>So, those memes are true descriptions of the market right now.

I can't agree. I made my move to SF largely motivated by Ramit's info products (which I owe $400/month for). I've been engaging in exactly this kind of networking for 2 months while watching my savings dwindle to critical levels.

Inviting people out for coffee is good for networking and networking is useful. It's not sufficient for getting a job and hiring managers aren't that desperate. I've managed to bypass some HR filters, which is a good thing. However the market is hot for very specific skills and for 100x programmers. It's not so hot for those with more modest experience, especially those over 30.

I am far beyond fizzbuzz. I got all the cookies on Hacker Rank with a pure JS solution. I've been coding a little here and there for several years, and have 1 year of work experience at a start-up in China. The thing is, the bar is a bit higher than that.

True example #1: I met a YC founder at a meet-up had a great chat with him, and was invited to visit a start-up. I bypassed some of the normal HR process and got a chance to write a UI widget (as a pre-interview challenge). It was to read a bunch of user data from JSON and make a list with pagination, with user selection by clicking anywhere on their LI and a select all/none box. Here's what I wrote (modified to obscure the identity of the company in question):

http://logicmason.com/UI%20challenge/playground.html

I thought I was awesome for building it on top of jQuery pajinate and separating all the CSS and JS customization I made from the libraries. In reality they were looking for a something with a lot more abstraction, maybe built on backbone.js or angular.js with handlebars. That's stuff I'd never even heard of until moving to SF!

Example #2: A 4-5 year old company aggressively recruits me, goes over code I've written in the past, gets me to go in to meet them, all is going well and then they ask how many years of professional experience I have with ruby (answer 1 month). End of interview.

Example #3: I get a phone screen at another cool start-up doing something similar to the one I worked for. I'm open for any position, but apply as a junior level front end guy. I get a phone screen in which I do okay on algorithms, but not so well on obj C memory management...

I'm not saying that networking isn't worth it. I am getting a steady stream of opportunities and sometimes miss by the slimmest of margins. Hopefully I've made a sports or starcraft buddy from it as well, who I'll meet up with after getting my cash flow in order.

But the market isn't nearly as hungry as you believe it is from your perch as a fairly well known expert who does highly paid consulting. I say this as someone who has a business background and who has invested heavily in exactly the techniques you suggest. I had a much, much easier time getting a tech job in Beijing.

I'm still hustling for odd jobs to hopefully make rent and pay Ramit, but in the remaining time I'll be working on the hard skills (as well as stuff to show off on github since that seems to be so huge here). That means doing everything I can on codeschool and building a project on a JS framework so that next time I have an opportunity like #1 above, I seize it.