reaper of womens
Autor: Marcelinos | Publicado: 2011-11-29T16:08:00-08:00

On Tyra's Show the discussion about violence in the relationship take over the place with the case of Edwin who has 18 years old and Leighann who has 17 years old. The couple wanna stop fight and need help, Tyra made questions about why they fall out, and the girl, Leighann, said that when he doesn't wanna do what she asked, she get mad, and when she doesn't wanna do what he wants, that is the problem, because the boyfriend, edwin, is a "little" angry and he try intimidate her, getting closer to her, and she pushed he away, but he punched her face &nbsp;four times until she kicked him on his somach and left the closet with black eyes, blood on his face, scratched all over her body.If you pay attention on hers mom, you are going to see that she was crying because she didn't know how was daughter's relationship with her boyfriend.sThat is not all, Edwin punched her face several times and&nbsp;strangled her until she lost conscience and she wanna be with him :O OMG...Tyra asked him what does he feel when he is strangling her, he just feel upset with her, because she hang out with another guy, and people in a relationship do things together, But Like Tyra said,never ever put your hand on a woman even if she was cheating you with five guys...rsrsrsrs...The boy said all this problem it is because of her.The big question is, does the boy wants to be a batterer?No, he doesn't wanna be, the boy felt bad after a lot of punched in his girlfriend, the reason of this is because he was abused in his childhood, so he is just doing what he think is normal.There is a interesting thing that her mom,with her brother, saw on their son, he was like one traumatized, he looks like it is scared, because the baby doesn't reacting like was before. these are consequences of fall out in front of the baby, the baby used to see the argument of his parents, so this action changed the baby.Let's now go to the end of the show where a psychologist came to talk about that relationship. First of all the psychologist talked about the girl, the huge problem was because her mom didn't give another place to go,to run out , to hide from him, A real mother always know what the children need for now and she wasnt doing her job well. the psychologist spoke something very interesting, there are two kind of love, the Unhealthy loves and the healthy love, and the girl wasnt understanding how different they are, she probably was afraid of break up the relationship. The best explanation for the boy, edwin, It is because he was trying to be more man than he is, thats sound strange but this abuse situation generaly is a way to improve his self-esteem, to say that he is the man of house, he is the boss.rsrsrsrsIt is not Healthy have many rows in a relationship,because a couple should be a talkative couple, must have a comunication between the man and the woman to fill up all rows, no misunderstood is a good way to avoid the argument between couples. a good relationship came from good conversation this makes you know everything about your partner.
The argument is something that make you learn, know, what are your mistakes with this is possible fix the problem before the bomb explode, so don't do like edwin and others thousand people, they are doing this wrong.
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