Low Esteem
Autor: William Malinverni | Publicado: 2011-08-08T19:30:00-07:00

Hello everyone!

Today we will talk of this feeling that is so widespread among men. That kills and destroys large potential. Many people act to beat yourself up with guilt feelings, excessive negative emotional charge that often develop feelings of inadequacy and frustration due to the constant devaluation of personal ability and skill. 

These feelings often begins at an early age where a set of ideas were repressed in the unconscious by the creature's social "beliefs". Everyone over time and with social life, absorb concepts and ideas that are transmitted by family and society at many levels, besides those analyzed and created by ourselves.

We can say that any inferiority complex starts in materialism? 

You can say yes, because the materialistic person on seeing themselves many times tied to living standards that are not suitable for her, or be seen attached to ideas that are not supported internally but which are imposed upon him, and to think that only "have this opportunity" to live. Begins to act inconsistently and angry. 

The materialistic creature, must then believe that it is superior to compensate for his idea that has the insignificance of the existence or lack of meaning in which they live. The spiritual being on the contrary, like their peers finds himself, because he knows that the laws that govern the universe are to everyone and that each person is as good as can be, according to their degree of evolution, which also depends on individual effort. 

Behind the present attitudes of superiority toward others, they are often trying to overcome a feeling of inferiority. At that thought, "I'll try to get you down, to feel better!"

On many occasions, people try to compensate for this feeling of inferiority,
adopting ways of living that exaggerate and glorify his own personality. tendency to
arrogance, delusional megalomaniac, show preference for the part of the procession of those who have internalized a depreciation of themselves. 

When we are materialistic, We don’t aim our eyes over Eternity, we believe that everything comes from the random and that nothing exists but the physical plane, this is what starts the process of inferiority. So we created unconscious patterns of life, based on that since "we are nothing" and consider ourselves a product of chance.

We ignore our divine essence and live accusing chance or bad luck, which insists upon us, as ignore or reject the natural and divine law governing everything and everyone equally, without distinction. 

We have this beautiful quote that is very useful to us, [1] "The first and essential step, so that we can heal the sense of low esteem or inferiority is the belief in the immortality of souls and the plurality of stocks, coupled with the belief we are spiritual beings created whole and complete, having a human experience in order to become aware of our wholeness. The following steps should be taken to be reflections on the causes of our feelings of inferiority, the way they were acquired and beliefs motivated them. It is essential to remember that you can always change or transform our "lifestyle". To this end, we do not doubt our abilities and natural vocations, nor question systematically, our inner strength. To gain confidence, you only need to reclaim values, which already exists in us by divine right. " 

We also take this quote to reflect against the random [2] "(...)The harmony that exists in the mechanism of the universe reveals an intelligent power (...) (...) chance is blind and can not produce the effects that intelligence produces. A random chance would not be intelligent. "

Reflect on those words and thoughts about some attitudes and Thursday will see the low esteem of another even more closely linked to our inner life.

 [1] As Dores da Alma - Francisco Neto Espirito Santa - the spirit Hammed. I. Baixa Estima
[2] The book of spirits - Part I, Cap I, question 8.