[Touch of Seduction] Erotic Massage
Autor: Ananda Soldateli | Publicado: 2011-08-19T17:50:00-03:00


Sex itself is delicious. Better than that, just a good massage to relax. Few things surpass a hot bath (tub, if possible), a massage and a great night in bed - asleep or, preferably, awake!To support this, here's a few guidelines to make an Erotic Massage: a private and delicious moment to warm up the relationship if you do it before,&nbsp; or relax the body if applied later.The most important thing to remember is that the erotic massage isn't a professional massage. You won't fix postural deviations or limbs issues. You won't solve any kind of stiff neck or any other muscular or orthopedic problem. This is only a "relaxing care".With that in mind, think about your special moment. You don't need to prepare the environment early, but if you have time:

Play with the senses:

Smell: scented candles, incense or scented essences provide a cozy enviroment.

If you don't have it, choose your favorite perfum and, with a cotton ball, rub it on a lamp - the lamp heat will spread the smell all over the room.




Be careful not to exaggerate! A very strong scent can cause the opposite effect, and instead of relaxing your partner will eventually leave him/her nauseous or unwell.

Vision: some people like to "see", others prefer not, but in massage at least some illumination is needed, and too much light can hurt your partner's eyes.

The same scented candles that you will use to perfume the environment can be used as light source: a small, flickering flame is gentle to the eyes and can also amuse the "massagist" with shadow effects using the partner's body . Colored candles can even slightly alter the hue of reflected light.
Lamps are also a great option, but if you only have one strong lamp to read in bed, no problem: use a scarf, a pillowcase, a shirt, any sheer fabric that reduces the intensity of the lamp. For a sensual mood, prefer red fabrics.
Use and abuse of costumes. Talk to your partner and find out the clothing fetiches involved: a special lingerie or maybe a kimono for the girls, pants with no shirt or a special underwear for the boys.




Hearing: there is always a song for every occasion - it's your choice. Relaxing massages match very well with oriental music or ambiental music, but the final word is yours and your partner's, because your preference will dictate the repertoire.

A good option is the use of natural sounds, such as sound of birds, rain, rivers or the sea.




Touch: the environment must have pleasant temperatures - too hot will make you and your partner to sweat, cold will leave your partner with tense muscles . In addition, a soft blanket or a duvet is extremely comfortable to the touch. And very, very important: warm up your hands before the massage. If your hands are usually cold, stay near a basin of warm water to keep them warm.



Palate: the palate is not a very developed sense in this activity, but some shops (sex shops or not) have edible cosmetics lines, including massage creams or jellies.



The Massage


Massage can be a big game between you and your partner, and every initiative is valid as long as both sides agree.Keep in mind that different people have different sensitivity levels, and what may be pleasing to you, may be strong or too weak for your partner. Keep the couple's communication and collaboration to discover the limits appropriate to each.Choose the working material: You can use oil, cream or massage bars. Choose a pleasant scent, but do not exaggerate in dose. Use it only to grease the palms. So, start the massage:

On his/her back:

Have your partner lie down naked and face down. - Massage his back with your fingertips, making small circular movements of moderate pressure, diluting the tensions that have accumulated in the muscles. More relaxed, he will be a much better sex company.


In the end, gently slide your hands all over his body, always towards the center (column) to the extremities (arms and hands, legs and feet).


Make very light touches, touches of feather, sensitizing the back.


If the couple is prepared a vibrator can be added in the game, not only for penetration, the vibration of the device, applied in other areas of the body (such as the back) can be quite relaxing.


Give small bites in the most strained areas.


Lick his column (and, depending on the case, get ready for a deliciously squirming partner).


Light bites on the buttocks.


Massage the neck and move your hands on top of the head. Move your thumb in the region of the "third eye" between the eyebrows.


In front:

Ask him to turn belly up, leaving his legs open.


Massage the area that lies between the genital and anus with your fingertips, making circular motions.


Gently massage, also with the palms, the region of the groin and the pubic bone.


Knead the muscles of the thighs, as if preparing a bread, but be careful with the pressure applied to not cause pinching.


Treat well his feet, massaging them and sliding your fingers between his fingers - very careful, if your partner is ticklish that can be fun addition, but can take the focus of the massage.


Massage the belly, with gentle circular motions, going with warm hands until the pubic region.


Massage the chest area. Place your palms on her breasts or his nipples . Make circular movements, lightly pinch the nipples, stimulating them. Lick them. Give a kiss right in the middle of the chest.


Wipe gently with hands to his face, diluting the tension. And relax the region that lies between the eyebrows with his thumbs, making moves from the center to the edges of the forehead.


Finish the massage by rubbing her hands all over the body with feather touches, always towards the center (chest) to the extremities (arms and hands, legs and feet).

At the end of this wonderful massage, two outcomes are possible: either your partner will be exploding with lust and ready to share (and return) his pleasure, or he'll be asleep - but do not be angry! That means that he was so relaxed and comfortable that he could not help, and it'll still be a success;)