.


making my coworker do his share of inventory even though he has a broken foot

It's not okay to take advantage of a person who is injured.


you are the one that injured the person.


They faked the injury by running into your vehicle.


It is okay to be independent and follow your dreams

you are using mom and dads money for that dream.


You have worked hard to save for years in order to follow your dreams


You are an adult without a spouse or kids.


Your dreams involve hurting other people.


Your dreams involve expressing your true nature.


You are destroying someone else's dreams to fulfill your own.


You want to show everyone you can make it on your own.


not liking the potential new house my family is going to rent

It is rude not to be grateful for what your family provides


All they give you is pain and suffering.


Especially if they have always been generous.


They give you a very comfortable standard of living.


not letting my boyfriend put his dick on my armpit

It's hurtful to deny your boyfriend's sexual desire.

You are embarrassed by your crooked feet and he likes toes.


You have told him from the beginning that you are asexual.


He has made a romantic dinner and bath for you for Valentine's Day.


being mad at my mom for checking my phone

A child shouldn't be angry with a parent for making sure the child is behaving.

The child is being blamed for another's actions.


They are trying to be involved in the child's life.


The child is an adult who doesn't live at home.


The parent ensures behavior through beatings.


The child has been acting out in school a lot.


It's wrong to ignore your friends and keep them out of events.


It is because you want all the attention at the events.


You know they're not interested in that particular type of event.


You know they're bored and sitting at home.


your friends invite you to their events.


Your friends are people you don't know that well.


You should tell people why you are ending contact with them.

You're afraid that telling them will provoke violence.


You're ending a formal relationship, like being their lawyer.


There is a specified end date on the contract.


They have filed a court protective order against you.


You are breaking up with your partner of five years.


they already know without you having to tell them.


not getting my GF anything for her birthday

You should always get your partner a gift for their birthday.


Your partner asked for a donation to be made


They tell you to make a donation to charity instead.


They specifically say they do not want a gift.


you want to show them how much you care about them


disliking my birthday gift from my best friend

People are expected to give others gifts on special occasions.


They have exchanged gifts with one another before.


It's expected that your pet will do things you don't want it to do.


You've been taking it to obedience training for the last 6 months.


When you are correcting someone, you should be considerate with your words.


You have tried being nice and the person refuses to listen.


The person is easily upset by criticism.


You know that person prefers you to be direct.


You know that person is very sensitive to criticism.


It's understandable that people don't always want to go to an event.


it is something that they have been looking forward to.


they are introverted and would prefer to stay home.


They hate loud music and the concerts are always loud.


It's for a superfluous networking event.


turning my little brothers Xbox off mid Fortnite game

It is rude to touch other people's things.


If they have explicitly told you to not touch their things.


They have asked you not to touch their things.


They gave them to you to check them out.


You are saving their things from a fire.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your partner.

It is to calm them down from harming someone.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your partner.

It's about money you spent from a joint financial account.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your partner.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to your partner.

Important financial decisions are at stake.


It's nice to indulge your boyfriend's sexual desires.


He wants to have sex somewhere you could be caught and arrested.


it's wrong to do something that could intentionally hurt someone.


You could cause harm to yourself as well


You are trying to save a lot of other people.


You are a policeman saving the life of an innocent civilian standing by.


its the only way to stop them from intentionally hurting you.


It's understandable that sometimes people have reasons they can't, or don't choose to, give a gift.


They promised to be giving gifts out at an event.


Who you saw them post a picture on social media of them shopping at a store


You know that they are struggling with money


They're not attending the birthday party.


It's expected that people will want to be social.


fucking my best friend who just broke up with his girlfriend who I have a complicated relationship with

It's ok to be attracted to your best friend.


They told you they're not interested in that way.


Because this is something your friend would never have to know I can't think of any reason why it would not be okay to feel this.


expecting my boyfriend to be more helpful with the baby

You should help your partner with parenting duties.

You’re working a double shift at your job


The kid isn't yours and the partner doesn't want help.


It's rude to make your significant other suffer because you want to stop drinking.

Your significant other will ultimately be happier if you stop drinking.


Your significant other feels like you're judging them.


your significant other has an even bigger drinking problem than you do.


They are not supportive of your efforts.


You don't let them drink because of your own issues.


Especially if you are making them stop too.


You have both come to an agreement that it is best to think about your health


It's okay to want your significant other to like your friends.

You prefer to keep your relationships and friendships separate.


You hope to marry your significant other one day.


Your friends are a big part of your life.


They have expressed that they don't like them from previous experience


You've had the friends way longer than you've had the significant other.


It's OK to want time away from your partner.


Your partner has been very overbearing recently.


You have kids and haven't had time alone in a while.


Its ok to sometimes be annoyed by a significant other.


you're annoyed by things about them that are unchangeable


You're annoyed by behavior that almost never happens.


You're annoyed with them more or less constantly.


You have more positive interactions with them than negative ones.


You are looking for an excuse to leave him.


sleeping with my friend who is in love with me just bc he made me feel better about myself

You shouldn't lead someone on when you have no interest in them.

You think it will encourage them to place a big order from your company.


they are getting strong feelings for you.


getting angry at my dad for failing to pick me up from school for an appointment

Hypothesis: It is important to keep appointments.


Hypothesis: It is important to keep appointments.


Hypothesis: It is important to keep appointments.

You have an absolute emergency and are just not able to.


Hypothesis: It is important to keep appointments.

Other people are depending on you to be there.


Hypothesis: It is important to keep appointments.

People are depending on you to be on time.


Hypothesis: It is important to keep appointments.

It's an appointment for a job interview.


taking some random girl's clothes out of the dryer

It is important to be courteous of others when using shared facilities.


Unless there's nobody else there at the moment.


Especially if there are many people also using them.


being honest about not wanting to be friends anymore

It is okay to stop being friends with someone you do not like


Your friend is supporting you in your time of need.


what you don't like about them is their taste in clothes


The only reason you don't like them is because they have a friend you are racist against.


They have proven to be untrustworthy and stolen from you.


You should be nicer when breaking up with someone.


That person doesn't get the hint when you try to spare their feelings.


You want to still be that person's friend.


you wish to remain friends with your ex.


It's understandable to want to avoid greeting people.


It's not okay to make rude gestures in public.


You have a disability that causes you to make them.


Children could get hit by your waving hands.


thinking my best friend owes me an explanation for ghosting me

It is wrong to ghost someone without explaining to them why.


Telling them would put their life in danger.


not wanting to talk with my friend about her sex life

It is okay to be uncomfortable talking about sex.


you are comfortable with the person you are talking to.


being upset my boyfriend wants to befriend his ex

If you want to be friends with your ex, you should be open with your current partner about the friendship.


Your current partner isn't prone to jealousy.


Your current partner feels really insecure about how attractive they are.


Your partner is open and honest with you.


Its considered reckless to have too much alcohol to drink.


kicking out my brand-new housemate because he's not clean enough

Before asking someone to leave for being messy, you should try to talk it out with them.


you want them to understand where you're coming from


they refuse to clean up after their self.


You have repeatedly warned them in the past about being messy.


taking about a week off relationship to catch up on my degree

Hypothesis: It's good to focus on your studies.


Hypothesis: It's good to focus on your studies.


Hypothesis: It's good to focus on your studies.

You have already been studying for hours.


Hypothesis: It's good to focus on your studies.

You're trying to get into medical school.


It's wrong to judge people over how they look.

You're on the panel of judges for a beauty contest.


You're trying to decide who to hire as a doctor.


breaking up with my gf because of her tattoos

You shouldn't break up with a girlfriend over something she cannot change.


The thing she cannot change is harming you.


The thing she cannot change is a mere aesthetic issue.


She doesn't want to have kids and you do.


It is just about her physical appearance


To be a friend you must first show yourself friendly.


Someone wants to be your friend before you speak.


you are tying to be friends with tough guys


It's encouraged to be sensitive to other people's beliefs.


you are at a church where a bunch of people are worshipping


You are a misanthrope who dislikes everyone.


The other people believe in female genital mutilation.


not letting my 5 year old neighbor hold my pet hedgehog

It is irresponsible to let a child handle a small animal since they could be hurt by it.


It's a dangerous animal like a venomous snake.


being angry at my gf for not wanting to have penetrative sex with me

It's okay if you don't want to have sex with your partner.


it has been years since you last had sex with them.


you are dealing with some sort of sexual trauma.


winding up my boss about a publicly rejected Christmas present

People are expected to give gifts at Christmas.


They are signed up for a Christmas gift exchange.


calling [friend] out in public over event management and ignoring my request

It is understandable to be angry if your request is ignored.

your request was completely unreasonable.


You've already requested and been rejected.


your request places unreasonable demands on someone


the person you gave your request to is an employee of yours


You have paid for a service that hasn't delivered.


You are requesting something impossible.


It is wrong to snoop through someone else's things.

You are trying to surprise them with a gift.


They specifically told you not to go into their room.


You are a police detective working on a case.


The person trusts you to leave their things alone.


You are a detective and they are under investigation.


You've promised them that you won't go through their things.


not changing the movie that I chose for my birthday

It is acceptable to choose what you do on your own birthday.

Unless you are too young to make good choices.


Especially if it's a special birthday, like 40 or 50.


Your friends are planning a surprise birthday.


It is also your partner's birthday, too.


You share a birthday with your young child.


It's good to be happy about a good grade.

You know you could have done much better.


You studied very hard to earn the grade.


You worked really hard to earn that grade.


you studied really hard and worked for it.


Hypothesis: It is foolish to hire a friend.


Hypothesis: It is foolish to hire a friend.

You have set personal and professional boundaries.


Hypothesis: It is foolish to hire a friend.

they are easily the best person for the job.


choosing to zone out on my phone when my SO hangs with their friends

It's fine to spend time with your friends.


telling my gf that I want to be one of my cousin's fiance's groomsman

It's good to support your family when someone is getting married.


you know that some of the family doesn't approve.


You know the person they are marrying is only doing it for a green card.


You all have to live together after the ceremony.


having a hysterical fit after blocking my bf's friends

Having a mental breakdown solves nothing.


you break down completely so that you can start rebuilding.


You're involved in a study about emotional distress.


You are in a dangerous situation involving fire.


You just need to let out some built up emotion.


destroying the guys house who trashed my wife's apartment

You should not vandalize someone's property.


There is a fire and the person is trapped.


The property has great sentimental value to someone.


No trespassing signs are posted everywhere.


wanting my parent to compansate me for my inheritance lost

Hypothesis: It's bad to demand money from people.


Hypothesis: It's bad to demand money from people.


Hypothesis: It's bad to demand money from people.

they owe you money and aren't paying you back.


Hypothesis: It's bad to demand money from people.

you are asking for money in exchange for keeping quiet.


Hypothesis: It's bad to demand money from people.

You are just being greedy and want to buy yourself something.


Hypothesis: It's bad to demand money from people.

They have owed you money for some time and aren't paying it back.


Hypothesis: It's bad to demand money from people.

They are normally generous people but are having a tough time at the moment.


being annoyed at my boyfriend constantly making comments on any women we watch on tv

It is unrealistic to expect people not to find others attractive

they are hopelessly in love with one person.


They're surrounded by many other people all day long.


they have found others attractive in the past.


they aren't attracted to other people at all.


cancelling my plans with my friend after a falling out

It's understandable that you cancel plans with your friend after falling out with him.

You have a serious business meeting with the friend.


what you cancelled involved a cost to the other person.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to see your partner.

You cheated on them and they don’t want to see you


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to see your partner.

They are having a bad day and need support


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to see your partner.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to see your partner.

Your partner is in the middle of a business presentation.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to see your partner.

You haven't seen your partner for a while.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to see your partner.

your partner is particularly busy with work or family


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to see your partner.

you and your partner are seeking to build a strong relationship


being upset with my wife for cancelling a plan to be with her sick mother

Hypothesis: You shouldn't cancel your plans.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cancel your plans.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cancel your plans.

You are ill and don't want to spread it.


wanting to spend my money for something for me

Hypothesis: It's okay to spend money on yourself.


Hypothesis: It's okay to spend money on yourself.


Hypothesis: It's okay to spend money on yourself.

you are unable to purchase food for your children


It's wrong to not take your education seriously.

you're only taking on the education because you've been forced to


You're about to graduate and you've already made good grades.


If you want to maintain your scholarship.


you are living in poverty and have children.


You're a millionaire and you won't ever have to work for a living.


You need to find a well paying job to support yourself after you graduate.


not wanting to pay for a portion of the bachelor party

If you are involved in a wedding it is expected you will contribute to the cost of the bachelor party.

They have specifically told you to not pay anything


the groom has offered to cover expenses.


You are well off and can afford to help.


Paying back a family member you borrow money from in a timely fashion is expected.

the family member passes away unexpectedly.


your family member has given you a due date.


there is an understanding that paying them back will take a while.


the family member needs the money as well.


telling close [friend] about suicide attempt

It's good to reach out for help when you are suicidal.

You're already working with your mental health professional.


You are a child molestor and you want to hang yourself in prison.


Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem and getting help will enable you to realize that.


you are feigning your experience for attention


you are without help and support and feel alone


asking my boyfriend to continue giving me head

It's expected to want to continue to enjoy a pleasurable experience.


It's making the day better for all involved.


the pleasurable experience is too expensive for you to afford to continue.


everyone involved is having a good time.


This experience could hurt yourself or others, such as excessive drinking of alcohol or use of drugs.


This experience is something that improves your quality of life.


The pleasurable experience is interfering with work.


not wanting to have a wedding because of my fiancée's family

It is better to avoid an unpleasant situation even if it means sacrifice.


you know that the situation will cause you harm.


there is a chance that someone or something can be harmed by avoidance.


The situation is necessary for you to go through


You do not need to go through the situation


The sacrifice causes you to lose you job.


having a hypothetical conversation about 9/11

People are expected to communicate about different topics.

They prefer to keep their opinions to themself.


They have volunteered to teach on those topics.


They have no knowledge at all about the topic.


They are in a business meeting about a specific product.


It is expected that trust takes time to rebuild.

the trust should not have been lost in the first place


one has wronged another on multiple occasions


the person never did anything to violate your trust.


complaining about being tired to my pregnant wife

It's bad to complain to someone who is going through something more difficult than you are.


your problem is trivial, and theirs is life altering.


the person has specialized knowledge about the problem you are facing


the person is emotionally overwhelmed with the problem they are facing


They really need to see some perspective.


It might make them feel like they're not alone.


You're making them feel like their suffering is invalidated.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to use racist words online.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to use racist words online.

Those words could hurt someone's feelings.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to use racist words online.

You are writing up a research paper about racist people.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to use racist words online.

you are using slurs directed at someone.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to use racist words online.

You are writing an article explaining how the words people use are hurtful


Hypothesis: It's wrong to use racist words online.

You are speaking to someone of a different race


Hypothesis: It's wrong to use racist words online.

You are using the racist words as a example of what not to say


Hypothesis: It's wrong to use racist words online.

You are directed the racist words toward somebody


getting angry about my girlfriend getting a ticket from a friend to see an artist both of us enjoy without me

It's okay to get upset at your partner if they do something behind your back.


Your partner is planning a surprise birthday party.


they planned you a surprise birthday party.


The thing they do is plan a clever way to propose marriage.


You've told your partner you do not like surprises.


they were sneaking around being romantic with another person.


making a Go fund me for an Island Getaway with my brother

It's dishonest to seek money from others to do something fun.


the others don't know what the money is going to be used for.


that is a socially acceptable behavior in your group.


they owe you the money from a past loan.


you have to lie to them to get the money.


you have no other means and they've agreed to help you


you have other means of doing fun things with your own money


reclaiming a borrowed jacket during a snowstorm

Hypothesis: It's good to reuse things.


Hypothesis: It's good to reuse things.


Hypothesis: It's good to reuse things.

they can be reused without destroying them.


mocking a Girl with a height requirement

It is shallow to judge people based on height.

you are a sporting coach who needs to pick certain height players


you don't take the time to get to know the people personally


Unless you're a judge in a tall-man contest.


THey have a medical disorder that causes their diminutive size.


you make unnecessary derogatory comments.


being upset with my boyfriend after he told me not to be

It's understandable to be upset at others sometimes.

you're upset without them doing anything to provoke that behavior


Unless the only reason you're upset is because you didn't get your own way.


Especially if others are trying to make you feel bad about yourself.


you remember that everyone has different opinions.


its because you are stressed out and cannot control your self.


They are refusing to help you commit a crime.


not wanting to take care of my grandma anymore

It's not okay to not help out family when they need you.


They have helped you out when you needed it.


Your family member is a sick child who needs your love and care.


Not wanting pet hair on your furniture is very normal.

You are grooming your pet where you sit.


you don't own pets but your friends keep bringing theirs over.


wanting my in-laws to change their investment

It is okay to help people with financial decisions.

They are being graded on their decisions.


they've asked to be left alone in their decision


they've asked for assistance in making a decision


You're struggling with your own finances.


You have a lot of experience in the field.


You have a history of making bad financial decisions.


telling my girlfriend that we're done if she doesn't want another kid in the future

It's okay to want a child with your significant other.

your significant other is an abusive person.


both of you already agreed to be childless.


Your significant other fears being a parent.


You are both financially secure and responsible adults.


they have expressly stated that they do not want children.


your dream has always been to have a family.


You've been planning and are ready for it.


giving discounts to friends but making money off the top

Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

You are playing a game and it is part of the rules.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

A crazed serial killer asks you where to find his intended victim.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

You're framing someone for a crime that will destroy their life.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie.

You are in a witness protection program.


not doing Laundry at 1am even though I was still awake

Hypothesis: It's wrong to be lazy.

You've had a hard day at work and need to relax.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be lazy.

Your child's birthday's party needs to be set up in an hour.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be lazy.

You are suffering from an illness and you need to recover.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be lazy.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be lazy.

People are relying on you to finish a project on time.


It's rude to correct others too frequently.

THey have asked you to help them by correcting their errors.


You know they are trying their best and it embarrasses them to be repeatedly corrected.


The person you're correcting is a friend.


You're correcting them about matters of opinion.


not wanting to go to my cousin's wedding across the country

It is expected to celebrate special occasions with family.


You live in the same home as your family.


the special occasion is for your friend.


All your family died in a tragic cruise accident.


Your family prides itself on being close-knit.


deciding to ditch a trip with my group of friends

You shouldn't flake out on a planned trip with others.


You not going causes others to have to pay more money than planned for their trip.


You are teaching the rest of the people.


There was an emergency pertaining to your family.


They are counting on you contributing to the cost.


You've agreed to be the driver for the trip.


Working out differences with family members in a polite and rational way is expected.


The problems were insignificant to begin with.


The family wants to be included in the will.


They have abused you physically or emotionally.


Young children are present who absorb everything.


You want to maintain good relations with your family members.


ignoring my friends texts and not inviting them to an event

Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore your friends

Your friends are telling you to do something dangerous.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore your friends


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore your friends

They crashed your car and didn't pay for the damages.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore your friends

They threw you a surprise birthday party.


getting angry at my friend for pranking me

It is okay to be offended if someone pranks you.


You are at the circus and it was a funny joke by a clown.


You are in church and are supposed to be reverent.


You expected them to accept it when you pranked them.


The prank was totally harmless and you didn’t get hurt


It caused you harm, like you got wet or your property got ruined.


chasing my flatmates boyfriends cousin out of the house when I thought it was an intruder

You should make sure you asses a situation correctly before acting.


The situation involves impacting other people directly.


You are going to make a major life decision.


You are out of time and have no choice but to act.


You have to act immediately to save someone from drowning.


You're a couples therapist getting familiar with a complicated new case.


not giving the customer what he wants after threatening me because I was taking a nap

You should be polite to someone offering you a service.


They have spoken to you politely and respectfully.


Someone is selling to you at your front door and won't leave.


Someone is offering to shovel your sidewalk after a snowstorm.


That person is ignoring the 'no soliciting' sign outside your house.


You contacted that person to inquire about their service.


telling my friend that the girl he likes is an asshole

It's wrong to put up with friends that call your crush bad names.


Unless he is the honored guest at a roast..


He is sitting and talking with you at the time.


It's part of a vitriolic sense of humor your ex shares.


Your crush gets really offended when they find out.


The names are an inside joke with your crush.


Your friend is being honest and trying to open your eyes to bad things you don't see about your crush.


Your crush knows that person is important to you.


wanting my fiancee to have a job even though we don't need the money

You should want your significant other to stay busy.


You are striving for a better household.


They need to be distracted from something bad.


Your significant other is studying for a job promotion.


They have a serious medical condition that leaves them with very little energy.


They have a naturally high energy level.


being upset that I didn't receive anything from work for my surgery

You should help out your employees when they're having a medical issue.

They are using the medical issue as an excuse to go on vacation.


They need to get tests and see a specialist.


if have been a long-term, good employee.


You've caused the medical issue to occur.


you're trained in emergency medical skills.


being genuinely exhausted and mad at my wife for refusing to get her drivers license

You should not pressure your significant other to do something that they are uncomfortable with.

It is asking their job for a well-deserved raise.


The thing you're pressuring them to do will save their life.


The topic is something sexual in nature.


They refuse to take their insulin and you can pressure them into taking it which will save their life.


They just got out of a stressful day at work and are very on edge.


They need to see a doctor for a medical problem they are having.


being disappointment about getting pajamas for my birthday

It is okay to be disappointed when not getting a gift that you like.

The other person gave you a gift from the heart.


It is something that you have been hinting for.


You show that disappointment in a very public, dramatic way.


You hide the disappointment to avoid hurting the gift-giver's feelings.


You asked for the gift you received but have changed your mind.


The gift is something you are allergic to.


telling someone my expenses aren't their business

It's okay to be curious about a person's expenses.


They have asked you to respect their privacy.


It's good be discerning and want the best.


You like to live on the wild side and be risky.


You are a parent and are watching your child grow up.


you are so picky that you will never be satisfied.


you want the best for everybody else too.


asking a friend who basically stays in our house to clean up after himself

You should change a behavior that someone you are staying with asks you to change.


The other person makes adjustments to accommodate you.


The behavior is just who you are and changing causes you pain.


Your behavior is harmful to yourself and others.


The person has the same behaviors you do.


calling the cops on my neighbors for a karaoke party

Getting the police involved over a noise disturbance is immature.


The neighbors keep waking your newborn baby.


You call the police on them over silly noise disturbances during the day.


The neighbors won't listen to you and you have an important meeting in the morning.


You don't try to talk with the neighbors first.


The same group of kids always throws loud parties till 4am


There are kids just playing basketball in the street


It is reasonable to be upset with your family if they do not visit you in the hospital.


The family member had no transportation.


They live nearby and are free for the day.


hooking up for someone else after assuming I was rejected by someone I was interested in

Hypothesis: You shouldn't assume things of others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't assume things of others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't assume things of others.

You've extensively perused their social media and have a good idea of how they act.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't assume things of others.

Other people never do anything wrong or suspicious


Hypothesis: You shouldn't assume things of others.

They have a history of doing bad things.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out at a wedding.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out at a wedding.

You have been asked to mind your own business.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out at a wedding.

You were not asked to help with the wedding.


Hypothesis: It's good to help out at a wedding.

You are able to and would help the couple.


It's not okay to not fulfill obligations that we made.

We have fulfilled all our obligations in full.


Other people are relying on us to do our duty.


Those obligations are to physically harm someone.


The obligations involve being somewhere with your kids


Hypothesis: It is rude to not do your part.

You are physically disabled from the neck down.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not do your part.

Your partner works just as hard as you do.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not do your part.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not do your part.

You are not doing your part because you are being lazy


telling my girlfriend that we're done if she doesn't want another kid in the future

It's bad to give your significant other an ultimatum.


Your partner hasn't done anything wrong.


You have tried marriage counseling and therapy.


You have never talked to them about the issue before.


Your partner is not being helpful and needs to understand is takes the two of you to make things work.


thinking an workplace "prom" is a dumb idea

It is important to be clear about workplace activities.

You don't have a good idea what the activities will be yet and you're looking for ideas.


there are a lot of people doing different things and they have to be scheduled efficiently.


You are going on vacation for that week.


There aren't any rules in the workplace.


There are certain restrictions, like for clothing.


Those workplace activities could be dangerous.


asking my boyfriend to kick his ex-girlfriend off of his Netflix account

It's nice to share your Netflix account.


getting mad at my sister being late to getting picked up

Hypothesis: It is bad to get mad at your family.


Hypothesis: It is bad to get mad at your family.


Hypothesis: It is bad to get mad at your family.

Your family is doing something to take unfair advantage of someone.


Hypothesis: It is bad to get mad at your family.

Your family tried to take your child away for no reason


Hypothesis: It is bad to get mad at your family.

Your family supports you emotionally and financially


Hypothesis: It is bad to get mad at your family.

Your family lets you live with them for free


being angry that my friend continuously bails on me

It is unpleasant to be angry with a friend.


The friend has been stealing from you and lying about it.


The disagreement is over something small and unimportant.


Being around them was absolutely unbearable and now you have an excuse to avoid them.


not wanting my fiancé to get new fake eyelashes monthly

Not wanting others to do things that makes them happy is wrong.

What makes them happy is tormenting you.


Their choices have no effect on you whatsoever.


It makes them feel a sense of accomplishment.


They are drunk and the thing they want to do is dangerous, like drive or shoot a gun.


You consider yourself a friend to those people.


The person's activity doesn't harm anyone.


not accepting a last minute invite to a wedding with my new gf

When your girlfriend invites you to a wedding, you're expected to go.


You have a restraining order against you by the bride or groom.


The bride or groom is a member of your girlfriend's family.


You can't get time off of work for the wedding.


The bride and groom have paid for your travel expenses to the wedding.


You have a previous commitment on the same date.


Especially if she asks you to be her maid of honor.


The wedding is between people who you hate


telling close [friend] about suicide attempt

It's good to be supportive of the mentally ill.


You understand that if things had gone a little differently, you could be in their shoes.


The mentally ill person is about to cause harm to themself or someone else.


It's always good to support people with disabilities.


It is in a situation which is beyond the abilities of the mentally ill person.


You're dealing with your own mental problems.


You should let someone improve on their job before firing them.

They have been caught stealing from the company.


They are new and still learning how things work.


The person has put others in danger with their actions.


They are willing and able to learn to do better.


You do not need to do everything for family.


You are the sole provider for the family.


being upset that my husband likes to spend all his money gambling

It's wrong to gamble away all your family's money.


They would otherwise use it to manufacture weapons and mine coal.


They would otherwise use it to set up a charitable foundation.


Your family has expressly told you to place those bets and they feel certain about the outcome.


Your family doesn't know about it and you have a gambling problem.


not wanting to have to pay my father for a car that the person tried to give to him for free, but he insisted on paying for anyway

It's wrong to tell your parents not to spend money.


They are gambling their life savings at a casino.


The parents are spending on scratch off tickets.


It is your birthday and by birthright you have the honor of being showered in glory.


not wanting my boyfriend's dog in the bed

Hypothesis: Animals should never be in the bed.

They are well behaved and it is OK with any humans who sleep in that bed.


Hypothesis: Animals should never be in the bed.

They are going to throw up or go potty on the bedsheets.


Hypothesis: Animals should never be in the bed.


Hypothesis: Animals should never be in the bed.

the owner tells the animal to get on the bed.


It is lazy to refuse to give assistance.


You might need help from someone else someday.


You're busy helping someone else in worse need.


You're just wasting time playing Angry Birds.


you don't know anything about the department they're in.


getting mad at my sister after she asked me when I was getting married

Hypothesis: You shouldn't get mad at your siblings.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get mad at your siblings.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get mad at your siblings.

Your siblings like to hit you when nobody is looking.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get mad at your siblings.

If your sibling can't help the way they are.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get mad at your siblings.

Your siblings much younger than you are.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get mad at your siblings.

Your siblings constantly lie and steal from you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get mad at your siblings.

Your siblings are nice and do nothing wrong to you.


You shouldn't cancel important events without their knowledge.

You're in a serious car accident and can't possibly host the event.


You're just a guest and not one of the event planners.


There is no way to let them know in time and you have no choice.


You know they're counting on you and you made a promise to them.


They're completely unreachable while traveling.


It's going to cost a lot of money to do so.


Other people are depending on the event.


asking my brother not to bring his girlfriend to my birthday meal

Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people.

The person has been a really good friend to you.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people.

The person you're excluding harasses others.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people.

You're excluding someone for petty reasons.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people.

They are not old enough to legally participate in what you are doing.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people.

The people you are excluding are negative people


People, even when you're in a relationship, should make an effort to keep their pets under control.


not believing my housemate's mental health issue should get her out of cleaning

You should be understanding of other people's issues.

The person is using their issues as an excuse to hurt you.


The person is confiding their issues in you.


They have listened to your issues in the past.


You are a sociopath and only care about yourself.


You are having mental health issues of your own


They are high on drugs and the issues are figments of their imagination.


They hired you and have control of your livelihood.


It's good to be physical in a relationship.

Your partner feels uncomfortable with the way you're touching them.


Your partner also craves physical affection.


You're too young to understand someone's feelings.


calling my stepfather 'daddy' instead of 'dad' to purposefully make him uncomfortable

You should be more respectful to your step-parents, even if you don't like them.


They treat you like their biological children.


Your step-parent makes sexual advanced on you.


You don't like them because they make you actually do your homework.


being genuinely exhausted and mad at my wife for refusing to get her drivers license

Hypothesis: It's okay if you are afraid of driving.


Hypothesis: It's okay if you are afraid of driving.


Hypothesis: It's okay if you are afraid of driving.

You get panic attacks which may cause you to wreck and kill someone


Hypothesis: It's okay if you are afraid of driving.

You are only 15 and just got your permit


You should allow family members the things that bring them joy.


They have provided you things that bring you joy


Unless those things bring harm to others.


What they are doing helps them feel fulfilled in life.


those things cause negative consequences to themselves or others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to use racist language.

You belong to the race in question and want to reclaim the slurs.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to use racist language.

You don't belong to the race in question.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to use racist language.


Hypothesis: It is good to share.

You're sharing a sexually transmitted infection.


Hypothesis: It is good to share.


Hypothesis: It is good to share.

What you are sharing is a contagious disease.


Hypothesis: It is good to share.

you can help someone and its easy for you


not wanting to pay for a hotel room that I won't be staying in

It's understandable to want to avoid paying for something you won't use.

You're trying to refuse to pay taxes to help support public education.


It's being advertised on a late-night infomercial.


It is something that you are going to give it to a loved one.


You are tight on money and need to save.


It's for auto insurance, you never know if you might need it someday.


You don't have enough money for it and you have more pressing needs.


resenting my father for what (might be) a trivial issue

You shouldn't resent people for trivial things.


Your previous reconciliation efforts have failed.


They are sick and don't have much longer to live.


The seemingly trivial thing resulted in you suffering serious consequences.


Their small mistake didn't result in any harm to you.


being mad at my dogsitter for their dog attacking mine

Hypothesis: People should honor their contracts.


Hypothesis: People should honor their contracts.


Hypothesis: People should honor their contracts.

Your signature was forged on the contract


Hypothesis: People should honor their contracts.

the contract was unfair to begin with and they were being taken advantage of.


Hypothesis: People should honor their contracts.

Their contracts have already been voided


letting my parents know they ruined my night

Hypothesis: It's OK to stand up for yourself.


Hypothesis: It's OK to stand up for yourself.

you are tired of being picked on for no reason.


Hypothesis: It's OK to stand up for yourself.

It will draw attention to others who are innocent and will then be persecuted because of your actions.


Hypothesis: It's OK to stand up for yourself.

Your rights have been violated and no one else speaks up for you.


Hypothesis: It's OK to stand up for yourself.


Hypothesis: It's OK to stand up for yourself.

You know that you are fully in the wrong.


Hypothesis: It's OK to stand up for yourself.

You know that you are being treated unfairly.


Hypothesis: It's OK to stand up for yourself.

you know it will make problems in your group and you can take the hit.


Hypothesis: It's OK to stand up for yourself.

People are making your life harder by putting you down.


getting together with the old best friend of a girl I dated

Hypothesis: It's bad to date a friend's ex.


Hypothesis: It's bad to date a friend's ex.


Hypothesis: It's bad to date a friend's ex.

You have full support from your friend to date their ex.


Hypothesis: It's bad to date a friend's ex.

Your friend's ex cheated on them with you.


Hypothesis: It's bad to date a friend's ex.

Your friend isn't possessive of people they're no longer dating.


Hypothesis: It's bad to date a friend's ex.

Your friend left that person because they were physically abusive.


telling my friend, who was falsely accused of sexual assault at work, to not contact my contacts without asking me first

It is okay to be cautious is uncertain situations.

You have to make a quick decision to avoid an accident


You are a combat soldier and your commanding officer told you to go in there and shoot the enemy, no matter what.


You are walking across a field filled with land mines.


going out with a girl my friend was trying to date

You don't need approval from your friends to date someone

You consistently choose horribly toxic relationships when left to your own devices.


Their own relationships are constantly miserable.


they know you're dating a criminal and you don't.


Your friends don't know the person you're dating.


They disapprove of all of your relationships.


You are an adult and make your own choices.


Hypothesis: You should be polite to your neighbors.


Hypothesis: You should be polite to your neighbors.

You want to build a relationship with the neighborhood.


Hypothesis: You should be polite to your neighbors.

Your neighbor is a convicted child molester.


Hypothesis: You should be polite to your neighbors.

You are going to live there for a long time.


Hypothesis: You should be polite to your neighbors.

Your neighbors were welcoming to you upon moving in.


Hypothesis: You should be polite to your neighbors.

You're not moving anytime soon and will have to deal with them for years.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell others to divorce.

You know one of them is abusive to the other.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell others to divorce.

They have children and their problems could easily be resolved.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell others to divorce.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell others to divorce.

You're just an acquaintance to the people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell others to divorce.

They say the only problem is that they feel vaguely unfulfilled.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell others to divorce.

They are in a loving and caring marriage


preparing a sandwich for my so and spitting on it when they make me mad

It is wrong to express anger in a childish way.


You're at a meeting in front of your boss and coworkers.


you are a child and do not know any better.


you are a grown adult that is supposed to be mature.


You are a child who has not learned yet.


stealing' food to feed a hungry elephant

Hypothesis: It is good to care for animals.


Hypothesis: It is good to care for animals.


Hypothesis: It is good to care for animals.

They are other people's animals and their responsibility.


Hypothesis: It is good to care for animals.

You can see they have nobody to take care of them.


wanting to join Civil Air Patrol when my girlfriend is already in it

It is okay to have dreams of your own, even if someone else has the same ones.

there's only one job position available and the other person is the one who told you about it.


you can work together to achieve the goal.


Your dreams involve becoming a genocidal dictator.


Your dreams involve helping other people.


You exploit the other person to make your dreams reality


there is no way for the dream to come true for both people.