texts: Very true.  Can't help someone if you take yourself out.   </s> <s> Pretty much, I am from Algeria and we're big on that. Gotta bring your own life in order first.  </s> <s> Exactly.  I hate to ask my friend for help because I know she can't say no.  
labels: Yea and you feel like you're pressurizing them that away. And feel bad afterwards/ 