You raise a good point: Why not just take care of myself and move on and not care about anyone else, or if I care why raise a finger or expend an ounce of energy when it can't benefit me and could actually hurt me? If other people get ripped off, who cares, right? Heck, maybe even in some twisted way I benefit when other people get screwed. Relatively speaking, if they get screwed and I don't, I'm better off (some kind of reverse competition or whatever name has been given to it).

For me, however, this "me, me, me" mentality is the core of what's wrong with America right now. There are too many people who only care about themselves, who won't spend a dime of their money or a second of their time to stand up for someone who can't do anything for them. Not so much here and in our community, which mostly has an abundance mentality and knows that it's not about what you can get, but what you can give, and do give.

That is why I'm spending my time, opening myself up criticism, etc. I will get my money back regardless. It's $129, who cares, really. I've been through an IPO, made multiple successful real estate and stock investments, and done over a billion dollars in deals since 1999. Who the fuck cares? I quite that and moved to Europe in 2006 and haven't "worked" since. Again, who cares? Nobody. It doesn't matter. The point is not about money, it's about standing up for other people, people, who might not have the ability, time, energy, or whatever to stand up for themselves or anyone else. Heck, it's even about standing up for those "gotta look out for #1" types, I hope to help save them some money, too. More importantly and critically, I hope to help a few realize that the only way we can really change the world and make it a better place is by standing up for each other, helping each other, not ourselves. I also hope to give a company or manager or two a second thought about their business any shady business practices they are considering, help them realize that they will "get" more by acting ethically.

You may call me a dreamer and an idealist, that I am, but I'm not the only one. And I hope to "always" believe that we can make positives differences in each others' lives. That's what it's about. Really.

Yes, I hate getting ripped off (or feeling like I am getting ripped of, if it's more accurate). And I will not take it. I will suffer costs in excess of the rip off in order to benefit the community. I think the community benefits from better, more ethical and clear, business practices. I think by standing up here, I encourage that.

Since I'm in full rant mode now, I'll close out with a few quotes that come to mind:

Obama:

"Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek."

Yes, that's an updated version of Mohandas Gandhi's "Be the change (that you want to see in the world)."

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NOFX:
(this is a punk version of "First They Came"):

First they put away the dealers,
keep our kids safe and off the street.
Then they put away the prostitutes,
keep married men cloistered at home.
Then they shooed away the bums,
then they beat and bashed the queers,
turned away asylum-seekers,
fed us suspicions and fears.
We didn’t raise our voice,
we didn’t make a fuss.
It’s funny there was no one left to notice
when they came for us.

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chrisco (me):

Stand up for each other people, even if it's at cost to you, maybe even especially if it is a cost to you. This I do know the name of: "altruistic punishment." Lots of info on the web about that. One blog that comes to mind is Christopher Allen's "Life With Alacrity" -- see http://www.lifewithalacrity.com/2005/03/dunbar_altruist.html.