I'll try to answer this as clearly and honestly as I can, based off of what I witnessed. I hope it doesn't come off as "snippy" or whatever. I know it's a topic that a lot of people get very passionate about. I don't really have any sort of passion either way, I just know what I've seen.

>You lost me at "stealing from the country they broke into illegally."

Sorry about that, I'll clarify: Illegals do not pay state or federal taxes in exchange for the services they benefit from. The validity of taxes themselves is an issue itself that can be debated, but the refusal to pay taxes at all is a form of theft. There's a general attitude of something roughly like, "The more money I save now, the quicker I can get back home." This means not paying for things, stealing food, etc. You learn to lock your car up and not leave your cellphone laying around real quick.

> I see people working hard to try to improve their and their families' lives.

Irrelevant.

Again, sorry if this sounds snippy, but it's true. We could presume that about literally anyone. It does not justify a cop taking a bribe, or a CEO lying to customers to get ahead. There is no justification for breaking into a country illegally. A good deed after committing a crime makes a criminal both naive and poorer for the effort.

More to the point, in the situation that I was speaking of their actions, in my understanding, nothing to do with "their families' lives". The purpose was to save money, in order to build houses so that they themselves would not need to work for a number of years. The men that I worked with were not married, did not have children, and never mentioned their extended families over the course of the years that I worked with them. You can assume that they may have been sending money to relatives, but there is nothing to support that assertion. Honestly, I strongly doubt that assumption in the way that it's written, based on the behavior that I witnessed on a routine basis.

Consider this, in the image of illegals that you have in your mind: do you see them beating homosexuals in the back because they felt like it? Do you see them driving to work drunk? These are the sorts of things I saw regularly. I did not see anything approaching some valiant hero, "just tryin' to provide for the lil' ones back home". I saw drunk, paranoid, irrationally violent men who were going to do whatever they wanted to while they could get away with it. I had little reason to believe that the men I worked with weren't complete sociopaths, let alone believe that they had any sort of duty to provide for some distant relative.

Are there some that do send money back? Maybe the stupid ones. But if they do, they're going to be "stuck" in America longer than they would otherwise. The illegals that I worked with had zero intention of staying in America for any extended length of time. It was just a way to make money and get out. The "I'm gonna get mine, hope you get yours" type mindset.

>Surely the employer is deducting for income tax, SS tax, and medicare tax from their paychecks, and they will not see an income tax "refund" next April nor will they ever collect SS nor Medicare benefits.

I wasn't privy to reading the details of each of their paychecks, but I would assume that they were paying income tax, SS tax, and medicare. If you're attempting to assert that by paying into those things that they were automatically paying for, that it somehow justified or lessened their crimes, you are mistaken. I pay into medicare. I pay into SSN. I have no expectation of ever receiving access to either service being available by the time I would be eligible to use them. I do not, however, then assume that I am somehow being "stolen" from, or "donating" that money. I pay it because I have no choice in the matter. I have already come to terms with that. I have accepted that neither service could possibly be sustainable for the next several decades. That fact however, does not mean that I have some right or choice to not pay into it.

>And if the employer is not making these deductions then who is doing the "stealing" exactly?

Given the points covered above, again, it is the illegals that are stealing. The company, without question, absolutely knew what was going on. They were complicit, a form of accomplice, sure. But the active process of stealing? That was on the part of the illegals - the company simply capitalized on the "great opportunity" and stood to benefit by working with thieves; birds of a feather and all of that.

Again, I don't really have any hatred for these people. They do it because they can get away with it, and there is very little incentive to stop them from doing it. I simply don't feel much in the way of sympathy when the people taking advantage of the country, are in turn, being taken advantage of by scummy corporations that exist within that country. When criminals work with criminals, should it come as a surprise when one rips off another? No one is going to call the cops over receiving a bad batch of heroin, it's simply the cost of doing business with that sort of person.