> Sure, and I know some people for whom it was also "here" and now it's "there" because they can't live any more in their hometown because of war.

I also hope that Russia withdraws their military and financial support for terrorists who prevent your friend from going home. However, it seems Russia wants further confrontation and is now amassing significant military presence in that region, so we won't have much choice in that matter.

> For you guys "here" in Kiev Donbas is also "there".

Not really. For most of the people in other parts of Ukraine who are under constant risk of being conscripted the Donbas is very much "here".

> And that's why Ukraine will never be a prosperous country, as long as you consider a "fucking war" a better alternative to anything.

Commendable sentiment. I would also prefer a peaceful world for all of us.

> The majority has been brainwashed by "western" propaganda to hate everything Russian

I'm a Russian speaker with some Russian ancestry. Please tell me more how I "hate everything Russian".

> to the point it would rather have "fucking war" against their ex citizen in Donbas and Crimea instead of letting them choose where and how they want to live.

There is no Iron Curtain anymore. People who want to live in any other country (including Russia) are obviously free to do so.

> Those guys in Donbas and Crimea also had elections and referendums, not worse than those in Ukraine

They are not recognized intentionally and and were conducted by occupying military personnel. Overall, we both know that "our town votes to join another country" is not how it works anywhere. Just ask Chechen people how it went for them, if you would like to know how Russia deals with such issues.

> they decided they don't want to live with someone who is denying them basic human rights based on the wrong ethnicity

This is just old Russian propaganda trope "Bloodthirsty Ukrainian Nazis want to genocide Russian-speaking people". Overall, I never felt that my rights were denied to me due to language of choice or my obviously Russian surname.

> Would you rather kill them all than let them go?

Have you stopped beating your wife?

> And since you want to kill all the ethnic Russians why are you surprised that Russia won't let you do it?

So you started your message with incredibly pacifist statement "will never be a prosperous country, as long as you consider a "fucking war" a better alternative to anything" and end it with approving of Russian aggression under flimsy pretext that they are preventing some imagined genocide of ethnic Russians? I sense double standards here.

> NATO is happy to have war against Russia or Russian allies to the last Ukrainian solder and civilian.

This is factually incorrect. Obama repeatedly denied lethal weapon sales to Ukraine during active phase of the conflict [1]. The main objective for European politicians also seems to be some fake outrage about Russia's actions to put a show for their electorate while continuing business as usual behind closed doors [2]. If anything, "NATO" would happily give whole Ukrainian territory to Russia in order to end costly sanctions, if they could somehow manage to do so without war, refugees and overall humanitarian disaster (with obvious exception of Poland and Baltic states who are fully aware that they could be next).

[1] https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-31013452
[2] https://www.politico.eu/article/angela-merkel-joe-biden-nord...