Yes! Great OK a microservices debate. Let's do this.

My overarching argument is this: I would characterize microservices as a response to organizational and cultural challenges. However, separating a software project into multiple repositories with their own dependencies, deployments, tests, and philosophies adds needless overhead and complexity to systems. Further, because code can no longer be shared across these component parts of the system, requirements, code, deployments, documentation, etc. must be duplicated. But this duplication is done--if it is done at all--imperfectly, because it is laborious and tedious. Finally, microservices tend to drift. Some are written in Node, others are written Python or Go, etc. Someone wants to try functional programming, someone wants to try Hexagonal. This leads to brittle, badly documented systems that by definition no one completely understands and that require a mountain of ancillary software to manage and operate.

> That makes it very easy to roll out changes to any given service without breaking others

Functionally, there's no difference between this and copying a function to modify for the new functionality. You're saying "I need to modify [functionality X] in order to deliver [feature Y], but other systems rely on [functionality X], so I have to carefully modify [functionality X] to avoid breaking [feature A-X]".

A solution to this is to just make [functionality X_new] and use some if statements. It's not elegant, but neither is forking a new repo to avoid refactoring. I'd characterize that as extreme technical debt, and would recommend refactoring instead. I understand that in lots of shops, forking a new repo is actually easier--you can break free of sclerotic design processes or overbearing colleagues/managers/architects. But the systems that allowed those problems into that project will soon force them into your new project. Microservices are a short-term solution to a long-term organizational or cultural problem.

> helps a lot with the backwards compatibility of services

There's two ways to do this. You can set up integration tests that prevent you from deploying if you've broken compatibility. Or you can fork a new repo whenever you need to make a (potentially breaking--which is all of them) change. I would recommend integration tests. You're gonna need them eventually.

> Shared code is always an internal dependency. You think 'We are sharing code and this is efficient'. But you end up having to take into account many different parts of the application when rolling out one change for you can easily break something totally out of sight while trying to change another.

This more or less applies to any part of any software system unless you're very careful about shared state and side effects. The alternative here is unit testing, which, similar to integration testing, I recommend because you'll also need that eventually too.

> But the more I develop and maintain larger systems, the better I see the value of separating codebases, even if this includes code duplication.

I'm not at all a hardcore "don't repeat yourself" person (more "rule of three") but to the extent I am, I tend to think code duplication indicates you need to reconceive the mental model of your application, not merely create a helper method or whatever.

My point here is that for me, code duplication isn't really the worst part of microservices. The thing I find most objectionable is that they lead to weird, rickety systems that are hard to develop and maintain. You haven't lived until your tickets for a sprint involve fixing multiple bugs in code copy-pasted across half a dozen microservices, or you have to deploy your changes to this microservice you've never worked on before and it involves the most bonkers incantations you've ever read about (update this Jenkins script blah blah).

I think people have this idea that microservices reduce scope, interdependence, and complexity. Maybe sometimes that's true. But for the engineers who have to work across multiple microservices, you really get all of the bad and none of the good. You're still dealing with a big software project, but now it's sprawled across multiple repositories all with their own idioms, idiosyncrasies, languages, copy-pasted code, deployment setups, etc. etc. ad nauseum.

You might argue I've only seen bad implementations of microservices. Sure, that's possible. I'm not saying they can't work. I'm saying the forces that lead teams to adopt microservices inevitably corrupt all projects no matter their architecture, and that microservices incentivize a particular type of shorttermism and myopia that makes some of the scenarios I've described the path of least resistance. I think there are far fewer pitfalls with "1 repo per project" (not "1 repo per company") and that we have great tools and techniques to help teams using this structure.