Yeah, nukes were almost a survival necessity for apartheid South Africa, weapons were necessary for white supremacists in US to continue killing any black people that demanded equal rights.

A country that continues to reject a peace treaty being offered by dozens of its neighbors, refuses to return the occupied land to its neighbors (for example, Syria's Golan Heights, Lebanon's land, not to talk of the Palestinian occupied land) surely needs nukes or a visit to the shrink. Look up the resolution that is brought up by Arab countries every year since 1980 or so, every year the whole world is on one side, and two countries on the other side (Israel, US, occasionally joined by Australia, Canada, Micronesia, Palau Islands etc).
http://www.google.com/search?q=peaceful+settlement+of+the+pa...

http://www.normanfinkelstein.com/resolving-the-israel-palest...
Year
Vote [Yes-No-Abstained]
Negative votes cast by…

1997
155-2-3
Israel, United States

1998
154-2-3
Israel, United States

...

2006
157-7-10
Israel, United States , Australia, Marshall Islands, Micronesia, Nauru, Palau

2007
161-7-5
Israel, United States , Australia, Marshall Islands, Micronesia, Nauru, Palau

http://www.google.com/search?q=south+africa+nukes+israel

"Additionally, the Palestinian refugees of 1947 have all lived in other countries for 3 generations now. Having the "refugee" status persist through the generations is without precedent...
If Israel allowed the descendants to enter ("Return" is really an inaccurate word choice given that most of them were never in Israel) it would destroy it."

Oh yeah, just like in South Africa giving equal rights to those within Israel/Palestine would destroy it, so keep denying the right of return to natives, and keep bringing in Jews only. Build more nukes rather than give equal rights, sounds like a plan. Just ask the South Africans who say that Israel is worse than apartheid South Africa because in SA they weren't using helicopters and F-16s to bomb the blacks.
www.google.com/search?q=desmond+tutu+israel+worse+than+apartheid

Let me make sure you understand what you are saying, you are saying that the Jews of Europe, or North Africa or Australia who never lived in historic Palestine, whose ancestors never lived in historic Palestine in 1000+ years, they have the right to "return" to Israel/Palestine but those who were kicked out in 1948 and those who still have deeds and the keys to their homes do not have the right to return to where they were born or their parents were born?

Are you not aware that any person with no link to Palestine/Israel can convert to Judaism and get instant citizenship of Israel and immigrate there based on the right of "return"? Are you saying that a converted Jewish person has more right to "return" to a Jewish-only settlement (i.e. the settlements which are being built on 22% of the remaining Palestine which was occupied in 1967, not the Israel proper which was occupied in 1948)?

And that the non-Jews of occupied Palestinian territories and of Israel proper are justifiably kicked out of their homes? Forget about the 750,000 natives that were kicked out in 1948 and their descendants, have you ever heard about the hundreds of thousands of native Palestinians whose residency has been cancelled since 1967 occupation began?

http://www.haaretz.com/news/diplomacy-defense/israel-admits-...
"Israel stripped more than 100,000 residents of Gaza and some 140,000 residents of the West Bank of their residency rights during the 27 years between its conquest of the territories in 1967 and the establishment of the Palestinian Authority in 1994."

http://www.haaretz.com/weekend/anglo-file/former-thug-who-fo...
"Marcus Hardie grew up in an African-American community in Los Angeles, where his nickname was "American Thug."

"I was a tough gangster," he says.

But after a religious awakening that brought him to Judaism and eventually led him to immigrate to Israel, his street name changed to "American Faith.""

I am not sure if you are a victim of the hasbara propaganda or if you're part of it, but either way you should read what Israel has been doing before you justify its actions.

http://electronicintifada.net/blog/ali-abunimah/israels-pret...
http://www.haaretz.com/print-edition/news/israel-is-more-foc...
http://electronicintifada.net/blog/ali-abunimah/israeli-stud...
"The National Union of Israeli Students (NUIS) has become a full-time partner in the Israeli government’s efforts to spread its propaganda online and on college campuses around the world.

NUIS has launched a program to pay Israeli university students $2,000 to spread pro-Israel propaganda online for 5 hours per week from the “comfort of home.”"

http://mondoweiss.net/2012/06/peled-the-only-way-forward-is-...

Peled: The only way forward is ‘transformation’ of a racist apartheid state into a democracy