touching hearts...
Autor: paulanachina | Publicado: 2012-02-28T00:52:00-08:00

To live in China is never an easy thing... living abroad is never easy. sometimes you have to find strengh to keep moving , keep fighting for your dreams and goals.
And when you cant find reasons to fight anymore you must find help outside you.That was when&nbsp; I learnt to depend on friends&nbsp;i made here. People that i could look deep in their eyes and say anything and i knew they would have ears to hear me and use their hearts to say what i needed to hear.The worst part of leaving in China is when one of those support pillars have to go away.One living in China cannot only have chinese friends , first because their culture is so different , second because they cant deal with tears nor with you showing your emotions , no matter if you are happy or sad , your chinese friend cant deal with you hugging them, or crying infront of them. Tears and laughter are part of growing up and&nbsp; facing your demons, so&nbsp;&nbsp;during this &nbsp;6 years i have found safe places to be myself, and im greatful for each of those friends that were able to share a hug or a meal when i needed the most.
The realitly here is that people never stay too long. China is not an easy place to live, and most people stay for one year or two and than they have to find another place to live their dreams.
I will never get used to this.I will never get used to see someone you trust and feel safe around going away.. But i will always admire them for fighting .. fighting to find their way.. their dreams .. to find that thing that drives them to move in life...that is the only thing that comforts me... to know that they are going to find something better.. something that will make them a better person .. even more ....
I also learnt that true love never fades away.. and those that have touched my life at some point of my journey in china have never left my life...they have left china, or moved to another city , but they are still in my life.. touching me almost daily with their love...

for them i dedicate this post.. and i will finish with Augusto Cury's words.. to encourage those that are far away.. love you all.... miss u all.... 


Augusto Cury
Made friends, faced defeat, overcame obstacles, knocked at life’s door and told her : “ im not afraid to live you” 

Although we are not perfect, we must see that we are like unique pearls in life’s theatre and understand that there arent sucessful or unsucessful people. There are only people that fight for their dreams or those that give up of their dreams.

Great ideas come from the observation of the small details.

Wise is the person that has courage to go infront of his soul’s mirror to face his own mistakes and falures, and use those to plant the most beautiful seeds on his inteligence land.


The past is a &nbsp;window .Happy are those that can look through this window and observe the past and keep walking towards the future.

Most people today have no dream, neither good ones, nor bad ones. They have nothing to fight for.

You must concour what money can not buy, otherwise you will be poor, even though you are a rich man.


It is on the most simple and anonimous things that we can find the biggest treasures.

Those that can change their dreams into reality learn how to be leaders of their own lifes so they can later lead the world that is around them.