texts: You really cared about your friend . </s> <s> Sure I am . But he responded by saying'what do you mean ? ' . </s> <s> I'm confused . Why did he say that ?
labels: I felt the same at first . Later he told me that I'd better not give him any suggestions when he was sick . Offering unsolicited help or advice is like showing sympathy to the weak or the poor . But back in China , helping others is always regarded being kind .