"Unfortunately that isn't how she felt."

So ... a man's behavior made her feel a certain way, such that she bears no responsibility for her reactions and their consequences?

What is felt or what can be said is dependent on the circumstances of your birth, chromosomes, and DNA?

Take your argument and spin it, and you're allowing that women are responsible for men's actions based on how the women act and behave.

Or you can allow the one and deny the other. That's a hell of a double standard.

My read, from the original airing of this, and from Ron Johnson's interviews here, is that Adria Richards absolutely wasn't suited for her job. She's overtly racist and sexist, ascribing people traits, or passing judgement on what they can or cannot do or say, based simply on race and gender.

She's got something of a history of this, as Amanda Blum has pointed out:
https://amandablumwords.wordpress.com/2013/03/21/3/

She took what was, at the very worst, a slightly immature situation, and made it far, far worse. And continues to.

I've seen plenty of behavior from men (or boys) that makes me cringe. I've called it out at times. I've also seen (or received) it from women. And, for that matter, men. Truth is we're sexual creatures, and the boundaries between professional and personal do get crossed. Failure to recognize that (and behave accordingly) is a problem.

I've also had my own issues with behavior of others from time to time. Sometimes I'll comment, but if I'm at at a structured event that doesn't work (and I've met plenty of people of various stripes and persuasions who seem dead-set on finding an argument), I'll find someone who can intermediate -- an arbitrator frequently does blunt the emotions of to principle antagonists.

Could there be reasons for Adria's behavior in her own personal history? I'm not a psych professional, but I've had my own personal experiences (some extremely painful, damaging, and expensive) and done a fair bit of reading (including of psych texts and manuals). Seems valid to me to conclude that it very well might. And that if she does in fact have a history of such behavior, she'd do well to receive some sort of assessment and therapy for it. And I wish that she lived in a society which made such treatment far more accessible. Her behavior certainly has interfered with her professional and personal relationships, from the evidence I've seen.

But people own their own responses and feelings. An irrational or aberrant response is just that: irrational and aberrant. A person with a mortal fear of snakes shouldn't work in a reptile exhibit, a pyromaniac shouldn't work at a firehouse. And a woman who's constitutionally hostile to white men should probably find herself a position where she's not called on to deal with them diplomatically and spread corporate good-will.

Someone whose response to everyday situations gets other people hurt, or fired, or threatened, isn't behaving normally. Adria's response in this regard is no more valid than the road-raging executive, the raving street person who attacks someone for no reason, the child who throws a tantrum, or the jilted lover who goes into a screaming rage encountering an ex on the street.

Was she rightly fired? Absolutely. Ideally she wouldn't have been hired for the position in the first place.

The threats she's received since? Uncalled for.

Her failure to own her own actions and recognize her error? Inexcusable.

Oh, and the answer to men and their behavior around women dressing or acting provocatively? That's something the men own.