> its not because of patriarchy but because of HUGE HUGE empathy gap towards men and boys

I recommend you continue reading the article, this is addressed as a fundamental aspect of the patriarchy and is basically what the entire article is about - the author writes that the patriarchy makes having empathy towards boys and men "gay" and highlights specifically a trans man who at first experienced all the benefits of the patriarchy, such as people finally listening to him when he spoke, and then discovering this exact downside that you listed when his mother died and nobody would comfort him. Nobody had empathy for him.

> women are put on a pedestal and protected from all harm

This is an odd thing to say considering for example women face more sexual violence than men, whereas men face more of other kinds of violence. It seems our society is simply harming people in different ways.

> Let's change the legislation to be gender neutral. The same rights and obligations regarding gender must be guaranteed for everyone.

I agree with this, however it's worth noting that because of biological differences, this necessitates for example that States aren't allowed to legislate different kinds of bodily autonomy based on someone's anatomy. Basically, abortion must be legal in this world you envision.

> 2. Declare zero tolerance for all violence, regardless of the gender of the perpetrator or victim.

So far as I know, in most nations that you as an HN poster are statistically likely to live in, striking someone is assault and is prosecuted. This includes instances of women striking men, if you're operating under the misguided belief that this isn't the case.

> 3. Let's invest in men's healthcare as much as women's.

I'll do you one better - let's just make it free for everyone :)

> Let's tailor the safety net of welfare services to be more suitable for men and accessible to men

I love the idea of expanding social services and welfare, I agree, we should do this!

> Let's secure the child's right to their parents and treat fathers and mothers as equal parents.

This sounds wonderful as well, however I wonder if you'll like how this looks in practice, such as for example in France where paternity tests are often banned since the result of a paternity test can cause great harm to the child (when the non-biological father abandons the kid or whatever). Do you still like this idea?

> Let's make the school more suitable for boys, and make education motivating, supportive and encouraging for boys.

Is it not already? Well, more funding for education, and an education system that's more motivating, supportive, and encouraging for people sounds wonderful, so agreed, we should do that.

> Let men and boys be just beginning, as he himself arranges to be. They are not pressured, let alone forced, into any mold.

Including if he wants to be a drag queen, a poet, a stripper, an effeminate model, or androgynous k-pop star, right? If so, we're in full agreement, in that we both agree that we should dismantle the patriarchy.

> Declare paper abortion as human right.

This doesn't quite make sense since an abortion is entirely a discussion about a woman's bodily autonomy, whereas child support is not a question of men's bodily autonomy. An unfortunate side effect of biology but quite concrete.