What good a father?
Autor: Carlos Roberto de Sousa e Silva | Publicado: 2012-08-12T17:00:00-07:00



What good a father?
For me it is very important, because in my life my spend most of their time working, we had no time for his son because he worked day and night was going to study, and in spare moments would celebrate with the friend, the hardest part was when my mother was charging him attention alongside the children and she said ... 
"They will grow and you will lose their childhood," which he understood was that we gave work and I was guilty of it is so stressed out and came to me and said that I must obey and not make it work, otherwise though he would live under the tree that stood apart, which could look out the window, I was sad and promised to myself that the children would be the best for my mother. Still, I thought he was a superman, was my great hero, but never talk about anything and he never believed what I said.
When my mother talked about our children's antics, he understood as if it were a complaint and then threatened to put in a boarding school, and I heard my son say that they never put her in a boarding school because she was able to create them. At that time had already promised myself that if I put in a boarding school run away. I was only six years old at the time, even though it never happened.
I promised to myself, being a parent present and when to have children would be the best father he could be and never hit, always seek to understand and hear what they were talking about. Not easy at all, but I'm getting because I never forgot my childhood.
When still a child, he took us for walks, but as we grew older he walked away, and when we reached adolescence he was already far away, somo four children, he never separated from bodies but acted as if we did not exist, the only thing that was charging us to study.
I thought that as time was passing things were improving, but unfortunately nothing has changed since adolescence came, I tried to learn as many things as possible, then to adulthood and what has changed is that I realized that the problem was not with me, but with it, because I never got to talk he always kept away even with all the overtures, what's wrong with him? There is no way of knowing, because he died five years ago.
Why am I writing this? It's because my life was lacking but the presence not only of a figurative father, I admired him greatly, but as time went the distance was increasing dialogue fading not reach there, I realized when I tried to bring I invested but was unsuccessful, and I noticed that this does not happen only to me, watching as the music Fabio Junior, and The Cartoon sharks wonder, How to Train Your Dragon, Yeah raining Hamburger, Chicken Little and music of Simple Plan Perfect .
Why animations take into consideration? Because they are the background for the authors to put their frustrations out, for example:
No wonder sharks Shark Lenin, complains that his father did not accept the fact that he was vegetarian, to the point it is transfigured into dolphin.
In Chicken Little, he complains to his ugly paw crumb that his father reminded him to remain anonymous after the "shame he felt when he paid the boy's father and burned the city" at the time and he was choking complaint to the father he never had his support in times he needed.
On How to Train Your Dragon, Hiccup complains about his father being the great leader of the village and he did not believe him or support him, and father says he is ashamed of it.
In're raining hamburgers, the protagonist complains about the father did not support him in his research and his own father does not know how to talk with him, so need a translator.
Fabio Junior says in his song Hero Father
"I do not do anything to be concerned only
Just do not want and will not stay silent
To speak of love to you!
Forgive me this insecurity
That one day dying of fear
no other way
I just want to sit back on your chest
And ask Grandpa to play with my son
You were my hero, my villain
Neither you nor anyone else're alone
You are part of this path ... "

Perfect in music, Simple Plan, he apologizes to his father for not being perfect and does not match expectations.
Do not know if good for anything or will read what I wrote here, but for me it is a relief as I am also a son, for answering the question, "which serves for a father?"
I answer is as important as the mother, each has its role, as if it were not so God would not put a father and a mother, is the torque, duality, which gives security to adulthood, not one or the other, but two together in communion, participating and engaging, the synergy of both causes the problems are more easily resolved. You being a father, or son (a), give some thought and answer that question yourself.