skysight-inc/HackerNews huggingface dataset:
You mentioned that you're not sure about how to improve the one-sided empathy situation with your SO. So I thought it might be helpful to share some pertinent info that I've come across on HN in the past. I feel that the article and comment discussion on the "Intentionally making close friends" post (https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=33774353) may offer some actionable advice. Also, see the authors other post specifically on "debugging others" (https://www.neelnanda.io/blog/30-debugging-others).

My own advice is to be direct with your SO about your needs / expectations not being met. I went through the same thing with my SO. We went to couples therapy for many years with no improvement, until eventually they realized it was serious enough of a problem to lead to the end of the relationship, prompting them to put in the necessary effort to change. Another poster mentioned Gottman "bids for attention" which is spot on as well. Both partners in the relationship need to show up for each other to provide emotional support. Some people are simply more used to receiving support and don't know how / aren't used to providing it. It should be made clear that this is unacceptable and needs to change, but also that you are willing to give it time and work with your SO to help them gradually improve their empathetic capacity so that they can be a better partner to you (and better person in general) and keep your relationship healthy.

I think it's also important to note that balance is key. You need to be mindful not to overload the other person's empathetic capacity by venting so much that they never have a chance to vent to you or to relax / recharge. If your SO is dealing with a lot of emotional distress themselves, they simply won't have bandwidth for you. We can never be perfect emotional support for each other, because each person deals with their own emotional distress / stressful events which temporarily limits their available empathetic capacity.
No. OP argued that you should not use the software because it might phone home, and the author doesn't think the tools should phone home for any reason. Yet, with flatpak you can specifically turn off networking permissions just for that app, and thus remove the concern.

Also, similar concerns would exist for non-corporate software, so the corporateness is irrelevant to whether to use a free tool which you have full ability to inspect and compile yourself.
Not sure what your fairly illiterate point is, there.
>How else would I pay a cybercriminal without Crypto?

Gift cards?
The banner picture threw me off. I used to look at the silhouette of that island from my window on clear days and knew right away that was Iceland and not Norway.
It did not on version 1.0, but most of the differences were fixed in later versions.

As if COM as used in VB6 isn't OOP.
I'm sorry. As a former software engineer and now CTO I have to disagree completely.

Adding value is everyone's responsibility and the product/business/pricing ideas that come from engineering can be as valuable and influential to a business strategy as those from the CEO or PO.

If you want to write software that isn't rooted in building business value you should be an academic or hobbyist but in any well run business that depends upon or sells software /SaaS services, engineering should be a critical influence on the business's strategy.

If an engineer is just a cog in the machine and doesn't get or care about what they are building, who it's for, and how it changes experience and increases shareholder value then how can they take a wider appreciation of their work and its impact on the real world?
Django would need to be patched to do that, since the default SQLite provider would make it hard to do that cleanly.

Here’s the relevant Takahe issue: https://github.com/jointakahe/takahe/issues/325
The issue with crypto is no one is really defining a protocol in the way we used to used to understand internet protocols. I'm all for blockchain and P2P but only where it makes sense. I've tried to understand how that would work here but it feels like it's going to be a natural and slow evolution.
Much of Coinbase’s operations are located in Miami. If I recall correctly, this individual has been residing in Miami for ~ a year….
Academics have a lot of positive things to say about crypto research.[1],[2],[3]

[1]: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EfsSV7ni2ZM

[2]: https://techcrunch.com/2022/04/21/a16z-debuts-new-crypto-res...

[3]: https://cs251.stanford.edu
Did you already forget about FTX?

Don't you think that this holds as a warning for other much bigger exchanges?

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To answer your comments:

> No I don’t and what does todays announcement have to do with FTX?

Both were operating offshore and the DOJ took action on both of them.

https://www.justice.gov/opa/pr/ftx-founder-indicted-fraud-mo...

> while failing to protect anybody from mismanaged and systemically important exchanges.

Doesn't matter if it is big or small, an exchange is an exchange, especially one that isn't regulated or in the US.

Again, I see this as a warning, don't let the wrath of the DOJ on a small exchange fool you into thinking nothing will happen to other exchanges.
Something really useful that I learned was just to delay my responses to surprises. I did this to stop getting angry at things that I misunderstood, by giving myself more time to think about what was being said, but I found it is useful for all sorts of things.
I think the Coinbase execs watched the Carlos Ghosn Netflix docu over Christmas break and nope’d out.
> WebAuthn is the short name for the "FIDO Alliance Web Authentication Protocol".

Web Authentication is a standard from the W3C, with original contributions from FIDO Alliance and a lot of collaboration with members. It is very much not a FIDO standard.

FIDO has their own branding, marketing, and certification, as well as the CTAP protocol which builds on top of WebAuthn and describes how to communicate to an externalized authenticator (e.g. a USB or NFC security keyfob). They also work on several standardization efforts in other areas, such as IoT device onboarding and identity verification for documents.

> "Passkey" is the trade name (that Apple tries to own) for the "stuff" that results from using the WebAuthn protocol.

A passkey is a non-trademarked term (at least by Apple/Google/Microsoft) for a Web Authentication credential that has been registered with a site, that provides user verification, discoverability, and (optionally) backup eligibility characteristics.

In layperson terms, it is "a more secure alternative to a password" provided by their password manager. In particular, that security is strong phishing resistance as well as breach-resistance (e.g. greatly limits the impact of a copy of a website credential data dump)
I'm sorry. Netflix pre-emptively cancelled that show. Now you'll never know how it all ends up!
If you create an account on Wikipedia then you can go into preferences and define custom CSS styles.
The context is that the Japanese regulator, FSA (Financial Services Agency) which regulates Banks, Cyrpto, and Brokerages is scary

You're damn right they are, they demanded we fax them, and send our fiscals over on a floppy!
It is just speculation that the threat of jail-time is pushing out coinbade right?

It might just as well be that regulation (or other factors) are making operations unprofitable as far as I can tell.
You can push back in the early stages before >50% board dilution (and this is who pg assumes is his audience), but typically founders are very willing participants in all the spending
> How else would I pay a cybercriminal without Crypto?

You don’t. That is the point of laws.

In good faith, the commenter specifically mentions the DoJ. People want laws against cybercriminality because it hurts them. Your argument is similar to answering “I hope AR-15 rifles get abolished” with “well, how else can I do a mass shooting?”
It needs to talk investor friendly?

I confess I feel silly not even considering it according to your surprise. Had a whole wave of thought about the market of facts. Which "truths" are you most attached to and how much are you willing to pay? Do you want Jesus to be our savior or not? What's it worth to you?
Just like using VB.NET with Windows Forms, and version 2 introduced back all the Me stuff and some of the semantics that were initially left out.

I not only used VB 6, I used version 3 when VBX was the only option for 3rd party components.
It always seemed too good to be true given how greedy, cynical, and dehumanizing Bezos’ money machine is.

I’m honestly surprised it even lasted so long.

Anyway, there are plenty of alternatives to amazon (that aren’t more expensive or just slightly more expensive) that aren’t as morally bankrupt as amazon is. I’d encourage you to spend your money there instead :)
After all what? A blog post?

Your anonymous comment reduces somebody’s experience and decisions to a single sentence. I’m afraid it completely fails to successfully summarise them.
"How else would I pay a cybercriminal without Crypto". Does paying a criminal also makes you a criminal? Would using cash be an option?
I don't get it either. I never know which side is on and/or which background color means on, unless they're using green/red. You say "right side is on", but I never even realized this until now.
It's unclear how chill they were at the time. You seemed to read something as very chill. It's a lot easier to be chill once the financial impact is blunted by insurance, restitution and tools. And it also helps that time has passed, so now it's a funny story.
> At this point any exchange avoiding FSA regulation is a giant red flag with bonus red siren.

Yes.

No crypto exchange can make money without either charging fees or ripping off the customers. The less legitimate ones just steal the customers' money. The more legitimate ones try to steer the customers into buying financial products profitable to the seller.

Useful rule of thumb: any financial product where they call or advertise to you is no good. If it was good, smart money would be seeking it out and buying it.
When you connect with another human who sees you, life becomes full of color.

I think a lot of our societal issues stem from not being able to connect authentically.
Atomic Habit Building Cheatsheet (James Clear)
1/ Make it Obvious - Cue
The first obstacle to overcome when building a new habit is to make sure you don’t forget and be able to act on it.

Cues can come in different forms:

Physical environment cue:

- Leave my journal with pen open next to my bed

Behavioral cue:

- Do my 10 minutes of meditation right after I have my morning coffee (using an existing habit as a cue is called ‘habit stacking’)

Social cue:

- Make my friend an accountability partner so we check-in on each other on our new habits.

2/ Make it Desirable - Craving
Dopamine, the neurochemical associated with motivation, is activated before an anticipated event.

In other words, the desirability of your action drives your motivation.

How do we make habits more desirable?

Add delight:

- Put on your favorite cologne/perfume when you workout.

- Do it at the right time

- Do your workout when you are most motivated (don't overestimate yourself)

- Think opportunistically

Add 'I get to..' to any difficult habit.

'I get to workout because I'm not sick.'

3/ Make it Easy - Response
Simply taking action is more valuable than optimizing for the best method or strategy.

And for habit building— simply putting in more reps is more valuable and increase likelihood of success than less reps—even if with more intensity.

Here’s how to make habits easier:

- Just start doing it for 2 minutes

- Make the first step within reach

- Make the first step simple and quick to do

4/ Make it Satisfying - Reward
Rewards—especially immediate and unpredictable ones—are key for habit building. They release dopamine and wire us with increased motivation.

Delayed rewards and the same boring ones also aren’t motivating which is why it’s best when the rewards are variable/random and immediate.

Attach rewards to your habit efforts:

- Pick a reward with unpredictability

- Chat with a friend about their day on the way back from the gym.

- Share your progress

- Tell a friend, share on social, accountability partner/group..etc about how you did.

- Track visually

Use a habit tracker or check list to feel good every time you check off what you've done
No, not yet, however the problem came up several times. Feel free to create a GitHub issue if you would like this feature.
Humor brings down walls and people allow vulnerability out.
Internal Heating Element Makes These PCBs Self-Soldering
Isn't coinbase subject to KYC laws?

Is there some region you can VPN to where coinbase won't require some form of legal identification before allowing you to withdraw any funds?
Besides, I have heard many people doubt the volume numbers published by binance. Either claiming binance inflates the numbers, or binance allows wash trading which inflates the numbers.
Amen to that. It’s profoundly sad actually when you step back to think about it. Most of mankind slaving away 40+ hours in the prime of their life, missing their kids first years, not having much time or energy to do or think about anything else, etc etc
It's a joke, saying humans are wet cellular approximators. Cellular approximators are a algebraic topological concept
I was quite young at the time but even in London pizza express felt really fancy and stylish compared to any other restaurant I’d been to (at about 8 years old). I guess it was very competitively priced too because my middle class but not particularly high earning family of 6 were able to eat there as an occasional treat!

We used to go to the one on upper street Islington, and it’s etched in my memory.
Still a big fan, I’ve never been let down by them.
The JVM showed nothing new in that regard, that idea predates the JVM for a couple of decades, and Gosling even refers it was his past experience with such platforms that made him go with a bytcode based format.
Still can’t run Node-RED, which would be a key use case for me.
> My only concern is to design and implement what they ask for. Whether what they ask for has any value, it is not my responsibility.

You're describing a compiler. You are not a compiler; you are a software engineer.

You will, especially as you get more senior, be asked for things that are wrong. You will be asked for things in the form of a fuzzy problem statement with no direct guidance on what to change, with the understanding that you will talk to relevant people and figure out what needs doing, and then you'll build that. One day, your job will be to figure out, with no prompting whatsoever, what things need to be built, and you'll build those things.

Your job isn't "to create value," but it's not "build the thing as described without questioning it" either. That's a compiler.
I don’t understand why people are taking these so personally. The point of them is to be an example of someone. They are characters, in a story.
python -m SimpleHTTPServer 8080 is no longer an option out-of-the-box, but ruby is still pre-installed and provides an equivalent ruby -run -e httpd . -p 8080
All the projects they mention going on after the wind-down are US centric. Will they do anything outside of the US, too?
Great examples and I absolutely agree. The problem here is the lack of visibility/attention due to these topics being extremely niche and largely inconsequential to the real world, yet a matter of principle for a site that tries to present its contents as factual knowledge. Sometimes it takes just one extremely dedicated user to completely lock down any changes on a particular topic and I've experienced this too.
We already have cheap beans and tofu. Thanks
I think it's possible. Mainly because it's possible for an organisation to slow to a crawl, with internal bickering. So it's hard to be much more productive than an ordinary functional org, but it's also possible to be doing basically nothing, thus any X is possible.

Maybe trivial but it does seem to be how it works.
There is a Brazilian guy who did a lot of that, buying entire stores. He amassed the largest collection of vinyls in the world.

https://www.nytimes.com/2014/08/10/magazine/the-brazilian-bu...

https://thevinylfactory.com/features/inside-the-worlds-bigge...
I had to move some money across EU country lines. I did a handful of searches to research my options, but quickly landed on a regular bank transfer. I was hounded by money transfer service ads for an entire year afterwards, at least the few times I used youtube without an ad blocked. A whole year after I no longer had any need for the service. "Useful" ads have never been useful to me.
The creator of this is explaining it in this video (also check out his flex-pcb coils if you are browsing his channel already!).

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r0csHZveVvY

His stuff is on GitHub as well:

https://github.com/CarlBugeja/Open-Reflow
I’d point out that most companies - including their closest analogue, Walmart - don’t do this. Amazon is reverting to the corporate norm.
Really nice work, thanks! Much cleaner than pulling arbitrary properties off the HTTP request context, and gets a nice conceptual leg-up by analogy to React hooks.
I have heard widely varying opinions on how useful ChatGPT is. Could some people who have had good experiences with it share the details of what they do, so that we could figure out what the differences are between the effective and ineffective usecases?

For example, I hear some people say that it is great at code synthesis, but in my experience it goes completely off the rails if you ask it to write something that's even a little bit unlikely in the training corpus.
One problem I see in this particular domain is autonomy condition. We can't put that much computing power on board of Atlas/Spot (also minding literally power consumption) and should not make them depend on external computation, because it greatly reduce their application scenarios.
You are happy because you have not seen how much better things can be. Zelle is very poorly designed. It is possible to send money to numbers which do not exist. Even if the number does exist, you have no way of knowing whether the person you are sending to is correct or not, since you enter their name information yourself, instead of zelle fetching this and asking you to confirm it.
That doesn't imply you shouldn't use the existing features of the tool to your advantage. I get the lack of spec, but this isn't 2001 anymore. You can create rules in accordance to general relationships, and not strictly parent child ones.
Other than the two thumbnails, why are there no pictures of the glasses being worn?

Are you they not proud of how the glasses look, or are they very budget conscious (ie. Using stock photos, instead of commissioning product photos)?
Nice.

Its a shame this add-on uses google analytics but that said,

1. Its Firefox add-on and not yet another chrome one

2. The extension is honest about analytics so I guess that says enough.

If there were a analytics free version, that would be wonderful. Still, this is nice
How are they doing? Perhaps they have stuff going on that you don’t see?

A SO is just like you and the hard part is being able to share and open up. Because sometimes it isn’t right in a relationship and you can feel even lonelier.
Here’s an odd ball question: why did K8s devs go with etcd and not SQLite?
I look at these robots and see the business case that they could be used to take care of the elderly. They could literally do the heavy lifting in care homes, leaving caregivers to do the more gentle tasks.

There’s a big market there that would only grow, given current demographics.

I don’t see the Tesla bot catching up with Boston Dynamics any time soon.
Not sure I get your point?
That’s only valid for US folk.
UCSD Pascal was famous for being slow and crashing. Turbo Pascal was faster than any other compiled language available, and it kept getting faster.

Had Borland not gotten greedy, Delphi would still be widely used.
Boston dynamics also published a making of video. There it is explained why the luggage scenario is still far away: The robot has perfect knowledge of the object it is transporting (size and weight distribution). In order to be able to transport any object, the control algorithms need to be able to estimate themselves where to grip an object and what the objects weight distribution is.

Still, the results are very impressive.
That is great human progress! Knowing that the way you ‘behave’ might not be the best way and not taking it personally! Meta cognition and enlightenment!
You said nothing about the version and name of VM you are using.
Prolog is older than Perl. Perl usurped the .pl extension. Some are trying to claim it back.
Because they are different things.
> Wow, beautiful writing. You know how to use words well.

Thank you for the compliment, I am trying to improve my English continuously.

> As with anything in live communication, relationship, friendship needs to be a two ways street otherwise it won’t be of true value for either side or won’t work in the long run.

I think so too, although true value can take odd or unexpected shapes at times. Being open towards your own expectations is important.
OCaml - INRIA and Jane Street, Facebook, Microsoft research

Lisp - IBM, Xerox, MIT, Apple

Python - CWI, NIST, CNRI, afterwards Guido joined Google in 2000
No I don’t and what does todays announcement have to do with FTX? Aside from showing that the US government is proactive at investigating irrelevant exchanges while failing to protect anybody from mismanaged and systemically important exchanges.
My comment was in response to "Google just doesn't do this with OSS projects."

Also the source code link I provided was to vanilla Android, not to a commercial version running on someone's phone.
I am sure any long term relationship (long) requires the ability to make space for counseling each other.
Passkeys aren't limited to cloud-synced service. Something like an existing Yubikey is also considered to be capable of creating single-device passkeys (e.g. ones which are tied to physical hardware and do not have recovery capabilities).

The expectation is that websites will allow you to register multiple passkeys, and that these may correspond to different devices. For instance, I may have both my iPad, android phone and windows desktop registered as three separate passkeys on an account.

There is a cross device flow that works across ecosystems, based on QR codes and wireless proximity. So the expectation is that websites could (if they desire) see that you authenticated using your phone onto your Windows Hello capable desktop, and ask if you want to register a new passkey from your Windows desktop to make things more convenient in the future.

Before platforms added backup to cloud sync fabric, you would lose your credentials when you lost your security keyfob or upgraded your phone. It was a user's responsibility to register additional credentials, such as remembering to go back after-the-fact to use a security key they kept at home in their firesafe to register their 'backup' credential.

This strong hardware binding made it more useful for secure environments (which typically have MFA requirements and staff dedicated to account recovery) and a lot less useful for consumer environments (which want to prevent breaches but not at the expense of additional user friction or support costs)

Web Authentication is effectively saying to let the user utilize whatever they want to authenticate, and let a relying website determine how to react to the capabilities or limitations of that choice. What is considered a capability or liability will depend on the particular deployment business requirements, and that will determine how they adapt. For example, an enterprise might decide to just reject everything except the exact security key they issued to an employee or contractor. For most other verticals, that is not a viable strategy.