> Relationships as properties for example, I just don’t know how you’d solve attribute access in an idiomatic way (sure it could return a future, so maybe the idea is that you’d get a future subclass that still supports operations)?

I think the answer would be that you just ditch "lazy loading" altogether, in the spirit of asyncio's theme that "implicit IO is bad", you'd have to have explicit conversations with the DB. Loading attributes from relationships is one thing, but there's also the notion that other kinds of attributes can refresh themselves if they happen to have been expired, which is something the ORM does when a server-side rule or a transaction boundary that might mean the attribute changes on the database side. It's a very elegant and simple solution to the problem but if you have decided that implicit IO is bad, it means you don't really want that anymore. You'd just start treating an ORM mapped object more like an active row and you'd have yields on most operations, and you'd also want to add more coarse-grained boundaries to when state is expired and re-loaded (e.g., instead of expiring particular attributes as needed to be reloaded when accessed, there would need to be a more formal "refresh the object" kind of step).

That's one way to do it. Another way would be if an implicit non-blocking approach such as gevent could be cleanly integrated with asyncio - then object heavy database interactions could simply be inside of a block written in "blocking IO" style, and that entire block is entered as a yield. There is no technical reason this can't be done. The reason is cultural; people who like asyncio really hate implicit IO. So trying to make that work seems like it wouldn't be very worth it either.

> Anyway, the problem is that it’s really difficult to mix sync/async code.

I think this is because people just aren't working on the problem. You read asyncio tutorials and they say things like, "if you really MUST use evil threads...here's this crappy executor thing we think you should never use", I'm exaggerating a bit but that's kind of the vibe they send off. Making the asyncio / thread transition could be done very nicely, and there can also be integrations between gevent style and asyncio style, and finally there are many other ways to use non-blocking IO without using a full event style programming interface. The asyncio crowd isn't there yet. They are still having the endorphin high of asyncio "clicking" for them and they are rigidly dogmatic and pretty short on real benchmarks that show actual gains. I have nothing against using non-blocking IO but the next time I have to use it, I'm going to purposely build a non-blocking IO library that seamelessly makes use of threads and queues and shows how easy it is if you really need to reach out to a dozen slow web services at once to get the non-blocking IO advantages without turning your entire codebase and dependencies inside out.

> Anyway, my approach has instead been to use SA Core (with aiopg)

right, so another thing to keep in mind, Postgresql is the only database that has a native non-blocking protocol. So building an async ORM is immediately limited by that - for every other database there would still be a threadpool running the socket conversation, and having every database message be a separate threaded unit is less efficient than just having the entire transactional conversation in one threaded unit (hundreds or thousands of shifts in and out of the thread pool vs. just one). There's really many reasons to not write an asyncio ORM right now.