not expecting help with funeral expenses

You should help your family with funeral expenses.

You are not financially stable to help out


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat.

Your professor intentionally gave you a harder test.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat.

Unless you're playing a game where you're supposed to cheat.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat.

You're cheating on your college admission exam.


It's wrong not to take photos with your partner.

You have an aversion to being photographed.


You promised your partner to go to the photo booth.


They want to take a picture to capture a memory.


your partner doesn't like the way they look in photos


you're celebrating a special occasion and want to remember it forever


They tell you they do not want photos taken.


You want to create a scrapbook of your life.


You want your family and friends to know about your partner.


not thanking my friend after he caught my cat that got out

It's understandable if you accidentally lose sight of your pet.

You are near a highway with heavy traffic.


You are at a park and there are children nearby.


your pet is a dangerous dog who tries to bite people.


your pet is just playing out in the backyard.


not talking to my grandad before he passed away

It's expected that family spend time with each other as their life comes to an end.

Someone in your family is estranged and no longer in contact.


The family is close knit and loving throughout the years.


They live very far away from each other.


They are all very close to each other and love each other.


you want to make amends before they are gone


not wanting a relationship with a girl after she broke up with her long distance boyfriend because she was cheating on him

It is smart to avoid getting into a relationship with someone who is dramatic.

You really love the person and can look past it.


You think that the relationship won't work out.


You don't want to be around them when they're making a scene.


You have a heart condition and can't handle drama.


Especially if you don't like the daily drama.


You are easy going and can calm them down.


it's okay to think people should have to pay their own way.

You said the dinner would be your treat.


You are co-workers making the same salary.


this one is very hard and I just can't come up with something good!


Hypothesis: It's wrong to litter in public.

There is a garbage strike and you have absolutely no other choice.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to litter in public.

There is a trash can right there for you to throw your garbage into.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to litter in public.

There is a right there cleaning it up and they assure it is there job.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to litter in public.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to litter in public.

You are at a park or other place of importance.


smoking when my girlfriend doesn't want me to

It's hurtful to smoke when your girlfriend objects to it.


You are breaking up with her and are moving out.


You smoke one cigar when your girlfriend is out of town.


You are smoking in the same room as her.


not wanting to name my son after my girlfriend's ex

It is bad to name a baby after someone you do not like.

your partner has their heart set on that name.


That person will leave you money in their will.


That person has the same name as an honored family member.


you had the name picked out before you knew that person.


that person was physically abusive to you.


not showing up in person to collect tickets to an award ceremony I was nominated for and cut ties with my ex workplace

You should always collect what is yours.


It is your ex's weekend to have the kids per the custody order.


It is money in your savings that will grow interest over time.


What you need to collect is very valuable or important to you.


meeting with my ex to rehash his issues with our relationship and "help" him without telling my husband

It is bad for someone not to tell their spouse they are meeting with an ex

You are dropping your kids off for a scheduled visit.


You still have romantic feelings for your ex.


they are meeting to discuss the children.


they are just handling a business request


they don't want you to see them ever again


The ex has agreed to continue with alimony payments.


Those alimony payments can be applied to our mortgage.


being pissed off at my ex for sending me presents with a note saying "early Valentine's day present"

Hypothesis: You shouldn't get upset at your ex's.

Your ex's are stalking you or making your life difficult now.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get upset at your ex's.

They have their own lives and the two of you have moved on.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get upset at your ex's.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get upset at your ex's.

Unless your ex isn't paying his child support.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get upset at your ex's.

Especially if your ex is a great parent.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get upset at your ex's.

They are trying to pickup their stuff from your house.


getting upset with my girlfriend for not knowing how many minutes are in an hour

Hypothesis: It's understandable to make mistakes.

You knew you were doing something the wrong way.


Hypothesis: It's understandable to make mistakes.

You didn't know the right way to do something.


Hypothesis: It's understandable to make mistakes.

You are a surgeon and the patient's life depends on your work.


Hypothesis: It's understandable to make mistakes.


Hypothesis: It's understandable to make mistakes.

you are repeating the same mistake and not learning from them


Hypothesis: It's understandable to make mistakes.

you are trying to complete a task that is difficult to master on your first try


asking adults to pay for themselves at my daughter's birthday party

It is expected that adults will pay for their things at a party.

The party is being thrown for them as a surprise


They are the host or one putting it together.


Someone is a stay-at-home parent whose partner will pay for them.


It's good to inform your employer of potential workplace problems.


They are already aware and have fixed them


You want to inform them of the company status


The problems are something you can fix on your own.


not stepping in when my little brother was getting picked on

Hypothesis: It's mean to pick on someone.

it is all in good fun and they are doing back to you too.


Hypothesis: It's mean to pick on someone.


Hypothesis: It's mean to pick on someone.

You are ganging up on a new kid at school


Hypothesis: It's mean to pick on someone.

Others are looking up to you as a role model.


Hypothesis: It's mean to pick on someone.

they are being mean to you and you are standing up for yourself


Hypothesis: It's mean to pick on someone.

The person you're picking on is a bully themselves and you're teaching them a lesson.


Hypothesis: It's mean to pick on someone.

They're smaller than you and can be scarred for life.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't block the door.

Someone is trying to steal from your store


Hypothesis: You shouldn't block the door.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't block the door.

You are on a crowded train and there is nowhere else to stand.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't block the door.

Blocking the door is considered a fire hazard.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't block the door.

People need to flee during an emergency.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't block the door.

there is a fire and people are trying to get out


thinking my gf is crazy for wanting to say I love you everytime we get off the phone

You should be upset with your significant other if they want to say I love you less.


You think they don’t love you as much anymore


They demonstrate their love through extra hugs and kisses.


They know that hearing I love you is really important to you.


Especially if they don't want to say it at all.


You know that they want to end the relationship


You think that they may be cheating on you.


not returning my alcoholic dad's phone calls

It's reasonable to not want to talk with an alcoholic parent.

The parent is dying and this is your last chance to see them.


The parent abused you throughout your life.


you need to communicate with them about something important.


you are worried about being around them.


They were abusive and hateful throughout your life.


they asked you for help in getting sober.


they try to cause trouble for you at your workplace.


It's not okay to effect someone else's life you care about in a negative way.

You get cancer or another disease you have no control over getting.


It is through your own selfish action like having an affair when you are married.


You were just doing it to make yourself feel better


they are abusing you and you need to call the police.


you did it intentionally because you were being selfish.


not wanting my best friend to date my ex-girlfriend

It is okay to expect loyalty from your friends.


You have secretly been testing their dependability.


You expect them to stay loyal even after you turn them in to the cops.


telling my dad he overreacted when he called the cops because I wasn't picking up my phone

It is understandable for parents to be concerned about their children.

They adults and can take care of themselves.


The children are still toddlers and can get hurt easily.


Those children have always been well-behaved.


They are helicopter parents who don't allow their children to grow from mistakes and failures.


Their children are not doing well in school.


They are drug addicts and are bad parents


If someone assaults you, they're in the wrong and you should tell authorities.

They were defending themselves against your attack.


It is a hate crime or an assault against a child


You had previously robbed someone that they are close to.


You were minding your own business and did not provoke them.


you threw the first hit or touch to them first


they threw the first hit or touch to you first


You and your partner are acting out one of your fantasies and it's concensual.


They hurt you badly and show no remorse whatsoever.


It's good to want to have ethical people around you.


You use those people to signal your own ethics.


You are trying to make better ethical decisions.


You are a professional comedian who tells racial jokes.


You're planning a crime with those people.


limiting my daughter's contact with my grandfather

Hypothesis: Parents should protect their children.

Their children have psychiatric disorders that cause them to be violent.


Hypothesis: Parents should protect their children.


Hypothesis: Parents should protect their children.

they need to learn the consequences of their actions.


Hypothesis: Parents should protect their children.

they are very young and can't survive on their own yet.


Hypothesis: Parents should protect their children.

They think that their children needs to grow by defending themselves


Hypothesis: Parents should protect their children.

Their child is sick or weak and cannot defend themselves.


Hypothesis: Parents should protect their children.

the children grown and out of the house.


Hypothesis: Parents should protect their children.

The parents don't have guardianship of their children.


Hypothesis: Parents should protect their children.

The children live in the same home as their parents.


losing my temper and screaming at my doctor's staff

It's rude to yell at staff that are trying to help you.


There is a fire and you're yelling to them to evacuate.


They are doing everything in their power to make you happy.


They cannot hear you in the crowded bar.


It's wrong to scare your little brother.


It's halloween and they like to be scared


They don't sleep well at night due to nightmares.


telling my leasing office I'm considering calling the (non emergency) police over noise complaints against my neighbors? or for making so many complaints in general

Hypothesis: It's wrong to make so many complaints.

You're the health inspector in a really bad restaurant.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make so many complaints.

You're making a lot of noise and disturbing everyone around you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make so many complaints.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make so many complaints.

You are a restaurant critic and it is your job.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make so many complaints.

You're complaining about being attacked.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make so many complaints.

You're complaining about minor annoyances.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make so many complaints.

You paid for a service and are not getting what you paid for.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to make so many complaints.

The things you are complaining about can't be changed.


being upset at my gf for belittling my needs

Hypothesis: It is wrong to belittle someone.

it is a good friend that doesn't mind joking around


Hypothesis: It is wrong to belittle someone.

if they are a kind person who has offered to help you out


Hypothesis: It is wrong to belittle someone.

You are a professional comedian and it is part of your routine.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to belittle someone.

You are using it as a tactic to win arguments with a partner.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to belittle someone.

you are doing it by yourself where they can't hear you.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to belittle someone.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to belittle someone.

You are a fashion critic on a gossip show.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to belittle someone.

Your status in life can change dramatically.


not wanting to celebrate my mother's birthday

Family members are expected celebrate each other's  birthday.

they are Jehovah's Witnesses who don't celebrate birthdays.


The family is not close at all and/or abusive in nature.


The family is tight knit and very loving towards each other.


setting a limit on giving Christmas gifts to my children from their grandparents

Hypothesis: It is wrong to spoil children.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to spoil children.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to spoil children.

It is Christmas morning or their birthday.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to spoil children.

They are terminally ill and need something to life their spirits


attempting to temporarily move my little brothers things out of my room while he was sent away to military school for six months

It's rude to touch other people's things without their permission.

They're in epileptic shock and you're looking for their epipen.


you are an EMT and they are unconscious.


The person asked you to help them clean.


The person doesn't know you're in their house.


Unless they are in danger of being consumed by a fire.


They have told you to leave there things alone.


You are very close to the person and know they wouldn't mind.


You don't know the person well and they can be touchy.


saying recruitment policy at my company is sexist against men

It's good to call out a policy that is sexist.

You will certainly lose your job if you do.


Calling it out will make the workplace more fair.


The policy has to do with sexual harassment and you think women are overreacting.


You desire the world to be a fairer place.


The policy has been updated and reviewed since you last read it.


You are the victim of dated gender attitudes.


You should not lash out at staff at the doctor's office.

Unless your child is sick and they are ignoring you.


Especially if you want them to help you.


You suspect that they did something to intentionally harm you.


A lot of patients are checked-in ahead of youy.


You didn't get the prescription you wanted.


very sternly rebuking a coworker who "jokingly" lies to me and other employees

Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to people


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to people


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to people

you have been sworn to secrecy about something.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to lie to people

You are preventing them from getting hurt


It's okay to be hungry and eat food that is available to you.


refusing to install the lights for my parents

It's not right to treat your children like slaves.

They are grounded and working it off as a punishment.


You don't want child services to take your kids.


Especially if you know how wrong slavery is.


changing my girlfriend's oil in her car, but messed it up and destroyed her engine

Hypothesis: It's nice to help out your loved ones.


Hypothesis: It's nice to help out your loved ones.


Hypothesis: It's nice to help out your loved ones.

Your loved ones are always asking you for help.


Hypothesis: It's nice to help out your loved ones.

Your loved ones spent their lives helping you.


bringing up not volunteering to little league coach

It's good to discuss your concerns with the coach.

Your coach is busy and doesn't have time.


You think it is really important that they know.


The coach doesn't have anything to do with your concerns.


The coach is the cause of your concerns.


Your concern is with the coach's strategy.


breaking my own laptop that my brother hid under a pile of pillows

Hypothesis: It's wrong to break things.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to break things.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to break things.

You have to break a bone so you can perform surgery.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to break things.

The item being broken does not belong to you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to break things.

You are trying to avoid harming actual people.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to break things.

You are walking through an antique shop.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to break things.

the window was jammed and you needed to escape the fire


shutting down my friend's attempt to make me a charity case

People should not force help upon others.


You're dealing with a violent mental patient.


You're controlling over the other person.


Unless they are mentally ill and dangerous.


Especially if they can manage to help themselves.


They are more skilled than you at the task.


It is good to correct your superiors when they are wrong.

You know they're very sensitive about being corrected in public.


People could die if your superiors make a mistake.


They consider correction by a minion as insubordination.


Doing so stands a good chance to get you fired.


Your superiors are reasonable people who respect you.


Your superiors may be reprimanded by their superiors.


You should make an effort to help out family members.


they have never helped you when you needed help


not wanting to spot someone on the bench press because I wouldn't be able to lift his weight

You don't have to be ashamed of not being able to help someone.


You are a police man and were drinking at a bar when they called.


You haven't even considered or tried to help them.


You've done your best to do so to no avail.


You are the type of person that will normally help people.


You cannot help because you are disabled


It is insensitive to make fun of someones weight.


They have been exercising and eating healthy.


the person asks for jokes about their weight.


They have a low self-esteem because of their weight.


refusing to pay rent and demanding to live for free

You're expected to pay to live somewhere.

you live with your parents and are underage.


you are an underaged child living with parents


you are living and renting a home from someone else


a place to live is included in your benefits package.


You live at home and your parents don't mind you paying.


It's good to be patient when dealing with matters involving money.


Someone stole from you and you are trying to get your money back.


Someone is struggling to make ends meet.


The window of opportunity for a big score is closing.


You have been waiting and keep getting delayed.


You will gain interest for waiting longer.


Someone has stolen your identity and used your credit card.


You are dealing with dangerous drug dealers.


It's reasonable to ask someone not to contact you as much.


You are performing too much emotional labor


you work together and have to communicate.


your expertise is vital to the success of a mission.


They regularly need to drop off signed papers from various clients.


You feel uncomfortable around said person.


They are an investigator investigating a murder.


They always call your job while you're working.


not approving of my friends age gap crushes

Having someone poke their nose in your intimate affairs is often annoying and unwelcome.

They are your sex therapist or marriage counselor and you are paying them to do so.


It is none of their business and you don't know them very well either.


Your acquaintances or coworkers exhibit this behavior.


They are going to write a news story about you.


telling a neighbour to f*** off over noise complaints

Hypothesis: It is rude to swear at others.


Hypothesis: It is rude to swear at others.


Hypothesis: It is rude to swear at others.

You are a gangsta rapper in a rap battle.


Hypothesis: It is rude to swear at others.

You are emphasizing your anger at their behavior


You should not engage in behavior that makes a friendship to become toxic.


You lost your temper and said things you know you shouldn't have.


You have been friends since grade school and want the friendship to last.


You want to retain that friendship long-term.


not telling my dad about the other men my mom slept with

It's wrong not to tell you dad about his partner's infidelity.


It would destroy the family and you have many younger siblings at home who would suffer greatly.


You know he already has suspicions and he will find out you knew about it.


He's spending all his money on his partner.


you think your dad should get a divorce.


You should always communicate with your friends.

They cursed you out at a school function.


You are taking a break from socialization


you have a private matter you don't want to talk about.


Unless the police are asking you to call people on your cell phone so they can bust them too.


You want to distance yourself from them because they are toxic


breaking up with my long-distance partner for not wanting a Christmas present

Not wanting to participate in a holiday ritual is okay.

You have the starring role in a holiday play.


You're the one who suggested the ritual.


Your religion doesn't celebrate that holiday.


You have promised your family you would join them.


It's wrong to not help someone when they need you.

They are completely dependent on you and you're simply enabling their dependency.


They don't ask you  all the time and are an honest person.


You're overwhelmed with your own problems.


You could easily do what they need to get out of trouble.


You have to take care of your own kids first.


You have extra time and resources available.


purposely not inviting my one aunt and her husband to my wedding

Just because you're family doesn't mean you need to spend time with each other.


it is a special occasion and you are specifically requested to be present.


you live in a different country  than your family.


you wish to have a good relationship with them


you don't see eye to eye on sociopolitical issues


You're responsible for someone's home health care.


It is important to build healthy friendships.


you don't like being around other people.


You're working 100 hours a week as a researcher and you just don't have time for that.


You are ordered to stay away from people by a court.


telling my Cousin's girlfriend she is no longer welcome in my home

You should speak with your roommates if you are having issues with them or people they are bringing into the house.


Their actions are a huge distraction and are disrupting your life.


You usually don't see their guests because of the hours you work.


Their guests keep waking you up when you're trying to sleep.


you are planning to move out soon anyways.


the situation is causing tension between the two of you.


getting annoyed my parents won't deal with my sister

It's understandable to not want to get involved with your own children's problems.

The child is young and being bullied at school


Your child is a grown-up that can handle its own problems.


They have no way of fixing their problem.


Your own children are now adults and need to stand on their own.


Your child isn't getting along with a friend.


telling a Group of People the Reason my one friend doesn't want to play a game with a specific person in the Group

It's wrong to reveal secrets about your friends.


A friend revealed that they are planning to kill themself.


keep their secret would be harmful to them.


you don't want your friends to tell your secrets.


you are reporting them to the police for a serious crime


not wanting my sisters boyfriend to come to my birthday meal

You should respect other people's relationships.

you are a parent and your teen is in an abusive relationship


Unless the relationship is an abusive one


You want others to respect your relationships


they are abusive to their significant other.


You suspect one person in the relationship is cheating.


calling the health department on my nephews preschook for having a dog

Hypothesis: It's wrong to tell on others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to tell on others.

They made a small mistake that is easily fixed


Hypothesis: It's wrong to tell on others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to tell on others.

Others are doing something that doesn't hurt anyone.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to tell on others.

You have a legal duty to report confirmed child abuse.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to tell on others.

They'll be extremely harshly punished for a relatively minor infraction.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to tell on others.

They are working under government orders like rescuing  prisoners of war.


leaving a family party early because of annoying kids

It's understandable to want to get away from people who are annoying you.

You know that it's only temporary behavior and they will stop soon and be their normal pleasant selves.


The people show no signs of stopping their annoying behavior.


Especially if they aren't even friends of yours.


You are trying to enjoy your vacation in Mexico.


having an issue with my girlfriends piercing dream job

It's rude to discourage your significant other from following their dreams.

Your significant other dreams of becoming a drug dealer.


Your significant other dreams of becoming a nurse pratictioner.


You have children and you need the income from their job to support them.


They want to return to school to train for a better job.


You shouldn't put your studies above your friends.

You have exams and want to get into Harvard.


You are already getting good grades and your friends need you to help them.


you are preparing for a test that determines whether or not you graduate


you get straight As and haven't seen your close friends in a long time.


You need to get your grades up to graduate.


you're in danger of losing your scholarship.


you are making good grades and have spare time.


kicking my ex-crush out of group work in uni

It's rude to kick someone out of a group unjustly.


they don't blend in well with the group.


they have done most of the work for the group


If it is unjustly and without any justification it would be rude.


You are doing it just to make room for your friend.


confronting my coworker and asking them how they can be late every single day, after having them confront me about taking a 1.5 hour break a couple weeks ago

Hypothesis: It's wrong to take long breaks at work.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to take long breaks at work.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to take long breaks at work.

you don't account for them on your time sheet.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to take long breaks at work.

The company offers them as part of your daily schedule.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to take long breaks at work.

They are much longer than what the company pays you for.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to take long breaks at work.

it is a scheduled break for a work party.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to take long breaks at work.

you have extensive amounts of work to complete soon.


threatening to show everyone nudes of my ex when she showed another guy nudes of her

You shouldn't reveal private photos of people.


The photos are of an intimate experience.


Especially if you don't have their permission.


It's good to make sacrifices and be there for a friend.

they are doing something that might harm you physically.


making sacrifices will help them clean up their life.


Unless the sacrifices are harmful to your family.


Especially if your friend has no family.


Your friend has done something bad to hurt your relationship


wanting to take a break from a friendship without telling anyone about it

It's okay to want a break from a friendship.


They aren't allowing you to see other friends


it will cause you and the friend more hardship


the friend has been using you without giving back


You've been bunking together at summer camp for two months.


You are taking the break to rendezvous with the friend's significant other.


You are both starting to get on each other's nerves.


"waking" up the wife to deal with a crying baby instead of doing it myself

It's rude to skip your turn participating in a coordinated task.


You don't have a valid excuse for skipping your turn.


You're there for listening and understanding what is going on.


No one told you what you are supposed to be doing.


Each part of the task is integral to its success.


You are ill and can't stay far from a bathroom, preferably your own.


You are in charge of coordinating the task.


cutting off communication with my stepbrother

It is okay to distance yourself from toxic family members.


You are trying to set healthy boundaries in life.


They have caused you so much grief you can't forgive them.


they support you financially so you can't


it is ruining your mood almost constantly


setting a limit on giving Christmas gifts to my children from their grandparents

Hypothesis: It is rude to try and control elders.


Hypothesis: It is rude to try and control elders.

They're capable of doing things on their own.


Hypothesis: It is rude to try and control elders.


Hypothesis: It is rude to try and control elders.

They have dementia and you have been given guardianship over their decisions.


Hypothesis: It is rude to try and control elders.

They tried to lead you down a dark path.


It's rude to tell someone that they eat too much.

They ask for tips on how to lose weight.


They are taking food from other people to sate their appetite.


it’s your partner and their health is declining because of it.


You are at a restaurant and don’t know the person


they are already ashamed by their weight


not wanting to compliment my husband's weightloss

Hypothesis: You should always support your partner.


Hypothesis: You should always support your partner.

Especially if your partner is doing his best.


Hypothesis: You should always support your partner.


Hypothesis: You should always support your partner.

they are going through something pretty difficult at the time


Hypothesis: You should always support your partner.

your partner wants to do something illegal


Hypothesis: You should always support your partner.

your partner wants to do something that will help the family


being upset at being someone's "personal therapist"

You should respect others and not be critical.

They are being bigoted and undeserving of respect.


You are working with them in a professional setting.


Your job is to critique actors in auditions.


They can't afford expensive clothing or accessories.


getting ready per usual when my girlfriend called into work

It's wrong not spend time with a significant other when they need you.

They're on the opposite side of the country.


You have not been spending time with them recently.


Your significant other is usually self-sufficient.


being mad at my parents because they called me 20 times when my phone was on silent

Your parents are supposed to worry about you when you don't answer the phone.


You promised to check in during your night out.


they know your phone is broken and not able to take a call.


you haven't answered their calls for several days.


They call during a time when you're normally in a college lecture.


You don't answer after they call three times, separated by three hours each.


not driving a disabled person to the train station

You aren't required to help people if you don't want to help them.


they are a stranger who wants money but you don't have any with you


You are a nurse and it is part of your job.


It is usually an honor to be the target of a roast.


Only people don't admire you and aren't your friends are hosting it.


You have recently gained some personal success like publishing paper or getting a promotion.


You were just trying to have dinner with your family.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't choose sides.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't choose sides.

Not choosing a side is in fact choosing a side.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't choose sides.

You'd be siding with one child over another.


pointing out small disagreements or mistakes

You should not take other people's criticisms personally.


the criticism is intentionally hurtful to you


it was meant to help you grow and learn.


deliberately being cold towards my mentally disabled aunt

It's good to be compassionate towards the mentally disabled.


They are close to you or someone you know.


you want to try to help encourage acceptance.


You don't understand mental health issues.


You have a mentally disabled person in your immediate family.


stomping on a girls apple and making her clean it up

Hypothesis: It's wrong to harass and bully people.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to harass and bully people.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to harass and bully people.

They are minding their own business, reading a book.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to harass and bully people.

You have been bullied or harassed in the past.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to harass and bully people.

You want to be seen as a respectable person.


skating in a bright area without a light

It's okay to do something fun and exciting when you know it's safe.


The thing you're doing hasn't had routine maintenance.


The thing you're doing is routinely checked for safety.


You're taking a sick day from work to do it.


You're at an amusement park with friends.


It's expected that significant others kiss each other.


They have been together for a long time.


wanting enforced boundaries between my SO and Mother in law

It can be rude to interfere in the relationship between a parent and their child.

The parent is physically abusing the child.


You are giving the parent unsolicited advice.


you are a therapist resolving the relationship


The relationship is abusive and the child needs help


It causes a lot of detriment between the parent and their child.


being annoyed by someone with a mental disability

It is expected that you are tolerant of people with disabilities.


They have no control over their disability


The person with a disability is rude and obnoxious.


The person with the disability is trying to physically harm you.


It's bad to support puppy mills when there are so many dogs in shelters that need a home.


The shelters have too many animals as it is


You see the puppies from the mills being mistreated.


you are trying to rescue the puppies from the puppy mills.


there are still kill-shelters in operation.


The proceeds for puppy mill sales go towards shelters.


The dogs are horribly overpriced and exploited.


You go to a local shelter and find the perfect dog.


refusing to go to my best friends wedding because I'm not a groomsman

Missing a friend's wedding is okay if they have done something very bad to you.


They are marrying your ex, who left you for them


You've told that friend that they are forgiven.


You're still dealing with the effects of what they did.


You promised that you would be the best man when they asked.


That friend had cheated on you with your bride to be.


They are marrying the girl they stole from you.


not wanting to share my travel points with my friends

It is okay to keep some things to yourself that you need to use.


You said you would share those things with someone.


You don't have anyone to share those things with.


You are trying to get your business taken care of.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want back what is yours.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want back what is yours.

It was your partner's grandmother's wedding ring.


It's wrong to accept a ride from a girl that isn't your girlfriend.

The girl is your girlfriend's married older sister.


The girl in the car has a known crush on you.


She needs someone to perform CPR on her ailing friend.


It's okay to be angry with the people we care about.


You are taking out problems on them that are not their fault.


If you are having a genuine disagreement about something important.


telling my friend I can't go on a trip with her over Spring Break

It is expected that people will not always be able to go on trips with friends.


They make millions of dollars at an easy job.


It is sometimes healthy to let out your anger when someone wrongs you.


It gets so violent that people are at risk of getting hurt.


You trust the people around you to be able to vent comfortably.


You channel it to something productive like French digging your garden with the adrenaline.


being mad at my friend recommending another person for the same job I'm going for

It's ok to want to hire the best person for a job.


They think they would fit well at the job.


You are required to hire that person due to their race.


Your boss wants you to meet your work goals.


making my dad wait 37 minutes when he was picking me up from work

It's bad to leave work before your tasks are done.


Your coworkers have to pick up your slack.


declining hosting out of town friends just because I don't want to

Hypothesis: It's good to host out of town friends.


Hypothesis: It's good to host out of town friends.


Hypothesis: It's good to host out of town friends.

They plan to stay for longer than a few days.


Hypothesis: It's good to host out of town friends.

Unless you really don't have enough room.


asking neglectful father to get our son a christmas card

It's understandable to demand that your spouse care for his children.


sticking up for my other "girl-friends" while I have a gf

Hypothesis: It's good to stick up for your partner.


Hypothesis: It's good to stick up for your partner.

Especially if your partner is doing his best.


Hypothesis: It's good to stick up for your partner.

They're denying true allegations of child molestation.


Hypothesis: It's good to stick up for your partner.

They've been falsely accused of dealing drugs.


Hypothesis: It's good to stick up for your partner.


Hypothesis: It's good to stick up for your partner.

Your partner has just announced that he is joining a racist political group.


Hypothesis: It's good to stick up for your partner.

Your partner's family members are being verbally abusive.


wanting to stop talking/interacting with the guy I like because of his comment

It is okay to stand up for what you believe in.


What you believe in is taking away rights from other religions you don't agree with.


You believe in equal rights for all people of all religions.


You believe your race should commit genocide against all the other races.


You believe in treating everyone with kindness.


Someone is telling you that you are wrong and trying to change your mind


You will endanger your loved ones by doing so.


fantasizing about another man while married

It's wrong to want someone else while in a relationship.


You truly care about you significant other.


It is okay to have difficulty understanding foreign accents and asking to repeat what they say.


You are listening to them speak your second language


You are asking them to repeat themselves because you are making fun of how they speak


being mad at my bowling partner who called off

You should be mindful that other people may have to cancel on plans.


You have given them a heads up months ahead.


They have told you flat out that nothing will stop them from coming.


The plans are a long way away and things are uncertain.


not considering this to be a sincere apology

Hypothesis: It is okay to not accept an apology.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not accept an apology.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not accept an apology.

Your spouse apologized for something that isn't a big deal.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not accept an apology.

The person unintentionally slightly inconvenienced you.


You should be careful when driving your car so you don't hit others.


breaking up with my 8 month pregnant girlfriend

You shouldn't break up with someone who is pregnant.


They are pregnant with someone else's child.


You're mad that they got pregnant when you are also responsible for it.


You are trying to get out of child support.


It is appropriate to grieve the loss of a pet.


That pet has been with you for all your life


The pet wasn't yours and you never met it.


Your pet is a member of the family and you has been a part of your daily life for years.


The pet was a goldfish you didn't even bother to name.


This is the first time one of your pets has died.


Hypothesis: It's fun to tease someone you like.


Hypothesis: It's fun to tease someone you like.

That person is sensitive to being teased.


being upset at my girlfriend over her school ball and after party

It's wrong to get upset at your partner over a party.

Your partner upstaged you at your own birthday


They were trying to make your birthday special.


The party was something you asked them not to do.


They spent all the rent money on party supplies.


making my boyfriend stop talking to his best friend for good

You shouldn't tell your partner to stop talking to their friends.

Their friends keep trying to pressure them into being a drug mule.


Their friends are very emotionally supportive.


Your partner seems to be having an affair.


It's because you're jealous of your partner's friendships.


Their friends are trying to make your partner do illegal things


You're just jealous you have fewer friends


Your partner just got out of rehab and his old drinking buddies want to hang around with him.


Your partner's friends are consoling him after the death of his father.


not wanting to walk upstairs to take a shit

Being to lazy to properly defecate in the appropriate room is disgusting.


your laziness is based on a serious illness and you can't wait.


Restroom signs are posted for all to see.


You are sick and do not have control over your bowels


making up stories so cashiers will stop asking what I'm buying certain items for

It's rude for cashiers to question customers about their purchases.

They are trying to return them in bad shape for a full refund.


They are regulars who spend a lot of money at the business.


They are a pharmacist making sure they get the right medication.


They are prying into their personal business.


You are asking them which kind of cigarettes they want.


They don’t want the customer to complain about them to management.


telling my Cousin's girlfriend she is no longer welcome in my home

You should set ground rules with people that you live with.

You live in prison and don't get to make the rules.


You think that it would cause tension and make you seem too uptight


They have a habit of doing irritating things.


You're still a child living with your parents.


People are expected to want to be with their family.


Their family has been emotionally abusive towards them.


They want their children to spend time with their grandparents.


Everyone is getting together for the holidays.


not wanting to date my bf because he wants to cover himself in tattoos

It is wrong to control what another person does to their own body.


You're a parent trying not to have your child become sexually active.


They are injecting harmful drugs into their system.


You live in a country where people have full body autonomy.


expecting my boyfriend to fix or replace a piece of furniture that he broke out of anger

It's unacceptable for a person to throw fits just because they are upset.


They are mad about not receiving free food.


Other methods of communication have failed to change anything.


Other methods of communication can more effectively bring needed change.


it is the only way to get someone's attention in an emergency.


Their team is winning the game they're watching.


being upset that my father walked into my locked room after I told him not to

It's understandable to be upset when someone ignores your request.


the person is dealing with more urgent matters


you have insulted that person and they are avoiding you on purpose.


you are seeking emergency care in a hospital.


They have a good reason that they tell you later.


telling my (sensitive) obese friend to lose weight and change his lifestyle

It is good to be concern about a friend's health.


Your friend has been hospitalized for illnesses before


They said they were worried about something.


they tell you to mind your own business.


they have an illness making them feel bad.


It's unacceptable to scare people in certain places because it might be misunderstood.


It ends up triggering them down the line


You know that they would be OK with being scared


You are in and work environment and should be taking things seriously


not wanting to go for my best friend's surprise party

You shouldn't skip your best friend's party.


Especially if you promised you would be there.


your best friend never skips your parties.


not being friends with a woman I'm not over

It's best not to keep in contact with ex's.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't eat other people's food.

they're not going to eat their leftovers


Hypothesis: You shouldn't eat other people's food.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't eat other people's food.

they are poor and can't afford any more.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't eat other people's food.

Your friend is offering you a bite of her entree.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't eat other people's food.

You reach across the table on someone else's plate without asking.


calling out a person with "mental issues

You shouldn't yell at someone with mental problems.

You're trying to stop them from running into traffic.


You're screaming that they're responsible for their own suffering.


They are about to step out in front of a bus.


They're about to pick up something hot and you're telling them to get away


not wanting to rekindle a friendship with my former best friend after her abusive ex made her cut contact with me

It is wrong to end a friendship for a partner.

Your partner is afraid of the person and can't do it.


Your partner wants to maintain the friendship.


It is their best friend from their childhood.


your friend isn't supportive of your choices.


they've been friends with you for a long time.


You had a prior romantic relationship with them.


You have known the person for a long time.


being a dialysis patient and rejecting a potential doner costing my Dad a large portion of his family

Sometimes people are scared and do the wrong thing in regards to their family.


They have a good sense of right and wrong.


asking someone that was told to find a new place to live why they are at my house at 9pm

It is rude to show up at someone's house late at night.


You have an emergency to report to them.


you are warning them that they left a car door open


going to the gym with my very overweight friend

Hypothesis: Exercise is important for your health.

you're trying to recover from a bad injury


Hypothesis: Exercise is important for your health.


It's polite to hold the door open for others.

The door has an alarm that goes off if it stays open for too long.


The other person's hands are full of books.


The others approaching the door are in a wheelchair.


They are really far from the door and have to walk super fast so you can stop holding the door.


not wanting my best friend to get a motocycle

It is understandable for you to want your friends to not do dangerous things.

It brings them a lot of joy to engage in those activities.


You think that they could suffer serious harm


The dangerous thing they're doing is smuggling weapons of mass destruction.


You are an immature person and like seeing them being risky


It is wrong to abandon a friend that needs you.


They are asking you to do something dangerous.


That friend needs you to get medical support.


grabbing a cup of coffee when a server didn't want me to

It's okay to want to be treated with better service when a company lets you down.


You expect the company to treat you better than all its other customers.


You want the company to treat all its customers better.


confronting a "friend" for talking badly about me

You should discuss issues with other people.

They have mentioned they want to stay out of it


they will get in the way of the friendship.


It's a holiday dinner and your family members strongly oppose each other on the issue of gun control.


You are teaching a high school civics class.


telling my gf not to send me pics of her dying grandfather

It is expected for a girlfriend to respect that request.


suddenly ghosting a close friend of 3 years

If someone has become an unhealthy part of your life, it's okay to disconnect from them

They have realized what they were doing and apologized


You want to be able to work on your mental health


They are the other parent of your child.


you really need the job and cannot afford to quit because of your boss


your boss is a bully but you got another offer so it is fine to quit


not wanting a woman's circle or Man's circle to happen in my home

You are allowed to establish rules for your home.


storing guns below my tenants against their wishes

You should respect other people's wishes.


Your child wants to go to Disneyland tomorrow.


Your spouse wants their favorite dish for dinner.


they have dementia and do not know what they are talking about.


Your friend wishes to consume illegal drugs.


Your friend wishes to take a different career path.


It is okay to not lend out personal items.

They are going to your wife who lives with you


The person has a reputation for not returning things


they would really help someone and you don't need them.


Someone very close to you absolutely needs to use it desperately.


You are a private person and don't know the people who want to use them very well.


If shouldn't police the activities of others.

People are trying to harm you or your property.


Especially if they are adults you trust.


The other people are being rude and disrespectful to your neighbors yard


The authorities have a ready spoken to them


A group of children is bullying another child.


You are a spectator at a youth football game.


thinking my girlfriend cheated on me when she stayed up for the whole night drinking with one of my guy friends

Hypothesis: You shouldn't drink all night long.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't drink all night long.

you don't want to get alcohol poisoning.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't drink all night long.

you are an alcoholic with nothing to wake up for in the morning.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't drink all night long.

you have a job and responsibility to be at work in the morning.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't drink all night long.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't drink all night long.

You have to be at work at 6 AM the next morning.


refusing to say "I love you" to my partner

It's normal for people in relationships to express their love for each other.

Their relationships have just started and they don't know their exact feelings yet.


The relationship is a work relationship.


The relationship is a romantic relationship.


They are saying their vows at their wedding.


not telling my friend that her fiancé made a pass at his ex

You shouldn't make a pass at your partner's ex.


your partner's ex has a twin brother you thought you were talking too


It's understandable that sometimes friends grow apart.

They've only known each other a couple of weeks.


You have known each other since we were kids


Unless they put a lot of effort into the friendship.


scheduling my wedding date for the same day as my adult niece's birthday

One should show respect to family members.

that family member refuses to show respect to you because of your marital choice.


your grandma is 102 years old and doesn't realize that some things should no longer be said


The family member has been extremely rude to you


inviting other friends onto a project I originally created with someone else

It's a good thing to invite your friends to help you.

asking for help is just too hard for you to do.


what you need help with is too big to do alone.


You need help putting together furniture.


you're moving furniture into your new house


causing tension with my friends boyfriend

Friends should discuss problems in their relationship with each other.


Their partners want the information to remain private.


They could offer each other sound advice.


Especially if they want to stay friends.


being against my son becoming child free

It's wrong to expect grandkids out of your kids.

Your children have married into another family that already has them.


They had a traumatic experience babysitting.


Your kid is sterile and can't have kids.


You know your kids really want children.


Your daughter makes it clear she's terrified of childbirth due to a pre-existing medical condition.


It's mean to take someone's dog away from them.


you are the ASPCA removing the dog because they were abusing them


The dog has attacked a small child and put them in the hospital.


The owner's found their lost dog after it was adopted.


getting upset that someone wont spend meaningful time with me even though they are really busy

It is selfish to expect a busy person to make time for you.

They promised to make time for you despite their schedule.


It's an emergency and you need to go to the hospital.


You're asking a busy friend to go to a party.


leaving my girlfriend for the sake of my own mental health even though hers was worse

It's good to leave a partner if your mental health is suffering.

They threaten to harm your children if you leave.


You have to be lucid for an important job.


you know you will be healthier away from them.


They are not the source of your mental health issues.


They are insensitive to your mental health issues.


It's understandable that you may not always have time for a pet.


You work 60 hours a week and can't get a dog.


You chose to adopt three dogs and they have special needs.


You made a lifetime commitment to them and you're putting their care in jeopardy.


You work a lot of hours at your job and have a petsitter.


You are just lazy and don’t want to take care of them.


You have to work two jobs to pay the bills.


Hypothesis: It's good to show sympathy to the sick.

They intentionally infected others with their illness.


Hypothesis: It's good to show sympathy to the sick.


Hypothesis: It's good to show sympathy to the sick.

They don't have anyone visiting them in the hospital.


going to my boss because I suspect my co-worker isn't showing up for work

Hypothesis: You shouldn't ditch work.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ditch work.


cutting ties with my married female boss

It's not okay to stop speaking with someone Platonicly just because they have a relationship with someone.

They're having a relationship with a notorious war criminal.


You misled the person into thinking you were happy to be platonic friends.


You've been invited to the wedding as the best man.


sending a card to my ex GF because her dad died but not telling my current GF I did so

It is good to extend sympathy when someone is grieving.


Unless you are the one who killed their loved one.


They don't want to be reminded of the death.


Hypothesis: It's bad to scare your friends.


Hypothesis: It's bad to scare your friends.

You are wearing a scary mask on Halloween.


Hypothesis: It's bad to scare your friends.

You pound on their door late at night when they are home alone.


not inviting an acquaintance to a private event

It's fine to only invite certain people to your private event.

the invitation says, "Open to the public."


this one is pretty hard i just can't come up with something


It is acceptable to be upset if a friend has to cancel plans due to an illness.

You have another friend ready to go with you.


You had been planning to do something for months.


The friend is so sick they were admitted to the hospital.


The friend has been sick for days but waits till the last minute to notify you.


You wouldn't want to catch what they have.


You're the one that spread the illness to them to begin with.


berating my mother for not having a college degree

It's wrong to act emotionally abusive towards someone.

You are a role playing to demonstrate what it is like.


Unless you are demonstrating in a class on abuse awareness.


Especially if you are aware of what you're doing.


They are trying to help you with school.


asking my girlfriend if we could always use protection

It is good to have open communication with your partner.

You are planning a surprise get away for your anniversary.


You have had relationship problems that you are working on.


Your partner keeps making death threats.


You love your partner but often have a very different viewpoint.


You are trying to plan a surprise party.


saying no to driving 2 hours to deliver a video game

Hypothesis: It makes sense to put in the mail.


Hypothesis: It makes sense to put in the mail.


Hypothesis: It makes sense to put in the mail.

You need to mail back the rebate before a deadline to get the money


not being supportive to my parents while they go through a separation

It is understandable to be sad if your children do not support your choices.

You choose to do drugs over take care of them


They will have to move away because of it.


Your choices include gender reassignment.


It is obvious that what you are doing is making you happy.


You have always shown support for their choices


spending time alone while visiting family

You shouldn't expect your family to spend time with you.

You have traveled to visit and they said they would take time off work to be with you.


You work at night and sleep during the day.


They promised they would and are very close to you.


It is expected to be upset after a relationship ends.


They still send cookies for your children.


They took you to the cleaners in a divorce.


You're the one who ended it to see someone else.


Hypothesis: You should buy things for your friends.


not going to my aunt's wedding and lying about it

Hypothesis: It is rude to lie.

You are trying to keep a friend from getting in trouble with their parents.


Hypothesis: It is rude to lie.

You are lying to your spouse about hanging with other people of the opposite sex.


Hypothesis: It is rude to lie.

You're lying to spare someone's feelings.


Hypothesis: It is rude to lie.

You're making up embarrassing details about someone else's sex life.


Hypothesis: It is rude to lie.


Hypothesis: It is rude to lie.

You tell your plump sister that she looks fit.


Hypothesis: It is rude to lie.

You are sparing your friend's feelings by not telling the truth.


Hypothesis: It is rude to lie.

The lie will lead to problems for the other person.


not letting my roommate make out with their bf

It is ok to be annoyed if your roommate will not go to their room to have private moments with their boyfriend.


they are oblivious to you being in the room.


You both agreed on private space and time.


Especially if you want to use the kitchen.


You do the same things in public with your own boyfriend.


ratting on someone to the police who just gave me a $20 tip

Hypothesis: You are expected to follow the law.


Hypothesis: You are expected to follow the law.


Hypothesis: You are expected to follow the law.

You're a foreign diplomat with diplomatic immunity


It's always wrong to be physically violent with another person.


not ever wanting kids not just because of how stressful the life of a parent is, but because I know I'd never be a happy person and would never really love them

It's good not to have kids if you know you wouldn't love them or enjoy them.

you end up having a kid on accident and you need to figure it out.


you are going to put them up to be adopted


you can not afford to support another person financially


You have seen parental bonding in others who had your attitude originally.


You are basing your decision on your experiences of raising younger siblings.


being upset at my boyfriend for letting his mother be a control freak

Hypothesis: It is hard for people to break habits.


Hypothesis: It is hard for people to break habits.


Hypothesis: It is hard for people to break habits.

They are under the strict care of a physical trainer.


Hypothesis: It is hard for people to break habits.

They have had the habits for a very long time.


It's polite to give notice when you move out.

The landlord is stiffing you on the security deposit.


You wish to keep a good reference from the landlord.


your landlord is a difficult person to deal with


you still need to pay last month's rent.


You need to move because of an emergency.


You knew you were moving for a few months.


You are required by your lease to give notice.


considering breaking up with my bf over something hypothetical and unlikely to happen

It's ok to break up with your significant other if the relationship isn't working for you.


You think they might hurt you for rejecting them.


They are sick and can't take care of themselves.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ditch your friends.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to ditch your friends.

You said you'd be their designated driver


breaking up with her for lying about her age

You shouldn't lie to your significant other about important things.

You recently learned they are a criminal trying to swindle you.


You are lying about gambling away thousands of dollars.


You want to maintain a healthy relationship.


They're dying and you want their last few weeks to be happy.


You're lying about the fact you had a child with another person.


changing my mind on about going to a school dance with a girl

It is expected that you follow through with plans.


you are the one that scheduled everything.


Circumstances change so that the original plan is no longer viable.


You signed a contract promising to carry out the plan.


walking out of my job without clocking out or telling anyone tl:dr at the bottom

It's not okay to leave work and stay clocked in.


You are trying to steal money from the company.


a angrily calling my apartment complex after the third party construction workers kept using my electricity for other apartments' repair

You should be more respectful of other people's property when doing repairs.


they don't have much property of their own.


You are a contractor hired by the family.


You are trying to repair something to get to a trapped person.


You don't have insurance for your company.


You want the repair to be done correctly.


confronting my coworker and asking them how they can be late every single day, after having them confront me about taking a 1.5 hour break a couple weeks ago

Hypothesis: It's wrong to always be late for work.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to always be late for work.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to always be late for work.

you've told your boss about it and he's cool with it.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to always be late for work.

by being late you are causing more work for your co workers.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to always be late for work.

you are supposed to unlock the doors on time.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to always be late for work.

Your boss gives you permission to do so.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to always be late for work.

you struggle to be on time due to commitments at home


Hypothesis: It's wrong to always be late for work.

your job involves particularly serious and important work


You shouldn't block areas where someone could get hurt.

letting them pass could get them hit by a car if the light is red


the traffic light is green and they need to cross the street quickly


you have no other path to get where you are going


people won't be able to see the danger because of you


Medical professionals need to get through.


wanting to go to my fraternity's retreat instead of wanting to go on vacation with my gf

It is difficult to decide between two fun options.


you've been waiting to do both for a long time.


They are both happening at the same time


One of the options costs too much money.


one of them is illegal and the other isn't


arguing with the Moderator on "r/"sex SubReddit? am I just confused with what Mods are for

You shouldn't argue with someone in a higher position than you.


They are asking you do something illegal.


that person is doing completely wrong and unfair.


you have no proof that they are in the wrong.


They are about to make a critical mistake.


You've already been written up for insubordination.


It is considerate to replace something if you ruin it.

the item which is ruined was not of value to anyone


the item that was ruined was given to you in good faith and is expensive


the owner is present and it is an unavoidable accident


calling my brother-in-law a nickname he doesn't like and him calling me a stupid bitch in return

You should not respond to insult with insults.


You are trying to calm the other person down.


you are a comedian dealing with hecklers.


telling my sister to stop crying during a movie

It's rude to tell someone to regulate their sadness.


They have asked you to point out when they are being overemotional.


They are struggling with their emotions.


You don't know what they're going through.


The person is experiencing grief from a great loss.


They are playing a game and have to tune out negative thoughts


If they are at a funeral for a loved one


not paying the dog sitter for their table that my dog broke

It's wrong to not pay for things someone or something that's your responsibility broke.


The owner of the broken item says not to worry about it.


You know you really put out the owner of the broken item.


The object was scheduled to be demolished, such as an old car


You don't want to cheat the person out of the value of the object


the owner says that it's old and worn out anyway.


being impolite to two girls because they didn't treat me with respect

You can't expect anybody to treat you with respect when you won't do the same.


they are public servants and it's their job.


You are the boss and you pay people well enough to put up with your disrespect.


You all have to live together in the same household long-term.


you don't hold a position of power over them.


not wanting to do guitar lessons anymore

Hypothesis: It's bad to quit things too easily.


Hypothesis: It's bad to quit things too easily.

you haven't been phyically active in a long time


Hypothesis: It's bad to quit things too easily.


Hypothesis: It's bad to quit things too easily.

persevering will lead to a great reward.


Hypothesis: It's bad to quit things too easily.

You have a lot of time and energy invested.


People are expected to attend family vacations.

they are working and can't take time off


they have a free schedule and can easily attend


Someone else is paying for the vacation.


telling a friend that his friend was secretly harassing him

You should share important information with other people.

The information can cause harm to another person.


The information is necessary for the security of the group.


The information could jeopardize your privacy


The information is relevant to the other people.


it's very private and could come back to haunt you.


you trust the person you are speaking to.


It's not okay to be mad at someone for something that isn't wrong.


They have a different opinion of "wrong".


You are okay with never having a relationship with them again.


It's okay to walk away from something that just can't be fixed.


It's rude to keep your child's possessions for yourself when they move out.


You are selling items to help them with their move.


It is okay to snooze in in the mornings.

You have an early meeting you can't be late for.


You aren't getting enough sleep at night.


You shouldn't expect others to always be responsible for you.


You are in memory care in a nursing home.


You are a adult or incapacitated in some way


not talking to my grandad before he passed away

You don't have to spend time with a relative that you don't like.


That relative has abused you in the past.


the relative absolutely needs your help.


the relative has been evil and nasty to you.


feeling I need to cut my mom out of my life

You shouldn't cut your parents out of your life.


They do not support your lifestyle and try to change you.


You love each other and need each other's support.


you have always had a loving relationship


telling my next door neighbor to keep her volume down

It is a pain to ask a neighbor to lower their volume.

everyone in the neighborhood is complaining as well.


They have asked you to speak up when the music is too loud when you get home from work.


It is reasonable to be upset if your neighbor moves your things without asking.

Your neighbor is planning a surprise party.


The house was on fire and they wanted to save some of your belongings.


They come onto your property to mess with your things.


Hypothesis: Don't let a friend drag you down.

you're the reason that the friend is having issues


Hypothesis: Don't let a friend drag you down.

you are trying to stay positive during a tough time


Hypothesis: Don't let a friend drag you down.


Hypothesis: Don't let a friend drag you down.

they just want to make you miserable like they are.


Hypothesis: Don't let a friend drag you down.

that friend is in a bad place and needs your help


Hypothesis: Don't let a friend drag you down.

that friend continuously does this sort of thing


Hypothesis: Don't let a friend drag you down.

they're dragging you down to the club to meet a special person.


calling Uber's emergency support and the police non-emergency line because my co-ride in an Uber pool was a 5is year old girl and possibly got the Uber driver fired

It's appropriate to report an Uber driver that may be complicit in child endangerment.


going to hang out with an ex-roommate that my best friend doesn't like

You should not have to hide a friendship.

The person you are friends with is a bad person


People would kill you for being in an interracial friendship.


The friendship is in a war torn country, and you are both on different sides.


talking about my online gaming friend's cheats on group chat, making his friends talk shit about him

If your friend cheats at gaming, you can make fun of them.


You know it's the kind of game you are supposed to cheat at.


they had made fun of you for cheating before.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat on your partner.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat on your partner.

your partner wants a monogamous relationship.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat on your partner.

you and your partner have an open relationship


Hypothesis: It's wrong to cheat on your partner.

your partner is open, honest and committed to you


being upset that my father walked into my locked room after I told him not to

It's rude to not respect other people's boundaries.

you are in an intimate relationship with them.


their actions directly impact your wellbeing


you expect them to be the same way with you


It's rude to let something you own make a lot of noise that bothers people.

it's malfunctioning and you cannot control it.


you are doing your best to train your dog to stop barking.


you live in an apartment with thin walls.


you must use that item to provide critical care for yourself or others


you are in a library or other place where quietness is the norm


The iutem making a lot of noise is an infant child.


You live in a crowded apartment building.


It's okay to request that your partner accommodate your schedule.


they don't have any wiggle room in their own schedule.


your partner works long hours and is unable to do so


you and your partner work long hours and still want to spend time together


You should watch out for other drivers' safety.


You are driving during a natural disaster.


you are a ambulance driver rushing to an emergency.


you just recently got your drivers license.


It's appropriate to expect to be compensated for your work.

the quality of your work is poor and sloppy


the work you've done is at a traditional for profit company


You have signed a contract that states it.


ghosting a girl after she scared my friend

Hypothesis: You shouldn't scare people.

you are running a haunted house for Halloween.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't scare people.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't scare people.

It's Halloween time and such things are standard.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to see other people.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to see other people.

You are no longer in love with the person


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to see other people.

You are contractually obligated to only see one person.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to see other people.

Both parties agree on an open relationship.


It's okay if your hungry to eat what is available to you.


You are still waiting for other guests to arrive.


The food has been specially prepared for you.


pushing my friend / co-worker on biblical literalism

It's wrong to push your ideas on others.

your idea may save another person's life.


you have been told to keep your opinions to yourself.


Your ideas involve hurting others either physically or emotionally.


those ideas are de facto useful and worth hearing


your ideas are irrelevant and not of use to the others


telling my opinion on the Swastika symbol towards a Roma girl

It is of bad taste to discuss Nazi symbols.


You are learning about them as part of history class.


making a Facebook post telling parents not to buy their kids live animals as presents

It's good to put up a public service announcement warning people not to do something.

the announcement is repetitive and irrelevant to the people


the people are in a high risk situation and need to be warned


You're prohibiting something that contributes to overall health.


You're warning against something that's especially toxic.


It can endanger the lives of the public.


the warning isnt based on anything real.


banning a special needs adult from my Meetup group

It is expected that you would be upset if someone excluded you because you have special needs.


They make fun of you because of your special needs.


you have said in the past that you really don't like that activity.


It would be too dangerous to include you.


It is something you are capable of doing.


those special needs make it impossible to complete the task


they are just assuming that you can't do something due to the special needs.


They only excluded you because they're embarrassed to be seen with someone with a disability.


not being able to look past my partners behaviour

When you misbehave, you should expect people to look at you differently.

Unless all the people around you are doing the same thing.


others are misbehaving in the same way as you


calling out a person with "mental issues

You shouldn't discriminate against people with mental problems.


They have applied for a job as a Police Officer.


They are getting treatment for their condition.


Someone is using a mental problem to take advantage of people


It will make them feel like a terrible person like they did something wrong


Hypothesis: It is okay to want time to yourself.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want time to yourself.

You work with lots of people during the day.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want time to yourself.

You need to work on a project by yourself.


not going to my GF's families' Christmas

It is good to talk to the person you are dating about expectations of holidays.

You both have agreed not to celebrate holidays together.


Both sets of parents have invited you to holiday dinner.


The person you a dating is a Jehovah Witness who doesn't celebrate holidays.


Both families require visits during the holidays.


You already know they are required to spend those holidays with family.


You are making plans for your future together.


You're cousins and already know each other's family traditions.


You come from different religious traditions.


The person you are dating is anxious about both sets of parents.


You will need to split your time between families.


telling my wife that she's being selfish and entitled for expecting my parents to loan us money

It's wrong to be selfish and entitled to your partner.

You are married and extremely limited on time.


you want to maintain a good relationship.


Your partner finds selfishness attractive.


you are trying to rebuild your relationship.


making my dad wait 37 minutes when he was picking me up from work

It's good to give someone a ride from work.

The other person needed a getaway from a robbery.


The other person has given you a ride in the past.


It's a random stranger that looks dangerous.


They have given you rides home from work.


not responding to any ex girlfriends text when she may have needed a friend most

It is good to convince people to seek help if they are battling depression.


The people act out on their depression in violent ways.


The person doesn't know about help available to them.


That person is faking depression for attention


They have tried committing suicide in the past


It's okay to be silly with those we care about every now and them.

They're currently crying and in need of emotional support.


telling my ex-girlfriend's sister that she would never see my kids because she is pornstar

It's fine to want to forbid certain people from seeing your children.


The other parent is one of the people you want to forbid.


They are toxic or could harm your child.


That person is the child's innocent parent.


wanting to kick my ex off my family plan

It's okay to not want to help out someone you don't particularly care for anymore.


You were helping them because you were their friend.


They have helped you out greatly from the past.


You are strapped with the cost of every day living as it is.


being upset that my family thinks I'm "high maintenance"

Being a pain in everyone's ass is considered rude.

You're the bouncer at a bar being paid to keep order.


You're also not helping with the group's tasks.


You are the boos and there is a deadline due soon.


They are all hypocrites who are practicing badness.


You're doing what's right and actually helping them.


kicking a guy out of my store after his wallet had been stolen

You should be empathetic to someone that something bad happens to.


they do bad things to other people all the time.


that person is nice and helpful to other people.


They seem to have a lot of bad things happen that require you to always bail them out.


They are disabled and struggling to get through life.


That very thing has happened to you in the past.


It's okay to think a coworker should be fired.


They consistently perform their job excellently and professionally.


The coworker was wrongfully blamed for another person's mistake.


The coworker harassed the female workers.


being fascinated with mentally handicapped/disabled, foremost the ones that stick their tongues in the bottom lip and make the nnurrr noise

It's okay to be fascinated with mentally disabled people.


It is your profession to work with them.


asking my neighbors to take down their windchimes

You should be courteous to your neighbors.

The neighbors screamed and threaten you kids.


Your neighbors are disrespectful of your property.


Your neighbors pick up your mail and walk your dog.


You live next to bad guys who you should completely stay away from.


They are good neighbors who are kind to you.


Your neighbors are doing something illegal.


You wish to maintain a good relationship with them.


getting ready per usual when my girlfriend called into work

It's good to take care of your responsibilities even when other try to get you to do otherwise.


you are washing dishes and missing the school bus.


you are taking care of your kids instead of partying.


You're the only one taking care of responsibilities and can't have a little time to enjoy life.


You are trying to build a future for yourself.


the person needs your help with an emergency.


telling my mom a dog attacked me and got the dog put down

It's reasonable to have a dog put down if it attacked you.

The dog was on medication that caused its behavior to change.


The dog has attacked several other people.


The dog was injured badly and it didn't know you were just trying to help it.


It's done it to other people or it has rabies.


saying my brothers pregnant girlfriend is being manipulative by not allowing their baby to have my brothers last name until they are married

Inserting yourself into someone else's domestic affairs is never appropriate.


You know you have nothing valuable to add.


They are being taken advantage of by others.


They are a family member being abused by someone


You witness your neighbor being beaten by their spouse.


You have only known the people for a short time and things would be awkward.


not caring that my friend is failing college

You should care about your friend's future.


They got a prestigious degree and can’t seem to land a good job


Your friend is in prison for life for murder.


They are about to graduate college and move out on their own.


They are seeking a change in employment.


Your friend is clearly just using you for social status.


Your friend has been loyal to you during your worst down periods.


It's not okay to be disrespectful to someone or not care about things that happened to them.


the phrase is confusing to me because it has two different comments that could require two separate answers


The person has damaged you  or your loved ones on purpose with malicious intent,


The person is a member of your immediate family.


They are taking advantage of your sympathies.


You are responsible for the care of that person.


expecting my boyfriend to accompany me to a research hospital for my rare health condition

It is reasonable to expect a partner to attend your doctors appointments with you.

They are deployed overseas with the military.


You are undergoing a procedure where you can't drive.


It is a routine checkup and you don't need a ride.


Hypothesis: It is always proper to tip for food.


Hypothesis: It is always proper to tip for food.

You are in a country where tipping is considered rood.


Hypothesis: It is always proper to tip for food.

The service person depends on the tips and not their wages.


Hypothesis: It is always proper to tip for food.

The waiter is kind and always helps you out


Hypothesis: It is always proper to tip for food.

You drank a lot of alcohol and had a big bill.


not wanting to date my bf because he wants to cover himself in tattoos

It is okay not to be attracted to certain people.

Your reasons for doing so are bigoted or extremely petty.


They are your wives and you are into polygamy.


You are confident in your own ability to know what you find attractive.


Certain people can help you in your job.


It's OK to end friendships when your interests change.

Your friends need your support and care.


You are going to be living with them for the foreseeable future.


You've known the person since childhood.


You are not close to the person anymore.


You can still find a way to have fun even with different interests.


The friends interests are toxic and can make your life bad.


Your friendship is based on more then interests.


Your friendship was based on a love of the same thing.


Hypothesis: It's frowned upon to judge others.


Hypothesis: It's frowned upon to judge others.

You don't know all of the circumstances of their life.


Hypothesis: It's frowned upon to judge others.

They've committed especially horrific crimes, like pedophilia.


Hypothesis: It's frowned upon to judge others.

You have the same weaknesses you're judging them for.


Hypothesis: It's frowned upon to judge others.

you are the judge at a dance competition.


Hypothesis: It's frowned upon to judge others.

You are not looking at all the whole picture


Hypothesis: It's frowned upon to judge others.

You're in a courtroom and are punishing the defendant for a terrible crime.


Hypothesis: It's frowned upon to judge others.

You yourself have many of the same faults you're judging.


telling waiter friend he should be more understanding for why his customer didn't tip after seeing a rat at their upscale restaurant

One should tip a server unless they provided poor service.

You are dining with others and they agree to pay the tip if you cover the cost of the meal.


You can see they were overworked and couldn't give you the service they would have at another time.


The tip is already included in the cost of the meal.


The server worked hard to take care of you.


You always tip regardless of the quality


The server provided especially poor service


They're in a country without a tip system.


having sex with a girl who is more interested in me than I am in her

You shouldn't try to use sex to get somebody to care about you.


You're trying to get the person to be in a relationship with you.


Their sexual orientation isn't compatible with your gender.


That is the only thing they want from you


They want to be in a commited relationship


being frustrated with my roommate who can't give me a straight answer about when to pay the Comcast bill

It's understandable to have difficulty in paying a bill.

You have been spending money on luxuries.


The bill is unexpected, like a traffic ticket.


You were not charged the price advertised.


You have used all of your money in a gambling game.


Your boss has been cutting your hours and not paying you enough.


You've been wasting money on eating out every night.


being good friends with people my GF hates

It's understandable if you don't like some of your significant other's friends.

The other person is very nice and supportive of your significant other.


Your significant other's friends are loud and obnoxious.


Your friends asked you to try and get along with them.


You and your friends are constantly hanging out.


They are loud, obnoxious, or alcoholics.


They say mean things to you all the time


You should talk to your partner about things you don't want to do.

Talking to your partner would put a strain on your relationship.


Talking to your partner would strengthen your relationship.


you want to build a strong relationship.


Your partner is a quadriplegic and couldn't do them with you anyway like run a marathon or do 1000 squats thrusts.


You and your partner decide to be in an open or swinging relationship.


It is something that the other person really likes.


Your partner is not someone you can speak to safely.


They are things your partner wants you to do.


You shouldn't cause others to get injured.

It is to prevent them from being killed.


You are slide tackling an opponent in soccer and it was an accident


You know how to play the game without hurting people


They are trying to stab you with a knife.


You chose to hurt one person instead of five because you were in a real life trolley problem.


When you have a crush on someone, it's okay to approach them.


They are making eyes at you across the room


They're already happily dating someone else.


They're single and drop hints that they're interested in you.


You should like your child's gift even if it's the wrong one.


they put a lot of thought into the gift.


contacting my ex-boss with a photo of the employee handbooking stating why she wrongfully fired me

It's good to talk things over with your boss.

It is about a surprise party for your boss that your coworkers are planning.


There is a situation happening with another coworker that needs to be brought to the boss' attention.


Your boss berates you for his own mistakes.


You need to clear the air and get on the same page as your boss.


Your job misunderstood why you did something.


It's allowed for the government to make regulations on how and when people are paid.


The people always get their money when they need it


You are being paid cash for mowing the lawn.


Those regulations would absolutely cripple the economy.


The new regulations prevent serious abuse of the workers.


wanting my gf to work more around the apt

It's OK to ask your partner to contribute around the house.


They work eighty hours a week and you work twenty.


You work sixty hours a week and they work twenty.


Your partner is severely injured and bedridden.


They have more time off of work than you do.


wanting to chew out our cleaning ladies for throwing out my $200

It is wrong to throw away things that don't belong to you.


You're throwing away someone's illegal drugs.


They are clearly marked as someone else's property.


The stuff was abandoned in you home months ago.


making out with a girl which I was interrested in but was drunk

It's selfish to take advantage of a girl when she's drunk.


She always runs away from you whenever she sees you.


She's a notoriously cruel rich person and you're stealing money from her purse to give to the poor.


You sexually assault the girl when she's clearly not consenting.


It is never okay to take advantage of a girl when she's drunk


You yourself are drunk and unable to understand consent.


cutting off a hot mess friend and judging her choices

It is expected that you try to help your friend.

Your friend asks for help with something illegal.


You're currently studying abroad on a different continent.


They're asking for a quick and easy favor.


Your friend is trying to make it on his own.


You aren't responsible for the actions of others when they behave badly.


They're more than old enough to know better.


Hypothesis: Honesty is important in a marriage.

You are playing a game that requires you to bluff.


Hypothesis: Honesty is important in a marriage.


Hypothesis: Honesty is important in a marriage.

You could be compromising their health by lying.


Hypothesis: Honesty is important in a marriage.

They expect the marriage to last till death due them part.


You shouldn't put up with a friend ignoring you.

That friend is at work and can’t be on their phone


the friend is going through a tough time.


your friend is going through a difficult time.


You know they're absolutely swamped with work or schoolwork.


You know they're on vacation with nothing better to do.


asking for my money back from my girlfriend

It's okay to expect people to return money that they took or borrowed from you.


They are now making more money than you.


They want to borrow from me again in the future.


You initially told them the money was a gift.


not telling my mom's fiancé I love him or not wanting to hangout with him

It's okay not to want to hang out with someone you don't like.


It's your younger sibling and your parents told you to do it.


That person always berates you or otherwise makes you feel bad about yourself.


You know they really need extra help and you want to be a good person.


They do things that make you feel uncomfortable.


telling my mother she's overreacting about her siblings going being her back with a family meeting

It's hurtful to go behind someone's back.

You're planning a surprise birthday party.


You're trying to persuade your boss to fire them.


They were recently bullied online and are in a sensitive mood.


going to the college to study while my mom cleans the house

It is polite to ask your parents if they need help with household chores.


You are too young to do the chore that they need help with.


Your parents are older and starting to develop physical disabilities.


They already employ a full-time housekeeper.


Your parents disowned you for being a lesbian.


Your parents are elderly and can't do the chores themselves.


inviting an ex to a concert and asking them not to post anything on social media

Hypothesis: You shouldn't get involved with an ex.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get involved with an ex.


You should invite who you want to important life events.

The people you invite are rude or obnoxious.


The people are close to you and want to share in the experiences.


You know they will deliberately cause trouble.


unless that important life event involves people who are related to people you don't want to be there.


you have a terminal illness and want to be surrounded by joy.


You want to maintain good relationships with people.


Hypothesis: It is ok to want to go away to college.

You're desperately needed to care for sick family members and no one else can possibly do it.


Hypothesis: It is ok to want to go away to college.

You have excellent grades and test scores.


Hypothesis: It is ok to want to go away to college.


Hypothesis: It is ok to want to go away to college.

You've been accepted to an Ivy League school


Hypothesis: It is ok to want to go away to college.

It is to a college that specializes in the degree you want.


Hypothesis: It is ok to want to go away to college.

You don't care about school and just want to party.


Hypothesis: It is ok to want to go away to college.

You are unprepared to live without your existing social network.


only giving 50% of the donation at a job

Hypothesis: It's good to give to charity.


Hypothesis: It's good to give to charity.


refusing to give money to someone who potentially really needed it

You should help other people who need it.


They seem to be struggling and no one else is around.


You helping them would cause harm to you


you yourself are disabled and unable to help.


those people took care of you in past times.


You are in a situation that requires more help than you can give.


telling my friend what I thought about his relationship

You should always tell your thoughts to your friends.


You want to be friends with them forever


Your thoughts are violent and disturbing.


You value their opinion on an important decision.


You're just really frustrated at them right now, and you won't mean the nasty things you're thinking in a few hours.


You're thinking about how much you appreciate their friendship.


not answering the door when my MIL comes over

Hypothesis: You should always respect your in-laws.

Your in-laws are always criticizing you.


Hypothesis: You should always respect your in-laws.


Hypothesis: You should always respect your in-laws.

They have always treated you with respect.


Hypothesis: You should always respect your in-laws.

your spouse doesn't get along with them either.


not liking/feeling any affection for my family

It is expected that you like your family.


You all have the same personality types.


Your family gave you up for adoption because they don’t want kids


Your family always supports you in hard times


you and your family don't agree on many personal things


you live together and have similar interests


Your family members has been mean to you.


You live with them and they are supportive.


not wanting to hangout late with my girlfriend

It's good not to want to be out late at night.


It is a holiday when people drink heavily and drive.


You have to pick up a friend from the hospital.


You have a friend who wants to go out for their birthday


going on a date with someone who I am not sure I have feelings for

Hypothesis: It's good to go out on dates.


Hypothesis: It's good to go out on dates.

You are trying to get to know someone better.


Hypothesis: It's good to go out on dates.


Hypothesis: It's good to go out on dates.

You are trying to keep your bond strong as a couple.


Hypothesis: It's good to go out on dates.

You are married and the date is not with your spouse.


Hypothesis: It's good to go out on dates.

You are married to a person who does't go out with you.


Hypothesis: It's good to go out on dates.

You are young and playing the field to find the right kind of partner.


Hypothesis: It's good to go out on dates.

You want to get into a serious relationship.


not wanting to meet my girlfriend's father who molested her

You should always meet your partner's family.


Your partner is alienated by their family.


Your partner's family disapproves of you


Your partner's family gifted you a house


explaining what "bi" means to a student of mine who asked if I was gay

Hypothesis: It is good to educate other people.

You are misinformed about the subject they are asking about.


Hypothesis: It is good to educate other people.


Hypothesis: It is good to educate other people.

You're teaching violently unstable people how to make explosives.


Hypothesis: It is good to educate other people.

You're teaching refugees how to speak the language of their new country.


Hypothesis: It is good to educate other people.

You are competing with them in an intellectual endeavor.


Hypothesis: It is good to educate other people.

They come from poor backgrounds and would be lost otherwise.


rejecting a girl I almost slept with and then inviting her for dinner

It's good to get to know someone before sleeping with them.


You both just want some simple, one-night fun.


You're planning to have children together.


You want to start a relationship with them


being frustrated with my boyfriend's living situation

It's okay to be frustrated with your family.


Everyone is trying their best and it is something out of their control like a natural disaster..


They won't help you keep the house picked up after you are expecting company.


You suffer from an addiction that they're trying to help you with.


They don't support something that you're passionate about.


You're frustrated with them for asking you to clean up after yourself.


You're frustrated they keep pressuring you to be a doctor, even though you feel faint at the sight of blood.


Your family always bails you out of tough situations


Your family never wants to hang out and just wants money


It is expected that married couples go on trips together.

One of the people in the relationship hates going out of town


One of the people in the marriage are afraid to fly and the trip requires a plane.


It's understandable not to want to make a big deal of your own birthday.


It is the only way to get your birthday recognized and you need the self esteem boost.


You don't want to blow out that many candles because you are getting old.


YOu know your family has planned a big party for the event.


You're getting older and it just makes you sad to remember.


It's understandable that emotions run high between exes.