skysight-inc/HackerNews huggingface dataset:
That's my plan but I haven't tried yet. I have changed the notifications to different ones. I wasn't aware that was possible anymore on new Android phones.

The newer Samsung phones get the less configuration user's have it seems.
Ruby on Rails Debugger Tool
Unfortunately the conspiracy theories have directly led to 1000s of deaths, so yes flagging and downvoting is warranted.
If so, I would suggest updating the privacy policy to reflect that.
Your home must either be a cardboard box, in the middle of nowhere, or you bought it two decades ago.

Its value is not what it pays for, it's value is capping out-of-pocket maximums in the worst-case. (Any serious medical situation will quickly run you up to them.)

Also, have you ever looked at the 'Employer pays' line item on the insurance section of a bigco paystub? Mine is more than my rent. (Maybe I should move to a bigger apartment.)

I understand that there's a huge sticker shock to having to pay your + an employer's portion of insurance, but it's still a function of money, and working for a bigco that does 7% layoffs every 8 years is a really good way to earn a lot of money.

And it's not like there are any 'play it safe' places in a recession. You can't predict the future, and small companies go belly-up, and do layoffs just as much as big ones.
From what I've gathered by listening to women, there are fundamentally different problems. "Attention" is not valuable in itself. Getting spammed with dick pics is about as appealing as any other kind of spam. No one looks in their spam folder and thinks "Gosh, all of these advertisers think I have money to burn! What a great compliment!". It doesn't show any personal interest. It's not a sign that the other person is going to treat you like a human being instead of a sentient (flesh-)wallet.

The difference in experiences starts early in life. For boys, girls showing interest in them is often an exciting and empowering experience. For girls, often as not, the first sign of sexual interest is a creepy older man making uncomfortable comments at them when they're 11 years old. IIRC this shows up in mental health statistics -- boys who start puberty earlier tend to do better; girls who start puberty earlier tend to do worse. And of course there are different social standards applied to men's and women's sexuality.

Women also have much bigger safety concerns than men do, and have a harder time getting anything done about attacks afterwards.

I think all of this does make it harder for women to understand the destructive loneliness that a lot of men (particularly young men) face. I've been there, and I remember that trying to talk about with my female friends was a frustrating experience. But over time I've come to see that women don't really have it any better than we do. We're wandering through a desert looking for an oasis; they're swimming through a lake of garbage looking for an intact water bottle.
Look, that stuff about the Big 5 and microtargeting just didn't work. How Cambridge analytical actually made money was sting operations on politicians featuring hookers and hotel rooms.
Having done the dating thing for a while and being male, I've had no problem with making contacts and going on dates. Quality not quantity. Can easily end up on two dates a week. I'm nothing special.
> Your whole comment is about women in some sense, but the only time their perspective even enters the discussion is in one sentence where you talk about compelling them to like you out of physical desire?

Presumably what spaniard89277 means is "I have talked to long-term-single men and this is what I think their aggregate perspective is, I don't know many long-term-single women so I don't really know their perspective"

After all, if he knew a lot of single people of both genders, presumably he'd point them at one another.
Why are so many tech companies laying people off?
Opentelemetry frees you from Observability lock in
OpenTelemetry becoming a standard, we need to get on the band wagon. It helps simplify things.
One of the best places I ever worked. Really good engineers, and a really calm workplace where you are given the time and space to do good work. No dysfunctional 2 week sprints or hours of "agile ceremony" madness, etc. Of course this was 20 years go, and maybe it depended on the team you were on. I don't know if it is the same now. The only time I had a problem there is when my manager came in and said I had to take down my anti-microsoft sign. Idk why - maybe they were trying to do some deal with them.
"Just lower your standards!"
https://archive.is/3Bhda
At this point, "incel" is one of these buzzwords that don't mean anything anymore.
I think you'd have most luck by using ChatGPT to send messages in the style of 50 Shades of Grey.

I wouldn't be surprised if some men were already doing this.
Please don't take HN threads into nationalistic flamewar. It's not what this site is for, and destroys what it is for.

We detached this subthread from https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34529215.
Up until my generation it was really hard to raise kids as a single parent. And they take a while before you’re not responsible for their safety/wellbeing.
Are you implying 100000+ people getting laid off in a handful of months merely is about weeding off "underperformers"?
Looks cool. I would try it. I'm on Android. This could be a PWA for both web and Android targets. Not sure about iOS yet, do they still not support PWAs?
Agree. There's a cottage industry of social media influencers who find money in selling this cadre a simple message, "There is a reason it's hard for you and this is the group who's making it that way. I'll teach you why they're wrong and how to fight them to win."

It's an appealing message for a group who sees their intrinsic or essential power impotent in a changing world. It means that radical self-growth, a long and difficult process, doesn't have to happen, painful self-truths don't have to be addressed, and basic skills like empathy don't have to be cultivated. In short, issues can be externalized.
There's a big difference between 'rework my drawing to look like it was painted by Goya' and 'render this drawing in the style of Lisa Frank' or any living visual artist famed for a specific identifiable style as opposed to a particular image.

Comics are one example of an area where individual artists might develop a large body of work in a very distinctive style. You probably know what a Tintin comic (by Belgian artist Hergé) looks like. And lots of Manga artists have very specific and instantly identifiable styles. Individual artistry is a little less obvious with popular western comics because the best-known titles tend to be superhero franchises where the characters/story world are owned by a corporation and individual artists come and go.
Exactly, fentanyl is now cheaper than most other drugs and opiods. So many opioid users have just switched to fentanyl. Why pay extra for heroin? The issue is also the cartel in mexico, fentanyl is produced there too.

https://www.nbcnews.com/health/health-news/feared-illicit-fe...
You know what's much worse? When I was playing with blocking shady countries via pfSense, I found that making a NVIDIA GeForce Now account uses .cn servers by default.

Why?
The Great (British) Stagnation
Having a difficult time marketing my tool since launching it last year. It’s a Feedback widget for any site and free for now. Why not to try?…
http://zelement.com/feedback
Joystick [1] using MongoDB as the primary database. Run a few instances on VPS and then a load balancer in front. This is how I run my site [2] following a massive amount of headaches and random downtime fighting w/ a k8s cluster. Zero downtime since I moved it over in October. Only thing I don't like is I'm using a third-party DB host for Mongo (ScaleGrid) which has unfortunately gotten quite slow over the past year. Planning on moving this to a self-managed VPS as well.

[1] https://github.com/cheatcode/joystick

[2] https://cheatcode.co
Got it, thank you. I think I'm not used to posting the full content in the title and I should improve it. Things like: "Is it popular to think Discord is a spyware in the OSS communities?". I'll learn and get better!
I think its more complex than that: even if, by magic, you managed to lay off every non-contributing worker, and only them, the affect on employee morale is significant, and would cause contributing employees to leave completely or contribute less. Reducing the total output for the company.

And I'd also suggest that very few, if at all, employees has zero contribution. It's just that some of those contributions are invisible to you.
Classifying 2022 DeFi
Dating apps are terrible. Women respond well to genuine friendship and gradually deepening intimacy. No one, man or woman, wants to be thrown into a super short-term popularity contest where physical appearance and some shallow "chatting" is the only differentiator. That's not how you build community and intimacy.
If that's true, then it'll never get to the point that it would need to, and its reliability would always be too low to use.
The problem with this approach is eventually people who think this way are bred out of gene pool. Monogamy has been successful at continuing human race for quite a long time by providing stable growing environments for kids.
> In the U.S. no dispassionate person can believe that the radicalization of white men isn’t overwhelming right leaning.

I suppose it fundamentally has to be that way? My understanding is that this radicalization stems from the "they took er jerbs"-type belief about economic struggle, which only applies if you believe in capitalism in the first place. Those on the left believe in the government (or similar model of shared ownership of capital) providing them a living and would be happy to see their job go to someone else. Any economic struggle they face is naturally blamed on that shared ownership model not being realized.
> The user interface you need to solve that problem is to be able to put in your user ID to see a timeline of all replies to any of your items whatsoever, not replies to a specific post.

Or, as petodo put it in the comment i was replying to:

> some service where you enter your HN username and it would show you newest replies to all your comments.
> I would predict that being able to afford a nice apartment in a good area close to date locations will easily 10x your sex chances.

This matches my experience. But overall, location is extremely important. I used to date quite a lot, and depending on the place, I could find dates extremely easily, or it could be virtually impossible.

But one thing I understood after I turned 40. The number one criteria is age! It gets exponentially harder as years pass.
Maybe, but theres also a huge market for fentanyl specifically because its the cheapest opioid you can get your hands on.

https://www.nbcnews.com/health/health-news/feared-illicit-fe...
It's an interesting thing they have going on. I worked at a large retailer who depended on an IBM mainframe running DB2. That thing was crazy expensive and their migration to their cloud mainframe offering was even more expensive for the raw compute, but made sense when maintenance and everything was added.

Something like 90%+ of the top 100 banks depend on mainframes and same with the top 100 retailers. Few customers that pay a lot is a solid model.
But the people experiencing sexual loneliness aren't bad boyfriends and husbands. They can't even get a significant other or spouse. Counterintuitively, being a disagreeable or even abusive partner is positively correlated with sexual success: https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/08/31/radicalizing-the-roman...
According to Wikipedia, they might[0]. Note however that the procedure is not generally available, I can't just purchase chemical castration pills, which is a problem because it should be my choice.

[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Castration
That’s not why we have a jury system.
Nightclubs, yeah, most bars aren't nightclubs though.

Bars are a fairly decent place for low stakes socialization, at the very least.

In person dynamics are just different - I met my husband in a bar. At the time neither of us were looking to date anyone for various reasons but we happened to get chatting and our chemistry was immediately apparent. If he were exactly the same person but I first "met" him as a dating profile on the screen I almost certainly would have passed.
The thing I've been trying - instead of the docs saying "just run docker-compose up" (and a few other commands), put all of those commands in a bash script. That single bootstrap command should: docker compose down, docker compose build, docker login, [install gems/npm modules], rake db:reset (delete + create), docker compose up, rake generate_development_data.

This way each developer can/should tear down and rebuild their entire development environment on a semi-frequent basis. That way you know it works way more than 50% of the time. (Stretch goal: put this in CI.... :)

The other side benefit: if you reset/restore your development database frequently, you are incentived/forced to add any necessary dev/test data into the "rake generate_development_data", which benefits all team members. (I have thought about a "generate_development_data.local.rb" approach where each dev could extend the generation if they shouldn't commit those upstream, but haven't done that by anymeans....)
In the early 1980s, DoD pushed back vigorously against the breakup of the Bell System, but the breakup happened anyway. Once the anti-trust suit is in progress, they have little influence over the legal outcome.
I’m probably not the target market, but why do you need an app to conduct a breathing exercise?

I’m any case, the app looks polished.
Yeah I'm aware, which is why I qualified that part of the statement. But every company I've ever worked at has issued MacBooks (which I'm not complaining about- I definitely prefer them overall), so it is a pervasive downside

Though also, the added complexity to my workflow is an order of magnitude more important to me than the memory usage/background overhead (especially now that we've got the M1 macs, which don't automatically spin up their fans to handle that background VM)
That author makes the point that copyright registration (which you do online with the Library of Congress in the US)[1] is required for copyright enforcement litigation. And, quite possibly, it may be required for DMCA enforcement.

Now, that could work out. Major movie studios and recording companies do file copyright registrations and submit a deposit copy. But few others bother. It seems that you can send a DMCA takedown request without a copyright registration, but you can't enforce it in court without one.[2] This raises the question of, if you as a service receive a DMCA takedown request, should you ask the requestor to send proof of copyright registration, and if they don't, ignore the request?

[1] https://www.copyright.gov/registration/

[2] https://www.traverselegal.com/blog/is-a-registered-copyright...
This is an example of aspirational 1950s churchgoing America being seen as an "age old solution." That's not age old, not a solution, and not an accurate view of the reality of sex relations globally and over the long course of history.

Nostalgia is what people like Jordan Peterson are selling. Go back to the "good" (but very bad for most people) old days and things will be fine. It won't work.
See also
https://old.reddit.com/r/fusion/comments/skplmy/what_role_do...
>You need to reduce friction for good habits and increase friction for bad ones. At the minute, our societies do the exact opposite. Unhealthy food and Netflix and cheap. Healthy food and education are expensive

I would argue the opposite. healthy food is already dirt cheap, and education is free.

One hour at minimum wage can buy enough clean healthy food to last an adult most of a week.[1]
Free education as available at online and at libraries, ranging all the way from simple tasks to Phd courses from Stanford.

My point isn't to minimize the hardship of the depressed, but point out that friction isn't the issue. If 5 minutes of cooking, picking up a book, or typing an educational topic into youtube is too much effort, there is a different problem.

Why does reading a book, cooking, or learning seem like work, and not fun? It certainly isn't because it is too hard in reality, especially when the same depressed person found pleasure and relaxation in doing these things before they were depressed.

[1] I was at the store yesterday and pork was 88 cents/lb, frozen vegetables ~ $1/lb, and rice and beans ~$1/lb.
> Diversity is such a vague word that anyone with some attribute outside of the norm in an industry might qualify.

Right, the term has no inherent abstract usefulness, it must be defined in each specific case. You can assess diversity of a group on a certain axis, but not generic "diversity" without defining it.

But you're still thinking of it as something possessed by an individual and that's making it hard to see the value. Adding a specific person may increase the diversity of the team on a certain axis, but that's a trait of the team not that person.

> as that is the only way to really make it fair in the long run.

I don't think this is wrong, but the way you state it makes me think there are several assumptions under it that are worth prodding at. Like, is fairness the goal? To whom? only the members of the team being discussed, or all potential candidates, or society as a whole, or what? Or, what is "performance?" and defined by whom? If a member of the team underperforms their peers on technical assessments but, for example, speaks an uncommon language that gives them access to and business-valuable insight into their users, is that performance? These are judgements that need to be made, not objective facts that can be derived from the world.

I don't know of anyone seriously proposing that "diversity" be the sole deciding factor in a hiring or firing. But that assessing the overall diversity of a team on certain axes can surely be one of several things weighed when making these decisions, along with things like tenure, performance, communication skills, morale, etc.
If you're building a B2B app:

- Supabase on the backend (REST APIs are a solved problem, no need to spend a single hour on it)

- Auth0 for authentication (too risky to manage authentication manually)

- react + react-admin SPA on the frontend (does 80% of the job for B2B apps)

- lambda functions (for business logic that can't be exposed on the frontend)

API-centric SPAs are such a time saver... when you don't have to build the API, and Supabase covers it.

For a B2C app, you must render server-side. I'd go with:

- Postgres
- Next.js or Remix
- Prisma
To me, this is undoubatedly a huge part of the problem.

I noticed that my depression spiked when I started to become more isolated. I was getting older, long time friends are now scattered about the country/world, difficult to make new ones. Family members are isolated and scattered doing their own thing in their nuclear units. Parents are divoced and fending for themselves too. Finding a romantic partner under these circumstances is difficult ... having no friends can be seen as a "red flag". It snowballs.

I have also thought of the concept of shared housing for adults. I LOVE this idea.

They share the responsibilities much like a multi-generational family would, they just happen to be strangers.
Online dating absolutely benefits "the typical female mating strategy" more than it does "the typical male mating strategy". I recommend all folks who use the latter (I intentionally phrased this non-gender-specifically) get away from online dating as it is a sucker’s game for us. You have a significantly better chance of scoring an “out of your league” partner in meatspace.

If anyone doesn't believe this, make a fake dating profile using photos from someone of the opposite sex that you think is about as attractive as you are and observe what happens when you try to reach out to people. Actually, this might be a great exercise for the guys in particular to see all the low-effort crap that gets thrown their way (and the occasional unsolicited dick pic), but it would also be a great exercise for women to see how much effort it takes simply to get interest returned (in which case you might get so fatigued by the number of sincere requests you send out unanswered, that you resort to sending many more low-effort inquiries instead... See how that works?)

I predict this thread will get modlocked later today since every conversation that brings in sexual concerns related to gender/orientation ends up becoming dynamite.
<half-joking> https://github.com/TheAppleTucker/backend-GPT </half-joking>
I consider retirement & HSA accounts separate from emergency fund. Max HSA, max 401(k) then build up emergency fund in liquid assets.
Yeah I sighed when I got to that point. You have no problem to expose your oven to the internet, but then a ping to Yandex or Baidu is taking it too far? If they wanted to exfiltrate data they'd surely find a way to piggyback it on the legitimate traffic to the cloud service they're using...
The devices would reach out to other third party services as well. The check would ensure they didn’t pointlessly do so. Knowing whether there was internet or not was used for a lot more than talking to our own servers.

> Well, just connect to your own service, then?

When you’re pinching pennies as a startup there’s a real cost associated with that. Several thousand devices checking in every few minutes isn’t expensive, but abusing Google was free.

Fwiw I’m not defending this, I’m just saying it’s common even if bad practice. There’s a reason IoT devices have a bad reputation.
I do, but I eat beans frequently, with out the same effect. Usually I get a burrito bowl. The same ingredients elsewhere do not have the same effect. I don’t know. I know people love it and I can see why. I even go back
I've recently realized that I've been unusually tired, daily, and lack the usually high ambition and drive I had prior to January 2020, which is when I caught COVID.

I never got the vaccine and I'm curious if my symptoms are related to COVID, or related to being a few years older, or changes to exercise schedules, or a general change in life outlook after the past few years, or even mild depression or something. It may even be completely psychosomatic.

I'm considering getting the vaccine just to see if it makes a difference. I'm curious if anyone else is/was in a similar situation.
>Is DMV not trustworthy?

They can and they have bungled non-trivial subsets of the data and records they are entrusted with in the past. Having a public non-DMV source of truth would really help the consumer from getting the shaft in these cases. Of course, doing that in a useful way would likely violate people's privacy to the extent it becomes a non-starter.

That said, I think this is gonna wind up being a lateral move. Best, best, best case "blockchain" was just the magic marketing word they had to use in order to finally get management buy-in to shit-can some problem vendor or team responsible for the systems "blockchain" is gonna replace.
Driving 100 Miles in an EV Is Now More Expensive Than in an ICE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QTJRwKOFddc

Smalltalk, Squeak, Pharo, Seaside, PierCMS, Lively Kernel

Used by several succesful startups.
> evolutionarily optimal strategy

Gender roles (and sexism) are primarily cultural. If you look through history there has been matriarchal and patriarchal societies. Monogamous and polygamous and so on in many combinations.

Humans sexuality is very unique compared to other animals and, respectfully, we should try not to play armchair Darwin.

There are very good lectures from prof. Sapolsky on youtube on the topic. Humans are complex and very weird.