the dream can be fulfilled for more than one person.


arguing with my depressed friend who lashes at me

It's wrong to lash out at someone simply because you are depressed.

You are a child and are still learning how to control your feelings.


This person is your therapist and told you to say whatever comes into your head.


They are cruel and you need to get a word in.


You're desperate for some emotional support and don't know how to get it.


You're lashing out at other depressed people.


The person has urged you to get it out of your system.


The other person is very supportive to you.


setting boundaries in my transitional housing apartment

Hypothesis: It's good to set boundaries.


Hypothesis: It's good to set boundaries.


Hypothesis: It's good to keep people's secret.

The secret is that the person is going to harm themself.


Hypothesis: It's good to keep people's secret.


Hypothesis: It's good to keep people's secret.

Your child asked you not to tell their sibling about the birthday present they made.


Hypothesis: It's good to keep people's secret.

A crime has been committed that needs to be told


It is unsafe to cross the street at the wrong time.


The street is a remote rural road that rarely has any cars on it.


yelling at my mom about how she treats me

Hypothesis: It is wrong to yell at your mother.

She is about to get hit by a falling object.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to yell at your mother.

You want to maintain a good relationship with her.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to yell at your mother.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to yell at your mother.

She is about to fall into an open manhole cover.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to yell at your mother.

It is the day of her wedding anniversary.


leaving my friends house early because of their dog

You should try to get along with other people's pets.


You want to visit the person and are going to be near the pet.


The person's pets are  trying to bite you.


you like to hang around with that person.


not defending white my s/o for saying the n-word

You should stick up for your significant other, even when they say inappropriate things.


They were defending you in a dangerous situation.


not allowing my friend's so to come on our trip

You should talk with your friend if you want to do something just with them.

Your friend is grounded and their parents have their phone


you're willing to go alone with the crowd.


You are planning something special as a surprise.


You want them to stay your friend for a long time.


Your friend wants to have space from you.


Your friend is easily embarrassed in front of others.


You're planning a surprise party for them.


You want to make sure they are available for the activity you have planned.


ghosting my long time friends over jokes

It is reasonable to be angry what friend if they ignore you.

The friend was experiencing an emergency.


They're away at an unexpected family funeral.


They've been ignoring you for two weeks despite spending lots of time socializing with your other friends.


They are in the hospital getting cancer treatment.


You always answer their phone calls and texts.


telling my friend/ra to stop talking about their weight/body image issues around me

It is expected that you listen to your friends problems

Your friend never listens to your solutions.


Your friend needs you as a sounding board.


Your friend never listens to your problems.


They always let you talk about your issues.


they need to get things off their chest.


lying to the friend I play with the most to play once with my other friend who I don't want to play with

Friends are expected to be honest with each other.

Telling the truth puts someone in physical danger.


Someone is at risk of being hurt if they aren't.


One friend is hiding a surprise for the other friend.


The friend that is speaking is trying to prove they are trustworthy.


They're dealing with something emotional and difficult.


The friends are still getting to know each other.


They've already helped each other through many painful and embarrassing situations.


reporting a neighbor that refuses to leash their dog, saying that it acts aggressive on a leash

You should be ready to face consequences for not following rules.

It causes greater harm to follow the rules.


You are above the law, such as President of the United States.


Following the rule does more harm than not following them.


You end up harming someone for not following the rules.


It's cold-hearted to not loan money to family members when they need help.


They keep borrowing and never make better decisions.


They never pay you back and use it to buy drugs


visiting a friend in Portland and puffing the dab pen on an empty street while walking back to her apartment. she is salty AF now

You shouldn't do things that make your friends mad.

Your friend is an alcoholic and requires an intervention.


Your friend donated a kidney that saved your child's life.


your friends get violent when they are mad.


You want your relationship with your friends to be stronger.


not always having time or wanting to hang with my friends

It's understandable if you don't always want to be with your friends.


It is their graduation and you said you'd be there for them.


You need some alone time after a tragedy.


You are trying to become closer with them


They're extroverts and you're an introvert


You are avoiding them for bigoted reasons.


saying this to my girlfriend as we were breaking up

It's wrong to be hurtful to your partner.


You want to have a happy long-term relationship.


You are defending yourself from your partner.


telling my ASD brother not to go out of his way to help an older, socially aggressive lady shovel

It's not expected that you'll go out of your way to help with shoveling.

The neighbor next door very kindly helped with shoveling during the last snow storm.


The snow storm struck shortly after your broke your ankle.


you're physically incapable of shoveling


You're a fit, young male who isn't doing anything at the time.


You're busy doing something else constructive at the time.


the only other people to help are your elderly parents.


thinking a guy that followed me out of a store to ask if I was single was creepy

It's good to intervene if you see someone stalking a person.


The stalker is acting in a threatening manner toward the other person.


They are playing a game of cops and robbers.


You see the stalker with a knife in their hand.


That person is a undercover police officer.


If someone in your family isn't using something, and you need it, it's fine to take it.

they have not given you prior permission to do so


You have to break in to someone's house to get it.


Someone told you specifically to leave it alone.


wanting to keep my schedule and saying I'll quit if they don't keep it

It is okay to set reasonable boundaries at work

What does this mean? This all depends on meaning and context.


You just started the job and are on a trial period.


You have to share everything with your coworkers.


You are in a crowded office with one desk for two.


The boundaries conflict with your job duties.


The boundaries help you to be more productive at work.


You've been working there for a long time.


Leaving Husband and quickly getting new so

You don't have to remain married to someone you don't like.

You have children together and you know they will suffer if you break up.


that person is doing harmful things to you.


You truly believe in the vow "till death do us part."


telling my father about my cousin's relationship

Informing family about the happenings of others is a way to stay bonded as a family unit.

those happenings would expose a bad deed of another family member.


the family does not generally communicate with each other.


the rest of the family is not speaking to each other


it's a personal secret that nobody else needs to know about.


It results in you speaking more frequently.


asking my boyfriend to kick his ex-girlfriend off of his Netflix account

It's bad form to continue using the Netflix account of an ex.


they took over the responsibility of paying the bill.


The ex asked you not to use the account.


They haven't moved out yet and still owe you rent.


They are a hacker and can track your digital movements.


It's important to spend time with your mother.


You live very far away from your mother.


not wanting to make food for someone even if they pay

It's wrong not to serve a customer who is paying for your services.

You asked another waiter to take your place.


The customer is doing illegal activities in your store.


The customer has been waiting patiently.


You are doing so based on their skin color.


The customer is asking for someone else to serve them.


The customer was quite ill, her companion called an ambulance.


The customer was a long time patron of the diner.


letting my friend cheat from my SAT test

It is wrong to give people an unfair advantage

They are your younger sibling and you want them to win.


You are playing in team sports and could get into trouble.


They could become obnoxious after winning.


You're contending with young children who will get discouraged if they lose all of the time.


If you're doing it out of bigoted beliefs.


blasting my subwoofers in my own parking spot during non quiet hours at my apartment complex

It is rude to make noise that might disturb the neighbors.

It's the middle of the day and they're all at work.


You are trying to drown out your neighbor's noise.


asking for a refund on a phone that was claimed to be unlocked

It's reasonable to demand fairness as a customer.


the product is a necessity, like medicine.


You're being treated differently because of your race.


reporting porn star to CPS and getting their kid taken away

You shouldn't call CPS on people without a good reason.

You have had suspicions for a long time.


There is a chance the children could be taken away.


You have no reason to even suspect wrongdoing.


taking my kids on a 'family' vacation without my husband

It's okay to want to do things with out your significant other sometimes.

The things you want to do involve getting married.


Your partner doesn't enjoy the same hobbies as you.


You love getting back together afterwards.


they really need to be with you for support


you are mad at them and need a healthy break


your significant other will take it personally.


your significant other does things without you.


You have an attachment disorder and cannot overcome it.


Your significant other does things without you regularly.


ending a friendship feels me drowning for years

It is okay to end relationships that are not working out.

One partner is hospitalized with a terminal illness.


Their are no children who will be affected.


The relationship is with your six month old baby with special needs.


You are moving to a new country and will never see that person again.


The relationship in question is one with your young child.


not wanting to be around my girlfriend whilst she's on her period

It's hurtful to avoid your girlfriend when she's on her period.


You tell her that you fine menstruation repulsive.


She snaps at you a lot while menstruating.


Mooching off family members is undesirable.


You have more money than you need already.


It's just temporary because of job loss or medical bills.


You are just being lazy and can be independent if you tried.


You are a child and can't support yourself.


You have a mutual mooching relationship.


You are an adult who should be able to care for yourself.


telling my managers girlfriend that he was cheating on her

Reporting a superior can result in retaliation against you.

You expose fraud and the superior is fired.


You report the superior for something petty.


The report leads to the superior getting fired.


there are whistleblower laws in place to protect you.


your superior is the owner of the company.


the superior gets fired before they can retaliate


privately hoping I'll be unable to breastfeed

There is nothing wrong with keep private thoughts.

it's something that can really help a loved one


The thoughts you're keeping private involve hurting other people.


Your thoughts are about christmas shopping.


By telling someone about the thoughts it would hurt their feelings.


The thoughts are interfering with your work.


being mad at my mom for living Pay Check to pay check

You should get a better job if you live pay check to pay check.

You are very passionate about what you do.


You  are injured and can only do that one job.


A new high paying company opened up near you.


You have great employment options available.


you can't get a better job because you need more education first.


you have the potential to earn more money doing something else.


You are stuck in the cycle of poverty and cannot get to the next rung.


You have the ability to apply for new jobs.


breaking up with my gf because of her tattoos

You shouldn't stain your body with tattoos.


You're an adult and can make your own choices.


You are a child and don't have your parents permission.


You're sure you won't change your mind about the tattoo later.


Your family members or friends will think less of your judgement if you get a tattoo.


continuing to message my ex even though she doesn't reply

It is ok to keep trying to talk to an ex who isn't responding.

The ex has a restraining order against you.


You have children in common with this ex.


You share custody of a child with your ex.


They have a restraining order against you.


If they are court ordered to speak to you about shared custody issues.


You have a court order to not contact them.


Your child together has broken their leg.


not wanting my poor and disabled MIL to live with me

It's wrong not to be there for your family.

The requirements of work preclude your attendance.


You just want to have fun with your friends instead of being with your family.


Your family lives out of town and you cannot get to them.


Your family needs support during trying times.


It's OK that not everyone celebrates Christmas.


You have small children who have been taught if they are good they will get presents from Santa.


giving someone an ultimatum to identify himself online before I do it for him

Hypothesis: Doxxing people is wrong.

You are doxxing a possible criminal to get their name and information out there for law enforcement.


Hypothesis: Doxxing people is wrong.


Hypothesis: Doxxing people is wrong.

They are threatening and harming people.


Hypothesis: Doxxing people is wrong.

They have committed a crime and the information can lead to their arrest.


Hypothesis: Doxxing people is wrong.

They are an agent embedded in a dangerous territory and it compromises their safety.


Hypothesis: Doxxing people is wrong.

You need to locate someone for their own safety.


being annoyed that my boyfriend and I always have to transport the ski equipment

It's good to do your fair share of the work.


Other people are counting on your part of the work.


your work undermines the work of everyone else.


everybody else is doing their fair share too.


You are on vacation and trying to relax.


putting value in partner's social media choices

It's good to care about your partner's choices.

Your partner makes a lot of  choices about things not concerning you.


Your partner's choices affect you directly.


Your partner's choices put you in harm's way.


You want to show your partner your support them.


No one else is supportive of your partner.


the choices are about something illegal.


you want to support your partner's decisions.


breaking things off with a girl, causing bad stuff for her

It is wrong to cause harm to a significant other


it prevents them from harming someone else


You want the relationship to last a long time.


breaking up with a girl who brought a Knife into our sex life

It is okay to set boundaries within a relationship.

The pardner is already a well-regulated person, without tendency toward excess.


They have Borderline Personality Disorder.


Your partner has snooped through your stuff


The other person doesn't accept your boundaries.


The other person is prone to crossing boundaries.


You disrespect your partner's boundaries.


You want to have your partner understand your needs.


not wanting to do chores when I get home

It's bad to let your house get too messy.

You are hosting a college party with lots of beer and food.


You are about to host a very formal dinner party.


You have a career that requires most of your attention.


You are clinically diagnosed with hoarding


You live with roommates with dust allergies.


siding with a (kinda) flakey player over my boyfriend and our dungeon master

It's okay to be on the same side as someone who others consider a little weird.

the person is only weird for the attention.


That weirdness is really a cover for abusiveness.


It is harmful to others to be on their side.


The other person is also a very bad person.


That person is trying to do the right thing.


cutting ties with family over past events

It's wrong to not let go of the past with people you are close with.


They are continuing to abuse you in some way.


They have expressed remorse and have acted the right way since.


The bone of contention is no longer relevant to any of the parties.


The thing you're upset about happened recently and you need more time to process it.


Over a decade has passed since the thing you're upset about.


Hypothesis: It's acceptable to want some alone time


Hypothesis: It's acceptable to want some alone time

You live with three other people but only have two bedrooms


Hypothesis: It's acceptable to want some alone time

You sit at home all day and refuse to work.


Hypothesis: It's acceptable to want some alone time

You are constantly busy with work and the kids.


Hypothesis: It's acceptable to want some alone time

You have a child who needs immediate attention.


Hypothesis: It's acceptable to want some alone time

you haven't arranged for somebody to take care of your children while you have the alone time.


Hypothesis: It's acceptable to want some alone time

you haven't had a break in the entire month.


Hypothesis: It's acceptable to want some alone time

You are at work and have to interact with customers.


expecting family who comes to visit our 3 month old to help us around the house as well

It's good to visit the kids of your family.


They are estranged and want nothing to do with you.


You have always been a close-knit family.


telling my wife that she looks good bigger

It's very inappropriate to comment on a woman's weight.


You are weighing her in a doctor's office.


She has asked you directly for a comment.


getting mad at my brother when he does dumb stuff and my parents turn a blind eye

It's not okay to be mad at someone just because they get on your nerves.

The other person is playing the recorder outside your dorm room at 6am on the morning of your final exam.


Your friend is trying to help you study for an exam.


you feel closer to them when they get on your nerves.


They are bothering you on purpose and being a bully.


They are trying to be supportive about something.


It is good to attempt to help other people out.


You're inserting yourself in a situation where you were not asked to help.


You have the time and resources to help.


You'll only hurt yourself in the process


not wanting to fill a role for a last minute dropout in my school play

It shows character to step up to an unforeseen challenge.

The challenge is impossible and a losing proposition.


It's a challenge that will help you grow as a person.


The challenge involves sticking up for a friend


You're challenged because you were caught doing something illegal and you're avoiding the law.


By doing so you're making yourself vulnerable.


not staying home when my husband was sick

It's fine to not want to be near someone who is sick.


You are recovering from illness yourself.


You are a doctor and they are your patient


being upset with my wife for going out clubbing with her girlfriends, but she leaves her ring at home so she can get "free drinks"

You shouldn't lie about being married just to get free drinks.

How would being married get someone free drinks?


the drink prices are rediculously overpriced.


You're married to somebody else who isn't there.


You don't have any money on you to pay for drinks.


The bartender knows the real story and blows your cover.


sassing an old lady who asked me if I was going to clean up after my dog

Hypothesis: It's wrong to be rude to others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be rude to others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be rude to others.

The other person is rude and hostile to you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be rude to others.

The other person takes care and supports you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to be rude to others.

You are an employee dealing with customers.


calling out a girl for always trying to condescend me

Hypothesis: It's bad to be condescending.

The other person is being a very mean person.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be condescending.

The child is asking their parent a simple question.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be condescending.

The other person does not understand and needs to be told what is right.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be condescending.

Your are demeaning and disrespectful to the other person.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be condescending.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be condescending.

They have been guilty of talking down to you in the past.


Hypothesis: It's bad to be condescending.

They have gone out of their way to be kind to you previously.


not helping my brother with his vet bills

If you have a pet you need to make sure you can afford it.


you have other financial obligations you'd be taking money away from that are more important.


You have plenty of extra spending money.


You are on a budget for your own needs and expenses.


You rescued the animal and you're planning to take them to the shelter.


not going overseas after my gf's mum passed away

It's good not to take trips when something traumatic has happened in your partner's life.

You are taking your partner on the trip to cheer them up.


You are taking a trip alone and leaving a vulnerable partner alone.


you need the trip to escape the reality for just a little while.


they are struggling to deal with their new reality.


Your partner says they want to get away from the place where the trauma happened.


Your partner says that their home is the only place they feel safe.


It's a vacation meant to be romantic yet they can no longer travel


Your pardner needs time alone to sort things out.


They are emotionally fragile and need constant support.


telling my bf that some things he says and/or does feels demeaning/degrading to me

It's healthy to ask for basic respect and decency from a romantic partner.

You never give it to them in the first place


You have both committed to the relationship.


You want to have a long-lasting relationship


Your last relationship left you emotionally scarred.


Your partner wants to continue having a strong bond with you.


It is expected to have privacy even in a relationship.


You want to be in a healthy relationship.


You live with your significant other in a one room apartment that is very small.


You get embarrassed easily due to a previous incident.


You are very open to others about all aspects of your relationship.


You keep all other aspects of your life very private.


All passwords are shared between parties.


blocking a woman I have been talking to for two weeks, asking repeatedly for a little bit of her time to actually go out and do something and she always has a excuse not to

It's understandable to cut off contact with someone who keeps blowing you off.


You are married to them and live in the same house.


their phone has been turned off and they can't get ahold of you.


you have tried every method to get ahold of them.


The other person is blowing you off because her child has cancer and she has to stay at the hospital with him.


The other person invited all of your closest friends to a party but excluded you.


The person is an acquaintance you don't know well.


You should work hard if you want to meet your goals.

Your goals are to live a relaxed and low stress life.


Your goals don't require you to work hard.


You want to sponge off your parents forever.


You want to graduate college and have a good career.


not wanting to work to cover a coworkers shift after a 73 hour work week

You shouldn't expect others to cover for you at work.


You offer to cover for them in return at a later date.


You are slacking off instead of doing your work.


you don't get along with your co-workers.


walking down a flight of stairs to avoid a disabled homeless man

It's understandable to want to avoid people that make you uncomfortable.


The person is invading your personal space after you have asked them to move back.


They are police with a warrant for your arrest.


You have a restraining order against them.


The reason you're uncomfortable is because you're a bigot.


They have been abusive to you in the past.


being mad at my MIL for thinking I have an eating disorder

You should be appreciative when people try to help you.


They think they're helping but they are really causing harm.


You explicitly asked them not to help you and they did it anyway.


You could not accomplish the task without their assistance.


you didn't ask for the help and they are invading your personal space.


not wanting to be a shoulder to cry on constantly

It is rude to be unwilling to listen to your friend when they are going through a hard time


You are feeling under the weather and need to sleep.


Your friend is always there when you need them.


that friend asked you not to listen to them while they try to get sober cold turkey.


that friend was there for you when you needed to talk


they recently helped you through a hard time.


leaving my employer a year after completing a $240k scholarship they gave me

It is okay to search for better work opportunities.


You have signed a long-term contract with your current job.


you have a contract with a company and breaking it would be bad for you.


you work a dead-end job with no benefits.


you are under qualified for your current job


you are overqualified for your current job


you made a promise to your employer not to


having a hysterical fit after blocking my bf's friends

Hypothesis: Express yourself to ease the pain.

Those around you are also in pain and your professings will only be a burden to them.


Hypothesis: Express yourself to ease the pain.

You are at risk of becoming clinically depressed by keeping silent.


Hypothesis: Express yourself to ease the pain.

Physically expressing yourself is what caused the pain.


Hypothesis: Express yourself to ease the pain.


Hypothesis: Express yourself to ease the pain.

You need to signal to others you are in trouble.


Hypothesis: Express yourself to ease the pain.

There are good and constructive ways to ease the pain.


Hypothesis: Express yourself to ease the pain.

Holding the pain in is very harmful to you.


stopping talking to a guy I've been seeing because he's struggling so much

Some people's problems are too much for a person and it's OK to avoid them.

It's your partner since you should always be there for them.


You have too many of your own problems to think about.


You know they might cause harm to themself or others.


You can get some help from someone to take care of these problems.


These problems will go away without your intervention.


It is your responsibility to address them


It is something that will go away on its own


Hypothesis: It is understandable to want alone time


Hypothesis: It is understandable to want alone time

You are spending time with your family for a BBQ.


Hypothesis: It is understandable to want alone time

You have to study for an important test.


Hypothesis: It is understandable to want alone time

You've been asking friends for company all day.


Hypothesis: It is understandable to want alone time

You are exhausted and need time to recharge.


telling my mom that her always drinking out of the family milk and juice containers was nasty and disgusting

It's wrong to drink out of milk and juice containers and not use a glass.


Someone else in the house would use the milk or juice without knowing.


You are sharing that drink with other people in the house.


other people share the milk and juice with you.


Hypothesis: It's good to help your child out.


Hypothesis: It's good to help your child out.

They don't understand how to do something.


Hypothesis: It's good to help your child out.

Your child is an adult now who can make their own decisions.


Hypothesis: It's good to help your child out.

Your child has a big project due for school.


Hypothesis: It's good to help your child out.

Your child needs to learn something on their own that would be helpful to them.


Hypothesis: It's good to help your child out.

They are having a problem that only you can solve.


not wanting to go to my friend's house ever again

It is okay not to hang around people you do not like.

Those people are your under-aged children.


You are required to for a work function.


they make you uncomfortable to be around.


It'd okay to insist that even those close to you contribute a fair amount.

They are just going through a rough patch in life


Those around you are all minor children.


Those around you are all adult members of a household.


You are a millionaire and they have no money


thinking my best friend owes me an explanation for ghosting me

It is ok to ghost a friend if the relationship is toxic or puts you in harms way.


they are trying to involve you in things you don't agree with.


They are a close friend, or relative, and they really need your help.


You really weren't that close to begin with.


calling out my friend for what I consider to be really disrespectful behaviour

You should not engage in something that someone may consider disrespectful.

No one will know about it and it will harm no one.


The action taken would save another person's life.


You are trying to remain friends with that person.


it is to shove someone out of the way of a speeding train


that someone is your boss who could fire you


It's not any of that other person's business and you're in private.


You're in public and want to give a Nazi salute


bringing it up to my boyfriend that he hasn't bought me a birthday gift

It is not acceptable to make someone buy you a present.

You promised them buying them something for their birthday.


The person cannot afford to buy anything.


They have asked you to write a list of things that you want.


They owe your something for your birthday.


not letting girlfriend drink on new years

It is illegal for you to serve your friend alcohol at any event if they are legally not of age.

It is their 21st birthday party the day before they turn 21.


They tend to drink too much and have problems with addiction.


The law provides an exemption for the specific type of event.


You are on vacation in a country with a lower drinking age.


It is a private dinner at their home and their parents don't mind them having a sip of wine.


Ending a friendship with a long term friend can be hurtful and mean.


Your friend has always been good to you and you are breaking off the friendship for no reason.


Your friend considers you their best friend


They only like you because you spend money on them.


They don't have a lot of other friends to rely on.


It is honest to tell your friends about quitting a sport.

They never knew you played the sport to begin with.


They only joined the team because you did.


You use the sport as an excuse to avoid playing a sport you hate with them.


You want to maintain a trusting relationship with them.


They ask if you're still playing the sport.


They are expecting you to join their team


complaining about being tired to my pregnant wife

It's okay to complain about something to someone.

You are complaining about something nice they've done for you.


They like to commiserate and complain about it too.


The complaint is petty and they have more important things to worry about.


They are in a position to help you with the complaint.


it's something they need to be warned about


The person you're complaining to is very busy.


The person you're complaining to is a therapist.


It's not okay to judge people by their situation in life or appearance.

They are able to improve their situation or appearance with a little effort.


They've simply fallen on hard time through no fault of their own.


You know irst hand what they are going through.


You are their friend and should be supporting them.


They are very sick with a disease and cannot help it.


asking my wife to pay attention to me while out with her friends

It is addable to not want to cheat on your wife.


she has not treated you well for a long time.


You have children together and don't want to ruin the relationship for them.


Generalization includes a word that doesn't make sense.


You are separated and getting a divorce.


throwing away my kids school homework/projects/other items

Hypothesis: It's fine to clear out unwanted things.

These things will be wanted by family members.


Hypothesis: It's fine to clear out unwanted things.

These things are useless and no one has any need for them.


Hypothesis: It's fine to clear out unwanted things.


immediately rebounding with a friend after my boyfriend cheats on me

Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on your partner.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat on your partner.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people.

Their ex would have to see them if you invited them.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people.

You're excluding the person from an activity they really love.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people.

You know that they wouldn't have fun if they joined you.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people.

You already invited them to go with you.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to exclude people.

They are good friends who include you in things.


not siding with my girlfriend when her dad wouldn't buy her ice cream

Parent's should want to do nice things for their kids.


They want to raise their kids in a loving environment.


Their kids are spoiled and never say thank you.


the kids are rotten and are being punished.


Their children have been stealing form them.


not wanting to talk about my friend being a furry with her

You shouldn't hide things about your friends.

It is a secret you promised your friend you would not reveal.


You are surrounded by Yankees fans but you and your friends are Red Sox fans.


They told you they are about to commit a heinous crime.


It's embarrassing and they trusted you to stay quiet.


The hidden information could help solve a crime.


You should always go to important family events.

You live in a different state or country.


Your immediate family members are having a wedding or funeral.


You are taking the bar exam that same day.


Your grandparents are old and you are their favorite grandchild.


Your family has abandoned you years ago.


winding up my boss about a publicly rejected Christmas present

Hypothesis: It's rude to reject a gift.


Hypothesis: It's rude to reject a gift.


Hypothesis: It's rude to reject a gift.

The gift is of a sexual nature and makes you uncomfortable.


Hypothesis: It's rude to reject a gift.

You already own that gift and don't want the giver to waste their money.


Hypothesis: It's rude to reject a gift.

Your grandmother is giving you the gift.


Hypothesis: It's rude to reject a gift.

You know the person couldn't afford the gift.


Hypothesis: It's rude to reject a gift.

It's a gift of food and you are allergic.


Hypothesis: It's rude to reject a gift.

They spent a lot of time making it themselves.


Hypothesis: It's bad to sell drugs.


Hypothesis: It's bad to sell drugs.

You are selling very dangerous and illegal drugs.


Hypothesis: It's bad to sell drugs.

You work in a pharmacy and they help people's illnesses.


Hypothesis: It's bad to sell drugs.

You sell illegal drugs on the street which ruin countless lives.


Hypothesis: It's bad to sell drugs.

The drugs you're selling aren't illegal.


Hypothesis: It's bad to sell drugs.

The drugs you're selling can kill someone.


not letting my brother in law stay with us

People are expected to take care of their family.


Their family has moved to get away from them.


Their family has no other source of income.


Their family is perfectly capable of taking care of themselves


They have small children who need their parents.


It's not okay to mooch off of your parents.

You were in a bad car accident and can't work.


They lost their money recently in a bad scam.


They want you to put all your efforts into your schooling.


You are self-supporting and don't live with them.


They are helping you through mental illness.


not wanting to have to pay my father for a car that the person tried to give to him for free, but he insisted on paying for anyway

It's good to pay for things even if someone is trying to give it to you for free.


They don't realize the value of what they're giving you.


They're trying to establish a friendship with you.


The money will be used to help fund a charity.


hey are giving you a gift for a special occasion, such as your birthday or Christmas.


They are a criminal expecting quid pro quo.


The other people are trying to earn a living


It is someone who cares about you and you are hurting their feelings by refusing their gift.


You are in a foreign country and don't know all the customs.


not wanting a gay doctor to look at my genitals

A patient not wanting to be tended to because of your sexual preference is hurtful and ignorant.

They are very sick and it is their last dying wish.


You are the only one with the expertise to treat them.


You made remarks that made the patient feel uncomfortable.


You treated them like any other patient.


declining my (caring) mother visiting me because she's clingy and I don't like living with her

It's okay to not want to live with your family.


You're a young adult anxious to get out into the world and be on your own.


You need support because you don’t have enough money to live on your own


You are old and mature enough to move out


They are paying for all of your stuff including rent.


calling security on my long distance, military girlfriend

It's childish to be passive aggressive in a relationship.

You don't know how else to get through to your partner.


You aren't being serious when you do it.


You have actual issues you want to address with your partner.


You are joking around with your partner about things.


You are arguing about something very serious.


your partner does not respond to mature criticism


your partner is enraged by such behavior


Hypothesis: It is bad to betray your friend

Your friend committed an illegal act and you turned them into the police.


Hypothesis: It is bad to betray your friend

Your friend is a good person and has never wronged you.


Hypothesis: It is bad to betray your friend


Hypothesis: It is bad to betray your friend

They trusted you with extremely personal information and you told someone else.


Hypothesis: It is bad to betray your friend

You didn't realize you were betraying them.


Hypothesis: It is bad to betray your friend

Your spouse threatened to leave you otherwise.


Hypothesis: It is bad to betray your friend

They are also your sick grandmother's nurse.


playfully scaring my girlfriend and lying about it

Playing tricks on loved ones is a fun thing to do.


They have said they do not like having tricks played on them.


That is part of your family's love language.


They do not enjoy having tricks played on them.


It is a baby who will not understand the joke.


Your loved ones are suffering from an illness.


If your girlfriend wants you to not do something that you want to do you should talk to her and explain why you think it is important you be able to do it.


You want to keep trust in the relationship


It's inconsiderate to act out in your teacher's classroom.

You are doing so as part of a class performance.


The teacher is giving a lecture and wants total quiet.


You are taking part in a play in the classroom.


thinking my cousin is selfish for trying for a baby

It's wrong to think someone is selfish just barbecue they want children.

You know they only care about the tax deductions.


The sentence doesn't make sense, it is supposed to be 'because' not barbecue.


knocking on my roommates door at night?l and getting his meds changed

You shouldn't disturb your roommates at night.


not engaging with guys I sort of know when passing in the street

It's acceptable to pretend you don't notice somebody in order to avoid embarrassment.


You have anxiety and can’t handle another anxiety attack


That person is a police officer who is looking for you.


You were previously in a relationship with the person.


You are meeting that person where you are.


You are not really friends to begin with.


They come right up to you and talk to you.


You would be avoiding embarrassment for both of you.


filing a charge back against an artist who got my character wrong

It's wrong to try to get revenge on others for petty things.

You're playing pranks on your friends to get back at them.


You don't really gain anything in the end.


It's been going on for years and they won't stop otherwise.


It's been a build up of small things for years.


They aren’t sorry for what they did to you


They will move to bigger transgressions if not confronted.


They apologized and gave you an expensive watch.


being upset that I got ghosted by (what I consider) close friends

It is rude to not respond a to a friend if they are trying to get in touch with you.


You have read their messages and are not busy.


You borrowed something and they need it back


Hypothesis: You shouldn't pity yourself.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't pity yourself.

Your problems are the direct result of what other people have done to you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't pity yourself.

You are the one responsible for your problems.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't pity yourself.

You're having the worst day of your life.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't pity yourself.

There's still goals to accomplish and work to be done.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't pity yourself.

life has given your many things to be thankful for.


telling my girlfriend to get rid of her rescue dog

It's bad to tell someone to get rid of a pet that was rescued.

You're the owner ot eh house that the person lives in.


The person needs the animal as an emotional support.


They can't provide a good home for the pet.


The pet is showing signs of harming a human.


The pet has already bonded with the person.


The pet bit your new baby and training classes have failed.


The pet is part of your family and just as important as a human.


They really love the pet and are attached to it.


getting pissed at my husband for repeatedly bringing up his inability to drink after he told me he would stop

It's okay to get mad with someone if they won't stop a bad behavior.

The person is clinically insane and housed at a mental hospital.


The person is your spouse who keeps ending up in jail.


They cannot help the bad behavior, for instance, they have a Tourette's tic.


That behavior endangers others, like drunk driving.


They are a young child and don't understand what they are doing is wrong.


You shouldn't let other people pay for your things.


You were the last one to pay for dinner.


They owe you because you paid for their things previously.


Paying for your things will cause them financial distress.


It's not cool to have sex with a friend's ex-partner.


The friend has moved on to another relationship.


Your friend explicitly told you it would be okay


The friend gave you the go ahead to begin with.


You know that person was toxic to your friend.


telling my girlfriend that her calling me is boring

It's okay to contact your significant other through different means.

You are obsessively contacting them across all platforms.


They have asked you not to contact them.


You have lost their number and need to get a hold of them.


They are lost with only a phone on them.


not giving into my older roommate's demands about my gf

It is considerate to respect your roommates wishes.

Your roommate wishes to parade around naked when you bring your parents over.


Your roommate wishes you would do the dishes once in a while.


They wish for you to accompany them on a crime spree.


They cook and clean for you on a daily basis.


Your roommate has been very respectful toward you.


You shouldn't keep in contact with an ex if you're married.


Your spouse has approved the friendship.


You are doing it behind your spouse's back.


They were your first marriage and you have children with them.


Your ex is now married to the head of a notorious gang.


You have a history of cheating on your partners.


exposing my friend on social media for saying the n-word

Sometimes people say very rude things they don't mean because they're insecure.

This is a statement of fact, not a generalization that can be argued.


They are just trying to be jerks to troll


Those people come from messed up households


You've always been rude to them in the past.


They're jealous of you and want what you have.


They are in a competition with people twice their size.


They don't actually care about being mean.


People are expected to value friendship and do everything they can to nurture it.

They work alone at a lighthouse for most of the year.


You are the only one in the friendship that is making an effort.


Your friend is feeling down because of a medical procedure and needs a shoulder to cry on.


you want to maintain the friendship for a lifetime


making a Go fund me for an Island Getaway with my brother

It's ok to skip vacations if you can't afford them.

It's the only time the entire family will be together for years.


Your hard work will lead to better vacations.


You already made a non-refundable deposit.


clocking out when I told my boss I would

It's good to keep others informed of your plans.


Your plans do not involve them in any way.


They are counting on you to be somewhere at a certain time.


wanting my housemate's girlfriend to leave – even though he's only just come back from abroad

Everyone who lives in the house should have an equal say in who spends the night.


Your 15 year old son wants his 17 year old girlfriend to stay the night.


All roommates names are on the lease and divide costs equally.


Unless they're adult children who are living off their parents.


Especially if they are adult children who are paying room and board.


Everyone who lives in the house splits the rent equally.


wanting to schedule calls with my friend

Its normal for friends to want to talk to each other.


They have not seen each other in a long time


It is late at night and they are sleeping.


They haven't spoken to each other in a long time.


The friends haven't seen each other in a long time.


not wanting my girlfriend to wear her ex's jacket

It's expected that you won't wear your ex's clothing.

You bought matching outfits that get easily mixed up in the laundry.


You shared a lot of outfits with your ex.


All of your clothes were ruined in a natural disaster.


You are meeting their new significant other.


You and your ex are the exact same size and style


getting mad at my sister being late to getting picked up

Hypothesis: It is rude to leave someone waiting.

You are stuck behind a traffic accident and can't get there.


Hypothesis: It is rude to leave someone waiting.

You just didn't bother to leave on time.


Hypothesis: It is rude to leave someone waiting.

You called ahead of time and let them know that you would be late.


Hypothesis: It is rude to leave someone waiting.


Hypothesis: It is rude to leave someone waiting.

You have a car accident and can't make it to your meeting.


Hypothesis: It is rude to leave someone waiting.

You're late because you didn't want to stop playing video games.


Hypothesis: It is rude to leave someone waiting.

You have told them you're sorry and they should order something as an appetizer, your treat.


Hypothesis: It is rude to leave someone waiting.

You set a specific time to meet that was already an inconvenience for the other person.


sleeping through THANKSGIVING dinner also ordering a pizza after thanksgiving dinner

It's okay to not really be involved in something that isn't important to you.


Is serves a larger purpose like a job or a friend.


Your significant other has asked you to be involved.


You take your husband to a hockey game and he spends the whole time on his cell phone.


Your friend understands it may not be a movie genre you enjoy, but you are willing to give it a try


cutting a person out of my life because she keeps making the same mistakes

It is your right to remove toxic people from your life.

You are a small child and can’t do anything about it


Your job requires interacting with toxic people, such as a prison guard.


They are causing problems that make your life difficult.


The person is a close family member who is trying to get psychological help.


They are physically or emotionally abusive.


not telling my so that I had changed dinner plans

It's wrong not to tell someone that you changed plans.


they suggested the change and made the arrangements.


they will have to pay more with the new plans.


being upset that I didn't receive anything from work for my surgery

It's okay to be upset if you didn't get something from work.


You were never offered the thing you wanted from work.


You were told you had been awarded something at work.


Another coworker got the prize for selling more than you


There will be other opportunities to get it


You didn't work hard enough to deserve it in the first place.


not planning to bring my boyfriend along on this trip

It is expected that you will bring your significant other on vacation with you.

You and your significant other have agreed to take separate vacations.


The vacation is to celebrate a special relationship milestone.


Your significant other has a major deadline at work in a few weeks.


You book a double bed in your hotel room.


Your significant other already has plans of their own or you are going on a special man's only retreat.


You want to cherish your partner and make them feel loved and secure.


You are attending your sister's bachelorette party.


Your significant other is paying for the trip.


wanting my brother to stop rapidly changing the subject without acknowledging what I previously said

It's okay to change the subject if the person you're talking to talks too long.

They are sharing important information with everything they are saying.


They are talking about something gross or offensive.


They have a speech impairment and it's difficult for them to speak.


They keep reiterating the same things they've been saying.


The person is trying to express their feelings to you.


You are unable to get a word in edgewise


The person you're talking to is a police officer.


getting mad at my mom for making my neighbors pay me less for dog sitting

When your kids are working, you should treat them like adults.


they are getting a regular work schedule.


They are doing their share to contribute around the house.


The children are still in elementary school.


not wanting to go to my cousin's wedding across the country

Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to travel far.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to travel far.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to travel far.

You have a job that requires you to travel.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to travel far.

You have small children  who can;t go and no dependable babysitter.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to travel far.

You've been invited to your best friend's wedding across the country.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to travel far.

You're unable to go out often due to a disability.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to travel far.

an emergency requires you to be somewhere else.


getting pissed that my SO told his mom about my mental health without my permission

Hypothesis: It's good to respect your SO's wishes.

Their wishes make you feel so uncomfortable that you feel ill or sick.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your SO's wishes.

You want your SO to feel loved and respected and it doesn't hurt you.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your SO's wishes.

Their wishes are to harm another human being.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your SO's wishes.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your SO's wishes.

Your SO is making a simple request, like do the dishes later.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your SO's wishes.

They are using you or harming you in any way.


Hypothesis: It's good to respect your SO's wishes.

It leads to further loving your children.


not letting girlfriend drink on new years

It is understandable if you help your significant other avoid social events that serve lots of alcohol if you are helping that person stick to their no-drinking commitment.


The social event is for business purposes and could lead to a promotion.


The social events are purely recreational.


Their old drinking friends, who still drink, will be there.


They are several years sober and still cannot take accountability for their drinking.


being upset with my friend for lacking boundaries with my boyfriend? update

You shouldn't get involved with your friend's partner.


You want to strengthen your existing friendship.


It's bad to withhold medication from people who need it.


They're abusing it and you're trying to protect them from themselves.


They might become really ill without it.


There is a short supply and other people are more critical.


They are in the hospital and in severe pain.


The medication is being recalled for safety issues.


The people who need their medication will begin experiencing withdrawals soon.


not always having time or wanting to hang with my friends

It's expected that you will spend time with your friends.


They've all been sent to prison and you're still free.


You all have several classes at school together.


You have to work when they are hanging out.


not wanting to do optional social things at work

It's important to keep your work life separate from your social life.

Your work friends are also your social friends.


Your spouse does not like it when you bring your work home.


Especially if work interferes with your family time.


Your work life is professional but you enjoy a casual social life.


You are good friends with your coworkers.


Your coworkers are in a position of authority over you.


wanting to propose to my gf, without a diamond ring

It's okay to want to propose to your significant other.

Your partner has said they don't want to get married.


Your partner has expressed a desire to get married.


You've been wanting to break up with them.


Your girlfriend has made it clear that she is against the concept of marriage


You have the same values and are in love with each other.


You caught them getting intimate with your brother.


telling my mom to find somewhere else to live

It is expected to take care of your parents.

Your parents resist any attempts by you to take care of them.


Your parents live with you and can't do some things for themselves.


You're making minimum wage and can barely take care of yourself.


You live in a country without a Social Security system.


completely shutting out my depressed/suicidal ex-girlfriend

It's understandable that sometimes it's impossible to stay friends.

You are roommates and see each other daily.


You are busy with your own children and families.


The people live far away from each other


Two people stay close together in the same area growing up.


trying to get my friend out of a relationship

It is wrong to try and break up other people.

You are trying to help an abused partner leave the relationship.


You just want to get with one of the people.


They are in a toxic relationship that should be ended.


telling a teacher about something that my friends did

You should talk to your friends about what they are doing before telling a teacher.

They are carrying a gun on school grounds.


They respect you and might listen to you.


You know they'll beat you up if you confront them about their behavior.


Your friends are doing something that is clearly dangerous.


You're confused about what's going on with your friends.


They are about to light the entire school on fire.


You have been friends with them since childhood.


letting my housemates dog sleep on my bed when shes supposed to sleep with her actual owner

It's not your fault if a roommate's pet likes you more than them.

You go behind your roommates back and are constantly giving their pet treats.


Your roommate does not take good care of them.


You've been secretly feeding the pet treats.


You've done nothing in particular to cause it.


You give the pet treats without the owner knowing.


The owner is never home to take care of the pet.


Hypothesis: It's bad to ditch your date.

Your date is being rude and embarrassing


Hypothesis: It's bad to ditch your date.


Hypothesis: It's bad to ditch your date.

You found out they have severe psychological problems and you don't know what they might do.


Hypothesis: It's bad to ditch your date.

You want to keep dating them in the future.


You shouldn't let someone's sexual identity get in the way of a relationship.


you really do want to be with the other person.


Your close minded family will put them in danger.


handmaking everyone's Christmas gifts this year

When someone gives you a gift, you should always thank them.

The gift is a prank and they are being mean.


You know it embarrasses them to be praised.


They walked through the snow and down 2 blocks to bring you a casserole because you were feeling ill.


They're someone you don't know and they scare you.


They know you well and have put a lot of thought into the gift.


being annoyed that my fiancé runs away every single time he's upset, no matter how little it is? and then acts like nothing ever happened

It's ok to take some time before being ready to talk about a topic.

You're in an emergency and things are time-sensitive


You have to give a report by the end of the day.


You are giving a speech in front of large group of people.


You're currently giving a speech off a teleprompter.


refusing to see my critically ill grandmother

It's understandable that sometimes people have reasons they don't choose to visit a family member.

They are the one who is in the wrong in the situation.


You are familiar with setting boundaries in your personal life.


That family member was always kind and protective of them.


That family member sexually abused them.


The person is on their death bed and is asking for them.


The family member has been disrespectful to them.


both sisters are so stubborn that they refuse to be the first one to visit the other


You know that being around your new brother in law makes you very uncomfortable


They were domestically assaulted by them.


asking to be paid extra for taking care of the family pets

It's good to take care of your family's pets when they need it.


They take care of your pets when you need it.


Especially if they take care of yours when you need it.


Your family is continually taking advantage of you because they know you will to it.


The pets have no one else to take care of them.


choosing not to adopt from shelters if I had children

Hypothesis: It's okay not to want to adopt.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to want to adopt.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to want to adopt.

Adoption is your only option for children.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to want to adopt.

You have been a lifelong supporter of adoption.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to want to adopt.

You want to have your own biological children.


Hypothesis: It's okay not to want to adopt.

You are choosing not to adopt based on a superficial reason


breaking it off with the girl I'm seeing for this reason

It's bad to break up by ghosting someone.


You physically cannot speak or communicate electronically.


You have a double major in communication and English.


The person you're breaking up with physically abused you.


The person you're breaking up with recently proposed to you.


It's not okay to dislike someone just because you get jealous of them.


Unless they just won a jackpot on the machine you just left.


unless they are cheating on you with your partner


You dislike them even when you're not jealous of them.


wanting to be called by my preferred name

It is ok to want to be called by a name you prefer.


You're a baby and your parents have given you a nickname.


You are an adult and don't want to be called anything that you don't like.


Especially if you have a overly common name.


It is okay to voice your emotions to your partner.

You scream them at the top of your lungs.


Something they are doing is hurting you.


They record you talking and share it with their friends.


They always listen and help you to feel better.


Your partner has been less than supportive.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to harm others

You have to harm a few people to save many others, like by testing a new and potentially dangerous treatment for a disease.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to harm others

You're harming them to increase your profits.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to harm others


It is expected for parents to correct their children.

They are too young to understand anything yet.


They are out in public and making a scene.


They are in church and the kids are noisy.


pushing my friends away after they hung out without me and didn't make an attempt to reach out to me when I didn't show up

You should contact your friends and ask them what's wrong if they don't show up for something.

What they didn't show up for is unimportant.


They had said that they didn't want to miss the event.


They always flake out on things so it’s not a big deal


This is the first time they haven’t shown up for something


They texted you to let you know why they weren't there.


The event was supposed to be hosted by the friend.


Hypothesis: It's OK to make a mistake.


Hypothesis: It's OK to make a mistake.

You are still learning how to do something.


Hypothesis: It's OK to make a mistake.

You admit your mistake and learn from it.


Hypothesis: It's OK to make a mistake.

The mistake costs the lives of other people.


It's expected that you not make a pass at someone your friend is attracted to.


Your friend asked you for advice on how to hook up with them.


The other person has no interest in your friend.


The friend is trying to get up the courage to talk to the person.


You do it in front of your friend to compete with them.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ruin your parent's life.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ruin your parent's life.

They are old and can't take care of themselves.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ruin your parent's life.

You have to report them for molesting you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ruin your parent's life.

They have done something that has highly damaged lots of people's lives.


pranking a friend so effectively he had a panic attack

Hypothesis: It's rude to pull pranks on people.

The pranks are in good fun and celebration of someone without hurting them.


Hypothesis: It's rude to pull pranks on people.

You don't know the people well and the pranks can be hurtful.


Hypothesis: It's rude to pull pranks on people.

Your profession is that of a circus clown.


Hypothesis: It's rude to pull pranks on people.


Hypothesis: It's rude to pull pranks on people.

They pranked you that morning by putting a tub of lubricant over a doorway.


Hypothesis: It's rude to pull pranks on people.

They know you are very uncomfortable with pranks


Hypothesis: It's rude to pull pranks on people.

You don't know the people you're pranking.


not helping my brother with his vet bills

You should help out family if they have financial struggles.


Helping them would put too much of a financial strain on you.


Your family has a gambling problem which will drain you of your resources.


They've simply fallen upon hard times and are not addicted to anything.


they've taken advantage of you financially before.


You are having your own financial struggles.


leaving the room once my wife falls asleep on the couch

It's good not to disturb someone that is trying to sleep.


They work night shift and just got home.


The person only just recently fell asleep


not helping my Ex when she was having an emergency

You should help others in times of need.


They are strangers and hopped up on drugs.


They are family members or good friends.


being upset with my wife for going out clubbing with her girlfriends, but she leaves her ring at home so she can get "free drinks"

You shouldn't go out partying with your friends if you're married.

Your spouse is one of the friends you're partying with.


You've cheated on your spouse in the past.


You are giving permission by your spouse.


You have an agreement with your spouse about it.


You promised your spouse to do something together.


It's good to let someone sleep when they are really tired.


They have a high fever and need to take medicine.


They are in a sleep experiment where they can’t sleep


cutting all ties with a friend because she cheated on people in the past

It's wrong to cheat on your significant other.

You know they are cheating on you as well.


You could just break up with them first.


You should respect the property of your school.


Your school was funded with taxpayer money


Your school is giving away some of the property.


The property is garbage marked for disposal.


wanting to break up with my girlfriend because she's jealous, making problems of the smallest things and stuffing like that

It's wrong to break up with someone just because they care about you.


You are of an age to start thinking about a mature, long-term relationship.


You're being hunted by the mafia and they might be targeted.


You've been really happy whenever you've spent time with them.


You were looking for a relationship without a romantic connection.


You began the relationship looking for a romantic connection.


being incredulous/annoyed with my bf for this

Hypothesis: It's okay to be upset at your partner.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be upset at your partner.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be upset at your partner.

You are mad at them for something out of their control, like having a panic attack in a job interview


Hypothesis: It's okay to be upset at your partner.

You have asked them to clean the litter box 3 times and they still haven't done it


Hypothesis: It's okay to be upset at your partner.

You are the one who did something wrong.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be upset at your partner.

They didn't actually do anything to you.


thinking my brother should help pay for the costs of a ticket when I borrowed his car with expired registration and no insurance

It is important to follow traffic laws, even in a borrowed vehicle.


You want to avoid tickets or an accident.


Your wife is going into labor in the backseat


ordering something cheap at an expensive restaurant

You shouldn't go to an expensive restaurant if you can't afford it.

it is for a very, very special occasion.


going to the restaurant means you won't be able to pay important bills.


You and your husband haven't been to a nice restaurant in at least 5 years and it's your 20 year anniversary


The cost of the meal means you have to sacrifice your health insurance or medication


Unless you are being treated by someone who can.


Especially if doing so will make you unable to pay all your monthly bills.


You are paying with a gift card you received for your birthday.


Your credit cards are already maxed out.


It is wrong to interact with a service dog when they are working.

You are the partner of that service dog.


They are helping someone across the street.


The dog comes to you without it's person.


You are the disabled person who owns the service dog.


The disabled person tells you not to touch the dog.


You have been told very clearly that the dog is allowed to interact with you.


making my husband go out on his only day off in a month, while he has a toothache, b/c it's a national holiday here + my birthday

It's fine to expect a partner to treat you special on your birthday.

Your partner doesn't know that it's your birthday.


You've been dropping hints about your birthday.


Making you happy is what makes them happy.


You are always nice to your partner on their birthday


They told you they want to take you out somewhere nice.


You do special things for them on their birthday


turning in a call center worker for contacting me via facebook

It is not okay to be rude to someone for being friendly

You are treating them the way they are treating you


They are doing it to distract you from something critical.


They make you very uncomfortable and unsafe.


The person is trying hard, but seems awkward and uncomfortable.


not buying my infant nephew a Christmas gift

It is okay to not buy and infant relative a gift for Christmas.

your other relatives are buying them gifts.


their parents have asked you not to buy a gift.


You promised the infant's parents that you would buy them something.


The infant's parents are in need of supplies.


being upset / hurt over my friend cancelling plans

It's understandable for people to want to spend time with their friends.

They neglect their responsibilities at work or home to do so.


They live alone and this is their only social interaction.


they are ignoring other responsibilities to do so.


they have said how much they enjoy the company of their friends.


They spend all their time with their friends.


They haven't seen each other in a long time.


not agreeing to cover my co-worker's shift for an important event

It is expected that co-workers won't always be able to help cover your shift.

There are too many employees at your workplace who don't have enough to do.


You have many co-workers who are always available to work during your shifts.


saying I knew I was always destined for success

Hypothesis: It's good to be successful in life.

That success draws people in that just want money


Hypothesis: It's good to be successful in life.


Hypothesis: It's good to be successful in life.

Your success was on the suffering of others.


Hypothesis: It's good to be successful in life.

You were able to help others while you got there.


Hypothesis: It's good to be successful in life.

Your definition of success only includes monetary gain and nothing more.


Hypothesis: It's good to be successful in life.

Your definition of success is multifaceted and you don't hurt others to achieve it.


Hypothesis: It's good to be successful in life.

You've worked hard to get where you are.


Hypothesis: It's good to tell the truth.


Hypothesis: It's good to tell the truth.

The truth will get someone physically hurt.


Hypothesis: It's good to tell the truth.

Especially if you expect them to tell you the truth.


Hypothesis: It's good to tell the truth.

It could ruin your friend's relationship.


Hypothesis: It's good to tell the truth.

You will go to prison if you tell the truth.


fake-punching a guy because he's been willingly annoying since 2 years

Hypothesis: Violence is not acceptable.


Hypothesis: Violence is not acceptable.


Hypothesis: Violence is not acceptable.

You're saving the life of an innocent person.


Hypothesis: Violence is not acceptable.

There are many other peaceful alternatives.


It is expected that you pay for lodging when you are traveling.

You're staying at your parents or another relatives house.


You made reservations somewhere and they have your credit card number.


You are a minor child traveling with your parents.


You won a free vacation pass from a radio station.


You are renting a room for your vacation stay.


telling a lunch room full of kids that Harry Potter isn't real

It's okay to educate children on the difference between life and fiction.


You tell them about painful concepts like rape long before they're old enough to understand.


The children are having a hard time telling which of the people they read about are real.


Your child is old enough to know better.


You want them to keep that sense of wonderment about special holiday fiction as kids.


You don't want them to grow up deluded in a fantasy world where they have trouble getting along.


They are older and their friends told them that Santa isn't real.


refusing my friend's mom's request to visit her daughter in the hospital

You shouldn't refuse your friend's family's requests.


Their requests are very unreasonable and hurtful to you.


They are kind people and you want to grow closer to them.


You're close with the family of your friend.


You like to have boundaries in your private life.


Your friend's family has been very hateful to you.


Your friend's family treats you like you're one of them.


not always having time or wanting to hang with my friends

It's okay if you are too busy to always spend time with friends.


You are a fulltime caretaker of ailing parents


You never make any time for your friends.


You haven't seen them for almost a year.


Being so busy causes your health to decline.


Being so busy helps you achieve your goals.


not wanting to learn portuguese just because my girlfriend is brazilian

You should be willing to make an effort for those you care about.

Your boss is very sick and needs you to make them a priority.


You gave up your kids for adoption and only recently got back in their lives.


The people you care about don't care about you.


The people you care about make a lot of efforts to help you.


Your sister has repeatedly told you that you will never accomplish anything.


You know your sister is trying her hardest to leave an unhealthy relationship, but it isn't easy, she just needs the support.


You are really sick and can't get out of bed.


They are a young child and need help with homework.


not wanting to be my girlfriend's therapist

You do not have to be anyone's psychotherapist.


you are asked to be a family member's psychotherapist.


Unless that is your job title and you committed to performing that role.


You do not have the required academic credentials.


You have a friend who has no one but you to turn to.


People talk to you about problems that you have no idea how to handle.


being pissed and not talking to my bf because he didnt cook dinner

You should do things that your partner asks.


Unless your partner asks you to do something illegal.


Especially if what they ask is completely reasonable.


Your partner asks you do to inappropriate things.


Your partner wants you to hurt yourself.


Your partner asks only for small favors.


They scream orders at you in a vulgar manner.


They ask politely and do the same for you.


taking my dad's side in an argument with a shop clerk

Hypothesis: It is rude to argue with salespeople.

They have given you the incorrect change.


Hypothesis: It is rude to argue with salespeople.

You have done public service one day in your life.


Hypothesis: It is rude to argue with salespeople.

The salesperson is treating you unfairly.


Hypothesis: It is rude to argue with salespeople.

They are doing everything they can to accommodate you.


Hypothesis: It is rude to argue with salespeople.


Hypothesis: It is rude to argue with salespeople.

You're asking them to break the rules and they don't want to


Hypothesis: It is rude to argue with salespeople.

They are not the people who set the prices.


Hypothesis: It is rude to argue with salespeople.

They are not being overly assertive with you.


telling a person a pretty bad secret about my friend

Hypothesis: It's bad to tell a friend's secrets.

It is about something that will end up hurting others.


Hypothesis: It's bad to tell a friend's secrets.

You don't want them to tell others your secrets.


Hypothesis: It's bad to tell a friend's secrets.

The secret is about harming another person.


Hypothesis: It's bad to tell a friend's secrets.

You want to be known as a trustworthy friend.


Hypothesis: It's bad to tell a friend's secrets.


Hypothesis: It's bad to tell a friend's secrets.

Your friend's secret is that they're about to murder someone.


Hypothesis: It's bad to tell a friend's secrets.

Telling the friend's secret could get them killed.


Hypothesis: It's bad to tell a friend's secrets.

The friend is being abused and you tell the cops.


Hypothesis: It's bad to tell a friend's secrets.

The secrets spread to many people and get back to her.


not wanting to make food for someone even if they pay

One should fulfill the obligations they agreed to take on.

They other party cancels the obligation.


They signed a contract to perform the obligation.


No one else can take on the responsibilities.


They are ill can't can no longer do what they promised.


Something has made it impossible for them to fulfill the obligations.


They can fulfill the obligations easily.


Hypothesis: It's bad to swear in front of others.


Hypothesis: It's bad to swear in front of others.

They are swearing in a conversation, too.


Hypothesis: It's bad to swear in front of others.

They just won't listen to you without being so blunt.


informing clients about my work resignation

It's wrong to not expect someone to have a life and not let them live it as they see fit.

They have committed a crime and are in jail.


They are actively harming you with their choices.


They are an adult and are not harming you with their choices.


They are doing things that are dangerous.


they are well trained for the life they're living.


The person is a child making bad decisions.


They are grown adults who take care of themselves.


not wanting to give them another chance at being friends

It's good to give others a second chance.


Unless they've repeatedly proven that they can't be trusted.


You are a Christian and believe in forgiveness.


It is your partner and they cheated on you twice


wanting my husband to kick out his brother and gf

It is hurtful to want to get rid of your in laws.

The feeling is mutual and they want nothing to do with you either.


They have supported you when your significant other could not.


Your in laws are unkind to you and your partner.


Your in laws are always trying to be helpful.


They have been helping you take care of their grandkids.


Your in laws have been hateful toward you.


Your in laws have done everything they can to show how much they like you.


Your in-laws have paid for everything you have


blowing up my friend's castle in minecraft

It is rude to destroy someone's work, even if it is in a game.


The object of the game is to destroy your opponents buildings.


The point of the game is to destroy what your competitor builds.


The point of the game is to make beautiful structures.


The settings of the game allow destruction for all players.


They are using the game as an artistic tool.


Hypothesis: It is okay to stick up for yourself

Your attorney has advised you to remain silent.


Hypothesis: It is okay to stick up for yourself


Hypothesis: It is okay to stick up for yourself

You beat up the other person until they cannot defend themselves back.


Hypothesis: It is okay to stick up for yourself

Your philosophy is to turn the other cheek.


Hypothesis: It is okay to stick up for yourself

It might cost you a job you need to survive.


It's rude to interrupt people when they are talking.

You need to inform them of an emergency like the house is on fire.


There's an emergency you need to announce.


You're interrupting them to let them know the story is boring.


not making my son accept an apology and apologize back

Parents are expected to teach their children how to get along with others.


Their children have been biting other children at school.


getting upset at my so for not approving photos I post on his fb timeline

You're supposed to respect your significant other's privacy.

they are mentally ill and you are looking for information to help them.


you expect them to respect your privacy also.


You're afraid they're about to steal all your money and go on the run.


you've decided not to worry about privacy in your relationship


They are getting dressed in the bathroom


almost running over and killing a skateboarder

Hypothesis: You shouldn't try to run over people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't try to run over people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't try to run over people.

They are beneath the bridge on which you are running.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't try to run over people.

they are physically trying to harm someone else and there's no other way to stop them.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't try to run over people.

The way without people is shorter anyway


leaving my parents' house earlier than I intended

It's understandable to leave somewhere if you have something you have to do.

You are at your siblings wedding ceremony


The event is extremely important like a childbirth.


you are in the middle of a wedding or funeral


you are not doing something particularly important


someone took the time out of their day to meet with you


wanting an hour to rest after I get home from work

Hypothesis: Resting after work is understandable.


Hypothesis: Resting after work is understandable.

You completed ten hours of hard physical labor.


Hypothesis: Resting after work is understandable.

You have something else important to do after work, such as taking care of your child.


Hypothesis: Resting after work is understandable.


Hypothesis: Resting after work is understandable.

You have to take your kid to sports practice.


Hypothesis: Resting after work is understandable.

You have responsibilities that need to be taken care of.


Hypothesis: Resting after work is understandable.

you've gotten home late and have no other responsiblities


addressing management issues with somewhat of an attitude

It's okay to get frustrated with people even your management.

people are being completely reasonable and fair.


people or management are treating you badly


You want them to think you always handle stress well.


You are dealing with a very difficult situation.


your management ignores your suggestions


It's only due to your own personal problems.


Management is being unresponsive to your opinions.


They pit coworkers on the same level against one another


You should never expect a gift to be returned.


You live with the person you gave it to.


Hypothesis: It's bad to break something.

it is a record for the fastest 100 meter dash.


Hypothesis: It's bad to break something.


Hypothesis: It's bad to break something.

You need to get the money from a piggy bank quickly.


Hypothesis: It's bad to break something.

It is a glass window and you are playing ball outside.


getting mad at old lady just moving MY stuff

Hypothesis: It is expected to respect your elders.


Hypothesis: It is expected to respect your elders.

Your elders are highly respected and civil.


Hypothesis: It is expected to respect your elders.

The advice they give you is consistently terrible.


Hypothesis: It is expected to respect your elders.

The advice they give you is very helpful.


Hypothesis: It is expected to respect your elders.


Hypothesis: It is expected to respect your elders.

Your elders have raised and supported you.


almost dumping my bf over a casual discussion with an ex-friend

Hypothesis: It is rude to not trust your partner.

Your partner has a history of lying to you.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not trust your partner.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not trust your partner.

They never leave the house without you accompanying them.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not trust your partner.

Your partner has given you multiple reasons not to trust them.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not trust your partner.

Your partner has always been honest with you.


You're expected to greet people politely.

They are being rude to you and you have to stand up for yourself.


You are working at the front desk at an office.


you are trying to tell them there is an emergency.


You are a toddler who answered the door.


trying to get my friend out of a relationship

It is wrong to get in the middle of someone's relationship.


You think your friend is dating a habitual cheater


nobody asked for your advice or input on something


You're trying to stop someone from being abused.


It's a petty argument between them and they don't need your input.


calling out girlfriend about her best friend and how close they are

It's bad to be jealous of your significant other's best friend.

They are trying to undermine your relationship.


They have always spent regular time together.


You never show the jealousy or let it undermine your friendship.


The jealousy makes you try to break up their friendship.


They have been best friends since they were born.


Your partner often neglects you to spend time with their friends.


It is acceptable to eat in class if you didn't have time to eat beforehand.


The teacher prohibits eating in the classroom.


The teacher allows the consumption of food in the classroom.


You're eating something loud that distracts everyone else.


bringing it up to my boyfriend that he hasn't bought me a birthday gift

Hypothesis: It is rude to expect a gift.


Hypothesis: It is rude to expect a gift.

You've never bought the other person a gift.


Hypothesis: It is rude to expect a gift.


Hypothesis: It is rude to expect a gift.

You are just going to a small dinner with friends.


Hypothesis: It is rude to expect a gift.

your are participating in a gift exchange at work


Hypothesis: It is rude to expect a gift.

you know the other person is experiencing financial hardship


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with others.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with others.

You lie not to hurt the other person's feelings.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with others.

You have to give directions for a project.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with others.

You're planning a surprise gift for them.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with others.

You are bringing up harmful truths that don't need to be said.


Hypothesis: It's good to be honest with others.

You are protecting them from getting hurt.


leaving a passive aggressive note for my coworkers

It's rude to be passive aggressive towards others.

it's the only way to get through with them


They have been rude to you in the past and you don't care for them.


You are playing a competitive strategy game.


you are acting in a play that requires it.


wanting 5 days kid free, and to take a solo trip using credit card points

It's OK to want to take some time for yourself.


You recently retired from the police force.


You're on the job and need to assist customers.


you have children whose needs aren't met in your life


you have spent most of your life serving others


It's okay to not be able to make a special occasion for personal reasons

you don't let people know that you won't be attending


you make it clear that you can't attend in advance


It is wrong to stay in a relationship where you are not happy.

You are financially dependent on the other person.


you are staying together for the children.


the relationship isn't making the other person happy.


You don't want your children to go through the stress of divorce.


leeching off of my friends science project

Hypothesis: It is okay to let your friends help you


Hypothesis: It is okay to let your friends help you


Hypothesis: It is okay to let your friends help you

Your friends know less about car repair than you do.


Hypothesis: It is okay to let your friends help you

Your friends are experienced with car repairs.


Hypothesis: It is okay to let your friends help you

You want to accomplish a set goal independently.


Hypothesis: It is okay to let your friends help you

You know you can't do the task yourself.


tipping 10% for bad to regular service, 15% for good service and 20% for extraordinary service

It is good to tip 20% for extraordinary service.


The waiters are not paid a salary and rely on tips.


You are outside of the United States where tipping isn't a social norm.


You shouldn't abandon your friends when they need you.


You have other, more important obligations.


You promised your friends you would be there.


You are supposed to be the designated driver.


You shouldn't kick your friends out of important events.

Your friends are disruptive to the event.


there's truly no place for them at the event


they don't have the right security clearance.


It's understandable to be sad when a loved one leaves.


They're leaving for college for a long time.


That person will be back in a day or two.


They will be gone for a long period of time.


They will only be gone for a few minutes.


You won't be able to see each other for an entire year


wanting to publicly out someone who screwed, not just me, but hundreds of people over

Hypothesis: It's good to want to protect people.


Hypothesis: It's good to want to protect people.


Hypothesis: It's good to want to protect people.

The people you're protecting aren't kind to you.


Hypothesis: It's good to want to protect people.

The people you want to protect are children.


Hypothesis: It's good to want to protect people.

You're a social worker stepping in for an abused child


Hypothesis: It's good to want to protect people.

The person you're protecting is a criminal.


Hypothesis: It's good to want to protect people.

Someone is bullying the person you want to protect.


If you break something glass you should clean it up.

You're not able to get out of a wheelchair.


You are in a restaurant or retail store.


There are people who will step on it nearby.


it was a bottle holding radioactive material.


getting pissed that my boyfriend has avoided me while I was sick and alone

You have the right to be mad at a partner who abandons you.


They abandoned you due to their accidental death.


They knew they were leaving you in a tough situation and left anyway.


they abandoned you because you stabbed them in the back


you were always there when they needed you


you had been unfaithful in a monogamous relationship


you had already been through a lot together


you've discussed giving one another a break


looking alternative even when it makes my dad sad

It is good for people to express themselves through their style of dress

that style would give them negative attention.


it is a style of dress offensive to most others


helps them avoid a harmful form of expression


They are wearing see through clothes in church.


They are Amish and must adhere to a strict dress code.


They attend a public school with loose requirements.


thinking of ending things with my boyfriend who isn't as financially sound as I am

It is okay to end a relationship you are not happy in.

You think they might hurt you because you end it


You have made zero effort to increase your satisfaction in the relationship.


Your partner doesn't show affection towards you.


Hypothesis: It is expected to respect your parents.


Hypothesis: It is expected to respect your parents.

they have always taken great care of you.


Hypothesis: It is expected to respect your parents.

they have always been loving and supportive.


allowing a stranger to crash our Super Bowl party

it's wrong to do something that ruins others good time.

The others good time was at the expense of someone less fortunate.


The others good time was celebrating cancer remission.


The others' idea of a good time is torturing a defenseless animal.


The others are just trying to have a quiet conversation among themselves.


They are not doing anything that harms others.


Their good time is causing dame to property or is illegal.


They aren't doing anything dangerous or illegal.


They are spray painting private property.


not letting my sister get a toy because it weirds me out

It's bad to try to control what other people do.

You are a parent and the person is a small child.


The people are free willed adults that you don't know.


You are in a romantic relationship with them.


You are a trainer for competitive athletes.


You are training people to become more independent.


you are doing it for your benefit not theirs


kicking out my best friend and cutting her off

It's okay to kick someone out of your home.


They don’t have a job and are 40 years old


they have disrespected you or your family.


they are paying the rent and you are not.


It is good not to let your friends shave your head if you don't want them to.


your friends have done things to you without your consent before


you have promised them they could do it if you lost a bet.


you won a bet that would let you keep your hair.


they no what would look good on you better than you


you've made clear your feelings about it


You agreed to be shaved for a charity event.


People are expected to want what's best for their friends.


Their friends cheated, lied, and assaulted you.


Their friends are loyal and hardworking.


You only want friends for high social status


They have been friends with them for years


They have friends that have tried to murder them.


They are competing against one another in a game.


putting my garbage bags in my neighbors garbage bin

It is unacceptable to put your trash in someone elses bin.


You are walking down a street and it is the only option


You are putting a lot of trash in there and filling up the bin.


you are putting illegal materials in it.


not giving the customer what he wants after threatening me because I was taking a nap

Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to threaten people.


Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to threaten people.


Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to threaten people.

You are bulllying someone for lunch money


Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to threaten people.

You bring your bad mood home from work and threaten your wife.


Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to threaten people.

you are a police officer and they have broken the law.


You should be grateful for gifts from other people.

you are given something that nobody wants, such as trash


a lot of thought and effort went into the gift


The person spent a lot of time finding the gift for you.


They are from people that care about you.


The gift is in poor taste and was given as a prank.


The person giving the gift thinks they are being very generous.


getting mad at my gf for giving the mechanic an extra $135

Reasonable tips are acceptable for good service.

The service was done by a public official.


You are in a country where tipping isn't customary.


The person providing the service relies on tips to making a living wage.


there is a no tipping policy at the establishment.


tips are part of the waiters main source of income.


The establishment does not allow tipping.


not paying my sister back for half of my wedding dress

You shouldn't lend money to family unless you don't intend to get it back.


They've borrowed money and not repaid it before.


They're very conscientious about repaying loans.


You can't afford to not have the loan paid back.


you set up a payment plan and have it notarized.


your family has a history of not paying back debt.


you don't really need the money you're giving that badly


It's understandable that many people fear going to the dentist.

they have never actually been to the dentist before.


you have frequent and painful dental work.


They lost a finger due to a childhood drill incident.


They've had painful experiences in the past


those people have never had a bad experience


You shouldn't divorce someone you're married to.


You just happily celebrated your anniversary.


not telling the guy I'm kind of dating that I kissed someone else

Hypothesis: It is wrong to cheat in a relationship.

You have agreed to an open relationship.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to cheat in a relationship.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to cheat in a relationship.

The other person has cheated on you many times before.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to cheat in a relationship.

The other person has been faithful to you.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to cheat in a relationship.

Your partner is nothing but loving to you


Hypothesis: It is wrong to cheat in a relationship.

cheating is something you've already gotten approval about from your partner


being pissed and not talking to my bf because he didnt cook dinner

Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore your partner.

they are intentionally trying to get under your skin


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore your partner.

they are trying to get validation from you


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore your partner.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore your partner.

they are asking you about something important.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore your partner.

You are in the middle of something you cannot stop doing.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore your partner.

They are standing right in front of you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore your partner.

you need to concentrate hard on something for a minute.


It is good to listen to your girlfriend whenever she has something to say.

She is telling you the end of a movie you want to see.


she has asked you to talk about something important.


You know she is lying and trying to start a fight


She constantly complains about trivial issues and gossips.


You are a loving and supportive boyfriend.


telling one of my coworkers to stop talking on the register

You shouldn't tell people to stop talking.

They are in a theatre and the audience is trying to watch the show.


A group of people are having an important discussion about racial issues.


They are trying to say something important.


You are watching a movie in the theater.


it some place you are supposed to be quiet, like a movie theater.


it is a social event where people are supposed to talk.


leaving my employer a year after completing a $240k scholarship they gave me

It is expected that you do something nice for somebody if they do something nice for you.

They were just arrested for harassing your sister.


They used their entire paycheck to get you a gift.


The 'nice' thing was actually a passive-aggressive insult.


They frequently do favors like this for you.


they were only nice for selfish reasons.


You believe in the quote "quid pro quo".