Complementary text of loneliness
Autor: William Malinverni | Publicado: 2011-08-05T20:01:00-07:00

Hello everyone!

Usually we suffer because we are alone, we collaborate to have company? We are nice and friendly? Or are we unpleasant?

There are many factors that can answer these questions. Some people become bitter towards life and cash in their sorrows and misfortunes on those around them, which would cause them to go away. No one has the duty to be the "scapegoat" for your bitterness! Nobody is to blame for their lack of acceptance, resignation, submission and courage in the face of life's events! 

Some people live trapped in the cycle of grief and accommodate themselves to these patterns of vibration, live sad, and when they approach other people they will get away, which causes it to further expand its sadness in an endless cycle, which only break forth when a person get rid of the vicious thoughts of sadness and struggle (for more reasons you have)to get excited and be happy. 

Some people have a tendency to think bigger or better than others which means that in many instances treat those around roughly and even nasty, often without even realizing it. People who act like this tend to become, in time alone, and if not alone, surrounded by people who attach themselves to it for interest and convenience. Even the most beautiful flowers (sincere friendships) wither away if they are not well cared for! 

To know whether our conduct toward others is always right, let us remember the words of Christ: "Only do to others what you want others to do to you", reflecting before acting on these words we shall know how to act, because nobody wants the bad to himself. 

It would be nice if man live in harmony and friendly, but not always. If everyone knew how awful it is being alone they would be kindest.

Until now we speak of the "sad" part of loneliness. But loneliness is a necessary thing! I do not mean eternal solitude, nor the" sadness of being alone." But the fact that we reserve moments of our day for "solitude". 

Loneliness that would be the time when going into contact with our essence, could best be regarded as a moment of reflection. Where would our mind calm and we could think about ourselves and about our experiences. 

In many moments of our lives in turmoil, the days and nights are somehow "hit", are passing and moving without being given any analysis! What is harmful to us in many ways, we need this reflection to be able to draw conclusions and lessons from our experiences (good or bad), and for us to achieve a spiritual evolution.

In many moments of our lives we turn to others to explain what goes on in our lives, this conversation can take many direction sand "ends", depending on the level of evolution of the listener. These confidences help us to assimilate and to "order" our ideas, but no one can assimilate well an experience that does not come from your own inner guidance. But what would that be? 

Although to count what we feel and receive advice, tips, "balm" or "add fuel to the fire" depending on the case. We must always think after the conversation in a moment of inner stillness and reach one conclusion SOLE! Never accept only the external view of the facts because, however beautiful and instructive, it will be empty because we have not assimilated, and it won’t be accepted by our inner self, which only occurs after reflection. 

We can not silence the world, but there will always be some point where we can settle down and silence our mind and heart to a more quiet and honest reflection on the facts of our lives.

In many cases after analyzing calm and sincere, many facts that can seem extremely frightening because they surprised us most often become simple. Reason for which this "loneliness" at times is essential to our growth. 

Let us learn from the example of Jesus who gathered in solitude and silence of the temple of the soul, where the real ideas of love and justice, peace and happiness, that we all have rights through our gracious Father

I hope you enjoyed ^ - ^.