it's been twenty years since the breakup.


It's understandable that emotions run high between exes.


Things ended on good terms and they remain friends.


one of them cheated during the relationship.


telling my sister to get her shit together

You shouldn't put up with your sibling telling you off.


Your sibling always gets away with being mean


You took something from them without asking.


They took something from you without asking.


You shouldn't sleep with your friend's partner.


You were their maid of honor at their wedding.


You are freezing to death and this is the only option.


You are already involved with someone else.


You are a mean person and don't care about their feelings.


You want to continue being friends with them.


asking my mom to bring me pizza when she flies in

You should do favors for your kids when they ask.

The favor comes from an innocently young mouth.


You are trying to teach them self-responsibility.


They have done all their homework and chores.


You do so many favors that your kids control you and expect everything all the time.


Your kids are otherwise responsible and mature.


they are always asking and never offering to help out.


You know they don't really ask for much and you like to give them what they want.


fighting with my husband about him being in his phone all the time

It's rude to be constantly distracted when with your significant other.

It is your and your significant other's baby who is distracting you.


It is your cellphone that is distracting you.


You are tending to a sick child or newborn baby.


Your partner is also on the phone talking to someone else.


keeping a stay cat we adopted after the owner reached out to us

It's good to help out people when they request you do something.


They are in need of help with a task that is difficult for them.


Your friend is asking you to hide his weed in your gym locker.


This person has done favors for you in the past.


They are requesting you to do something illegal


They are elderly and walking with a cane.


It's rude to stop talking with acquaintances.

The reason you stop talking with them is because you moved to a new state.,


They have trespassed against your trust or acted reprehensibly.


You're shunning them for simply having a differing view on politics.


They were literally having a conversation with you and you walked away.


It's good to be supportive of your friends' relationships.


Your friends' relationships are constantly changing.


Your friends' relationships are part of your inner circle.


Your friends are in a toxic relationship.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't betray your friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't betray your friends.

Your friends did something illegal and law enforcement offered you a plea deal


Hypothesis: You shouldn't betray your friends.

They are committing crimes of violence towards others.


ditching my friend for getting released from school an hour earlier

It's good to get released from school early.


it is because of a tragedy that occurred.


You're leaving school to start a vacation.


You can't go home because your parents aren't home yet.


There is a strengthening hurricane approaching.


telling my wife to stop kissing me when I'm in a bad mood

It is good to tell people when you don't want to be kissed.


You like to set healthy boundaries with other people.


The person you're talking to is your partner.


You are performing in a movie and you have agreed by contract to kiss another actor.


It is good to throw away alcohol if someone is drinking too much.


You are in public and do not know the person.


The person is a friend and acting out of control.


You can hide it from the person who is drinking too much.


The person drinking too much won't stay away from the alcohol.


You didn't pay for the alcohol and don't have the owner's permission.


You are worried about them blacking out.


wanting to continue a friendship with someone my boyfriend doesnt like

It is wrong to control who your partner can be friends with.

The friends are treating your partner with harm.


The friends are childhood friends who care for your partner.


Your partners' friends are career criminals who kept trying to get them to stand lookout.


You want to isolate your partner from all their friends.


your partner lets you pick your own friends


The possible friend is a bad influence on your partner.


The person had been a friend of your partner for a long time.


You want to have a healthy, trusting relationship.


Hypothesis: It is good to have healthy friendships.


Hypothesis: It is good to have healthy friendships.

You have had unhealthy friendships in the past.


Hypothesis: It is good to have healthy friendships.

it interferes with day to day activities.


Hypothesis: It is good to have healthy friendships.

You are antisocial and have no interest in people.


Hypothesis: It is good to have healthy friendships.

You are depressed and need supportive friends in your life.


It is good to create space between yourself and friends if they are no longer positive influences.

You're working on an assignment together with those friends.


The friends bring danger into your life.


They are counting on you to be their positive influence, to help them get their life in order.


Their influence has caused you to have any legal, or negative, consequences.


they need your help and support to be a better person.


they pressure you into doing things that are harmful to your health.


ending up eating over 1/2 of the ice cream my dad bought me and my brother

Hypothesis: Gluttony is bad for your health.

A hormone problem prevents you from losing weight and you are otherwise healthy.


Hypothesis: Gluttony is bad for your health.

It has caused you to have high blood pressure and diabetes.


Hypothesis: Gluttony is bad for your health.


Hypothesis: Gluttony is bad for your health.

You're overweight with high blood pressure.


asking my sister if her 4 year old stole money

It's wrong to take something that belongs to someone else.

You are being attacked and the nearest item is your friend's baseball bat.


The item is a family heirloom with sentimental value.


The person doesn't know you took the item.


You want to return something that they accidentally dropped and didn't notice.


You stole just enough money from someone that they can't pay their rent.


reporting a friend for sexually themed texts

You should try to talk to your friend first before reporting them for sending out sexually themed texts.


the texts included links to child pornography


your friend could get fired for this behavior


You don't want your friend to get into trouble.


Your friend is new to using technology for dating.


being upset that my mom is going back to school

It is expected that you wish the best for your family members.


they are complete jerks that only think of themselves.


You don't know any of your family members and are in the foster system.


Your family members have been supportive throughout your life.


They are toxic and demeaning people who treat you like garbage.


They are loving and supportive people who are always there for you.


They have betrayed you beyond forgiveness.


commenting favorably on a short colleague's height

It's okay to be irritated if someone makes comments about your height.

You are wearing lifts and need to be told not to worry about your height.


You have already told them before not to make comments.


They are your friend and you know that they are joking.


You have mentioned to them that your height is a sensitive subject.


changing my mind on about going to a school dance with a girl

Hypothesis: It is okay to be honest with people.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be honest with people.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be honest with people.

It will cause them to worry unnecessarily.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be honest with people.

You want to show them you trust them completely.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be honest with people.

Those people want to seriously hurt someone else and you tell them where to find that person.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be honest with people.

You have a close, loving relationship with that person.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be honest with people.

You are telling someone else's child there is no Santa Claus.


Hypothesis: It is okay to be honest with people.

You are spilling a secret that someone asked you to keep.


serving meat to my vegan husband to save his life

If you know someone that needs medical help you should take them to a doctor.

They have requested that you not help them.


The person is being combative about going


you have no way of transporting them safely.


Hypothesis: It's good to have a pet.


Hypothesis: It's good to have a pet.

it would help with your emotional state.


Hypothesis: It's good to have a pet.

You have children that should learn responsibility.


Hypothesis: It's good to have a pet.

You are lonely and wanting companionship.


telling my ex to get bent after she requests an apology

It's understandable to not want to apologize to someone.


You are working a 12 step program and looking for forgiveness.


you truly feel remorse over your actions.


You shouldn't refuse a pregnancy test if it's offered to you.


it is your partner, and they want to know the situation.


You're a guy and you know you can't get pregnant.


You are about to take a medication that could cause harm if you're pregnant.


The condom broke the last time you had sex.


You are a fertile woman who has been having unprotected sex.


You have no possibility of being pregnant.


You and your partner are trying hard to get pregnant.


Communication is important in a relationship.


You and your partner want to be on the same page.


The relationship is already very superficial.


You want a healthy, long term relationship.


You want the relationship to last a long time.


The people are trying to get past trust issues.


They are on a remote work assignment without a way to communicate.


refusing to say "I love you" to my partner

It's bad to stay in a relationship if you don't truly love the other person.

They are going through a very rough time and need the support for awhile longer.


You want the best for the both of you long term.


You have both agreed to a platonic relationship.


You have fallen in love with someone else.


you expect to inherit a lot of money from them


you do not have children with this person


You've both agreed that you do not want to divorce for religious reasons.


You have nothing stopping you from moving out.


essentially rejecting a black woman because she didn't belong to my culture

It's okay to not always get along with everyone around you.

You are working at a company where teamwork is essential to success.


You are in direct competition with others trying to get one prize.


You are a mediator in a divorce proceeding.


You are looking out for your own best interests.


You are trying to build a strong bond with them.


The other people are rude and condescending.


They are your family members and you have to see them every day.


telling my bf he needs to lose weight or I'll break up with him

It's okay to want to break up with someone if they don't meet your expectations.

They have other qualities than make up for it.


You might realize you're expecting too much and should lower your standards.


if their behavior is manipulative or unsafe.


You think that there are better partners out there.


They don't care about your expectations.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to be alone.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to be alone.

You have an obligation to arrive on time every day.


Hypothesis: It is okay to want to be alone.

You have just lost the final round of the tennis play-offs.


It's understandable to want your significant other to stay healthy.


Diabetes, heart disease or other health problems run in their family.


your significant other has cheated on you.


you want to get married to your significant other.


You want to spend the rest of your life with them.


You want them to die so you can collect insurance money.


They are sticking to a diet and losing weight.


wanting to cut contact with the guy who has a crush on me

It's wrong to have a crush on someone that doesn't want anything to do with you.

you respect their wishes and keep your space.


You keep it to yourself and just enjoy a silly fantasy for what it is.


They have asked you to stop following them repeatedly.


they have told you your behaviors are making them uncomfortable.


You keep the crush private and don't bother them with it.


You keep trying to get them to go on a date with you.


lighting my cigarette on a hookah on the sidewalk

You shouldn't touch other peoples' stuff even if your not damaging it.

You need to move it so it won't get damaged.


It's not doing any harm being where it is.


You don't have permission to touch their stuff.


You have been asked to leave their stuff alone.


wanting to use a college fund my grandmother set aside for me for something other than college

Taking money under a guise is considered dishonest.


You are poor and need the money to feed your family.


You are taken advantage of homeless people.


You are using the money for your own selfish purposes.


You shouldn't break off relationships during important holidays.


You discover the other person has been telling you serious lies for years.


You make a big dramatic scene that ruins the holiday for everyone.


You are miserable and cannot stand being with them a moment longer.


Your partner is really depressed and possibly suicidal because it could send them over the edge.


the reasons are purely selfish and one-sided.


going off on my sil after she assumed I have HIV because I'm gay

Prying into someone's medical affairs is rude.

You are a doctor checking their medical history.


You are not in a relationship with that person.


It's someone under your care and you need to help make decisions about their care.


They have asked you to mind your own business.


The medical affairs could be very dangerous for someone else.


The person has asked you to stay out of their affairs.


telling friend he has to get out of my place

It's okay to tell others to leave your house if you don't want them there.

They are children and live there with you.


They are paid workers that are not doing a good job.


The other people are your minor children.


The people are breaking your possessions.


It's good to be honest with people, even if the truth hurts sometimes.

You are talking to a child who doesn't understand what you are saying.


The person is used to people lying to them and they need to nap back to reality.


It's a child whose feelings are easily hurt.


Someone dies, since you can't hide that easily and the person who lost them needs to grieve.


Their behavior is damaging to themselves or others.


They are asking about their appearance and you want them to feel good about themselves.


The truth will eventually be helpful for them to hear.


asking my roommate not to have people over late at night

It's okay to ask your roommate not to do certain things if they are disruptive.


The disruptive behavior is part of a medical routine they must ahdere to.


The disruptive behavior is loud gaming in a common space.


You can do it in a calm respectful manner.


insisting my missing friend was "obviously fine and busy" to common friends when she was actually in a very very bad condition

Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to friends.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to friends.

You are setting them up for a surprise party.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to friends.

The lie is about something like a surprise party.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to friends.

The lie is about something that could impact your friend's health.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to friends.

Telling the truth could hurt them needlessly.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't lie to friends.

They are asking you for your honest opinion.


confronting my underage coworker about taking a Jell-O shot in the office

Hypothesis: It's good to care about others.


Hypothesis: It's good to care about others.


Hypothesis: It's good to care about others.

The others have been very hurtful to you.


Hypothesis: It's good to care about others.

They have done some very caring things for you.


Hypothesis: It's good to care about others.

They need you to mind your own business.


Hypothesis: It's good to care about others.

The person has harmed others with no remorse.


being concerned about my best friend's relationship

It's good to be concerned about your friend.

You become obsessive about your friend's wellbeing.


They don't value your expressions of concern.


trolling the jukebox when I'm only at the bar with my girlfriend

Partners are expected to show respect to one another and not antagonize each other.


They want the relationship to last a long time.


One has become a drug addict who needs to be coerced into rehab.


The the other has done nothing to warrant disrespect and is of an up-standing character.


They are really just teasing their partner.


feeling snubbed by my boyfriend's family

It's expected that you be polite to people you have just met.


You have just met protesters supporting a cause you hate


You shouldn't be racist to your partner.


You want to maintain a loving healthy relationship.


your partner is a social justice warrior.


thinking my ex is seeing someone new too soon

You shouldn't keep tabs on who an ex is dating.


You otherwise have no contact with your ex any longer.


You were the one who broke up with them.


You shouldn't side with your partner over your parents.

You are gay and your parents are being homophobic toward your partner.


Your parents are poor and your partner is trying to bum money off them.


Your parents are old and get very upset at disagreements.


One should always side with their partner!


Hypothesis: It's wrong to snitch on others.

You're snitching to ensure that everyone is safe from violence.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to snitch on others.

You're snitching on something small like passing a note in class.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to snitch on others.

It will save yourself from going to prison.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to snitch on others.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to snitch on others.

They aren't doing anything to harm anyone.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to snitch on others.

The other person is trying to surprise someone.


texting my hairdresser after ghosting her

It is expected that you will answer calls and texts from people and let them know why you are not coming to see them.


You have already explained to them several times why you can't come to see them.


You have made plans to see them and they had to go out of their way to make it happen.


It's okay to if someone treats you better than others because they are fond of you.

They are a significant other who does not want them to be around you.


You like them and want to get to know them better.


That would be seen as favouritism at work


It is innocent and does not affect anyone else


They are a judge and you are a defendant


They're choosing you as a romantic partner


The other person need medical care and you do not.


You need more help than the other person.


It's rude to be late in meeting someone.

You ended up in traffic and called to let them know that you will be late.


You are the one that set up the meeting.


You promised you would be there on time.


The car broke down on the turnpike, forcing me to call Triple AAA.


A potential client, with a portfolio of best sellers still in print, asked to meet with us.


yelling at my parents to give me back my computer

It is okay to be upset when someone takes your belongings.

They discovered that your belongings were exposed to a rare disease and needed to be removed.


You needed them to prepare for a test the next day.


you have given those belongings away and you're just being greedy.


they are sentimental and you didn't want to lose them.


You are checking-in luggage at an airport.


You paid a lot of money on what was stolen.


going to the college to study while my mom cleans the house

It is okay to do other things while another family member cleans.


You have to take your parent to the hospital.


you have other important household work to do


You are supposed to be helping your family member.


They told you that you could do other things.


You made the mess and are now chilling out


telling my sister to get her shit together

Hypothesis: It's wrong to swear at your family.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to swear at your family.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to swear at your family.

Your family is yelling and swearing at you.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to swear at your family.

Your family is trying to do something kind for you.


It's understandable to break someone's belongings accidentally.

The item was purposely dropped to make an angry conversational point.


One attends to all things as carefully as if they were one's own.


They did not give you permission to handle their belongings.


You are a small child with permission to hold the belongings.


You didn't have permission to use the belongings in the first place.


It was not intentional and the person forgives you.


You broke something because you were extremely careless.


You broke something in the process of doing something good.


The someone directly told you not to touch the belongings.


buying my dream guitar? my fiance is threatening to leave me over it

It is rude for someone to think they can tell their fiance what they are allowed to buy.

They have been spending your money irresponsibly


Their fiance already has crippling debt.


Their fiance is just spending their own money.


Their fiancee has a spending problem and tons of credit card debt


They are buying things on the fiance's credit card.


The fiance buys whatever they want with money from their joint account, with no input from their partner.


Both people agreed to a budget ahead of time.


The fiance is the only income-earner in the family.


keeping my friend's family from contacting him

It is rude to keep people away from contact with other people.

The people are supposed to be in solitary prison confinement.


The people you're preventing contact between are relatives.


The two groups of people would cause harm to each other.


They desire to have contact with each other because they were families fleeing to a safer country.


They need your support and care to survive.


The other people are known to be aggressive and mean.


they are just trying to make new friends.


It's normal to bring your possessions with you when you move to a new place.

The reason you have to move is that your old house burned down.


You're older and have had decades to accumulate belongings.


You are moving out of your parents house.


your possessions are very expensive and valuable.


Your possessions were destroyed in a disaster.


You value and treasure your possessions a lot.


not telling my father in law where his former tenant lives/works

It is bad to give out the personal information of others.

They have given you permission to do so.


You are ordering a shirt for someone and give their size to the designer.


Another person is in danger and you need to give their information to the police.


You know the person seeking the information is an Internet scammer.


You are giving it to police officers who are trying to track them down.


It is a shady stranger asking for the information.


You are required by law to report the information.


wanting to break up with my girlfriend after finding out she slept with guys in every european city she visited on her euro trip? she previously told me she only slept with 3 guys in her life

It's unacceptable to sleep with someone else if your significant other doesn't agree.

You are willing to accept the consequenses


Your significant other ha slept with someone else without your permission.


Your significant other has been in a coma for ten years.


You are trapped in a broken car in a snow storm, and you need to sleep together to stay warm.


You have a monogamous relationship with your significant other.


You should be nice to friends and the people they care about.


Those people are really bad people who might cause you harm.


you know they are all good people and don't deserve any animosity.


They aren't doing anything harmful or intrusive.


People are expected to show up when they make a date.

They got into a car accident and are at the hospital.


They haven't called to say they can't make it.


They have already cancelled several times


Something out of their control comes up and prevents them from going.


The other person is very much looking forward to the date.


They've learned terrible news about their date.


choosing not to attend a rafting trip with coworkers because I don't want to bring my spouse along

It's understandable to want to avoid situations you wouldn't enjoy.


Your job requires dealing with unpleasant tasks, such as a janitor or waste disposal worker.


You pay a lot of money to have a good time.


It's really important to someone you care about.


The situation has a large benefit associated with it.


wanting to call the cops on my gfs brother for drunk driving

Hypothesis: It is okay to report unsafe behavior.


Hypothesis: It is okay to report unsafe behavior.

It could save someone from getting hurt.


Hypothesis: It is okay to report unsafe behavior.

The people are taking proper precautions to protect themselves.


Hypothesis: It is okay to report unsafe behavior.


Hypothesis: It is okay to report unsafe behavior.

It will save more lives in the long run.


Hypothesis: It is okay to report unsafe behavior.

You're a lifeguard and directly responsible to save those who are unsafe.


Hypothesis: It is okay to report unsafe behavior.

the behavior is necessary to save a life


not wanting to spend time with my family for not letting me hang out with some friends

Sometimes you have to accept that someone's family doesn't want you to hang out with them.


I remind them of an unpleasant time in their lives.


you believe they have the wrong impression of you.


they have told you clearly that you are not wanted around them.


it's your own family and you're a child.


you have interests that are a lot different from your family.


not letting my husband use our cooking utensils for fish care

It's ok to be grossed out by certain foods.


You are over at someone else's house as a guest.


The food being served goes against your religious leanings.


you are insulting your host by refusing to eat them.


expecting my boyfriend to accompany me to a research hospital for my rare health condition

Partners are expected to help each other out when they are sick.

You have a compromised immune system which makes sickness deadly.


They have too many important obligations they can't ignore.


Your partner can't do anything for themselves.


The sick partner was caring for the other when the other was sick.


It's not good to be racist towards anyone.

They are trying to harm innocent people.


You are a good person and want others to like you.


They are a part of an underrepresented minority.


Being racist to a specific person could be extremely damaging to that person.


not making my wife's birthday extra special

You should do more to make birthdays special for others.

others do not want their birthdays celebrated


They have thrown nice birthday parties for you in the past.


The have a restraining order against you.


The person doesn't like celebrating their birthday.


It is unkind to hope that something bad happens to someone because you don't like them.

The person is a criminal and has done very bad things.


The person you want something bad to happen to is a small child.


They have wronged you and broken the law.


it is to spare someone you like form harm.


you hope that the bad thing teaches them a lesson.


your dislike is just a personal preference and they're not bad people.


You shouldn't care about the genders of others.

you are a doctor performing physical exams


It's your husband, or wife, who is unsure about their own gender.


The other person is a complete stranger, and in no way does their gender identity effect you in any way.


You are competing in a competition where it matters


It doesn’t affect the way you live your life


leaving a family party early because of annoying kids

It's okay to bring your kids to a family party.


The invitation was addressed to the entire family.


asking for my dogs balls back at the dog park

It's okay to want to get what is yours back from someone that has taken it.


You promised the other the use of the item for as long as they needed it.


The other is not showing sufficient gratitude for being allowed to use it.


You stole the item from them in the first place.


You worked very hard to get the item they took.


getting mad that my girlfriend won't stand up to her parents

It is wrong to judge someone else's family dynamic.


You're part of that person's family dynamic.


You've only met a small portion of their family.


You are about to marry into that family.


You are not involved in any way with the other family and you have no idea what they are going through.


You have a right to park where ever you like if you are there first.

It is a handicap spot and you aren't handicapped.


You were signaling first to claim the spot.


There are signs indicating that you're not allowed to park there.


The parking lot has few cars and lots of available space.


it is a handicapped parking space and you are not handicapped


You are trying to park in an accessible spot while not being disabled.


Hypothesis: It is rude to avoid someone.


Hypothesis: It is rude to avoid someone.

That person is very stuck up and annoying


Hypothesis: It is rude to avoid someone.

They have a contagious disease and you don't want to catch it.


It is bad to back into someones mailbox.


You are attempting to pin a criminal against it.


There are children that live in the neighborhood.


It dents the car and destroys the mailbox.


You were driving a bulldozer as part of a renovation of the property.


You had to in order to avoid an accident.


being mad and upset at my friend for replacing me with a girl

A good friend will never put a lover before you.

The lover has just returned from overseas deployment.


Their lover is a beautiful model that is out of their league.


You saved their life when you were soldiers in a war.


The friend's lover is a recent addition to their life.


hosting a family dinner but making a Thai peanut dish specifically so my sister and her kids couldn't attend

A family dinner should include all members of the family.


All family members are home at dinner time.


There will be adult conversation that children shouldn't hear.


A member of the family has done something hurtful to other members of the family.


There is no good reason to leave any members of the family out.


All of the family members live in the same house.


Members of the family are serving overseas.


It is okay to respect a dead person's wishes


It's a simple request and you promised them you'd do it.


You made a promise that you would respect their wishes.


The dead person's wishes are something that isn't legal.


The person's wishes are to be buried in a cemetary.


The dead person wanted something that is illegal.


The dead person made simple, easily-fulfilled requests.


It's good to help out your family with chores.


You have to work 60 hours a week and contribute more money instead.


you are just visiting from another country.


You have free time after work or school.


All of the chores are handled by a maid.


asking my wife to stop using HER inheritance as her personal slush fund

Hypothesis: It's wrong to have a slush fund.

You are using it to buy medicine for the sick on the streets.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to have a slush fund.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to have a slush fund.

You're worried about meeting basic living expenses if you lose your job.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to have a slush fund.

You are a family with a giant jar of coins.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to have a slush fund.

You are a business person or a giant corporation.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to have a slush fund.

You want to be President of the United States


Hypothesis: It's wrong to have a slush fund.

the statement does not seem to have any sense to it at all


Groups of friends should be aware of their surroundings and how their behavior appears to others.

They are at a friend's house in the woods with no neighbours around


The friends are in the suburb surrounded by neighbours at night.


They are on vacation in a foreign country.


They're alone at one of their friends' houses.


They are at a party where everyone is just doing what they want.


asking my ex's new boyfriend to pay for my dog's vet bill, since he's cat attacked my dog

IT is okay to hold a pet's owner responsible for the actions of their pet

The animal was guarding private property with signs posted.


The pet retaliated against an abusive stranger.


You removed the pet from its owner's care.


not expecting help with funeral expenses

You shouldn't expect help when it comes to funeral expenses.


The dead person did not have life insurance.


You were hated by everyone in your family


Your parent dies and you and your siblings


You've had family offer in the past to help with similar things.


spending time with my girlfriend in the room with a shared roommate

It's inappropriate to spend time with your partner in a room you share with someone else.


Your partner has interior-design suggestions..


The other person has gone out and given the two of you privacy.


The other person is gone and you have their permission.


The other person has expressly told you not to do it.


It is wrong to ignore dietary restrictions when hosting a family dinner.


You could cause someone to go into anaphylactic shock.


Those people can go into anaphylactic shock


Unless everyone has different dietary restrictions.


Especially if those restrictions are severe allergies.


You don't have the capability to heed all the dietary restrictions and they aren't harmful.


You know you can do great harm if you ignore the.


they have severe allergies to that stuff.


not wanting to be friends with a kid who has depression

You should be willing to be friends with all people.

The people are violent and hostile towards you.


Some people have been hateful to you or your loved ones.


You have gotten lots of help from other people.


Some of the people in question are very abusive and being their friend would hurt you.


You don't want to be known as judgmental and want to feel good about yourself.


Those people do not think I should have rights.


Those people are willing to acknowledge my rights.


It is understandable to not know how to deal with someone else's mental illness.

You have been professionally trained in psychology.


You're young and inexperienced in helping others.


They have explained that they have good days and bad days and you still try to make them leave the house on the bad days.


You have never known anyone with manic episodes before and didn't know what to expect.


You're a trained mental health professional


You've never encountered a mental health issue before.


You work at a hospital and are trained for such situation.


You are a child and don't know what to do.


thinking that it's utterly disgusting to openly fart all the time, smell or not

It's okay to not like it when people fart near you.


You are in the early stages of pregnancy and smell everything


It is a helpless baby that doesn't know better.


You are in an enclosed room and no fresh air can get in.


It's wrong to try to cause other's to be deceived.

You're trying to trick a serial killer into going to a police station to be arrested.


You're trying to scam them out of their life savings.


You're a wall street broker and you make tons of money doing that every day.


You care about them as people and don't want them to be upset with you.


telling my project teammate that her quality of work is shit

It's OK to be honest with your co-workers if it would let them know that their work quality isn't up to par.


The performance evaluations are coming up


They want to know how well they are doing


Your coworkers are prone to retaliation.


not wanting to go my bf's family christmas party

Hypothesis: You should support your partner.


Hypothesis: You should support your partner.


Hypothesis: You should support your partner.

Your partner never returns the support when you need it.


Hypothesis: You should support your partner.

They're working on a goal that will benefit both of you.


Hypothesis: You should support your partner.

Your partner is trying to hurt themselves.


Hypothesis: You should support your partner.

Your partner is trying to apply to college.


It is rude to be mean to your significant other.


Your husband leaves his smart watch on the couch and when you move it, you see a private, inappropriate message from a woman at work.


Your husband has a bad temper and it doesn't take much for him to lose it.


You're divorcing after you caught them cheating


They have done something that you have asked them many times not to do.


They have just finished making you a lovely dinner.


telling my friend a Guy tweeted about their "relationship"

Interfering with two people interacting can get you in trouble.

You are a referee during a sports event.


They are criminals in the midst of committing a crime.


You're a referee and you interfere with two people interacting as part of your job.


The interaction has nothing to do with you and is best resolved between the two people.


They are fighting and you don't know them.


Those people are actually two toddlers fighting.


The people are having a violent argument.


It's okay to want something back that is yours.

You know the person currently using it really needs it much more than you do.


The person promised to return it already and is ignoring you.


It is helping someone less fortunate than yourself.


You gave something away as a permanent gift.


You left something at an ex-partner's apartment.


You had promised it to somebody else for that day.


telling my parents to stop renovating the kitchen at 2am

It's understandable to want to hurry up and get a big job finished.

It's going to take years to finish a very complex job.


You already have the next job lined-up as soon as you finish this one.


The job must be done slowly for it to be done well.


Very careful attention to detail is needed.


not talking to someone who led me on for almost 8 years, but told me was pregnant

It's inconsiderate to string someone along with false hopes for a relationship.


They are developing very strong feelings for you.


You think they are doing the same results thing to you


That person has made it clear they have strong positive feelings for you.


Most of the time, not communicating with in-laws can save your lots of stress.


You and your in-laws are all considerate grown-ups.


Your in-laws don't accept your marriage.


making out with my gf loudly enough for her roommate to hear

It's okay to be upset when your roommate is being loud with their partner.

Their partner overdosed on pills and they're trying to wake them up.


They're having sex and they left their bedroom door open.


It's the middle of the day on the weekend.


They are making noise very late at night.


Hypothesis: It's not good to buy drugs.

They are legal ones, used to treat medical conditions.


Hypothesis: It's not good to buy drugs.


Hypothesis: It's not good to buy drugs.

You have a medical condition that requires medication to treat.


Hypothesis: It's not good to buy drugs.

You're buying heroin spiked with fentanyl.


Hypothesis: It's not good to buy drugs.

You are buying legal drugs at the pharmacy


Hypothesis: It's not good to buy drugs.

the drugs available to you to buy are unhealthy.


You don't have to give friends preferential treatment.

You've shared the cost of a winning lottery ticket.


Your friends have all known you for the same amount of time


You promised your friends that you could get them something for free at your job.


You told your friends not to ask you for freebies at work.


They normally give you similar treatment.


They don't deserve it and tend to take advantage of you.


Its not uncommon for people to remain friends with their ex.


You have kids and are trying to coparent.


They had a contentious breakup and constantly fought.


not telling my dad about the other men my mom slept with

It's wrong for married people to sleep with people other than their partners.


They have agreed to have an open marriage.


They could cause a pregnancy or contract a disease.


They have agreed to be in an open relationship.


Their partner is home taking care of their children.


It's okay that you don't want to do something with others sometimes and have to make an excuse.

You are making an excuse to stay home and do drugs.


You work many hours and seldom get any down time.


You've already been paid for the thing you were supposed to do.


You are obligated to show up to a work dinner.


You make it a habit and become socially isolated.


You're busy and simply want some alone time.


You are shirking important responsibilities.


You just need some quiet time to yourself.


not standing up and letting an elderly lady take my seat after letting her sit down beside me

It's rude to not offer your set to an elderly person.


You are elderly as well or otherwise physically disabled.


You are young, fit and unencumbered by an infant.


You didn't notice the old person near you.


the elderly person is struggling to stand


You are perfectly healthy and they are struggling to stand.


making someone walk in cold weather so I wouldn't be late for work

It's OK to be late to work if you're helping someone in need.


You do not call in to work to let them know you will be late


the person needed medical attention asap.


walking out of my job without clocking out or telling anyone tl:dr at the bottom

It's expected that if you leave work you will tell someone

You are the sole night watchman and you work alone.


You are suddenly called away on a family emergency on the day of your company's annual budget meeting.


You are the last person to leave the office.


You report to a person higher up the ranks.


You are the boss and can leave when you want.


You report to someone who needs to know where you are.


It's appropriate to think a sibling is ugly, as long as you don't share that thought with them.


you can't change your process of thoughts.


Their looks are a result of a birth defect.


asking my mom to not be on her phone while watching a movie

It's okay to ask someone not to be rude by talking on their phone.

They're calling 911 to report an emergency.


They are making an emergency phone call.


They are talking during a class lecture.


The person using their phone is your boss.


The person using their phone is your student.


You are in a public space with no one else around


getting into arguments with my housemates controlling gf

Hypothesis: It is rude to fight in front of others.


Hypothesis: It is rude to fight in front of others.


Hypothesis: It is rude to fight in front of others.

The others are very sensitive to conflict.


Hypothesis: It is rude to fight in front of others.

The other people you're fighting in front of are your kids.


telling my friends GF she is obsessive over my wedding

It's rude to criticize a person for being excited about something.

They are excited about something inconsequential


A person is excited about someone's misfortune.


A person is excited about your good fortune.


they are having fun picking on someone smaller than them.


they have been depressed for a long time.


You're at an event that requires extreme calmness and quiet.


They are excited about hurting someone else


walking out on my boyfriend and our friends

It's okay to start your life over again if you have to.

You do it because you are hiding from the police.


You are unhappy with your current situation in life.


You are doing it to hide an illegal action


You've worked hard for everything you have, but your husband is a compulsive spender and wastes your money to the point of $18k debt.


not telling someone's fiancée her boyfriend tried to cheat on her

It is unacceptable to cheat in a relationship.


You are in a mutually open relationship.


The relationship is one where monogamy isn't preferred.


The relationship is strictly monogamous.


Your partner wants to marry you and is your fiancé


wanting to download a game I bought for myself whilst someone is trying to watch tv downstairs

It is okay to want to do something for yourself.


the thing you want to do harms other people.


It ends up harming others in the process.


You want to feel a sense of accomplishment.


You finally splurging on the new computer you've needed for 2 years means you can't afford health insurance for the month


You have saved every spare penny for a new laptop, to the point that you haven't even been to a movie theater in 2 years.


It's right to bring even those close to you to justice.


It would implicate you as having been a willing participant and it's not true.


They've committed heinous acts to other people.


You don't believe the justice system is fair to all people.


You should not purposely embarrass people.


You are taking part in a comedy roast of a person.


That person is already in a fragile mental state.


You want to get back at them for wronging you


not wanting my stepdaughter at a vacation

Hypothesis: You should treat your children equally.


Hypothesis: You should treat your children equally.


Hypothesis: You should treat your children equally.

The children have separate birthday parties.


calling a customer's dad stupid without realising

It's rude to insult someone's intelligence.

They are always acting like they know everything


You are insulting an adult who is purposefully reckless.


You are insulting a child or teenager who is trying their best.


You are acting and following a script in a play.


There are other valid critiques you could make besides smarts.


not wanting to meet my girlfriend's father who molested her

You should cut out family from your life that abused you.


Your mom is now clean from drugs and alcohol and has been for 10 years and wants to make amends.


You know the relationship will continue to be toxic


Those family members are supporting you financially.


Those family members continue their pattern of abuse.


You want to deal with your family directly to cut out the abuse.


Your family shows no signs of wanting to cut out the abuse.


They have never apologized to you about their behavior.


not giving gifts to my sister like I do for my friends

It's rude to not treat your sibling as well as you treat your friends.


Your siblings are the cause of all the hostility.


They're a bully and they treat you badly.


You want your friends to think well of you.


telling wife I want a divorce when I don't

Its ridiculous to lie about wanting to get divorced when you dont.


You are testing the other person's reaction.


You know it bothers your partner to a great extent.


you think it will make your spouse behave better


you think your spouse might agree to a divorce


asking my friend for pictures of her arm so I know she isn't self harming

Hypothesis: It's good to care about people.


Hypothesis: It's good to care about people.


Hypothesis: It's good to care about people.

The people use your caring to steal from you and cheat you.


Hypothesis: It's good to care about people.

The people are down on their luck through no fault of their own,


Hypothesis: It's good to care about people.

You care so much about others that you neglect your own needs.


Hypothesis: It's good to care about people.

It brings you and others great joy when doing so and you feel fulfilled.


telling my friend what I thought about his relationship

You shouldn't tell your friends what to do in their relationship.

You see that they are being hurt by their significant other.


Their relationship is successful and going very well.


Your friends ask your opinion about what to do in their relationships.


You have no relationship experience of your own.


Your friends are going through a private argument.


blocking my mother's internet access to online bingos

It's okay to stop loved ones from indulging in destructive behavior.

They will destroy you if you try to stop them.


Their destructive behavior is hurting other people as well.


They are adults and not hurting anyone else.


Helping them puts too much stress on you.


Stopping them involves involuntary committal.


leaving my friend's house after one of his buddies used the word "gay" as an insult

It's okay to want to leave your friend's house if one of his friends offended you.

You misunderstood what the friend was saying.


Other friends are depending on you for a ride home.


Unless he offended you accidentally through no fault of his own.


Especially if your friend agreed with him.


expressing concern for a young child's constant preventable pitfalls

It's good to care about young people's safety.

That means you don't allow your teenager to walk two blocks by themselves.


It means you keep close track of your young toddler around busy roads.


They're going on a school trip away from home.


Their friends are getting into illegal activities.


wanting to stop talking/interacting with the guy I like because of his comment

Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore people.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore people.

You are taking care of another customer.


Hypothesis: It is rude to ignore people.

They say your name and you don't do anything.


Telling a man you think he is trying too hard is honest.

Unless you don't really think he's trying at all.


Especially if he is stressing himself out.


You're only saying it to make him feel insecure.


You're trying to help him take a more effective approach.


You are telling him that to turn him off.


being upset at my gf for belittling my needs

It is expected to be supportive of your partner.

Your partner is trying to hurt you or someone you love.


Your partner is trying to get a new job.


Your partner is putting your financial future at risk.


Your partner is abusive and continuously in and out of jail.


Your partner is going to school and training for a new job.


thinking my gf is crazy for wanting to say I love you everytime we get off the phone

It is reasonable to want to tell your significant other I love you.


your significant other hates to be told that


you know your significant other needs emotional support


You are at a seance and need to be quiet.


They're in prison for unthinkable crimes.


You want to take your relationship to the next level.


planning on not paying rent to my roommates for April

It's wrong not to pay for something that you have agreed to pay.

You're going through extreme financial crisis.


You have the money and choose to spend it on other things.


The item you were paying for wasn't given to you.


The item you wish to buy is not as originally described.


The item is in good condition, as per the terms of the agreement.


putting my sister on read cuase I didn't feel it needed a response

When you get a text from a sibling you are expected to respond.


They know you at driving and can't text.


continuously reminding my friend to close the door to the bathroom

It's understandable to be upset if your friends are ignoring you.


They will not tell you what is going on.


They all ganged up on you because of a new person who joined the group


Unless you're in a costume and they don't know it's you.


You have done something very mean to your friends.


Your friends are ignoring you for no reason.


not wanting to give my GF's coworker rides home from work with us

Hypothesis: It is rude not to help others.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to help others.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to help others.

You are already handicapped and unable to.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to help others.

You wish to be treated the same way in the future.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to help others.

They are going to get hurt if you don't help them.


Hypothesis: It is rude not to help others.

Others are very supportive and help you.


It is rude to deny someone a seat if they are injured or sick.


You are also injured or sick and can't get out of your seat.


refusing to go on an expensive trip my grandmother's planned

Hypothesis: It is okay to not like traveling.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not like traveling.

You have had a bad experience away from home.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not like traveling.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not like traveling.

You have to fly across the country for a funeral.


Hypothesis: It is okay to not like traveling.

you can't afford to travel to begin with


threatening to show everyone nudes of my ex when she showed another guy nudes of her

Hypothesis: You shouldn't get back at others.

The people have been really mean to you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get back at others.

You are trying to teach your children to be the bigger person.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get back at others.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get back at others.

They keep wronging you and you need to teach them a lesson.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get back at others.

It would make you feel bad about your actions.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't get back at others.

You think you can get away with revenge.


not wanting to go pray for my dead cousin

It's okay that not everyone grieves the same way.

Someone doesn't grieve at all or feel badly at all or has no remorse because they're a psychopath.


People come from different cultures and have different rituals or practices in times of sadness.


All grieving leads to eventual acceptance.


They are being aggressive about how you grieve.


Somebody grieves by becoming very violent.


It is during a particular ceremony with rules.


planning to go behind my brothers back to give my nephews Santa gifts

You shouldn't hide things from your family.


They are things that will affect them also like a serous illness or financial set back.


Your family always gossips about you to others


They are always supportive and helpful to you


Your family has always been supportive of you.


Your parents would beat you if they found out.


Your problems could also affect your family's happiness.


It is ok to get someone fired if you had a good valid reason for doing so.

The reasons you were given turned-out to be false.


Will make a more harmonious workplace when they're gone.


The valid reason was an excuse for an illegal one, such as sexual orientation.


That person's children will die without the medication provided by their health insurance.


You just interviewed a much better candidate for the position.


That valid reason falls into personal gain.


They have been caught stealing company property.


They were damaging relationships with customers


being unwilling to change my toxic behavior

It's understandable to have difficulty changing your behavior.

An instance of ill health will sometimes cause a person to reconsider dangerous habits.


Someone is young and feeling as invincible as only youth can feel.


The behavior you need to change is very easy to change.


There are many challenges to changing the behavior.


You've been working on changing things for a long time with no success.


You just started working on fixing your bad habits.


telling my girlfriend that I didn't want to hear about her experience being sexually assaulted

It is unpleasant to have to listen to a story about sexual assault.


The story focuses on recovering and helping others after being a victim.


You have been a victim of sexual assault.


You are in a health class and need to hear about it


The person is talking about how they were able to bring their abuser to justice in court.


It is a good idea to be honest with your parents about your religion.

They have told you that you have to follow their religion.


They are supportive about everything you do.


Your parents would be forced to ostracize you if they knew you were an apostate.


Your parents have always told you you should decide for yourself what you believe.


They will shun or disown you if your religion is different than theirs.


Your parents would no longer speak to you if you were.


You don't want to pretend to believe in the religion of your parents.


You know they will be unreasonable about it and disagree with it.


They are always reasonable and supportive toward you.


turning down my boyfriend's Valentines Day plans because they were ambiguous

It's wrong to turn down your partner's plans.


You promised you would go through with the plans.


The plans conflict with your work schedule.


Your partner has put a great deal of effort into the plans.


You are medically unable to take part in them.


They worked very hard to surprise you with them.


You said you would do something with them.


Your partner has been repeatedly informed you're not comfortable with those activities


Your partner never complains about your plans


Hypothesis: You should always drive safely.


Hypothesis: You should always drive safely.

You are in an emergency and have to get to the hospital.


Hypothesis: You should always drive safely.

You are a police officer who wants to set an example.


Hypothesis: You should always drive safely.

you are driving a seriously wounded gunshot victim to the hospital and need to get there as quickly as possible.


Hypothesis: You should always drive safely.

You are chasing after a criminal and you're cop


shaving my head because I wanted to and getting mad at someone for saying girls should have long hair

It's okay to shave your head if you're a girl.


You want to defy societal expectations of gender roles.


You're trying to become a shampoo commercial model.


You're trying to shorten your morning routine.


you're doing it because of being bullied.


If she's undergoing chemotherapy for cancer and her hair was starting to fall out anyway.


not being able to look past my partners behaviour

When your partner reveals something horrible they've done, it's okay to not forgive them.


They are admitting they are a serial killer.


You want to stay in a relationship with them.


The thing caused serious harm to another person.


They have made amends for what they did and ultimately no one was hurt.


They hurt someone in some way and have made no attempt to make up for it.


kicking a guy out of my store after his wallet had been stolen

It is inappropriate to kick someone out of your business for not having money.


They have intentions of buying something later


they've ran the business into the ground.


they've spent their money on helping the business.


they stole money from it without permission..


they have been shot and are seeking emergency help.


telling a friend that I already have something they gifted me

Hypothesis: It is rude to not appreciate a gift.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not appreciate a gift.

Someone took a long time making the gift.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not appreciate a gift.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not appreciate a gift.

The gift was something you specifically asked for.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not appreciate a gift.

You've received the same gift you gave the giver.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not appreciate a gift.

The gift is an attempt to buy your affection.


Hypothesis: It is rude to not appreciate a gift.

Someone put lots of thought and effort into it.


kicking a colleague from my seat in front of ceo

Hypothesis: It is rude to take someone's seat.


Hypothesis: It is rude to take someone's seat.


Hypothesis: It is rude to take someone's seat.

They have offered it to you in the first place.


Hypothesis: It is rude to take someone's seat.

That person announced that they were leaving previously.


Hypothesis: It is rude to take someone's seat.

You moved the person's jacket from the seat to sit down.


Hypothesis: It is rude to take someone's seat.

Their jacket is still draped across the back of the seat


Hypothesis: It's wrong to waste food.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to waste food.

You have enough people to eat all of the food made


Hypothesis: It's wrong to waste food.

You found the food to be spoiled in the first place.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to waste food.

It can easily be made into leftovers for the rest of the week.


arguing with my already-upset wife about our daughter's interests

It is bad to argue with your significant other.

You disagree about a major issue that affects you both.


You scream and throw things whenever you argue.


You have to negotiate to resolve an issue.


They are going to do an unsafe behavior like driving drunk.


There are children who will overhear you.


It's good to have faith that you will be paid for doing a job.


You have worked the same job for the same person before.


You signed a contract that specifies payment.


You are working for somebody who has a history of not paying


You have previously been paid by them before


not telling my family I'm taking anti-depressants

It is unwise to hide health information from your family.

The health information is good news so it doesn't matter anyways.


Your family uses personal information against you.


you found out that you have a genetic disorder.


white lying to my girlfriend about masturbating

Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to a partner.

The truth would be too devastating for them to handle.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to a partner.

The truth is something that is important and helpful for them to know.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to a partner.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to a partner.

You are planning a surprise party for them.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to lie to a partner.

You want to maintain trust in your relationship.


wanting to have sex with someone who was recently discharged from a mental hospital

It's wrong to have sex with someone who is possibly mentally disturbed.


You met them before the catalyst that caused their illness.


You are partners and understand their condition.


breaking up with my High School sweetheart but letting her keep doing "girlfriend things" for me

It is okay to not want to be in a relationship.


You're one of the few survivors after the apocalypse who has to repopulate the world.


There's no one living nearby with whom you're compatible.


having thoughts of breaking up with my gf, but only when she's on her period

It is wrong to break up with someone when they are on their period.

It is toward the end of their period when emotions aren't as volatile.


They get especially emotional and angry when on their period.


The person becomes hostile and abusive towards you.


It is natural and should be dealt with respect.


They become violent every time they are on it


The person on their period did something to warrant it.


Emotions got out of hand which led to words that shouldn't have been said.


not filling my friends name on an Important School task

It is wrong to take credit for someone else.

They asked you to because they don't want people to know it was them.


They weren't supposed to be working on whatever you're getting credit for so you're saving them from being in trouble.


The person you wrote the paper with is too nervous to go on stage and speak and asked you to do it.


This will further the other persons career.


stomping on a girls apple and making her clean it up

Hypothesis: It's very mean to add insult to injury.

The person you are insulting is rude to you first


Hypothesis: It's very mean to add insult to injury.

The person is very sad about what they have done


Hypothesis: It's very mean to add insult to injury.


Hypothesis: It's very mean to add insult to injury.

You are playing a game of Fantasy Football.


wanting my ex to stop talking to her friend

After you break up with someone, it's bad to tell them who they can be friends with.

You want to steer them away from people you know are bad.


They don't respect your opinion any longer.


They are trying to go no-contact with you


You have a lot of mutual friends and want to set some boundaries.


You want to try to stay friends with your ex.


They abused you and want to be close with your family.


You broke up with them for superficial reasons.


You want to leave someone with resentment and bitterness.


You want to leave someone with no hard feelings.


People are expected to accept their loved ones as they are.


If that person comes out with their sexual identity to you.


Their their views are racist or supremacist.


Their family members are murderers or pedophiles.


Their family members are part of marginalized groups.


telling my dad I'm not going to his house again unless his gf and her kids (including my baby sister) leave

You should respect your parent's new partner.


They are making an effort to get along with you.


They are constantly disrespectful toward you


They are only with your parent for their money


They love your parent more than anything and are very happy


They badmouth you or constantly put you down.


You want your parent to support you in your endeavours.


not cooking differently for my girlfriend

Hypothesis: You should learn to cook new things.


Hypothesis: You should learn to cook new things.


Hypothesis: You should learn to cook new things.

You own a restaurant serving long-time favorites dishes.


Hypothesis: You should learn to cook new things.

You have a restaurant catering to the latest food fads.


Hypothesis: You should learn to cook new things.

You are responsible for cooking and your family is tired of the same meals.


Hypothesis: You should learn to cook new things.

you are tired of eating everything that you can cook.


It's okay to get upset at jokes you don't like.


It's just a personal preference and there's no reason to be upset.


They are racist or otherwise bigoted comments within the guise of jokes.


not wanting to hangout late with my girlfriend

People who are in a relationship are expected to spend time together.

one of them is a military member on deployment


one of them is out of town on a business trip.


The are in a long-distance relationship.


One of them is working overseas temporarily.


They work for the same location of the same company.


It's understandable if you can't make it to a meeting you set with someone.

You didn't let them know in advance that you couldn't make it.


You've been called away to tend to a family emergency.


they knew you might have something come up.


You need the meeting to keep a client for your job


You aren't going so you can play games at home.


being upset that my friend is worried I'll go to Hell

It's understandable to be upset loved ones think we deserve a horrible afterlife.

you are only worried because you did something awful in this life, like committed rape.


their belief is how they deal with personal loss or trauma.


They are grieving and saying it out of sadness.


You have always tried to be good to everyone.


moving out of my dorm without telling my roommate

Not being honest with a housemate is selfish and wrong.

Your housemate is very abusive or being honest will hurt them badly in some way.


Your housemate is kind and considerate and honest with you and you want to continue good relations.


you are throwing them a surprise party and don't want them to know.


The housemate explicitly asked for honesty.


Your housemate has been stealing from you.


you are keeping a personal secret from them


what you're not being honest about is the rent


telling a guy on my pickup team to shut the fuck up

When playing sports it is OK to use foul language.


You're casually playing with your best friend


You are playing sports with small children.


You are a professional in the National Football League.


very sternly rebuking a coworker who "jokingly" lies to me and other employees

It's okay to be honest even if it makes others uncomfortable


the truth is something that needs to be heard by everyone for safety reasons.


You are hurting the feelings of those around you.


You are telling about a close friend's personal information that they asked not be shared.


You are a doctor telling a patient a diagnosis.


They are in the middle of receiving bad news.


You are in a business meeting and harshly criticize others in front of many people.


You are being interrogated by the police.


It's impatient to not wait for people to move for you.

those people are deliberately moving slowly


the people you are waiting for are handicapped


An ambulance is driving by and no one is moving


You're an emergency medical technician trying to save a life


breaking a promise with my ex to date a different girl

Hypothesis: It is wrong to mislead people.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to mislead people.

You want to be able to depend on them in the future.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to mislead people.

You are planning a surprise party for them.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to mislead people.

You cause them to miss important events.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to mislead people.

you're playing a board game which involves deception


Hypothesis: It is wrong to mislead people.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to mislead people.

You are throwing them a surprise party and want to keep it a secret.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to mislead people.

The reason for misleading them is for your own gain.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to mislead people.

you are misleading them away from a dangerous situation


Hypothesis: It is wrong to mislead people.

the people depend on your honesty for their well-being


telling my 7 year old sister to "fuck off" in front of my entire family

You shouldn't tell people to "fuck off."


Your child got hurt and is asking you for help


my mate getting in trouble with his parents

Hypothesis: You should respect your parent's rules.


Hypothesis: You should respect your parent's rules.


freaking out and telling my one night stand to get out my flat

It's not wise to have meaningless sexual encounters.


you can handle it mentally and are safe.


You are young and not looking for a relationship


you always have the proper protection and consent


you are prone to complications from sexually transmitted diseases


threatening my boyfriend with making cam videos again

Hypothesis: It is not okay to manipulate people.

You are a military commander and it is needed to save the lives of your soldiers.


Hypothesis: It is not okay to manipulate people.


Hypothesis: It is not okay to manipulate people.

It's a rich person who has too much money.


Hypothesis: It is not okay to manipulate people.

you are trying to manipulate someone out of a dangerous situation


Hypothesis: It is not okay to manipulate people.

you have to get something from them for a good cause.


Hypothesis: It is not okay to manipulate people.

You want to have healthy relationships with people.


getting angry when GF is always stays late at work

Hypothesis: It's okay to want to work overtime.

You are constantly missing important milestones for you children.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to work overtime.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to work overtime.

Your family needs you to be there for an important issue.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to work overtime.

You are struggling financially and need the extra income.


Hypothesis: It's okay to want to work overtime.

You have young children at home and nobody to babysit.


Serving Toddlers, Parents and Closer kids before parents

Hypothesis: It's good to help parents out.


Hypothesis: It's good to help parents out.


Hypothesis: It's good to help parents out.

They dont appreciate and ask you to leave


Hypothesis: It's good to help parents out.

They have done a lot for you in the past


Hypothesis: It's good to help parents out.

Your parents berate you the entire time you are helping them clean out their basement.


Hypothesis: It's good to help parents out.

They are cooking you your favorite dinner as payment.


wanting to call the cops on my gfs brother for drunk driving

It is rude to call the cops on someone you know.

they have committed a crime that needs to be investigated.


you are just being petty and trying to get them in trouble.


the cops would be able to help the person


They are just holding a little weed and you don't think it should be illegal anyway.


You know someone who is menacing you with a knife.


You are angry at dinner with someone cutting meat with a knife.


not texting her something cute on Valentine's day

It is nice to receive kind words in a text

The text is from someone who was stalking you.


they're received from someone you're trying to ignore


Someone is trying to steal your identity


You posted something about your troubles


rejecting a girl I almost slept with and then inviting her for dinner

It's ok to not sleep with someone if you aren't interested.


It is your wedding night and they are your new spouse.


It is expected that people are on friendly terms with family.

The members in the family have had a disagreement.


your family doesn't accept you for who you are.


their family is deliberately rude to them


arguing with my already-upset wife about our daughter's interests

It is okay to disagree with your significant other

You are making a major decision about buying a home.


It is a trivial matter, such as which restaurant to eat dinner.


The disagreement is about them being allowed to leave the house.


They are doing something that hurts you.


They just like fighting with you because they are abusing you emotionally


You are only disagreeing with them to make them mad.


They are saying something that is not correct.


they are advocating something dangerous and illegal.


Hypothesis: You should not become an alcoholic.

you have demons in your past you're trying to get rid of


Hypothesis: You should not become an alcoholic.


Hypothesis: You should not become an alcoholic.

You have no access to psychiatric medication and the pain of your mental illness is greater than the pain of the addiction.


Hypothesis: You should not become an alcoholic.

It is something that you can not control.


liking the "perks" that come with being friends with a rich girl

You're a bad friend if you only hang out with someone for the benefits


that is the arrangement you have with your friend.


your friend is also hanging out with you for the benefits


that person does not mind that you do so


you make them think that you really like them


wanting to kick my ex off my family plan

It's wrong to do something that could hurt someone when it they aren't hurting you.


You're trying to build a loving relationship.


The person is trying their best to be kind.


By hurting them now you are saving them more pain in the future.


By hurting them it make you feel just as bad.


They are about to fall on top of a small animal and crush it.


You want to maintain a good relationship with them.


When travelling abroad it is smart to plan ahead.


You want to take advantage of last-minute deals on hotels.


You are familiar with the area from frequent past trips.


It is okay to not know everything about everyone.


you are the teacher of a group of young students.


you are new in town and do not know anyone well.


it is your job to know everything about everyone.


you really want to learn about others as a life goal


not wanting to hold hands with a guy who has deformed arms

It is okay to not want physical contact.

A doctor needs to examine you in a life threatening situation.


You feel uncomfortable in a social situation.


You are drowning and need to be pulled out of the water.


It's something you're trying to work on.


You've told people you don't want it before.


It prevents you from getting needed medical treatment.


You've been traumatized by previous physical abuse.


Your partner will divorce you if you don’t become more affectionate


refusing to give my (ex)friend her stuff back

It's wrong to keep someone else's property.

They have told you to keep an eye on it.


They have told you they are looking for it and want it back.


Especially if you promised to return it.


not telling a friend she's getting fired from work

If you find out your friend was keeping something from you, it's okay to be angry.

The thing they were keeping from you was a pleasant surprise that they were planning for you.


The secret they were keeping is something that would damage your relationship with them.


Your friend has an illness that is contagious.


They were trying to protect your feelings.


You missed out on a promotion because of it.


They swore to another they would not say anything.


It was something about their personal life that would affect them.


The friend had previously promised to never keep anything from you again.


wanting the so to handle the end of day routine for the kid

It is hurtful to no want to spend time with your children.

They are all grown up and don't want to speak to you.


They are young children and just want your attention.


Your kids only want you around for money


you are contagious and don't want your child to get sick.


you children want to spend time with you.


assuming a woman wasn't going to stop to let an older lady into a building

You shouldn't make assumptions about the kindness of others.

You can tell that they have a hidden agenda.


They are known to do nice things for people.


They have shown hostility towards you at some point.


They have done nothing to warrant suspicion.


They have a track record of always being kind.


You have heard stories about them from reliable sources.


You have only just met the other person.


You know them very well and have seen them in action and can vouch firsthand regarding their charity.


You don't know them well don't know how they are behind closed doors.


banning someone on my hall from drinking

It's bad to try to control other people.


you deem yourself persuasive and manipulative in any rate


you want to be more kind and considerate to others


You're all of the same organization rank


You're trying to stop someone from getting hurt.


The person you're controlling is your partner.


campaigning fiercely to outcast someone from our social circle

Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to bully someone.


Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to bully someone.


Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to bully someone.

that person is younger and weaker than you


Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to bully someone.

They are making fun of a disabled person.


Hypothesis: It is unacceptable to bully someone.

They are bullying a marginalized person.


Destroying indoor pests prevents diseases and is a person's duty.

the person is allergic to the pests and can be harmed by contact.


it will help stop the spread of malaria.


it's someone elses house and you're a visitor


The person has a religious objection to killing anything.


Your relatives are allergic to the pests.


The 'pest' is something like a spider that eats other insects.


not wanting my mother to take my tax return money

It's expected that you help your family out financially sometimes.


You do not have the means to help them out.


Your budget is too tight to meet your own needs.


You have the financial resources to help.


not being friends with a woman I'm not over

It's okay to not want to be friends with someone you still love.

you have children and need to get along.


being annoyed by my boyfriend's constant desire to be kissed and touched

It is okay to have different affection needs from your partner.


that is not the type of relationship you wish to have.


you are conscious of each other's needs.


You want them to know what makes you happy.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore someone.

You want to break off the friendship because they're never there for you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore someone.

They're very emotionally vulnerable right after their spouse died.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore someone.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore someone.

They are just trying to start a fight with you.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore someone.

they are doing things to get under your skin


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore someone.

they are trying to warn you of something dangerous


Hypothesis: You shouldn't ignore someone.

You are involved in an important conversation.


telling my friend a Guy tweeted about their "relationship"

Hypothesis: It's good to look out for your friends.


Hypothesis: It's good to look out for your friends.


Hypothesis: It's good to look out for your friends.

they are trying to learn to do things for themselves.


Hypothesis: It's good to look out for your friends.

you friends are going to jail for violent crimes


not giving my friends free food after I payed for it

People are expected to be independent and self sufficient.

They are mentally or physically disabled and cannot live on their own.


They are able bodied adults over the age of 21.


they have a disability that requires assistance of others.


They have some sort of mental disability


They went to college and live on their own


talking to a friend on the phone for two hours and not telling my 2 year old son goodnight

Hypothesis: It's wrong to neglect your kids.

You want to see if they are able to take care of themselves.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to neglect your kids.

They are unable to take care of themselves.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to neglect your kids.


saying "chocolate nuts" in a college class

It's understandable that sometimes, something innocent strikes others as very entertaining and causes a disruption.


People are relying on them to stay focused.


Everybody is just relaxing and having a good time.


You calculated how entertaining that thing would be before you said it.


You are in the army and it's drill time where you stand still.


not putting a shared pizza in the fridge

Hypothesis: It is bad to steal food.

You are homeless and taking it from a dumpster.


Hypothesis: It is bad to steal food.


Hypothesis: It is bad to steal food.

your children are starving and their is no other choice.


Hypothesis: It is bad to steal food.

You're going to resell it at higher prices.


Hypothesis: It is bad to steal food.

The food is being stolen from a soup kitchen.


getting mad at a friend who told her sister I'm pregnant

Friends are expected to keep each others' secrets.


The secret might get you in trouble with the police.


Spilling the secret may cause harm to your friend.


Keeping the secret will result in harm to someone.


A secret involves hurting someone emotionally


You always trust them because they are your best friend


keeping the secret involves severe harm to someone else


It's wrong to tell someone else how to live.

The person is a hoarder and their house is about to be condemned.


They are an adult and not breaking any laws.


What you are telling them is judgmental.


You are their parent and giving them life advice.


You are making bigoted judgements about their personal life choices.


Hypothesis: It is rude to snub your parents.


Hypothesis: It is rude to snub your parents.

Your parents were loving and supportive.


Hypothesis: It is rude to snub your parents.

They are old and suffering from dementia.


Hypothesis: It is rude to snub your parents.

they have treated you poorly your whole life.


Hypothesis: It is rude to snub your parents.

Your parents have been neglectful or abusive.


Hypothesis: It is rude to snub your parents.

They are trying to help and support you.


asking the parents of someone who owes me a lot of money to pay their kids debt so they dont get sued with huge court costs

It's expected that people should repay their debts.

You were told upfront that it was forgiven.


The debt is a student loan that their parents agreed to repay.


They are getting them waived by the government


it gets so bad they have to file bankruptcy.


wanting to masturbate instead of having sex with my girlfriend

It's fine to pleasure yourself if that's what you want to do.

you're trying to abstain from pleasure for religious reasons


you are in the privacy of your own bedroom.


You're in a public place frequented by children.


you're neglecting others in your life by pursuing the pleasure


It's wrong to take something you don't really need when someone else could use it.

It would keep them from harming themselves.


You're giving it to someone who needs it.


They were going to use it to deliver illegal drugs to themselves.


You think you might need it in a future emergency.


The other person might not be able to afford it.


it is dangerous of the other person to have.


you are going to dispose of it right away.


not letting smaller people in front of me at concerts

It's wrong to hog an entire area for yourself.


There are other people looking to sit down


you have asked permission because you need a lot of space for a project.


you have been told to share equally with others.


That area was formally allocated to you.


You're squatting in someone else's space.


You bought a home and the surrounding property.


A lot of people have to share a limited space.


offering to buy a record off my friend at half price after she bought it and then realised her record player was broken

It is rude to try and get a bargain at your friends expense.

you simply cannot afford what you're trying to get otherwise


you don't really need what you're trying to buy


Your friend's small business is their only source of income


Your friend gets multiple employee discounts.


They're trying to sell something that they received for free.


You want to remain good friends with them.


talking on the phone in a shared rideshare

It is acceptable to be mad when others are disrespecting your privacy


You live as a monk in a one room monastery.


You are in a dressing room at a department store.


they are police officers investigating you for criminal activity of which you are guilty


they are friends who understand your need for privacy


They are trying to prevent you from doing something dangerous you will regret later.


You have told them repeatedly you want to be alone.


You're the target of a police investigation.


Your parents were looking through your things.


It's okay to look at your sibling's comments online.


you are logging in as somebody else so they don't know its you.


They're about their sexual relationships.


They are very secretive and they trust you


You think they are getting involved in the wrong crowd


breaking up because my Girlfriend had an abortion

You should have a say in the decision to abort a baby you helped create.


You're threatening the health of the mother.


You're the one expected to sacrifice your body for nine months.


it is your body that is affected by pregnancy


requesting my partner reject a tinder date

It's acceptable to expect your parter to remain faithful.

You are in a non-monogamous relationship.


You've both discussed being specifically monogamous.


you want your marriage to remain strong.


considering breaking up with my bf over something hypothetical and unlikely to happen

You shouldn't accuse someone of something they haven't done.


Wrongfully accusing them will harm your friendship.


they will get away with something worse they did if they aren't arrested.


not wanting to call my dads step-mum Grandma

It is understandable to not want to call someone by something you are not comfortable with


Someone wants you to call them by a common standard name.


it would hurt their feelings if you didn't.


It's expected that you seek acceptation after being rejected.


You need acceptance from others to thrive.


You have already accepted a better offer elsewhere.


you're sick of people and want to withdraw from them.


your self-esteem hangs on what others think of you.


not letting my roommate make out with their bf

It is expected that roommates will not tell each other what is acceptable behavior and what is not.


They are adults and all paying the same amount of rent.


They have had problematic roommates before.


they want to have a good rooming experience.


they don't really want to live together.


they're doing something that upsets the other.


They've known each other for a decade and are used to how they live together


confronting my coworker and asking them how they can be late every single day, after having them confront me about taking a 1.5 hour break a couple weeks ago

It's okay to get mad at a coworker that is always late.

Your coworker has a medical reason for being late.


Your coworker often smells of alcohol when they arrive.


You are late more often than your coworker.


You have to do your coworker's job when he is not there.


kicking someone out of my social group who potentially had special needs

Hypothesis: It is wrong to be prejudiced.

You are prejudiced against something potentially harmful like mushrooms.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be prejudiced.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be prejudiced.

The others have given no indication of badness.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be prejudiced.

You keep your thoughts to yourself and never speak or act on them.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be prejudiced.

You work with a diverse group of people.


Hypothesis: It is wrong to be prejudiced.

you do so categorically toward groups of people


sending the same nudes to my girlfriend that I had sexted other girls with

It's fine to send suggestive pictures to your significant other with their permission.

They are at work and this could get them into trouble.


They are not in a professional setting and this would not get them into trouble.


You are trying to spice up your relationship.


you send the pictures to their work email.


avoiding one of my gf's dogs because I think it has pink eye

It is foolish to avoid a dog with pink eye because it cannot transfer to humans.


The dog is very aggressive and you are afraid.


It is your dog and it really likes to be in contact with humans.


the dog is being unnecessarily  aggressive


it's just a puppy looking for a bit of love


You are obsessed with health and staying germ-free.


Your dog has had other ailments with no transfer to you.


not telling someone's fiancée her boyfriend tried to cheat on her

If you violate someone's trust, you should accept the consequences.

You saved their life by telling their secret.


You are having a drug intervention for them.


using a wheelchair, but not dating someone in a wheelchair

It's wrong to be prejudiced against disabled people.

You have been attacked by every disabled person you have met.


You want to increase your chances of being discriminated against in your lifetime.


You want to decrease your chances of being discriminated against in your lifetime.


my mate getting in trouble with his parents

You shouldn't put your nose into your friend's family business.

your friends parents run a company you're invested in


you friend has asked you to give his family some privacy


your friend's family keeps their noses out of your business.


They ask for your advice on the situation.


Their family specifically asked you to intervene on their behalf.


It's understandable that people don't always want to spend money on other people.


They are constantly being asked for money from everyone.


They don't have a lot of money to spend.


They have a high paying job and have many children.


The money was given to them to be spent on others


threatening a restraining order against the woman who fell in love with my wife and won't stop trying to contact her

You should leave people alone when you find out they're married


You are their dentist checking their teeth.


You are the one that they are married too.


Their spouse has asked you to stay away.


You are their marriage counselor and they are paying you for help.


One of them hits on you or flirts with you.


Hypothesis: It's rude to not talk to your mom.

you're too busy to afford the time for a short while


Hypothesis: It's rude to not talk to your mom.


Hypothesis: It's rude to not talk to your mom.

Your mom is toxic and always ridicules you.


Hypothesis: It's rude to not talk to your mom.

You are just being petty and know she is just worried.


It is not OK to be mad at a friend for getting sick.

they deliberately didn't listen to your advice


They come to your house sick and get you sick too.


Your friend is coughing in your face on purpose


You got your friend sick when they were taking care of you


It is okay to share finances in a relationship.

One partner has extremely irresponsible financial habits.


Both partners are in agreement about how money should be used.


Your partner is reckless and irresponsible with money.


You are married and have joint accounts.


You go everywhere and do everything together.


The other person is extremely bad at managing money.


The other person is quite fiscally responsible.


Your partner spends money on stupid things


Hypothesis: It is wrong for children to misbehave.

They are trying to get away from a criminal that is attacking them.


Hypothesis: It is wrong for children to misbehave.

They are at their elderly grandparents house.


Hypothesis: It is wrong for children to misbehave.


Hypothesis: It is wrong for children to misbehave.

They are breaking a rule to defend someone who is being hurt.


Hypothesis: It is wrong for children to misbehave.

They did something wrong in the first place.


Hypothesis: It is wrong for children to misbehave.

they have a learning disability and can't control the behavior.


It's acceptable to scare someone if it's someone you know.


The person is very anxious all the time.


the person is easily prone to having panic attacks


refusing to do something and was confronted about doing it but I told everyone I wouldn't do it hours before

Hypothesis: It is good to stand your ground.


Hypothesis: It is good to stand your ground.

you are one hundred percent sure that you're right about something


Hypothesis: It is good to stand your ground.

That means killing an unarmed trick-or-treater who accidentally went to the wrong house.


Hypothesis: It is good to stand your ground.

You protect a child from a violent adult.


Hypothesis: It is good to stand your ground.


Hypothesis: It is good to stand your ground.

if you need to protect your home from a burglar.


Hypothesis: It is good to stand your ground.

You are keeping yourself and other people safe.


telling my sons mother there's no "correct" way to use a spoon or a pen that she can teach my son

It's good to each your child new things.


you want your child to be a well-rounded individual.


You are teaching the child harmful language.


You are teaching good habits such as how to share with others.


You are teaching them things that are illegal.


You are teaching them practical life skills.


You are teaching them to share with others.


Your child wants to be successful in life


taking credit in a partner project I did on my own

You should share credit with other people in your group.


You all worked equally hard on the project.


You were the only person that did the work.


keeping photos of my underage friend on my phone

It is creepy and illegal to have photos of underage people


They are just common photos of your children.


They are not your own children or family members.


The underage people are in skimpy swimsuits.


Unless they are your children or grandchildren.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to call people racist.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to call people racist.

They are Black because racism has to do with structural power within a system


Hypothesis: It's wrong to call people racist.

people actually are racist and display racist behavior


Hypothesis: It's wrong to call people racist.

you're doing so to insult the person for no good reason


Hypothesis: It's wrong to call people racist.

they are calling people of a certain race derogatory names.


Hypothesis: It's wrong to call people racist.

they are friendly with everyone, no matter what culture they are from.


not wanting my sisters boyfriend to come to my birthday meal

It is rude to exclude people from events.


The excluded people were violent at a previous event.


The people were excluded on the basis of gender or race.


"snitching" on my classmate for plagiarizing a few of his essays

Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat in a class.

Your graduation depends on you passing the class.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat in a class.


Hypothesis: You shouldn't cheat in a class.

You don't want to be expelled from school.


telling a kid with no friends to fuck off

It's wrong to be mean to someone when they are down on their luck.

they hurt your feelings by doing something mean to you


They are homeless and living on the street.


They lost money they cheated from others.


They exploited you when they were in power.


They tried to help you when they were successful.


Hypothesis: It is important to give people space.


Hypothesis: It is important to give people space.

They are roommates living in the same house.


Hypothesis: It is important to give people space.

They have asked you not to stand so close to them.


wanting to cut contact with the guy who has a crush on me

You shouldn't just ignore someone that likes you.


You do not want to have a relationship with them.


You are interested in having a good relationship with them.


they are creepy and you have told them to leave you alone.


they are the best thing that has ever happened to you.


It's understandable to have an opinion about how your friend is dressed.

you give your opinion after you have left the house and it will make her feel bad and she can't do anything about it.


she is wearing the same outfit as you, all of the time.


It is your wedding day and they're in your wedding party.


they've made clear that they don't care for inpurt


asking my sister if her 4 year old stole money

It's okay to be upset if your child is accused of stealing something.


they are innocent and there is no proof.


They did not steal anything and you think they are being targeted.


They stole something and you want them to learn a lesson.


You know your child is innocent since they were never out of your sight


You should be open to others if they need company.


you somtimes find yourself in such a position


You are sick and well and therefore, unable to provide support to others.


You are doing well and able to support and take on the needs of others.