Boys will always be boys
Autor: Isabela Dias | Publicado: 2012-02-24T15:26:00-08:00

Girls, you know what I'm talking about. I bet you've seen grown up guys playing videogames like they were boys. For me it makes a lot of sense. I mean, us, girls, used to play with dolls, making them have boyfriends, go to work, talk to friends and stuff, but now we can recreate the "fun" in real life. But boys can't just put on an armor and start sword fighting with his friends! So I guess that's why boys keep up with the videogames.
I've heard a lot of girls saying that "boys used to play videogames, now they play with girls' hearts". I think this phrase generalizes too much and it's stupid. Still, it's not entirely wrong. Boys do that. Real men don't. When boys grow up, they can't keep bragging about videogame scores, so many of them start bragging about the girls they go out with. These are the kind of men that could perfecly settle to a hot girl with no brains just to make their friends jealous. Real men look for a girl for what's on her inside (and I don't mean silicone, dirty minded person), they look for someone that will stay by their side no matter what, not a barbie kind of girl.
But let's face the truth, boys take longer to grow up. That's why it's so easy to find men that think like boys and not the opposite. But hey! Don't get me wrong! Just because I said all these things, doesn't mean I think girls are superior. Girls can be real bitches when they want to. Girls break hearts too. Girls can be superficial. Guys, you tell me, how easy is it to find a girl looking for a hot rich guy without giving a damn about their personality but giving no chance to sweet guys because they're not handsome and can pay for her things? But it's the same thing: girls do that, women don't. (Just to make a point here, if you're that kind of girl, you should be ashamed of yourself. Study, make your own money and find a nice guy. Don't be dependent. Real men love girls that can take care of themselves but still choose to be with them. What if that hot rich guy breaks up with you? You'll have nothing. But if you have your own job and money, you'll find a man that care about you, that value you.)
So if you're a decent girl, don't get desperate if you're only finding childish men and if you're a good kind of guy, don't worry if you're only finding superficial pretty little girls. It takes time to find a good person that loves you for what you are. You even may find a nice girl/guy but you're just not ment to be together. As I said before, be pacient or move on. Your time will come. Keep your head up and try again.

Keep hopeful

""- You stole a blue french horn for me.- I would have stolen you a whole orchestra"

P.s.: Have you ever watched "How I Met Your Mother" this series will make you laugh, but it will also make you think about all that I said. The main character called Ted wants to find the girl for him. I lost count of how many dates he had. He is the kind of person that goes on, no matter how many times everything goes wrong. He is the kind of guy that steals a blue french horn from a restaurant to give to a girl he just met just because she said she liked it. He is the old kind of romantic person. He kind of reminds me, because sometimes he says "I'm though with trying" and in the next moment he is in love. You should totally watch it! It's my favorite comedy ^^