> No, "lawful" and "authoritarian" are not synonyms.

I didn't say they were. But laws that the majority of the public agree with / would enforce themselves if given the chance, don't really need to be laws; in such cases, bottom-up action (not in a lynch-mob sense, but in a "petition that literally everyone signs, so people just agree amongst themselves to make it happen" sense) will correspond 1:1 with what any government optimizing for "the public good" would institute top-down as law. You can ignore the existence of bottom-up-supported top-down laws when speaking about the interface between "law" and decentralized technology, because regardless of whether the law can influence the decentralized system, the cultural zeitgeist of societal pressure that underlies the law, still can.

As such, it's only laws that the majority don't agree with — i.e. top-down dictated laws in authoritarian societies, un-audited regulations from corrupt bureaucracies, etc — where things behave differently in a decentralized system than they would under rule of law.

(Good secondary example of this: BitTorrent trackers. The majority of people seemingly don't agree with the sort of corporate IP "use rights" that underlie the illegality of media piracy; so most/all BitTorrent trackers do nothing to prevent the sharing of copyrighted materials. But the majority of people do generally agree that CSAM is unethical to distribute; and so public BitTorrent tracker operators do bother to prevent their nodes from enabling the sharing of such files.)

Also, I think you're potentially forgetting that there are multiple "rules of law" to talk about here. A decentralized system is inherently a single system shared across participants who exist under multiple countries — i.e., a multilateral system. If you want "rule of law" to pertain to such a system's logic, then whose rule of law would that be? Do you want China, Russia, and Saudi Arabia to all have a say in what transactions you're allowed to do?

(To be very pedantic, a world government could easily dictate what happens on a blockchain, because they would have authority over every single node operator. So one could technically say that blockchains aren't abandoning the rule of law per se... but rather are just holding "the rule of law" to a very high standard — ignoring any law that everyone on earth can't all agree on.)

> No, letting people "vote" with their money is not democracy.

Nobody said anything about voting, or money. Blockchains exist on a lower level than the abstractions they enact. Fundamentally, changes are made to how a blockchain works not because people vote, or stake, or whatever else; but rather because blockchain-node-software operators voluntarily opt in to upgrading their nodes to versions/variants that have a given feature, and then to enabling a proposed hard-fork upgrade point that makes that feature happen.

These blockchain node operators are peers in a network, and the "democracy" they participate in is one of voluntarism — i.e. choosing to run a piece of node software that encodes particular rules, or not; choosing to validate/mine for a particular network, or not. Networks that people don't care for, die, because people voluntarily stop running the nodes. Network changes (which really means "node software changes") that people don't like, don't get adopted by node operators, because doing so is always an explicitly opt-in process.

This isn't representative democracy. This is direct democracy. Each software change is a default-deny referendum, "proposed" by coding it into a piece of node-software, which operators "sign" by upgrading+configuring their node software. The network only changes if enough people actually do upgrade+configure their node software, for the fork block that was created using the novel code to reach fixation in the network over the fork block that would be created by anyone in the network still running the old code.