skysight-inc/HackerNews huggingface dataset:
I haven't seen that, really. I have seen people interpreting such age gap as a sign of guys immaturity or a general red flag for "that dude is looking to take advantage of you". I have never seen the "I would date that guy but he dates younger girls" thing.

Having younger partner is status symbol for a men to show off to other men. It does not make him look like good potential partner to adult women tho.
Everything is a narrative. Who wrote this narrative?
A therapist is recommending therapy to improve men’s relationship skills and to stop watch porn.

But the author says the “problem” (for lack of a better term) is women are less interested in dating (focusing on careers and education) and are overwhelmed with their number of choices.

This seems like a supply side problem. I’m not seeing how therapy will fix top of the funnel issues.
IIRC multiple entry points were common in Dijkstra's times.

Break, continue, and early returns always return to the end of the block, unlike goto in the '70s. Exceptions are more complicated, and the cause of a lot of inunderstandable programs.
It's not about entertaining, it's about finding someone who is right for you.

And I can confirm that this works both ways. I've always known that most women aren't the right person for me. I don't just want some random woman, I want someone who understands me and who I can understand.

I met my wife online. I forgot what I wrote in my profile, but it was probably slightly funny and self-deprecating, and honest about being a nerd. It had a photo of me in front of the gate of Timbuctoo. My wife recognised it and wrote a message where she referenced Ouagadougou, the capital of neighbouring Burkina Faso. Most Dutch women would completely lack that sort of knowledge, so that immediately drew me in. She's smart, sensible, not a nerd, but gets along great with nerds (one of her best friends was a nerd in denial).

I really do not understand men who just send a "Hey" to every woman they see. Have some standards. And some personality.
I am just an average looking short scrawny guy and I would not say it is that hard to get matches for me on Tinder. Some even write to me first. I would say the first advice is very true (within reason) even for men but that since there are fewer women on dating apps than men we cannot afford to be as picky.

I feel presenting yourself as you are (but slightly improved version) is just sound advice because you do not want to waste your time anyway with people who are not attracted to you.
Google Cloud's play for cell network providers
Does Instagram offer a similar filter? If not, can we conclude that China is somewhat ahead in the AI game?
> Google's influence has managed to push Go to the forefront despite its many quirks

Nah, the good things about Go have made it popular. If Google's influence is all it took then Dart would be a much more popular language.
> These explanations take the diode out of its context,

Which turns out to be one of the cornerstone of the scientific method: isolate a tiny part of a complex system, understand its behavior thoroughly and in depth if you ever want a shot at understanding how the complex system works and how the tiny parts contributes and interacts with it.
> Faced with the choice between an energy-intensive, highly competitive dating environment and the low-effort rewards of porn, young men appear to be taking the path of least resistance.

Why would they?

And for thousandth time: porn addiction is a symptom, not a cause.
TL;DR: "There’s no shortage of men who want to date you"
"Speed and cost of building a new thing" is a big one of my predictors for which nations will be influential in 50 years.

If you can get stuff done quickly and efficiently, then your nation will rise in influence. If you spend 30 years paying consultants to think about building a new subway line before eventually canning the idea, then in 50-100 years time the nation will end up weak and insignificant.
At a NATO spy convention, an English spy asks their Estonian, French, Spanish, German, and Bulgarian counterparts if they can see them in the new camouflage they are testing.

"Jah" "Oui" "Sí" "Ja" "Da"
And Java, C#, C++ etc. But whitespace-sensitive languages dot not have the issue.
> Recent Pew Research indicates that over 60% of young men are currently single.

Given that the proportion and dynamics of some-sex relations makes not a big difference here, would this not imply that roughly the same percentage of young women are currently single, too?
You might want to at the very least specify compensation (or lack thereof)
I enjoyed this article, but I'm noticing more and more that everything I read about fly is either a fun/low cost side project, or it's a (very impressive) article about fly.io internals. There's very clearly a capable tech team, but I'm confused about their target market. What customer success stories am I missing?
> It's the last place anyone should come to share opinions without expecting a response, likely a critical one.

Sure, but this topic is "special" in the sense that the response GP is complaining about is about the most uncritical, non-contrarian, obvious possible one. If you view conversations as a multiplayer gradient descent, then making an accusation - even an implied and/or non-specific - of racism, sexism, bigotry and associated "sins", is like making a huge sinkhole on the optimization surface: a very deep local minimum, nearly impossible to walk out of.

It's so easy for anyone to do this, and the effect is both immediate and so obvious, that when someone does that, it's hard not to see it as a deliberate attempt at shutting down the conversation. It's equivalent of someone pulling a gun in the middle of what the other person thought was friendly sparring.
Crashes don’t have to be rare either- frequency does not negate them from being crashes

you can start by seeing some of the the accepted definitions here [1]

While you may have expected crashes in bitcoin to be that hard (good for you) most investors, dozens of high profile funds/exchanges/crypto businesses did not expect bitcoin to fall to 20k USD and have failed.

[1] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stock_market_crash
A recent example is Leonardo DiCaprio and his new partner have upset a few women on Reddit.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/10w8fv2/th...
if you've never seen snow in your life, and then see it for the first time, say as an adult, it is quite an experience. same for the wide sea/ocean/beach.
You're missing the point. The main purpose of airplane crash investigations is to find the cause and fix it so it doesn't happen again in the future. This is done mostly without placing blame on anyone, precisely because that leads to finding a scapegoat instead of finding and fixing a problem.

Finding and fixing a problem is exactly what needs to happen here too.
> It does not make him look like good potential partner to adult women tho.

I’m pretty someone who can and actively dates someone younger doesn’t care in slightest about opinion of people who are not in his priority bucket.
Men send "Hey" to weed the bots and fake profiles. It's that simple

And even then, "hey" is a correct way of starting a conversation. Sure it can be improved, using something about their profile works better.

Though to be honest, women who start with the "entertain me" mentality, that's a good hint that she's not going to work out.
This got a ton of flak on Twitter as well[0]. Corridor Digital is known for showcasing the work (and passion) of digital and effects artists and animators in their react series, but here they are using the very technology that's going to put those people out of work in a couple of years.

They also got into NFTs with Beeple a couple of years ago. You want to like these guys because they seem like fellow nerds but then stuff like this makes you realize they're just another corporation trying to feed on the hype.

[0]https://twitter.com/CorridorDigital/status/16299050592817766...
It's because it's rare to see them so far south. Normally people would go to Iceland or somewhere to see them.
Product idea: AI bot that turns low effort male chat messages into profound, caring and thoughtful conversation. The Pro edition comes with an in-ear aid, should it come to a real date.

To be countered with Fembot AI Plus, which converts profile fiction into real world filters. "I'm looking for a deep emotional connection" -> "Find me the hottest guy in a 10 mile radius that has no criminal record or hobbies".
Btw this argument (that the TotC is a consequence of human nature) has been debunked several times (see the wikipedia article for a few). Hardin sets up a very specific scenario, and draws conclusions about human nature from it. This is a fallacy.
Visible here in Southern New Zealand right now
What I noticed is, that in the beginning most people (including me) think like this.
It's like ()-SOUP !

Then suddenly after a month or so you suddenly realise wow, this is actually nice and useful and now all other non S-Exp feels jukky.

You get to that point NOT because you are now simply enduring/accepting that it looks ugly but it really after a while becomes pretty !

It's like picking up smoking, no one likes the first or two cigarettes at first, it taste like sht, yet if you keep doing it becomes lovely. *

PS. Don't smoke kids !
I loved these as a 70s/80s kid - favourites being Time Traveller, Voice from Space and Invisible Boy. I’m surprised they all made it to the UK but all the children’s libraries seemed to have them.
Cars are much bigger (easier to accidentally hit stuff with them), taller (harder to see things at street level) and heavier (take longer to stop and hit much harder) and smartphones greatly reduce driver attention.
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This thing just made women craaazy.
Not to mention that this is the Bristol Post, an area that willl not be able to see the northern lights described in the article...
When I was using Tinder, I went from hey to elaborate openers and then back to hey. There are two reasons to it

1) Is photos are _way_ more important and the first message doesn't really affect the reply rate

2) It's a way to filter out recipients who think they are too good for hey or not going to reply anyway (window shopping or whatever they call it)

>Dudes are pathetic

That was subtle. I recognized the irony only upon looking at your username ;)
Win98 serial.

https://old.reddit.com/r/windows98/comments/6trdvf/working_w...
reddit does not use cloudflare
I mean one sure way not to have sex with someone else is to never expose yourself to situations that could lead to such a thing. As an educator I have to say that over my career there was a noticable shift in how students behave. The students I have today are more shy, more careful and more risk averse than students 4 years ago.

I could imagine that many of them would just decide to not bother at all until luck falls into their hands. But the thing about dating and getting to know people in a world where everybody pretends to be something they are not is that showing them your real you is a risk that you might not be willing to take. But if you don't ever take the risk to show them who you are really, how would you expect someone to like you for who you are?
Idris 2 is a purely functional programming language with first class types. This repository provides Idris 2 compiler targeting JVM bytecode so that Idris 2 compiler and Idris 2 programs can run on the JVM
It is an in development ISA, it makes sense for these kinds of new features to not yet be documented
>If you have a knee-jerk reaction to everything that looks different, you'll lose out on lots of fun stuff. You should give lisp a try, I'm sure you won't regret it.

Yes I always tell ppl, sure you don't need to like LISP but as a serious CS professional, AT LEAST give it a real HONEST go! Then if you still don't like it, cool, move on !

There is an active and lively and long-lived LISP-Like community even today, there is a high probability there is something there.

YMMV :)
The reality is that young men have always been “optional” in society. Biology looms large. Women seek to mate with the most high status males, evidenced by the fraction of men who get the majority of the “action” on dating apps and in life. Thus throughout history we’ve died in the wars and otherwise exist in the margins.

An example of the desparity to me is the concept “mansplaining” woke culture disparages. Some women (and others) see a man explaining something as condescension. Whereas I’ve always been grateful that anyone would take the time to educate or otherwise try to share information and gasp, try to help me?! I believe this reflects a fundamental difference in experience worth reflecting on.
It would be nice if this linked to the README rather than a dump of the commit log, which makes it hard to know what's new or interesting in this release. It would be double nice if the readme talked about JVM language interop or performance, as that's presumably the main selling points of running Idris on the JVM.
It's funny seeing American blame other unfriendly countries for their new problems, especially when it's ubiquitous on mainstream media. Odd that no one has blamed China, or Russia, or any aggressive foreign state for their overweight, obesity epidemic.
Similar technologies were extensively used in The Irishman (2019) to make the actors look younger and older.
> I really do not understand men who just send a "Hey" to every woman they see. Have some standards. And some personality.

I cannot say I understand it but many women on Tinder are the same. Zero personality.
https://github.com/iptv-org/iptv-org.github.io/files/1077347...
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> anything pretending to provide LTS while freezing software versions is misguided

How would you define LTS?
That's actually what I expected the website to do: Is this Arabic vs. Farsi, etc?
I find it fascinating that this article only calls for young men to change their behavior but demands nothing of young women.
It seems like the YouTube algorithm started randomly recommending it to a lot of people (before it landed on HN)
> Every time I see my female friends inboxes I gag all over agaon. Dudes are pathetic.

I was about to write something about everybody’s time on this planet being limited and how there’s actually a human being on the other side of that chat window. But… an appeal to human decency feels pretty pointless here.
Completely agree. I don't know Hinge but I've had good success with OkCupid (and met my partner). It required more thoughts and effort to make the profile, but it was a much more joyful experience than the countless hours spent matching on Tinder for absolutely nothing.
I have severe sleep apnea and made the switch from CPAP to MAD a couple years ago. Expensive but covered. Never looked back. Much simpler on every level, works about the same. My wife confirms I don't have apnea episodes.
Sour grapes?
It is in fact a very accurate description. Goebbels spelled it out quite explicitly. Another quote from him in 1928:

"We enter the Reichstag to arm ourselves with democracy’s weapons. If democracy is foolish enough to give us free railway passes and salaries, that is its problem. [...] We are coming neither as friends or neutrals. We come as enemies! As the wolf attacks the sheep, so come we. You are not among your friends any longer. You will not enjoy having us among you."
> Faced with the choice between an energy-intensive, highly competitive dating environment and the low-effort rewards of porn, young men appear to be taking the path of least resistance.

If young men are dropping out of the competition and resorting to porn instead, then who's staying in the dating environment to keep it competitive? With all those porn dropouts, I should have an easy time dating, right?
Interesting comment. Scaling "out" is costly in complexity and only needed... well... If it is needed!

700k transactions per second on a single machine from 2013 is probably millions per second on a modern machine.

We need to be careful and always ground the scale to reality, for example: the number of flight reservations per year worldwide is ~3B. Let's say you have 10 attempts / search per résa: 30B, then 3 transaction per, 90B. This is still less than 300 transactions per second in average!

I believe the lost art of squeezing out the performance of one machine is very valuable in today's world because a single machine can definitely achieve "most applications" at the human scale with no atomic clock to sync db transactions across the planet with thousands of nodes.
Heck, I went in 2017, which is just about when the low cost airlines there started to pick up and tourists started flocking over. But even back then I wouldn't recommend spending more than 2 days in Reykjavik when you have such an amazing country to explore.
^^^ That is like someone went back in time and gave the Egyptians a typewriter but only installed "The Windings Font" :)

The magic of S-Expr is like drug-addiction... someday you wakeup and realise... damnn I can't go without S-Expr in my daily-driver-languages :/
>Women seek to mate with the most high status males, evidenced by the fraction of men who get the majority of the “action” on dating apps and in life.

I don't think you can really extrapolate to all of human history from a time when birth control is widely available.
I'm partial to the Sofa Theory of Dating:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/understanding-narc...

I would pay attention to demographics more than anything and make sure you live somewhere where there the odds are in your favor. Since more women go to college these days, it makes sense to go to college (as a male).

But the most important thing is to figure out who you are. That is the key super power in dating. You know who you are, your values and what you want. It is OK if it is a work in progress but therapy really helps.
> That only comes from understanding that my case of ADHD is a disability. I didn't do that before when I thought I was just lazy. Ugh.

Yeah, I had to recontextualise a lot of my life after getting my diagnosis, there's a real trick in not over- or under-blaming things on the condition, although I'm not sure if that would be as big a job if you already had lived with one condition - going by what you've said matching a close friend of mine who's also autistic and got an ADHD diagnosis a lot later in life.

Anyway, I can't say if methylphenidate would work better for you but it should help with the things you listed, in my very subjective opinion. Good luck with things :)
Wrong. That is absolutely not what is happening with those laws.
This is technically true if you go out and start running a lot from zero if you are overweight or ignore your body and the warnings it gives in the run-up to injury. If you build up running gradually and treat it as a skill that you learn and improve on your technique and always listen to the feedback your body is giving you, then running is a great way to improve the health of the joints, muscles and bones in your legs and feet.

Most children happily run around all day and rarely develop any issues. Adults have an unfortunate habit of becoming quite sedentary, losing any conditioning they had and then going out and running distances their body isn't prepared for. Then people will blame their shoes or even the activity itself when the most significant factor is doing too much too soon.

This interview with Daniel Lieberman[1], an evolutionary biologist out of Harvard, is a good read about the misconceptions associated with human activity and what studies of our historical behaviour can tell us about what is and isn't important in staying active.

https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2021/01/daniel-lieber...
My point was to contest GP's assertion that CONTINUE and BREAK were not equivalent to GOTOs.

I agree that CONTINUE and BREAK are easier to reason about because you can look at them and instantly know what they do without having to look up what label they're jumping to.
Might be that, but on a meta level: the studies are too expensive and too big of a hassle, because there's not enough demand, because not enough people are being directed to make them, instead having their problems rounded up to e.g. obesity, because that's much easier for everyone than getting a test that's very expensive... You can see a feedback loop forming here.
I follow madaxe_again on Twitter, and yeah, he's pretty strong, but he also didn't say what you claim he said.
That’s just a complaint related to the shift in power dynamics ( at least not so skewed ) it’s as old as time.

Young women do and say things because they can, certain men get away with certain things because they can.

Others complain, because they can’t.
>To each their own. There are obviously very smart people choosing Lisp so I’m not trying to knock it down or anything, I just never got the appeal

Just know that almost no one STARTS off by liking Lisp-Syntax, but oh boy does it grow on you.
As a complement, I found this piece on the topic quite insightful and well researched:

https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-yo...
Imagine all what they'll discover when there's a way to reliably scan the earth with neutrinos
You absolutely are. "Loosening up and talking normal" in presence of a stranger is a skill. Some people acquired it naturally while growing up, some had to put conscious effort to learn it, some never managed to learn it. For some people it was easy to learn, others find it hard. Some people manage to do it, but find it exhausting. Some people have to play on hard mode all the time due to conditions like RSD.

Sounds like it's something that came easy to you - I'm just pointing out that it's not an universal experience.
This is such a strange response. Aren’t women in their 20s adults?

Women think of men already having a partner as an indication of him being reliable, which is a positive.
most black/asian people dont get to see aurora borealis. is white only! ;)
> What are you referring to? Because Mailu isn't Docker-hostile

Mailu uses postfix at the very bottom of its jenga tower software stack.
Same here, but I found that silicon earplugs really help(the foam ones do not work).
Tell me more about the human decency of saying nothing at all to someone end expecting anything at all from them.
If you're interested in academic papers, look at the top 2-3 conferences in each field (e.g. VLDB/SIGMOD for databases, SOSP/OSDI/USENIX ATC/EuroSys/NSDI/PODC(more theoretical) for systems/distributed systems. Some of the above might require an ACM digital library subscription to see the papers (which is really good value in my opinion), but others are completely free (i.e. the USENIX conferences). In many/most cases you can often find a copy of the paper online on the author's website.
It isn't their problem?
I think the 2nd stage must have a lot of issues to switch away from ncurse.
What is "blatant"? I don't think sister sites[1] are frowned upon. The code is released under a permissive license, after all.

[1] https://github.com/lobsters/lobsters/wiki#sister-sites
Not at all, we're not completely sure why but single women: single men is 2:1

(https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-yo...)
I used to go to various Curzons in London, 2-3 times a month, a bit expensive but they have an interesting selection. They took the opportunity of the pandemic to switch to card-only, no cash payment: I've not been since. So the Mayfair Curzon is closing? Meh.
Embracing Chaos: The Imperfect Art of Semiconductor Manufacturing, Lithography
One out of every runner gets injured :)
Moving over a million uptime checks per week from Lambda to Fly.io
It's them who want something so it's on them to change.