> A lot of these grips are on you, not women or society.

Most of the things I've pointed out were either not about women or were from external actors or external factors.

> How has onlyfans ruined dating?

Most men wouldn't have intimate relationships with prostitutes (which is what it is)

> Who said lifting weights is dangerous? It's very healthy even in old age!

It was often cited as the reason not to have a gym at my school and other neighboring schools. They're afraid of lawsuits and complains from parents.

> There is a HUGE amount of things to do besides eating and playing video games. Perhaps you lack the motivation or imagination to do literally anything else.

Most children are not allowed to go outside alone. Playing with siblings (which less and less people have) can grow old very quickly, literally.

> No school has children sit for 8 hours at a time and any gender at almost any age would have a hard time having the patience to do that. Also implying that men can't go a whole 8 hours being nice?

Boys need more physical activity to concentrate. This will well known to anyone paying attention around kids. https://ideas.time.com/2013/10/28/what-schools-can-do-to-hel...

And yes, most of the time is spent sitting down, with less than 3 hours a week of physical activity per week.

Boys mature slowly compared to girls, including on the emotional side of things and unmet needs will fuel aggressive and disruptive behaviors more than girls, especially if they have too much unspent energy.

> I'm not sure what you think is fun, but yeah if it's actually legitimately dangerous for others you shouldn't be doing it unless in an environment where everyone consents to it.

Is going alone in the city / street too dangerous? Is running in the woods too dangerous? People have called CPS over this.

> In what situation - besides war - is violence good? + Insults, what function do those have and how will that help you live up this idea you have in your head of your role in society or get the partner you want?

Insults are part of life. Getting pushed around physically when very young is part of growing up (even if the authorities that be try to control it) and necessary to development. And you can't protect and be assertive without being dangerous because violence is always in the background of any kind of social interactions that is not with trusted people. There needs to be limits of course, but the "zero tolerance" we are seeing in schools (and which began to hold place when I was young) lead to zealous overreactions and causes more harm than good.

> Perhaps it's the other ways around and it's your perception that's wrong and in fact most women aren't attracted to those behaviors.

Bad boys are popular with women, they admit it themselves. No matter how much you try deconstruct it.

> Yes it's wrong that men aren't believed and don't report abuse. It's also the exact same for women and other genders.

Except it not the "exact same", it's worse.

> But, there's a person for everyone, no matter how different or however they view gender roles.

That's just magical thinking.

> I for one am happy that people do not have to make those trade offs and get stuck with 'traditional marriage' as defined by the viewpoints above.

I have nothing against people who chose to opt out of tradition. Freedom is important. But for the majority of people this is what they seek for their life and what is more favorable for raising children. That doesn't mean non-traditional families or single parents can't succeed, just that it's harder and harder to find people who will have different way to achieve their life goals.