"""A Ten: """"FINDING YOURSELF""""  IS NOT REALLY HOW IT WORKS.  YOu AREN'T A TEN-DOLLAR BILL  IN LAST WINTER'S COAT POCKET  YOu ARE ALSO NOT LOST  YOUR TRUE SELF IS RIGHT THERE, BURIED  UNDER CULTURAL CONDITIONING, OTHER  PEDPLE'S OPINIONS, AND INACCURATE  CONCLUSIONS YOu DREW AS A KID THAT  BECAME YOUR BELIEFS ABOUT WHO YOu ARE  """"FINDING YOURSELF"""" IS ACTUALLY  RETURNING TO YOURSELF  AN UNLEARNING, AN EXCAVATION,  A REMEMBERING WHO You WERE  BEFORE THE WORLD GOT ITS HANDS ON YOu.  EMILY MCDOWELL"""