you have to go to work or else you will get fired.


You should be open to others if they need company.

they have mentioned that they are suicidal.


You need to have time to yourself for your well being.


not giving a seat to a pregnant woman on a crowded bus with 8-10 people standing

You aren't expected to give up your seat for just anyone.


The person is able to find another open seat


The person is an elderly woman with a cane.


You are the only able-bodied person in the room.


It is your right to keep whatever appearance you choose.

your job requires you to have short hair and no piercings.


you work with children and they are frightened.


Your job has no requirements for a certain appearance.


you are at work and are required to wear a uniform


that appearance might be deemed derogatory toward others


disowning a friend after PlayStation drama

Hypothesis: You shouldn't disown your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disown your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disown your friends.

they've forced you to by being harmful to you


Hypothesis: You shouldn't disown your friends.

Your friends are always trying to help you out.


If someone's comments are public, it is okay for anyone to read them.

Unless they are profane and the reader is a child.


that person has been banned from the platform


the comments were meant for the general public


The comments were accidentally made public by a computer glitch.


The comments concern a subject that is of interest to many people.


choosing to go to night school even though it conflicts with my work schedule

It is good to give advance notice to your boss if you can't go to work.


You are turning them in for illegal practices.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to kill an animal.

you need food, clothing, or its attacking


Hypothesis: It is wrong to kill an animal.

you don't plan to use the animal as a resource


Hypothesis: It is wrong to kill an animal.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to kill an animal.

The animal is a cow or pig being raised for food.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to kill an animal.

The animal is a domesticated dog or cat.


being annoyed by my boyfriend's constant desire to be kissed and touched

It is expected to be physically affectionate with your partner.

Your partner has a condition where they would rather you not be too touchy with them.


They have asked you before to be more affectionate.


not talking to my gf after she said she was feeling jealous because her ex was with another girl

It's hurtful to remain attached to an old partner when in a new relationship.

You have children to coparent with the old partner.


you want to be fully committed to your new relationship.


your new partner knows and accepts how you feel.


you cheated on your ex with your current partner.


Your new partner is also friends with them.


Your new partner is suffering from anxiety.


You have joint custody and want the kids happy.


You do not find another person in a relationship.


choosing not to attend a rafting trip with coworkers because I don't want to bring my spouse along

It's not okay to let down people who are counting on you.

You had an emergency that couldn't be helped.


You had to choose between two things both being important to different people equally.


You had something come up that was life threatening.


People will be harmed because of you not following through.


accusing my boyfriend of cheating with another woman

It's ok to not put up with a cheating significant other.


You are getting financial support that you couldn't get any other way.


It's okay to want to get therapy if you need mental help.

They are broke and their insurance does not cover it.


You don't have anyone else to share your concerns with.


You shouldn't try to be someone you're not.


You are trying to have someone fall in love with you.


you are auditioning for a part in a movie.


you don't have the education to do a job.


You are in court and have sworn to tell the truth.


Hypothesis: You tattle on your friends.

This generalization needs to be reworded.


Hypothesis: You tattle on your friends.


Hypothesis: You tattle on your friends.

the statement has no indication of right or wrong


Hypothesis: You tattle on your friends.

Your friends are doing something dangerous.


Hypothesis: You tattle on your friends.

Your friends are doing something that is safe.


Hypothesis: You tattle on your friends.

What I say could have serious repercussions and would harm them.


Hypothesis: You tattle on your friends.

What I say is harmless and would not impact them negatively.


not going to my GF's families' Christmas

It is good to negotiate holiday time with the person you are dating so that nobody is upset.

It does not look like it will go anywhere.


You want to move your relationship forward.


the person you are dating really doesn't like predictability


you and the person you're dating have really busy schedules


You have gifts to exchange with each other.


The person you are dating already has a schedule set.


The person you are dating will have conflicting obligations between families and friends.


your holiday time is fixed and you cannot change it.


you are able to coordinate with them to spend the holiday time together.


making racist, gay, special needs, and stereotypical jokes with my friends in private

Hypothesis: You shouldn't be racist.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be racist.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be racist.

You are an innocent child who has not learned yet.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't be racist.

Especially if you have a diverse family.


It's expected that people give generously to those in need.


people have the ways and means to do so.


They are poor and don't have anything to give.


you cannot afford to support your own family


You don't have use protection if you don't want to do so.


You've already had a vasectomy or had your tubes tied.


Your partner requests that you use protection.


Your partner is using backup birth control.


It's okay to hate things if they are toxic.


They're being safely used for their intended purpose.


A toxic waste spill kills many people and animals.


those toxic things will potentially help you get better such as chemotherapy drugs.


the chance of being harmed or killed by those toxic things is great.


People are expected to be reasonable and thoughtful in how they address problems.

They're temps with very little experience with that type of problem.


They're highly recommended professionals.


They are a young child who doesn't know how to reason yet.


they a therapist who is treating somebody.


trying not apologizing to a friend who claims I hurt their feelings

You should apologize to your friends if you hurt them.


You didn’t mean what you said because you were drunk


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

The issues involve your spouse or own minor children.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

The issues involve other adults or strangers.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

You think someone is at risk of being hurt.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

You don't know the people who are talking.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

butting in helps save someone from an awful situation.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

no harm is being done to anyone or anything.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.


It is not wrong to still care for people that are no longer in your life.


You are the one that destroyed the connection between the two of you.


They were physically abusive towards you.


You had a good relationship with each other.


pushing my mother to get her own apartment so I can move on with my life, knowing it causes her stress

It's normal to want to move out of your parent's house.

You're a little kid without a job who loves them dearly.


You're an adult who wants independence and you don't see eye to eye with your folks.


They are elderly and you are taking care of them.


They need you to help with their medical needs.


offering my girlfriend my leftover fries

Hypothesis: It's good to not waste food.


Hypothesis: It's good to not waste food.


Hypothesis: It's good to not waste food.

the food has spoiled and will make you sick if you eat it.


Hypothesis: It's good to not waste food.

you want to save money while helping the environment.


Hypothesis: It's good to not waste food.

Unless it goes bad before you can use it.


Hypothesis: It's good to not waste food.

Especially if there are people going hungry around you.


thinking its disgusting that my mom and her boyfriend are always smoking in the house (both cigarettes and weed) everyday

It is okay to not want to be exposed to drug use.


The drugs will cause your body or mind harm.


It's the only way you can help someone who's fallen into drug addiction.


There are drug users trying to get you to use with them.


You are a counselor at a drug rehab center.


wanting to call the cops on my gfs brother for drunk driving

Hypothesis: It is wrong to drive drunk.

You are doing a test drive for science on a closed track


Hypothesis: It is wrong to drive drunk.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to drive drunk.

you are filming an episode of Myth Busters


asking my girlfriend to take it down a notch

It is rude to try and control another adult.


You are trying to help them be a better person.


They are unhappy with what you are trying to get them to do.


You are an officer arresting a criminal.


the other adult is trying to take advantage of you


the other adult is trying to help you with something


making my friend feel bad for not rooming with me

You should not pressure your friends to make a decision they dont want to make

Your friends will make a decision that will cost them their life.


You think it would help them build a better life longterm.


They've made it clear that your nagging is affecting your friendship.


they specifically ask you to help them move forward with a choice.


they would not do the same thing to you.


Unless it's to start something they really need to do.


getting furious when someone nearly destroys my drawing

It is wrong to ruin someone else's creation.


Your child made you something for Mother's Day.


The person has abandoned their creation.


The person was planning on selling their creation.


They are using it to present a project at work


that creation is defacing public property


they worked really hard on that creation


It is rude to plan on leaving your family and going to college.


you don't tell anyone and just take off.


You plan on pursuing a degree that requires you to move.


You promised your family that you would stay close to home.


There's a very good college close enough to home for you to commute.


It is better for your health in the long term.


It is expected that you do not make yourself late by sleeping in


you want to be taken seriously as as responsible adult


You're supposed to open the store in the morning.


asking my roommate and his girlfriend to be quiet

It is expected for roommates to be courteous to each other.

They were rivals in high school and placed in the same dorm room.


They want to live in a stress free environment.


It is the middle of the night and sleep is needed.


You should always ask the input of someone you live with before bringing something into the house.

It's a snack you're going to eat in private.


It's a pet they'll have to help take care of.


being pissed at my girlfriends drinking habits when Im also drinking

Its hypocritical to criticize someone for a bad habit when you also have the same habit.

you're trying to get rid of the habit yourself


You are trying to get them to stop since you know how bad of a habit it is.


It is a young child and they think it is okay since they see that you are doing it.


You are trying to keep someone else safe.


you are actively trying to break the habit.


asking so reasoning behind giving money to homeless people

It's good to openly communicate with your significant other.

Your significant other ran off with another person.


You want to show that you care for their opinion.


Your significant other is violent and abusive.


Your significant other is living far away from you.


you want to develop a strong relationship


It's understandable to want to save something you have for later even  others want it.


They are leftovers from a big meal you paid for.


refusing to let the father of my child get involved if he refuses to pay child support

It is important to be part of your child's life.

You gave your child up in a closed adoption.


You are raising the child in your own home.


You are a drug addict in active addiction.


You want a good relationship with your child.


You have been disallowed from seeing your child.


You have time and resources to spend with your child.


They have left for the college experience.


They look to you for guidance and support.


resigning before Christmas and during our companies busiest period in 5 years

It's understandable to want out of a stressful work situation.


You can't get another job where you live.


You have to make a decision quickly to save the company.


That situation isn't part of your normal job responsibilities.


Your health is being harmed by overwork.


walking out on my boyfriend and our friends

Abandoning those close to you makes you appear cold.

Those close to you were toxic and abusive.


They were toxic and destructive to your life.


You don't want to get caught up in their toxic behavior and schemes.


The person you are close to betrayed you in some way.


You have been good friends with each other for several years.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get people fired.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get people fired.

they were doing something that broke company policy


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get people fired.

they're a great asset to the company they work for


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get people fired.

Their incompetence negatively affects colleagues and/or business.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get people fired.

Their job performance exceeds expectations.


losing my temper and screaming at my doctor's staff

You should control your anger when you are in a public setting.

You see someone trying to kidnap a child.


You see an authority figure treating someone else badly for no reason.


accusing my boyfriend of cheating with another woman

You shouldn't date someone who already has a significant other.


they are separated and waiting to finalize a divorce.


you are doing it behind their spouses back.


they are planning to break up with them.


you are friends with their significant other.


They are in an open relationship and you are ok with it.


being annoyed by someone with a mental disability

It is okay to be frustrated by other people.

They are just trying to give you advice.


They seem to be trying to annoy you on purpose.


You're teaching a class on anger management.


You are a fiction writer working from home.


You deal with the public directly through your work at a library.


driving at the speed limit on a mountainous, one-lane road

It's good to drive the speed limit in a treacherous area.

You have an emergency and are trying to get to the ER.


You are rushing a person to the hospital and time is of the essence.


It's sleeting, in which case you should drive slower.


you are unfamiliar with the area you are driving.


telling my friend I don't want to have Christmas Dinner in his distopian Pan-optical Nightmare House

It's expected to respond politely when you are invited to a meal.


the invitation was a generic one you got in your spam folder


The meal is your last meal on death row.


You should spend more time with your partner.


you are already smothering your partner and they have asked you to give them some space.


you have been working so much recently that you have been neglectful of your partner.


It's expected that you tell your friend if you can't make it to a meeting with them.


There's no good reason you can't call them.


You had a car accident and are in a coma


They were expecting the meeting for a week


you were aware well ahead of time that you couldn't be there.


sending my teacher an aggressive email anonymously

You shouldn't send mean messages to someone higher in status than you.

It's making a point about a serious matter.


It's making a point about a trivial matter.


You are only angry at them for being better off than you.


You're trying to get fired in order to get a severance package.


You really need your job to pay the rent.


They always talk down to you and others for being poorer than them


choosing to go to night school even though it conflicts with my work schedule

It is expected that you will be fired if you choose to miss work.


you have been involved in a life threatening accident.


You have a doctor's note for your absence.


You post about your day off on social media.


sending a card to my ex GF because her dad died but not telling my current GF I did so

It is wrong to keep things from your partner.


you're trying to protect them from something


It involves something that's really none of their business.


It involves something they would care deeply about.


You are planning a surprise party for them.


getting upset with my wife for canceling our vacation because we just had a baby

You shouldn't go on vacation after you just had a baby.

You had an uncomplicated vaginal delivery and the trip was already paid for and nonrefundable.


You had a C-section and are required to rest.


Your vacation is local and doctor approved.


Your vacation plans are to travel out of the country.


you must travel for a wedding or similar engagement.


It's good to pursue higher education opportunities.


You have to work full-time to support yourself.


You have a family business to maintain and can't afford the time off.


You have a chance for paid tuition from your employer.


You have seven children and are a single parent.


refusing to borrow money to my relative in need

It's considered to be irresponsible to need to borrow money.

You invest in expensive business ventures.


You are the owner of a successful business.


not wanting to spend time with my family for not letting me hang out with some friends

Your family has your best interest at heart, so you should heed their advice.

Your family is trying to control your personal choices.


They are coming from a place of experience.


you know for sure that the way you're doing things is right


they have given you advice that's been helpful before


They try to control your every decision.


They have been helping you through school.


Hypothesis: It is good to protect loved ones

They are attacking you and you are trying to save your own life.


Hypothesis: It is good to protect loved ones

They are vulnerable and you are in position to help them.


Hypothesis: It is good to protect loved ones


Hypothesis: It is good to protect loved ones

They are putting you in harms way on purpose.


quiting painting with friends because I suck and don't enjoy it anymore

It's okay to quit something if you don't enjoy it.


It is your job and you don't have another job lined up.


there is another activity you would much rather be doing.


You're thinking of quitting high school.


You found something else better and enjoyable.


breaking my own laptop that my brother hid under a pile of pillows

It's understandable that sometimes things are broken by accident, when no harm was meant.


Someone was behaving recklessly and should have known better.


You know that the person did it on purpose.


The person bumped into it without noticing.


A person breaks a vase deliberately as revenge.


A cat bumps a vase off the shelf while jumping up.


not inviting my best friend and his new girlfriend to my birthday trip

It's fine to not invite specific people on your birthday trip.


You promised certain people that they could come.


The trip only has room for a small group of people.


upsetting my mother by telling her I had thought about inviting my mil to be at the birth of our first child

Hypothesis: You shouldn't upset your parents.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't upset your parents.

You go out of your way to destroy things they love.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't upset your parents.

Your parents are unreasonable with you and you're doing what's best for yourself and they don't love you for it.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't upset your parents.

They truly love you and have your best interests at heart.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't upset your parents.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't upset your parents.

you need to tell them something terrible that requires their involvement.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't upset your parents.

You are warning them about an emergency.


being upset about my husband's ex-wife not saying hello when she comes to my home

It's okay to expect people your significant other knows to treat you with respect.


Unless they are police officers and you are a criminal.


Especially if you treat them with respect.


They are going to be in your wedding party


Your significant other always treats them respectfully.


ratting out the guy my friend was dating

Hypothesis: You shouldn't rat people out.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't rat people out.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't rat people out.

nothing illegal is happening and nobody is getting hurt.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't rat people out.

Especially if they aren't hurting anyone.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't rat people out.

They're committing a minor infraction you also commit.


Hypothesis: It is expected to respect your family.


Hypothesis: It is expected to respect your family.

They always treated you with respect growing up.


wanting my friend to show they like being around me

Being emotional needy can be annoying to others.


they are strangers and you're bothering them


You're dealing with a traumatic situation.


You're dealing with a trivial situation.


You are a grown adult living on your own.


They know they need to be there for you at a specific time in your life.


You keep relying on them when you don't really need to.


wanting to break up with my girlfriend after finding out she slept with guys in every european city she visited on her euro trip? she previously told me she only slept with 3 guys in her life

You shouldn't lie to your significant other about your sexual history.


They would not be able to take the answer without crying.


you were abused, and you are not yet ready to talk to them about it.


it exposes them to risks that they need to know about.


You're embarrassed that you are a virgin.


not making my wife's birthday extra special

You should always make your partner's birthday special.

You broke up with your partner before the birthday.


You want to show that you care and love them.


They don't like to celebrate their birthday.


their birthday only reminds them how old they are


you want to make a loving memory for your partner


they strongly prefer not to celebrate their birthday.


ditching friends during our vacation due to their difficult child

Hypothesis: It's wrong to ditch your friends.

you truly want to have some privacy alone


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ditch your friends.


going to the college to study while my mom cleans the house

It is expected that a family member will ask for help with household chores if they need it.


They don't want to seem like they are nagging.


That is part of the household agreement.


they've been given the chores because they're punished


it's a job that's too big for them to handle


The family member has higher standards of cleanliness than you do.


You should be careful when you're riding a bike and a car almost hits you.


You're wearing no helmet for protection.


You accidentally swerved into the car's lane.


It's good to reveal the truth to others.

The truth varies depending on who reveals it.


The truth is confidential and you've been sworn to secrecy.


They have asked you to be honest with them.


You know your friend's partner is cheating on them.


telling my friend I can't go on a trip with her over Spring Break

It is asking a lot when you invite someone on a trip.


The trip is expensive and they have to pay their own way.


The person would need to pay their own way.


cutting traffic on the shoulder to get gas

You should stick to the rules of the road.


You need to get someone to the hospital quickly.


You are taking a driving exam for a license.


being upset at being someone's "personal therapist"

Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

You're a social worker who's supposed to conduct welfare checks.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

You wouldn't know how to help if you did discover a problem.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

You have no prior knowledge of the situation.


Hypothesis: You should mind your own business.

You're snooping around for drug addicts.


wanting to continue a friendship with someone my boyfriend doesnt like

You should not give up friends for a partner.

Your friends are jealous and don't want you happy.


Your partner is being controlling or unhealthy.


Unless they are undermining your happiness.


Especially if your partner wants you to.


You do not want to be friends with them anymore.


You are closer to them than you are to your partner.


your friends have said that its okay to do so


your partner wants you to see your friends


your friends have been there through thick and thin.


warning my friend that she shouldn't date another friend of mine and spilling everything he confided in me

Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell others secrets.

They never reveal your secrets to anyone


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell others secrets.

They have already told other secrets of yours out loud


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell others secrets.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell others secrets.

You're afraid they're about to hurt someone.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell others secrets.

The secret could get them fired because their boss is a bigot.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't tell others secrets.

you are playing a game involving secretes


not ever wanting kids not just because of how stressful the life of a parent is, but because I know I'd never be a happy person and would never really love them

Hypothesis: It's wrong not to love your children.


Hypothesis: It's wrong not to love your children.


Hypothesis: It's wrong not to love your children.

due to personal reasons you're still trying to build that love


Hypothesis: It's wrong not to love your children.

You gave them up for adoption to a loving family.


Hypothesis: It's wrong not to love your children.

Your child is young and dependant on you.


thinking my ex is seeing someone new too soon

It's ok to date someone new after a breakup.

You're not ready for another relationship.


You literally just broke up with them after years together


telling my friend I didn't like his brother's guitar playing

It's ok to be honest when you don't like something.


Your spouse is asking if they look bad in an outfit.


You're part of a feedback group for a product.


Saying something could change the problem.


You can exchange it for something better.


asking boyfriend why he packed condoms for a trip he's taking without me

It's inappropriate to have sex with someone who isn't your partner.


That person is your partner's best friend.


not telling my family I'm taking anti-depressants

People will think negatively of you if they know you take anti-depressants.

Unless they are open minded about mental health.


Especially if you use your depression as an excuse not to help yourself.


they're smart and understand why you do so


Society talks more openly about depression, its effects and its treatments.


People are ignorant about depression, its effects and its treatments.


putting my sister on read cuase I didn't feel it needed a response

Leaving your sister on read is disrespectful.


She's pregnant and expecting the baby any minute now.


You aren’t doing anything but laying around


telling my leasing office I'm considering calling the (non emergency) police over noise complaints against my neighbors? or for making so many complaints in general

You should discuss problems with your neighbors first.

You fear that they may be a danger to you if you try to talk to them.


They have been friendly in all your interactions with them.


it is something that can be easily resolved


The problem is personal and has nothing to do with your neighbors.


You have known your neighbors a long time.


It's rude to ignore a phone call, even in the evening.


You are trying to sleep before an important meeting.


Your spouse's name shows up on the Caller ID.


It's wrong to tell a partner what they should do.

They are about to step in front of a bus.


You're trying to keep them from harming themself.


You're trying to tell them who they can talk to.


not wanting to help my friend in a class anymore

It's wrong not to help out your classmates.


The classmate is behind because of procrastination and lack of studying.


You are working together on a group project.


not being friends with a woman I'm not over

You shouldn't expect your ex to remain friends with you.


your relationship ended because you cheated.


You have children and need to be friendly.


You were manipulative and mistreated them.


You were friends before you dated and had an uneventful breakup.


Your breakup was so dramatic the cops were called.


telling my boyfriend he should accept my decision and for wanting him to stay

It's okay to ask your partner to respect your decisions.


You need to be trusted in a relationship


Your decision is to start a business with your joint savings.


Your deception is important and life changing.


Your decision is that you want to quit your job to shoot heroin.


Your decision is that you want to go back to work so you can be more independent.


accusing my boyfriend of cheating with another woman

It's bad to accuse someone of cheating without evidence.

You feel like you are very sure they are cheating.


You think they're cheating because of a dream you had.


The evidence was destroyed or not recorded but you are certain of the cheating.


You're only relying on hearsay and the alleged perpetrator has a clear record.


They swear they didn’t do anything wrong


Hypothesis: Proper work out wear is important.

You are okay getting your nicer clothes sweaty.


Hypothesis: Proper work out wear is important.


Hypothesis: Proper work out wear is important.

you aren't wearing it to actually work out.


Hypothesis: Proper work out wear is important.

you are going to go through a strenuous workout.


Hypothesis: Proper work out wear is important.

It is cold outside and you need to dress in a coat.


Hypothesis: Proper work out wear is important.

You are walking for exercise and wearing normal clothes.


being mad at my friend recommending another person for the same job I'm going for

It's understandable to be upset at a friend for sabotaging your job prospects.

Your friend was trying to save you from a terrible job at a place where they used to work.


The friend didn't realize you applied for the same job.


The friend knew you were going to applied and sent in their resume first.


They have offered a better opportunity to replace them.


It's acceptable to use alcohol in moderation,


all of your responsibilities are taken care of already


Your religion forbids the consumption of alcohol or you have a bad liver.


You are being served champagne at a social event.


being angry at my friend for driving intoxicated

It's wrong to drive when you're impaired in any way.

You have an emergency where life is at stake.


You don't need to drive and just want to for fun.


You are only slightly impaired such as a BAC of 0.01.


It is unacceptable to cause someone else pain.

you are defending your children from an attacker.


The pain is part of a necessary procedure.


You're causing them pain because you hate their entire race.


You have to hurt one person to save many others.


You're going out of your way to hurt them.


calling a woman conceited on international women's day (IWD) while she was on her period

Hypothesis: You shouldn't call someone conceited.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call someone conceited.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call someone conceited.

Unless you're trying to describe a conceited person.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call someone conceited.

Especially if they are trying to help you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call someone conceited.

You want to make them aware of how they come off


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call someone conceited.

It is someone  you care about and are trying to give constructive criticism to.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't call someone conceited.

You don't know them and all the circumstances surrounding their demeanor.


giving hr a heads up on my boss lying to employees

You are expected to report bad behavior to your employers.


reporting it would cause more harm than good.


the company's reputation can be damaged.


You only heard about the bad behavior and not seen it.


You are afraid your coworker will be fired.


It's okay to call the police over disturbances.

The disturbances are civil and not criminal.


You know that it is because of a football game on the TV.


You're calling for a noise disturbance during the day.


The neighbors are having a loud party late at night.


The police in your area are more dangerous than the civilians.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be really busy.

You are neglecting your responsibilities.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be really busy.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be really busy.

Unless you're pretending to be busy to avoid someone.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be really busy.

You have to take your kids to the doctors.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be really busy.

You are missing your children growing up.


leaving an f guild for being hostile toward me

It is okay to walk away from hostile situations.


You're a cop who's trying to save innocent hostages.


You haven't been trained on how to deal with those situations.


you are in a dark alley and being followed.


you want to avoid confrontation with a coworker.


being angry with a close family friend by not telling my family of her husband's death and funeral

It is expected that in the event of someone's death you inform others who would want to know.


You were close friends to the person that died.


You know that everyone you know loved the person


That person was a hermit and doesn't have any significant relationships.


Their family is anxiously waiting to be updated on their status.


You're the only one who has their contact information.


The person who died is a your own family member or friend.


not wanting to re-connect with my formerly abusive older brother

It's okay to want to reconnect with family.

Your family has put a restraining order against you.


You had to move away from them for work.


Your family says they want nothing to do with you.


You were abusive to that family in the past.


You live across the country and travel back to visit.


It's impolite to suddenly break off contact with someone you care about.

You are immediately detained after a surprise ICE raid.


They just found out their father has cancer.


There is no good reason to break off contact.


Hypothesis: It's ok to decline a shift at work.

you really need the money or the work really needs you to go in


Hypothesis: It's ok to decline a shift at work.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to litter.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to litter.

You are performing a social experiment in public


Hypothesis: It's wrong to litter.

unless you are staging a scene and will clean it later.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to litter.

You only dropped the litter accidentally and without notice.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to litter.

You throw litter out of your car while driving.


Hypothesis: It is okay to date who you want

The person you want to date is in a relationship.


Hypothesis: It is okay to date who you want

The person you want to date also wants to date you.


Hypothesis: It is okay to date who you want


Hypothesis: It is okay to date who you want

The other person wants to date you back.


Hypothesis: It is okay to date who you want

You want to date someone who went to jail for murdering their previous lover.


not telling my girlfriend of 8 years that something happened in my past

It's acceptable to not tell every little detail to your significant other.

you have agreed to a tell-all relationship.


the little details have no impact on anything whatsoever.


You have been diagnosed with cancer and your significant other needs to know what is going to happen to you.


Your significant other is new in your life and you aren't sure if the relationship will work out.


you are trying to be honest together because you cheated


you both live busy lives and need to savor your time together


it is something they specifically asked for.


being angry at my friend for pretending(?) to be interested in me

It's wrong to pretend to be interested in someone when you are not.

you are still open to seeing if your feelings will change.


You are afraid they will kill you over the rejection.


You are taking advantage of their kindness.


You are testing to see if it is someone you might want to pursue.


You're trying to take advantage of someone.


thinking my girlfriend cheated on me when she stayed up for the whole night drinking with one of my guy friends

You shouldn't accuse others of cheating.


you have no proof to substantiate your claims


You have no evidence that they are actually cheating.


telling my friend he should put more effort in his appearance

It is expected that you try to keep a nice personal appearance.


you are on a difficult mountain climbing trip.


you are working in a customer facing job.


You are undercover as a homeless person.


cutting a guy off so bad he followed me to school to yell at me

Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at people.

it is the only way to get their attention.


Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at people.

you need to get someone's attention in an emergency situation.


Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at people.

the people have done nothing to be yelled at for.


Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at people.

They are pushing your child into oncoming traffic.


Hypothesis: It is rude to yell at people.

You are on a retreat centered around meditation.


not wanting to be around my Ex/resenting friends who are still close with him

Hypothesis: Loyalty is expected among friends.


Hypothesis: Loyalty is expected among friends.


Hypothesis: Loyalty is expected among friends.

The friends have lied or cheated in the past.


Hypothesis: Loyalty is expected among friends.

The friends have always been loyal to you.


Hypothesis: Loyalty is expected among friends.

One of the friends joins a terrorist organization.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want personal space.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want personal space.

unless you're on a crowded subway train and other people need to get on the train.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want personal space.

you're feeling pressured by someone in your life.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want personal space.

you're used to doing everything for everyone else


Hypothesis: It is okay to want personal space.

You are shutting out everyone around you.


telling my younger brother not to be a stereotypical annoying 8 year old Xbox player

It is helpful to let your siblings know how they should act in certain situations.


You have less experience than your sibling in the situation.


You have more experience than your siblings in a situation.


You are a child and they are much older than you.


informing my male house guests that they must pee sitting down in my bathroom

It's fine if you're a male to stand while peeing.


You are in the privacy of your own bathroom.


The stalls are full but a urinal is available.


You shouldn't be impatient while driving.


You are going to the birth of your child


You have plenty of time to get where you are going.


If someone else's things are in your way, it is okay to move them.

The things are construction barriers in the middle of the road.


The things are your children's toys scattered all over the floor.


The items have a "do not touch" sign on them.


you have not asked permission to touch their things.


not inviting my Sister-in-Law's Scummy Boyfriend to Christmas

You should invite your family and in-laws for Christmas.


they would otherwise be spending Christmas by themselves.


You do not plan on celebrating Christmas.


You are inviting the rest of the family.


You want to get them to know each other better.


You should support and encourage your siblings and think highly of them.


your siblings support you every chance they get


Your siblings are manipulative and unkind people.


Your siblings are working towards their goals.


They don't get support from your parents.


threatening to tell apartment management about roommate getting a dog without my permission

It is okay to go to the authority to enforce the rules.


Especially if the rules protect people from harm.


You are just being a tattletale and trying to get someone into trouble.


Someone is engaging in dangerous behavior.


You are just trying to get your child to bed and they aren't listening.


You see someone trying to steal something.


A simple pointing to a sign will make someone understand the rules.


A person has total disregard to the rules after notice and warnings.


telling a furniture salesmen I just wanted to look around the store

Hypothesis: It is rude to refuse help.


Hypothesis: It is rude to refuse help.


Hypothesis: It is rude to refuse help.

You're at work and not allowed for a customer to help.


Hypothesis: It is rude to refuse help.

The person offering help is doing so to maintain control over you.


Hypothesis: It is rude to refuse help.

You can manage things on your own just fine.


not giving gifts to my sister like I do for my friends

It's not okay to expect your sibling to give you gifts they give their friends.

You like the same things their friends do


Your sibling has always given you gifts throughout life.


you really wanted that gift for yourself


Hypothesis: It's ok to call out criminal behavior.

It would put your school age child in harm's way.


Hypothesis: It's ok to call out criminal behavior.

You are in the vicinity of a police department.


Hypothesis: It's ok to call out criminal behavior.


Hypothesis: It's ok to call out criminal behavior.

The police are already there arresting people.


Hypothesis: It's ok to call out criminal behavior.

the victims of the crime are your children


asking my long-term girlfriend when she was going to clean her shit from the toilet

It's fine to ask someone why they haven't done something they are supposed to do.


You are causing rebelling by constantly nagging.


The person needs a reminder of a forgotten chore.


they have had more than enough time to do it.


They just started work and are working on it.


It has been days past the deadline that it was supposed to be done.


letting my dog pee on my wife's side of the bed

It's wrong to let your dog urinate on something important to your family.

The dog is old and sick and can't help himself.


Those important items are irreplaceable.


The dog urinated on the freshly mowed and manicured grass.


refusing to dance with a girl half my age

Hypothesis: It is rude to reject someone.


Hypothesis: It is rude to reject someone.


refusing to laugh at comments that aren't funny

It's okay not to find certain things humorous.

You have also lost interest in other things that used to bring you joy.


Your child is doing a comedy routine for you.


It's OK to not be comfortable with your gender.


You have always felt like you were born in the wrong body.


You have no access to gender affirming treatment.


you have access to gender affirming treatment in healthcare.


interviewing elsewhere when I've already accepted a job

Hypothesis: It is okay to look for your best job.


Hypothesis: It is okay to look for your best job.

You went to graduate school and have a masters


Hypothesis: It is okay to look for your best job.

It would pay less and not support the people who you are already supporting.


Hypothesis: It is okay to look for your best job.


Hypothesis: It is okay to look for your best job.

you have savings to live on while searching.


Hypothesis: It is okay to look for your best job.

you need money now and need to take any job.


Hypothesis: It is okay to look for your best job.

you have the financial stability to do so.


You have a right to expect others to be punctual.

they are experiencing a medical emergency.


They had plenty of notice of when to be there.


They call you up to tell you they will be late.


getting upset with my wife in public because she let my kids get close to an alligator

It's fine to get mad at your spouse in a public place if they were allowed to get close to danger.

They race professionally and danger is part of their job.


There death would leave you widowed with several young children.


They're a police officer and you always knew danger was part of their job.


You let them know you're just worried about them.


Your spouse didn't know they were in any danger.


They purposely tried to harm themselves.


You know your spouse loves to put himself in danger.


Neither of you were aware it was dangerous.


uninviting my son and granddaughter to Thanksgiving dinner because he couldn't commit to arriving by a certain time

You should be flexible towards other peoples' schedules on Thanksgiving.


you're cooking for several people that have already shown up


You only have a small window of time to have your dinner.


Other people have other dinners to go to


Hypothesis: It's OK to ask for help from a friend.


Hypothesis: It's OK to ask for help from a friend.

You constantly ask for help and don't do things on your own.


being angry with a close family friend by not telling my family of her husband's death and funeral

It is expected that you are understanding with those who are grieving a death.


the person who died tried to kill your parents


The person that died was a child murderer


accusing my daughter's teacher of racism and getting her fired

Hypothesis: Racism is wrong.


Hypothesis: Racism is wrong.


Hypothesis: Racism is wrong.

Nothing wrong has been done to you personally.


Hypothesis: Racism is wrong.

You are a hateful person saying it on TV


Hypothesis: Racism is wrong.

it is systemically embedded in a society.


Hypothesis: Racism is wrong.

It hurts a group of people based o their skin color.


wanting the so to handle the end of day routine for the kid

It is expected that both parents pitch in to help with children.

One parent has signed over rights to the child to the other.


One of them is ill or otherwise incapacitated .


One parent is in the hospital permanently.


telling my girlfriend that I didn't want to hear about her experience being sexually assaulted

It is insensitive to not listen to your significant other's traumatic experience.

they keep telling you about it over and over again.


you are in couples counseling with them.


You have heard them more times than you can remember and they use them as a crutch when you are upset with them.


They are going through therapy and bad members go with the territory.


Hearing their traumatic experience brings back painful memories of your own trauma.


When you make a mistake, those you care about deserve an explanation.


You affected their lives and made them worry


The mistake only makes sense in context.


It is hurtful to not invite someone to a funeral of a person they knew.

That person was the cause of their death


The person was the closest person to the one who died


You do not know their contact information to reach them.


They are an immediate family member of the deceased.


They made a scene at the last funeral they attended.


It's wrong to expect people to deliver food to you when the weather is bad.

The restaurant is on the lower floor of your apartment building.


You live way out at the end of a rarely cleared rural road.


The place you ordered food from is right around the corner.


The place you ordered food from is 10 miles away.


feeling I need to cut my mom out of my life

Hypothesis: You should always support your family.

Your family doesn't want anything to do with you.


Hypothesis: You should always support your family.

Your family tries their best to support you.


Hypothesis: You should always support your family.


Hypothesis: You should always support your family.

Your family participates in illegal activities


Hypothesis: You should always support your family.

They only want money because you are rich


Hypothesis: You should always support your family.

They have starved, beaten and abandoned you.


It is customary to tip even pick up orders.


You're in a country where they don't tip.


You know the staff of the restaurant are not paid well.


expecting my fiancé to invite me to her bosses party

You shouldn't expect your partner to invite you to her bosses' party.

you and your partner have the same boss.


your partner's bosses' party is an employee only party.


The event occurs during the normal workday.


Families are welcome to attend the event.


Hypothesis: It is good to be self sufficient


Hypothesis: It is good to be self sufficient

You are collecting disability checks from the government.


Hypothesis: It is good to be self sufficient

You cut yourself off from all human interaction.


telling one of my suite mates that I don't want to eat with her

It's okay to want to spend time away from others.


You want to use that time to kill yourself.


You never get a chance to be by yourself


You haven't talked to another human being for years.


Your job is on a remote oil rig far away from everyone else.


It's good to talk to members of the opposite sex.


You hope to meet the right person to marry and raise a family together.


You have anxiety and are not able to speak to them.


You are trying to get to know them better.


It's reasonable to be upset that a parent is hiding a cancer diagnosis.

They are trying to hide that it is a pre-existing condition while they get insurance.


They were doing it to protect your innocence.


They led you to believe they were sick in a different way.


You thought your parent could tell you anything


You are not that close with your parent.


not wanting to drink with my friends kids

It's okay not to want to do things with your friends and their kids.

You were the one that invited them to go do something.


Their kids cannot behave themselves whenever they're around you.


you have a prior play date scheduled with them.


The things you're doing contribute to your wellbeing.


The things you would be doing are boring.


reporting a noise complaint against my hearing impaired neighbor

Filing complaints is much better than trying to handle situations on your own.

The situation is minor and can be handled in a civil manner.


threatening to show everyone nudes of my ex when she showed another guy nudes of her

You shouldn't show nudes of yourself to someone else if you're in a relationship.


you're being evaluated for plastic surgery


You are showing them to a plastic surgeon for consultation.


being upset with my best friend while she's going through some stuff

You should be there to support your friends when they are having a tough time.

They made fun of you in front of the girl you have a crush on.


They just got out of a hospital after a suicide attempt.


You have to work overtime and are unable to.


telling my wife off for having her mom in the room when she was giving birth

It's wrong to be rude to people just because they care about someone.


The person they care about is a bed person


They love that person more than anything


They are defending someone they care about who hurt innocent children.


The person they care about is very sick.


They are crazies who idealize a serial killer.


You have information concerning their loved one.


not showing up to work when I did not want to

People are expected to consistently show up for work.


They work in a customer service position.


They were just hired and want to keep the job.


It's ok to have clear boundaries with family members.


Someone is coming into your home without permission.


refusing to say "I love you" to my partner

It's understandable to be concerned if your partner doesn't seem to love you back.

They keep saying the words but it feels like lies.


They are not very emotional in the first place.


They are usually very affectionate but aren't right now.


Your partner just experienced a great loss.


Your partner is going away from the home for long periods of time.


It is nice to do favors for your neighbors.


they are not able to physically do some things.


They have physical disabilities that makes it difficult for them to do many tasks.


Your neighbors don't do the same for you ever.


possibly putting an end to the start of a relationship between my ex and one of my best friend

It's not okay to get involved in other peoples personal lives.


They can't fend for themselves and they need your help.


You don't want them to interfere with your life.


You are trying to help them heal from an accident.


It's about their relationship with their spouse.


they're strangers you have never even met


It's okay to insist on medical help for someone that needs it.

They only have a minor problem and someone else has a much more severe problem that needs to be addressed first


They wouldn't seek treatment without your insistence.


That person has the supplies to deal with the medical problem on their own.


they have a do not resuscitate order and don't want the help.


they are clearly suffering from a life threatening situation.


spending time with my girlfriend in the room with a shared roommate

It's good to spend time with your partner.


you are trying to light the spark back into your relationship


They have asked for some breathing room for a little while.


You want to become closer and feel more in tune as a couple.


being rude to my friends dad because of his past job

It's unacceptable to be rude to a friend's father.

They hit on you while your friend was in the other room.


You are having dinner with your friends family.


refusing to dance with a girl half my age

It is wrong to discriminate based on age.


you are putting others at risk of injury.


It is because there is alcohol involved.


It's a child and they're entirely too young.


Older people can’t keep up with your job type


You have elderly people you know that are very smart


calling my flakey friend out when she was having a bad day

You shouldn't flake out on your friends.


You can't afford to do what they invited you to.


you promised to show up for something with them.


You have made the dinner reservations and offered to pay.


revealing my dad's infidelity and potentially breaking up my parents' marriage

You shouldn't force your kids to keep your secrets for you

The secrets are about your spouses surprise birthday party.


The secrets require them to lie for you.


You are planning a surprise party for their other parent.


it is to help surprise a parent for a birthday.


Your secret is that you're helping slaves escape their legal owners.


The secret is that they don't have enough food to eat.


It can be mean to ask a parent to reduce contact with you.


They are rude to you every time you see them.


They have always been supportive of everything you do.


There visits trigger terrible flash backs and nightmares in you.


The only reason is because your partner doesn't want to be inconvenienced.


"snitching" on my classmate for plagiarizing a few of his essays

You shouldn't plagiarize your assignments.

You got permission from the teacher to do so.


It will cause you to fail the assignment.


Your assignment requires you to give an example of plagiarism.


You want to not be kicked out of school.


ending a potential relationship because the guy in question is ignorant and cringe

It is okay to have personal standards for dating.


You are looking for a serious relationship.


Your standards are limited to them showering and brushing their teeth regularly


asking my mother to un-invite my abusive ex step-dad for christmas dinner

It's expected that family will want to be together for the Holidays.


they've historically never celebrated holidays together.


it's the only time of year they see each other.


The family members are all in different states.


telling my (sensitive) obese friend to lose weight and change his lifestyle

It is rude to point out their weight problem constantly.

They ask you if you think they are overweight.


You want to try to motivate them to lose weight.


They are trying really hard to lose weight.


outing my sister's husband for doing drugs

It's good to tell on others if they are doing something harmful.

You are afraid you might get hurt by them


Unless the consequences would do more harm than the harmful behavior.


Those people are prone to becoming violent.


Those people are your family or friends.


not cooking differently for my girlfriend

You should cook different things for your partner.


You want to dazzle your partner with your culinary talents.


Your partner has a lot of food allergies.


you don't want your partner to get tired of your cooking.


They do the cooking because they like it and are good at it.


not letting my bf have a man bun at our university ball

Hypothesis: It's ok to express your personal style.


Hypothesis: It's ok to express your personal style.


Hypothesis: It's ok to express your personal style.

You have to wear a uniform during school hours.


Hypothesis: It's ok to express your personal style.

It is inappropriate for the setting such as church or court.


Hypothesis: It's ok to express your personal style.

The place you plan to be welcomes and encourages individuality.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to space from people.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to space from people.

You just got out of a long term relationship.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to space from people.

Those people are small children in your care.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to space from people.

You are constantly surrounded by people at work


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to space from people.

You are part of an astronaut team on a space shuttle.


being mad at my friend that she talks to her boyfriend 24/7

You should tell your friend what is bothering you.

the problem is a secret that you have promised not to share.


your friend is always supportive and helpful.


If you want to make the friendship last.


It is something you will get over in a few minutes.


snooping through my boyfriend's phone a second time

People are expected to remain faithful to their significant other.


that significant other is faithful to them.


Their significant other provides for the entire family.


The marriage problems cannot be resolved after many tries.


The marriage has survived problems and people keep holding things together.


pretending not to know Spanish when approached by a beggar

It's disingenuous to pretend not to understand a language.

You want to know what mean things someone is saying about you.


you're doing it to get yourself out of a bad situation.


You are doing this to humiliate a service worker


You don’t want to talk to someone because they’re annoying


buying my dream guitar? my fiance is threatening to leave me over it

It is expected that when people get engaged they will discuss major purchases.

they're really young, naive, and bad at planning ahead


they have limited funds and want to make it stretch


The purchase is going to be a surprise for the other.


They want to start their lives together getting something they can share together.


they have a difference of opinion on the product.


They lived together and already have a furnished home.


They lived separately and are setting up a gift registry for their new home.


Siblings often find each other to be extremely annoying, which is expected.

They are twins who are exceptionally close to each other.


They are a few years apart and different genders.


saying that Netflix changing a foreign name into an americanized name is good

It's okay that not everyone can agree on what names are best for television shows.


It's still in the early stages of planning the show.


You are naming your own show that you wrote.


calling Uber's emergency support and the police non-emergency line because my co-ride in an Uber pool was a 5is year old girl and possibly got the Uber driver fired

It's inappropriate for a child to travel alone in an Uber.


the child has never been in a taxi before


The child is related to the uber driver.


The child has no parental supervision getting into the car.


wanting my friend to get his own gym membership

It's expected that you don't want your friends to leech off things you've subscribed to.

They are your roommates and it is reciprocal.


There could be legal ramifications if someone found out.


They only act like they are interested because you are wealthy


You have a lot of subscriptions you don't use a lot.


You only have a limited set of subscriptions.


telling my friend to slow down when eating

It's acceptable to tell someone to have better table manners.


they're struggling to eat because they have a disability


you are eating with them at a fancy restaurant


They are young children who need to learn them.


trying to work things out with an asshole

It is good to work through interpersonal problems with others

They're being completely unreasonable and refuse to budge.


It's people you work with on a daily basis.


You are dealing with people who are stubborn


You want to remain friends with these people


If it will make the situation much more tolerable.


You've already tried that and need to escalate.


going on a roadtrip without my boyfriend

Hypothesis: It's okay to go on a trip.


Hypothesis: It's okay to go on a trip.


Hypothesis: It's okay to go on a trip.

the money should have went to pay bills instead.


Hypothesis: It's okay to go on a trip.

You save up for tickets for a long time.


Women often don't like being compared to men.


They're being told they are better than men at something.


They're being told their not as smart as men.


Someone is joking about their sexuality.


Don't do anything bad to your nieces of nephews.


you want to remain in the family's good graces


They have a weapon and they're trying to kill or injure you.


You don't want your parents to disown you.


using my baby's fathers card to buy a stroller

It's wrong to steal from someone no matter who they are.


You steal their rent payment and food money.


you are starving and take a little food.


unless you're stealing to feed your starving children


you're stealing one of the few things they have to their name


Hypothesis: It is expected to stay close to family.


Hypothesis: It is expected to stay close to family.

A family member takes in the heirloom silverware to be professionally cleaned.


Hypothesis: It is expected to stay close to family.

It is used at all the big family dinners.


People are expected to be supportive of their friends.

There friends are engaging in criminal activities.


Their friends are trying to better themselves.


Their friends are doing something illegal.


Your friends need help dealing with a problem.


Their friends have supported them in the past.


Their friends sat by their bedside every day they were in the hospital.


reminding my dad of a shitty thing he said to me

It is wrong to hold a grudge over something someone said.

It was so hurtful that it stays in your mind for months.


they said something out of anger and immediately apologized.


the person never apologized for what was said.


the person felt remorse and apologized for what was said.


they were intentionally trying to hurt your feelings


They regret telling you something that hurt you.


They genuinely apologized for the remark.


You are allowed to be friends with older or younger people.


Unless the younger people are underage and you want friends with benefits.


You like your friends parents as well as your friends children.


A young child's parents do not want you to be the child's friend


you are a pedophile and the younger people are children.


You go to school with students of all ages.


making plans with friend then canceling after a possible snowstorm

If acclimate weather approaches it is ok to stay safe.

Your work requires you to be in the storm.


You don't have supplies in your safe room.


You have a well stocked emergency pantry.


You're part of the Coast Guard and it's your job to help rescue stranded people.


You stocked up on food and batteries ahead of time.


paying off my wife's loans without asking

You should help out your partner financially.


They have taken advantage of you and ruined your credit.


you are having trouble with your own finances.


it is something important to your partner.


Hypothesis: It's good to have different interests.


Hypothesis: It's good to have different interests.

Your interests are all focused on health.


Hypothesis: It's good to have different interests.

You value different types of people as your friends.


taking a job only as a stopgap until the job I want opens

It's okay to take a job as a temporary measure.

the employer is looking for a permanent employee.


it is a part-time job with no commitments


You have no savings and a mortgage payment.


you've led the employer to believe it is permanent.


You should get enough sleep so that you're not tired throughout the day.


You have children to take care of during the day.


you have a lot of obligations to complete


you're operating heavy machinery during the day


You have a concussion and shouldn't be asleep.


making my friend feel bad for not rooming with me

You should respect your friends decision.


Your friend decides to break a serious law.


Your friend is deciding what to do with their career.


It involves hanging with the wrong crowd


It involves moving to another state for a job


asking my bf to stop joking about his abuse around me

It's okay to ask your partner to stop joking about something that bothers you.

your partner is trying to help you get over what's bothering you


They have been going on about it over and over.


They have asked you if you want them to stop.


They are continuing even though they see that you aren’t laughing.


Hypothesis: Not everyone likes babies.

They work in a maternity ward at the hospital.


Hypothesis: Not everyone likes babies.


It's understandable to be loyal to your friend.


Your friend has been disloyal to you repeatedly in the past.


You have been friends for a very long time.


You have known your friend for a long time.


It's okay that sometimes there are reasons people prefer not to visit relatives.


They are avoiding them because of substance abuse.


They back out at the last minute all the time.


getting mad at a friend for not caring about my safety

It is bad not to care about a friends safety.


Your friend minimizes risks like leaving your home early.


Your friend leaves your home late at night.


Your concerns starts to infringe upon their lifestyle.


They are doing something very dangerous.


Especially if they are doing something dangerous.


It's good to help your family with chores.


things are getting pretty dirty around you


They become so dependent on you they can't help themselves.


Some of the family members are sick or injured.


You broke you arm and have to wear a cast for a week.


You want to show that you are responsible and a big kid.


You still live at home with your parents rent free.


You shouldn't expect your kids to want to spend time with you.


They are young and you aren't home much.


You provide an affectionate and protective home for them.


Your kids can find acceptance and kindness elsewhere.


It is your birthday and you want to bond with them.


They are teenagers and want to go out with their friends.


It is expected to be there for someone who is depressed.


There are no mental health services available in the community.


There is a non profit mental health clinic that does pro Bono work.


thinking it's ridiculous to sign a card and donate money for flowers because my supervisor's manager's boss's brother-in-law died

It is acceptable to not spend money when you do not want to.


You need to buy a gift for someone special.


You are trying to save money for a down payment on a house.


It's okay to want to see family members you are close to.

You are on the run and a visit could endanger them.


They are getting on in years and you haven's seen them in a long time.


feeling shitty about 4 of my best friends dating

You should be happy with your friends who are in relationships.


Your friend was also in a relationship with your girlfriend.


They are in a relationship with your husband.


They have been single and sad a long time.


You should be observant while operating a vehicle.

You are in an automated car and can take your eyes off the road for a minute.


You are having a medical emergency while driving


scheduling my wedding date for the same day as my adult niece's birthday

It's OK to have your special occasion whenever it suits you.


You're planning to have it the same day as your best friend's wedding.


You spend so much time on special occasions you don't appreciate every day.


You like to have a little special fun day to make your spirits high.


It's the same day as someone else's special occasion.


It takes away from another friend or family member's  already planned special occasion.


booking a holiday for myself, against my parents wishes

It's wrong to do things your family doesn't agree with.

Your family isn't involved in your life.


they are always disagreeing with your things.


Hypothesis: It is good to want to improve yourself.


Hypothesis: It is good to want to improve yourself.

You're considering having even more plastic surgery.


Hypothesis: It is good to want to improve yourself.

You want to grow and achieve more as a person.


Hypothesis: It is good to want to improve yourself.

You want to improve your bank robbing skills.


Hypothesis: It is good to want to improve yourself.

It takes over your life and you can't enjoy the moments.


Hypothesis: It is good to want to improve yourself.

You know you have issues you need to work on.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to drink.

You are really sick and need your fluids.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to drink.

You have to drive and are at a party that is serving alcohol.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to drink.

You're taking part in a drinking competition.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not want to drink.


speaking my up about my feelings to my parents who paid my college tuition

Hypothesis: You should be there for your family.


Hypothesis: You should be there for your family.


Hypothesis: You should be there for your family.

Your family doesn't keep in touch with you.


Hypothesis: You should be there for your family.

Your family is always trying to be in your life.


Hypothesis: You should be there for your family.

You're living in another country where it's not always feasible to be with them.


Hypothesis: You should be there for your family.

They've always been supportive of you all of your life.


It's hurtful when loved ones don't visit their family.


They're stranded in another country and can't get back home anytime soon.


You should respect the rules of someone's home.


You're visiting the parents of your new significant other.


The person tells you to welcome to do as you please.


It is the first time you have been invited over.


telling my roommate he can't use our kitchen

It's wrong to tell someone you live with that they can't use a certain area.


You don't want them in your room when you're not there.


They help clean up everything and pay rent on time


talking on the phone in a shared rideshare

It is okay to let someone know that you are busy and will call them back later


You know what they want is not that important.


You have no intention of ever calling them back.


You are in the middle of a work meeting.


They are having an emergency and need you to give them a ride.


They are always making unreasonable demands of your time.


The person will be deploying and won’t be near a phone for awhile.


not buying my GF Enough Gifts for Valentines Day

It is ok to not get someone a lot of Valentines gifts if you put a lot of thought into them.


you do not have enough money to get something better.


you're with someone who's very materialistic


you're with someone who's not very materialistic


You know they prefer quantity over quality.


You get them the one thing they really wanted.


being a dialysis patient and rejecting a potential doner costing my Dad a large portion of his family

Being selfish with family can damage even the strongest relationships.

The other people know you and understand.


You consistently choose your family over your spouse.


The family doesn't have a lot to begin with.


You would do anything to protect your whole family


Your brother thinks you spend way too much time with family members that are toxic


the relationships were already beyond repair


your family always helps you in times of need


getting tattoos against my parents wishes

Hypothesis: It is expected to obey your parents.


Hypothesis: It is expected to obey your parents.


Hypothesis: It is expected to obey your parents.

They are asking you to do immoral things.


Hypothesis: It is expected to obey your parents.

They squandered the family fortune on drugs.


starting to talk with a girl after a year

Hypothesis: It is bad to go back to old habits.


Hypothesis: It is bad to go back to old habits.


Hypothesis: It is bad to go back to old habits.

Those habits are good habits, like getting enough sleep.


Hypothesis: It is bad to go back to old habits.

Those habits are costly, like smoking cigarettes.


Hypothesis: It is bad to go back to old habits.

they have some nostalgia attached to them.


not letting my bf have a man bun at our university ball

It's understandable to want your significant other to look their best during an important event.


They'll be meeting your parents for the first time.


wanting new roomie to help pay for utility installation

Hypothesis: It is okay to ask for help.


Hypothesis: It is okay to ask for help.


Hypothesis: It is okay to ask for help.

Someone offers and you want to take them up on it.


getting angry at my dad for saying the "n word" at the dinner table

Hypothesis: It's rude to use a racial slur.

you are auditioning for a part in a play that uses the slurs.


Hypothesis: It's rude to use a racial slur.

there are people around you who would be hurt by it.


Hypothesis: It's rude to use a racial slur.


Hypothesis: It's rude to use a racial slur.

You're teaching a class about what words are racial slurs.


Hypothesis: It's rude to use a racial slur.

You are describing what someone else said


venting with a co-worker over dinner about her boss

People are expected to respect their bosses.


the boss is unjust, unfair, biased, or racist


the boss shows employees the same respect in return


It is hurtful to block a friend without telling them why.

The friend is stalking you and you don't feel safe having any contact with them.


The two of you have been friends for a long time.


You have broken up a relationship with a close friend.


you accidentally block the wrong friend.


They have continued to do something that you have told them hurts you.


telling my friend I don't want to have Christmas Dinner in his distopian Pan-optical Nightmare House

It's good to have a filter rather than being excessively harsh with someone.


They are resistant to criticism and are likely to be just as critical as you.


Gambling all of your money is irresponsible.

It was earmarked for gambling and your bills are all paid.


You are gambling with your rent, bill and food money.


You work at a casino and it's your job to test all the slot machines.


You don't have enough money to pay the rent and buy food.


You have no wife or children and have an incurable disease.


refusing to go to my best friends wedding because I'm not a groomsman

People are expected to ask their best friend to be their groomsman or bridesmaid in their wedding.

Everyone knows you want a sibling instead.


You were very close your whole life and there's no family.


You already promised your brother or sister that they could be in the wedding.


You were already groomsman or bridesmaid in their wedding.


They were a bridesmaid or best man in their best friend's wedding.


they made a promise to someone else they'd put them in that role


their best friend is really good friends with their spouse too


not wanting to call my dads step-mum Grandma

It is expected that a father would be more encouraging when their child is going through a difficult situation

The child broke the law in a violent way.


The child was put into the situation by adults who mistreated them.


the father is trying to make the situation a learning experience.


wanting to stop being friends with an autistic kid

It is hurtful to stop being friends with a child with autism.


You just don't like their neurodivergent behavior.


you move far away from where the child lives


You stop being friends because your parents move away.


You blame them for the friendship breaking up.


They've become aggressive towards you whenever you're around them.


You're one of the few people they trust.


tripling a former employers billing rate

It is acceptable to raise the billing rate of a former employee.

They took you to court and it was part of the order.


They are now working in a different industry.


a former employee fails to meet your expectation.


The employee's contract prohibits raising billing rates.


getting mad at my boyfriend for complimenting me

Getting mad at someone for saying nice things to you is selfish.

They are a stranger and they are catcalling you.


They're intentionally doing it just to irritate you.


It's your significant other telling you.


The person's compliments were said in a creepy way.


The person complimenting you was your grandma.


asking my pregnant wife not to smoke weed to help with her morning sickness

It's appropriate to ask your partner not to do something that might be harmful to them.


Your partner is passionate about body modification.


It is something that they really want to do.


It is ok to be upset when a friend excludes you from playing a game.


The game is one that you've said you don't like.


The game is one that your friend knows you love to play.


You are right there and could have played.


You know you're not skilled in that sport.


Your friend asked you to play in the first place.


scheduling my wedding date for the same day as my adult niece's birthday

It's good to respect the plans of others.

The plans make you do something against your will.


something important comes up at the last minute.


You shouldn't always expect your friends to hang out with you.


You are only in town visiting a short time.


Your friends promised to spend time with you.


Your friend is very busy with work and school.


not wanting to talk about my stomach medicine in front of my date

It is normal to be embarrassed by your stomach issues.


Especially if you are attending a fancy dinner party.


Your stomach issues have no noticeable symptoms.


Your stomach issues are particularly noisy.


It's rude to choose a friend over your significant other.

Your significant other is controlling and abusive.


Your SO is sick and can't attend the concert.


You leave a dinner with your significant other to take your friend to the emergency room.


You already had plans with your significant other.


Your significant other is ill with the flu.


Your significant other needs your help with something.


You promised to do something with your partner before your friend.


It's polite to accept food that is offered by your hosts.


You are allergic to some of the ingredients.


You're allergic to the food being offered.


You should expect your roommate to be upset if you bring an animal into the house without asking them.

You are blind and it's a seeing eye dog.


They have expressed a desire for a pet and the animal is for them.


Your roommate is allergic to that kind of animal.


It's a cute puppy and it's only for a couple of hours.


not buying candy for my little cousins who's mom just died

You should support family in times of need.

they weren't supportive in your needed times.


You're in jail and can't provide financial or physical support.


You're in a position where your own life is stable.


you are unable to offer the type of support they need.


family has supported you in times of need.


It's fine to refuse sex to someone you're married to

You are in the mood and want to do it too


you do it for years with no explanation.


criticizing my girlfriend's excessive Instagram browsing when I myself browse Reddit the same amount

Hypothesis: It is wrong to criticize your partner.

They did something stupid on purpose and got fired from a job.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to criticize your partner.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to criticize your partner.

They keep messing up the food while cooking


Hypothesis: It is wrong to criticize your partner.

they have asked for constructive criticism.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to criticize your partner.

They pushed an elderly woman down the steps.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to criticize your partner.

They just lost their brother in a skiing accident.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to criticize your partner.

they asked you to improve paper they are working on.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to criticize your partner.

they are very sensitive to being criticized.


have arguments with a mom can help settle things.


She is one of the stubborn zodiac signs.


Especially if you are trying to clear the air.


telling my coworker off for being childish

You shouldn't argue with your coworkers.

they are arguing with you about a work assignment.


Unless you know they are doing something wrong.


Especially if you aren't sure you're right.


Your coworkers determine if you get a raise.


They are making bigoted comments about you and you need to defend yourself.


You are trying to collaborate with them on an important project.


getting upset that my girlfriend constantly cancels our plans

It's rude to continually cancel plans you have made with someone else.


You are not calling them ahead of time to let them know that you aren't going to make it.


you are canceling for very valid reasons.


You're cancelling for other plans with friends each time.


The other person bought tickets for an event


If a relationship isn't working, it's OK to find someone new.


The relationship has worked for several years before now.


Unless you are the reason it's not working.


you have ended your previous relationship.


breaking up with my bf because he refuses to get a therapist

It's good to be concerned about your partner's mental well-being.


there's too much on your plate to take it into consideration


they've been completing a lot of NLP tasks on Mechanical Turk


Your partner has never had a mental health issue.


wanting to move away so I can marry soulmate and not staying to babysit my brother's kids

It's good to pursue love, even if it means moving away

The career you have where you're at pays well.


It means moving away from your young kids.


you are already in a relationship with the person.


refusing to let homeless "friend" even visit my place

It is reasonable to be upset if your friend will not let you in their home.

Your friend has a highly contagious disease


Their home is being repainted or remodeled and no one can go in there.


There's nothing wrong with their house and you consider him a close friend.


insisting to my friends that when we split for something that they should pay me back asap even on amounts under $10 rather than waiting for them to shout me back or for me to 'let it slide'

It's acceptable to demand someone pay you back.

you had previously told them they didn't have to.


You originally gave them money as a gift


The person had already promised to repay you


You have already told them not to worry about it.


You told them ahead of time that you would need to be paid back.


you told them they did not have to when you paid for them.


they promised it by a certain time, and that time has passed.


wanting to go out with my friends even though Im a married mom

Maintaining social relationships outside of your responsibilities is okay.

they interfere with your responsibilities.


You need to let off steam and have a good time once in a while.


You are befriending people who are bad influences.


being upset at my boyfriend for letting his mother be a control freak

You should help your partner and not get angry.


Your partner is playing an electric guitar at 3am the night before you have an important meeting at work.


Your partner is trying to renovate your home and needs your help.


The asking for help is getting to be a habit.


Your partner has helped you plenty of times.


They are asking for help on things they usually do on their own because you have company.


They are recovering from an illness, injury or surgery.


When your partner compliments you it is expected that you will say thank you.

the compliment was given in a sarcastic manner.


You have an understanding in your relationship.


Your partner's compliment made you feel good.


It is rude to ask friends for free things.

Your friends are giving away their belongings.


you have a coupon and they are the store clerk


You are extremely close to them and share your things freely too.


They are not real close friends and are struggling themselves to make ends meet.


Hypothesis: It's rude to just abandon a friend.


Hypothesis: It's rude to just abandon a friend.

The friend has asked for some personal space.


Hypothesis: It's rude to just abandon a friend.

You are in a potentially dangerous situation.


Hypothesis: It's rude to just abandon a friend.

The friend did something to purposely hurt you.


Hypothesis: It's rude to just abandon a friend.

they're threatening to abuse or harm you


Hypothesis: It's rude to just abandon a friend.

They have said something insulting to you.


letting my boyfriend's passport expire before our trip

It's wrong to just let things go if they are important.

The building is on fire and you need to leave the thing before or else you will die.


The item hold a lot of memories for you.


The problems will get bigger the longer you ignore


You have decide to give up after failing at many attempts.


You're having an anxiety attack about the things.


ignoring a construction workers instructions

It's perilous to ignore the advice of an expert in their field.

the expert isn't up to date on information.


You are ignoring a doctor's medical advice.


You want to follow what your beliefs are.


talking to a guy who asked out my sister

It's wrong to get involved with someone who asked out your family member.


You would only be a replacement for your family member


Your family member married and divorced the person.


The two of you are true soulmates and your family member understands.


They hurt your family member a lot and your family member doesn't want you to.


not wanting to go to the same place for vacation as my wife

Hypothesis: It's okay to want to try new things.

The specific new things you want to try are illegal.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to try new things.

You've been stuck in a rut for a few years.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to try new things.

the new things that you want to try are illegal.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to try new things.

you want to expand your horizons and make new friends.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to try new things.


It is wrong to do things that might hurt your friends


Especially if you want to keep your friends.


It was just plain thoughtlessness instead of something intentional.


You are turning your friends in to the police for illegal behavior.


not letting someone go with me and my friends to see Avengers Endgame

It's normal not to want your younger siblings to hang out with you and your friends.


they embarrass you in front of your friends.


you are twins and have all the same classmates.


your sibling is much younger and is bothering your friends.


You're supervising your younger siblings.


Your younger siblings have better things to do.


you are supposed to be babysitting them.


You shouldn't let customers walk out on the bill.


You know they have money with them to pay for it.


You made a mistake and decided to comp their purchase.


You are a restaurant owner and the customer ordered a lot of expensive food.


The customers complained about the restaurant food and got a free meal.


it is expected that they will pay for their food.


It is OK to block someone's bad behavior over a roleplay.


They've been told to stop but ignore that.


Unless they were responding to your bad behavior.


Especially if they are verbally abusing you.


It's okay to be late in meeting someone if you have a good reason.

You have been late so many times you have an ultimatum that if it happens again no matter the reason you will be fired.


They are giving birth to your first child.


Hypothesis: It is okay to joke around with friends.


Hypothesis: It is okay to joke around with friends.

You are out for a night to be silly and fun.


Hypothesis: It is okay to joke around with friends.

They are sensitive to your kind of humor.


defending my girlfriend against a drunk neighbor

It's wrong to get drunk and harass others.


They plied you with liquor against your will.


It is Saint Patrick's Day and you are among friends.


It is harmless banter with a good friend.


It's acceptable to protect yourself from getting sick.

you are putting others lives in danger by abandoning them.


you are highly susceptible to illness and could die from it.


You're taking away medical supplies from others.


You're not doing it at the expense of others.


you are harming others by protecting yourself.


not wanting to be friends with someone who refuses to get tested for sti's

You are expected to respect other people's privacy.


they specifically said they want their privacy


Unless you are concerned about their well being.


They've passed away and you need to go through their things.


thinking my GF cheated on me based of a dream

it's wrong to make judgement about people with out any good reason.


A friend you trust has told you of the awful things they've done


It is only based on a moment of seeing someone's physical appearance.


You are playing a harmless people watching game with a friend at the mall.


You have the ability to persuade others in a negative way  against the person.


telling my brother and sister-in-law who just had a baby to pull their heads out of their asses

You should be respectful of people who just had a baby.


They were doing drugs while they were pregnant.


not wanting to spend time with my family for not letting me hang out with some friends

It's OK to avoid family when they put constraints on your life.

The constraints are protecting you and your well-being.


They are preventing you from achieving your goals


you are a caregiver for a family member.


your mental health is suffering because of it.


They make you stop taking drugs after a recent overdose.


not giving my friends free food after I payed for it

It's understandable to resent people wanting to take advantage of you.

You really don't mind because you would help them anyway.


Your intentions were sincere and they hurt you emotionally.


They borrowed something in the past and never returned it.


Especially if they don't care about your feelings.


confronting my husband about the porn I found

If your partner uses porn, you can talk to them.

Unless you think it helps your relationship.


Especially if you think it harms your relationship.


You are just going to scream at them for their porn use.


saying we should split up because my 1 year girlfriend doesn't want a threesome

It's okay to break up a relationship if it is not a benefit to you or making you a better person


you know the relationship is not going to go anywhere.


you just started the relationship and have the time to figure things out


you've been dating a long time but have come to the conclusion that its not going get better.


You will have nowhere to live if you break up.


not telling my friend that a mutual friend showed me her nudes

Withholding information is the same as telling a lie.

the information would be harmful to someone


You're under a non disclosure agreement and your hands are tied.


The withheld information is crucial in a court of law.


it's intentionally done for financial gain.


getting sad on the anniversary of finding a tumor

It is expected to be sad after getting bad news.

You have a disorder and like receiving bad news.


If it is something about someone you care about.


A pet who was suffering immensely passed away.


You just found out a loved one has died.


You've been diagnosed with a terminal illness.


The bad news is about someone you dislike.


It involves a family member or close friend.


breaking up with my boyfriend for sending our dog to overnight dog training

You should try to be understanding about the decisions of the people you care about.

they have decided to physically harm you.


they are adults who know the consequences of things.


The decisions could lead to arrest and/or incarceration.


They are going through a difficult time in their life.


They are only thinking about their own futures.


You will be making the decisions about their care later in their lives.


considering it my husbands fault that our finances are a mess

You shouldn't put all the blame on one person.

They are the only one who did something wrong.


More than one person contributed to the misunderstanding.


You know for a fact that only one person did something wrong.


They are responsible for decision making for the group.


The decision was reached democratically.


There was no else present at the incident to blame.


The evidence suggests more than one person was involved.


It is wrong to try to overwhelm a friend.


You're trying to get your friend to quit drugs.


You want to repay the havoc they brought to your life when they stole all of your money.


snitching on my friend for throwing an iceball at my face

It is unacceptable to throw things at people.

You are at the park and are playing football.


wanting new roomie to help pay for utility installation

You should discuss household finances with your roommates.


Your roommates don't pay for any finances.


Your roommates split the bills with you.


only one person is responsible for the finances.


You shouldn't get involved with your friend's crush.


Your friend has given you permission to get involved with them.


your friend recently told you they had a crush on that person


Both of you met them in the same day and he is fair game.


Your friend is working up the courage to ask them out.


Hypothesis: You should always pay for things.


You should try to get along with your significant other's friends.

Your significant other is having an affair with them.


Your significant other is close to them.


They spread nasty rumors about you behind your back.


You have some of the same interests as them.


Your significant other doesn't want you around them or they don't like you.


You want your significant other to like you even more and feel closer to you.


One of their friends is constantly hitting on you.


It is important to your significant other.


your partner knows they are difficult and reassures you


getting upset with a friend for canceling plans with me three times in a row at the last minute

It's rude to cancel plans you have made with someone else.


You and the other person have already bought expensive tickets to a Broadway show.


They are already on their way to meet you.


Especially if you're not doing anything else.


It's okay that you might not want to speak to someone who you don't care for.


Especially if they have hurt you in some way.


You have filed a restraining order against them.


asking my mother to un-invite my abusive ex step-dad for christmas dinner

It's understandable to not want to be around someone who is abusive.


They put you in the hospital a month before.


you're able to get away from them safely


That person is a family member with a mental disorder


telling my tutor not to scribble/randomly write things in my personal diaries

You shouldn't scribble on someone's personal item.


You are writing notes in their college textbook.


messaging my friends girlfriend that she should break up with him

You should not take advice on your relationship from your significant others friend.

They are a certified marriage counselor.


They have been giving unsolicited advice.


The friend doesn't know much about your relationship.


Your significant other's friend knows them better than you do.


Your significant other's friend is a bad influence on them.


he knows your significant other really well


the friend seems to be taking your significant other's side.


hanging out in the bathroom at the airport

It's understandable to need some place to go when you have a long wait.


Your flight was canceled and you need a place to sleep.


I couldn't wrap my head around this one.


Especially if you're in a dangerous area.


You must stay there while waiting in order to claim a prize.


telling my younger brother not to be a stereotypical annoying 8 year old Xbox player

It is inappropriate to pick on children.


You're doing it as a part of a play or movie.


You are a grown up with authority over the children.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be depressed.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be depressed.

You're seeking treatment for your condition.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be depressed.

You're basking in your overwhelming negativity.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be depressed.

I don't believe it is possible to undermine the cause of someone's depression.


Hypothesis: It's okay to be depressed.

you recently lost a very important person.