And yet, after a while, all this going on about how girls are not allowed to feel desire begins to feel like a kind of nostalgic fantasy.
Love and desire when unspoken or unrealized become more like a fantasy than real life because it never breathes enough air to come alive. 
mnli hypothesis: Love and desire when unspoken or unrealized become more like a fantasy than real life because it never breathes enough air to come alive.  premise: And yet, after a while, all this going on about how girls are not allowed to feel desire begins to feel like a kind of nostalgic fantasy.