Microservices are indeed the best approach if you want to ship your org chart. That's all there is to it. Most of the technical justifications do not make sense, outside of very niche org requirements which aren't really all that common.

Take, for example, the idea that you can scale individual services independently. Sounds amazing on paper. However, you can also deploy multiple copies of your monolith and scale them, at a much lower cost even, and at a far lower complexity. In a cloud provider, bake an image, setup an ASG or equivalent, load balancer in front. Some rules for scaling up and down. You are basically done.

'Monolith' sounds really big and bad, but consider what's happening when people start using microservices. In this day and age, this probably means containers. Now you need a container orchestrator (like K8s) as you are likely spreading a myriad of services across multiple machines (and if you aren't, wth are you building microservices for). You'll then need specialized skills, a whole bunch of CNCF projects to go with it. Once you are not able to just make API calls everywhere 1 to 1, you'll start adding things like messaging queues and dedicated infrastructure for them.

If you are trying to do this properly, you'll probably want to have dedicated data stores for different services, so now you have a bunch of databases. You may also need coordination and consensus among some of your services. Logging and monitoring becomes much more complicated(and more costly with all those API invocations flying around) and you better have good tracing capabilities to even understand what's going on. Your resource requirements will skyrocket as every single copy of a service will likely want to reserve gigabytes of memory for itself. It's a heck of a lot of machinery to replicate what, in a monolith, would be a function call. Maybe a stack.

While doing all of that you need more headcount. If you had communication issues across teams, you have more teams and more people now, and they will be exacerbated. They will just not be about function calls and APIs anymore.

There's also the claim that you can deploy microservices independently of one another. Technically true, but what's that really buying you? You still need to make sure all those services play nice with one another, even if the API has not changed. Your test environments will have to reflect the correct versions of everything and that can become a chore by itself (easier to track a single build number). Those test environments tend to grow really large. You'll need CI/CD pipelines for all that stuff too.

Even security scanning and patching becomes more complicated. You probably did have issues coordinating between teams and that pushed you to go with microservices. Those issues are still there, now you need to convince everyone to patch their stuff(there's probably a lot of duplication between codebases now).

I think it makes sense to split the monolith into large 'services' (or domains) as it grows. Just not 'microservices'.

A funny quote I read a while ago on Twitter: "Microservices are a zero interest rate phenomenon". Bit of tongue in cheek but I think there's some truth to it.