The problem isn't just governments, it's the human condition - the problem is we don't know what the problem is - which can be seen by your own post suggesting that governments are the problem. I'd suggest there's a bigger problem - it's the people who are paying the government to do what they're doing.

For example, if you pay some tax, and your government uses tax money to launch drone strikes on weddings, then you are complicit in that murder. There's no way you can undo that sin - you can only decide not to blame yourself because it was out of your control - but what of the next drone strike? Can you honestly claim that it had nothing to do with you, when you have already learned what happens when you pay the government?

There really is only one solution, and it's to stop paying a government which conducts drone strikes. It's irrelevant whether people are voting for red or blue, pink or white - because all of those colors support drone strikes! In fact, they don't have any choice but to support drone strikes, because drone strikes are the policy of the real mafia - those running the private central banks, the mainstream media, and the military and arms industries. Governments are only allowed to make small, mostly irrelevant changes which will not interfere with this policy. Leaders who interfere with the policy get taken out in one way or another.

Something big is happening though: it's that people now, for the first time, have almost unlimited access to information of the past and present - it is becoming increasingly difficult for them to hide their policy, which is leading people to understand just how the system works, and how broken it is, by design. The government was never meant to serve the people, but to act as the PR body of the mafia, and it's becoming increasingly clear just how they manage to manipulate and control the governments (blackmail, money, pedophilia, assassinations, etc.)

They are desperate to stop this free flow of information though, which is why there are increasing attempts to censor, surveil, control, or otherwise limit the flow by use of mandatory - government regulated filters which are largely secret. It won't come all at once, but in small stages, like the UK's recent porn block - it was obvious that this would never be limited to porn.

The other attack on free flow of information is that of parents educating their children. The state can't have this, and will ensure that any chance of home education cannot happen, such that children are educated in one way only: through a state-controlled curriculum. Children are already being taught to 'grass up' their parents, and if parents are caught educating their children outside of the 'curriculum', they have their children stolen from them, through secret courts with no juries (otherwise known as Star Chambers), in which they are gagged from mentioning the existence of the court. These are increasingly common in the UK. Children are then abused in state care, and there's no shortage of politicians involved in that either. The police turn a blind eye to this, because they do not have the power to convict those above them, which should make it even clearer that they have different rules for us and them.

The police in the UK for example, do not serve the public, but the queen (who is very much part of the mafia). It's illegal to even 'think' about dethroning her (revealed by a recent government slip-up), which brings the question: "How many crimes can the queen commit before she should be dethroned." (Of course, the queen cannot commit any crimes, because law doesn't apply to her).