skysight-inc/HackerNews huggingface dataset:
I studied PUA for a decade, coached it (and even saved the marriage of one of the all time most famous "gurus"). I was a master of shutting down my emotions, acting like a guy with avoidant attachment in order to trigger a womans anxious attachment.

I slept with tons of women and also couldn't sustain a "relationship" once any sort of actual intimacy was demanded of me.

Finally, after being at the brink of suicide, I realized that my emotions were deeply valuable things and that I needed to develop a relationship with them -- all of them, and stop trying to run from sadness or rage or jealousy or rejection.

Once that internal process reached a critical mass, I then began the work of retraining my nervous system to be oriented towards people who were more secure and able to be with others honest expression of emotion. This meant telling the truth and often feeling like shit when people did, in fact, reject me.

I regained my ability to feel, however, along with my ability to be with others feelings.

Now, I'm engaged to an incredible woman and have a coaching practice full of all sorts of folks seeking guidance on how to have real relationships. Some of my clients read HN, others run the companies you work for, star in the movies you stream or build the products you use.

It's hard work, but highly recommended and required if we are going to emerge into a new paradigm of human relating.

Gratuitous engagement video shot with drones on a remote tropical island that we are planning to turn into a village for visionaries like all of you here ;) >>

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gEiW-Jee2eI
Have you looked at using a s3-compatible proxy like minio? They support b2, but I haven't tested it myself.
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But that's before you take your SATs, not afterwards.
I disagree. The media spotlight around the Stoneman Douglas high school students should be all you need to know. The fact that they have been elevated to a place they don't really belong (in the national spotlight) is to simply push a narrative. This is child abuse, and wrong.

They want to push legislation to restrict the right to own firearms, when it really hasn't been considered that guns themselves might not be the problem.

What makes a "mass shooter"? The gun just makes them a shooter. To fire indiscriminately clearly shows mental issues.
FYI: Sails plugins are called hooks, and there are about 7 community hooks at this time

https://sailsjs.com/documentation/concepts/extending-sails/h...
Statistically, you are more likely to die from a mass murderer in Western Europe than in the USA. In both places the chances are vanishingly small and people can still live without fear.

What does "allowing to happen" mean? Why are the US & EU complicit in the cases of mass killers? Criminal justice is post-facto, and unfortunately any sort of preventative measures (profiling, banning, surveilling) infringe on human rights.
What happened today at YouTube? The shooting?
This isn't a civil or substantive comment by the standards of this site.

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
This would be pretty useful for eskates too !

Skating would be pretty easy if the streets were not in an awful state.
On my board, I'd have to install some Windows application to do so. No thanks, I'll just close them up inside my windowless case.
That it's not "sinister" (as you said) to want gun control when the gun homicide rate is 30x that of the U.K. Why are you trying to equate knives with guns all of a sudden?
Couldn’t be worse than the police
I previously used (and really enjoyed) Rdio, which launched before Spotify came to United States (2010 vs 2011). But Spotify was around before that in Europe.
The key questions would seem to be how long use of a legacy interface was maintained and supported. Having more than one ui is a cost burden, but that aside doesn't have to be a problem
>Banning firearms in general won't work in America.

This is the go to reason that people give, but it just means they haven't tried. No one said it would be cheap or easy but it could be done.

As for gun smuggling, the USA used to be the source of 80% of guns used in crimes in Canada and in Mexico it is 70%.

https://www.quora.com/How-are-guns-smuggled-into-the-United-...

https://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2016/01/12/462781469...

https://www.vox.com/2016/1/14/10771628/gun-violence-america-...

So actually a gun ban in the USA would help both Canada and Mexico with their gun problems. In Mexico many of these guns end up in the hands of the cartels who are much more willing to use them than your usual criminals, and whilst they would still probably be able to obtain weapons they would not be able to do so in the same sort of volume and they would also have trouble locating ammunition.
What a damning indictment of our culture that this is a feature.
Professor Kagan's class on Death from Yale is absolutely fantastic and should be general class taught imho.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p2J7wSuFRl8
> Now we simply have bash scripts

Hm - I don't know about that. The biggest issue I found with Gradle was that it offered unlimited flexibility, and inevitably, somebody would mickey mouse sorcerer's apprentice the thing and stick something into the build script that didn't belong there. Although with enough effort you can do that in Maven, too, by the time you get to the point where you understand how to do that, you know better. I can't even imagine what sort of nightmares somebody with the even-more unlimited flexibility of a bash script could conjure up.
> A streaming service that has no Beatles, Pink Floyd, No Motown, No AC/DC etc is going to shed users pretty quickly.

I disagree. I think for most people music is fungible; they just want something to listen to. I think Spotify can afford to have gaps in it's library. Sure, if a large enough portion of the music industry cut them off it would be an issue, but I don't think they're in imminent danger of that.
Prosody is very simple to set up, ejabberd can scale to infinity.
Indeed. What on Earth is “bzzrt pop ffssssssst”? Am I missing something? Google does not help at all.
This may be naive but doesn't GNU Make tick all these boxes in addition to being ubiquitous?
I used to quite like my commute for a couple of hours a day - I used to have breakfast, read, work, or even just snooze. It became good quality time actually.

And who said anything about a long commute? You can live in the suburbs and be just 15 minutes from the city.
Just to put this into perspective, I don't remember the last big mass shooting in Australia. It was just that long ago. I guess this allows us to focus on reducing other forms of violence, like the "one punch can kill" campaign.

We will eventually have another big mass shooting, but if we have only one every 30 years then I'd say we've done the right thing with guns.

I'm not trying to tell your country what to do. Just adding my perspective.
> I tend to think that mass shootings would turn out better if everyone was armed. It is so much harder to kill a lot of people if someone is shooting back at you.

I don't think you've thought this through. You hear one, then two gun shots coming from two different people in a plaza with a bunch of people. Who's the real attacker?

Say you actually witnessed it, what about the 50 other people around you who now see you brandishing and firing a gun? Are you now the threat?

If everyone is shooting back at everyone else, the death toll will be WAY higher than just ducking and hiding with only one shooter. The real threat is clear in this scenario. The police know who to take down.
apologies. I don't watch the news and had no context.
"conveniently"

Staged shootings. Google runs our country's politics now.
By secretbox, I assume you mean NaCl's secretbox. Cool, thanks for the tips, and helping make the web a more cryptographically secure place.
You're describing Simpson's Paradox.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Simpson%27s_paradox?wprov=sf...
Teen Sings the Weeknd's New Song: “Call Out My Name” Better Than the Original
I agree. The documentation feels lacking as well, though maybe it's gotten better for 1.0. There's no equivalent to the Rails Guide which was something I've taken for granted. One of the sails devs came out with a detailed book but it uses Angular 1.x as part of the examples.

That said, this is probably still the best nodejs framework. It's one of the few that support relational databases.
Who want to write the new Erlang on that VM? :-D
Isn't it automatically a calorie-restricted diet if you are eating fewer calories than you normally would?

FWIW I also have cut out grains but my weight is very stable, so it seems fair to assume I now just eat more of other things.
TurboBoost on laptops has always been poop. Take the 3720qm and 3940xm - yeah the latter has a higher TB, but under high load it runs very close to base clock, while the 3720qm runs a bit higher than base... resulting in a minimal difference :/

That's disregarding TDP/TPL adjustments/overclocking, of course (which is disabled by BIOS on workstations anyway).
Cool. I used to play "3 Kingdoms" MUD back in the day (early 90's) - became a medium ranked necromancer on there, but remember the lag was quite horrendous at times (dial up). I hear that 3K is still around in some form or another these days?
> I tend to think that mass shootings would turn out better if everyone was armed. It is so much harder to kill a lot of people if someone is shooting back at you.

It's probably much easier, if you count the deaths you cause and not just those from bullets you fire. When there is one person shooting, there are myriad reports from eyewitnesses with different numbers and descriptions of the shooters. When you've got multiple people shooting you are going to have multiple people perceiving who started the shooting differently.
To the best of my knowledge in Germany it's mostly long guns for hunting, not handguns. To carry a handgun you'd need a permit and demonstrate your need to be armed.
This comment breaks the site guidelines noticeably worse than others in the thread. Please don't post ideological rants here and please edit out the name-calling.

You've done this a ton and we've given you a ton of warnings. Eventually this leads to getting banned, so would you please (re-)read https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and use this site as intended from now on?
Honestly, it's times like this that make me incredibly fucking sad for the future of humanity. It's bad enough that there are people dealing with a tragic and imminent situation, but to then immediately make this about yourself is absolutely loathsome.

Also, the comments on the live YouTube broadcast of 'they deserved it' or 'serves them right' or 'what now, NRA' are fucking repulsive. Seriously, I don't know how to fix this problem, but it makes me so incredibly angry to realize just how few people can empathize with the plight of others.
Guns are more often used as deterrents than to kill. Unfortunately, the cases of deterrence aren't newsworthy.
I could be wrong but since it's based on express, there's probably more plugins that are compatible; just not sailsjs specific.
I recommend getting an actual fire extinguisher, it's more likely to safe your and your teammates lives.
I think Apple is so many years behind Google in AI that they have little hope of catching up. Their bet will be that consumers are privacy-focused enough to not mind the fact that their products have less AI-focused advancements (e.g. Google Photos).

At the end of the day, the only way AI systems currently train themselves is if a lot of users share their data, like Google-users do. Apple provides more of a firewall, but handicaps potential AI systems from using training data in doing so.

Also Google has massive mindshare in the AI community with TensorFlow.
So much for "hacker" news.
Wondering if the dot is placed as the center of gravity of the building , or it is the actual room when you zoom in.

Also I wonder why some of the rooms are given names on the map such as "space invader" and "residence evil" but not the other ones.
When it's the introduction to a news package, fair enough.

When it's a politically charged attack on competitors, it crosses a pretty uncomfortable line.
List got out of date- check out: https://www.npmjs.com/search?q=sails%20hook
For those confused about the terminology in the title...

> The devices, which are also known as stingrays or IMSI catchers, are commonly used by domestic law enforcement nationwide to locate a particular phone. Sometimes, they can also be used to intercept text messages and phone calls. Stingrays act as a fake cell tower and effectively trick a cell phone into transmitting to it, which gives up the phone’s location.
The case I remember was a couple of years ago. We had a test runner for our JS code that was delivered by our Java webapp. Part of that configuration was the list of flags to a maven plugin. The issue was that we had two orthogonal configuration options that affected the list of flags. Initially, it used HTMLUnit and didn't record coverage statistics. We wanted to record coverage, and also switch to PhantomJS (when it was new) over HTMLUnit. Our test times were as follows:

PhantomJS - 1 min

PhantomJS + Coverage - 5 min

HTMLUnit - 10 min

HTMLUnit + Coverage - 25min

Coverage required one set of additional flags, PhantomJS required another. But we could only replace the test runner string, not add to it. We couldn't drop HTMLUnit altogether, as our company mandated CI system would not make it easy to install PhantomJS. And tests were still new to many team members so if we defaulted coverage on, nobody would run it with those times. So ideally we'd have mvn test -Pphantomjs -Pcoverage if we wanted phantom with coverage. But actually we had to do mvn test -P{phantomCoverage,htmlUnitCoverage,phantomNoCoverage,htmlUJnitNoCoverage} which meant copy pasting a substantial chunk of our pom file 4 times to change two lines of it, rather than a base case with two overrides.
Try https://forsta.io
The only thing that stopped me from trying this out more in the past was it not being at 1.0 yet. So definitely looking forward to giving it a go at some point
It's time to rebuild the web
Not ubiquitous and missing shortcuts. How do you compile 5 JVM projects in different JVM languages, sharing different configured sets of potentially hundreds of libraries across the classpath and make sure there are no versioning conflicts? Shortcuts are required, they just don't need to hide everything.
Another illustration of how the security gaps that enable domestic law enforcement to catch bad guys also enable foreign governments to spy on us. You either have a secure mobile phone system, or you don't.
The Missing Building Blocks of the Web
Are there any real attacks on consumer/prosumer machines using Spectre/Meltdown already?
Why I want to stop talking about the “developing” world
If you're claiming guns are substituted 1:1 by other weapons when not available: you're wrong.

Guns make killing far easier than weapons like knives.
We have individual murders, but our last big mass shooting was in the 90s. USA has one every day. Your comment seems to deliberately misinterpret the situation.
As someone whose current lease on the L doesn't end until this October/November, this scares me.

I've been wondering how many 100's of dollars average rent for a bedroom will rise (100, 200, 300?) in the other BK neighborhoods that young, childless, salaried people tend to live. I've found that one of the biggest benefits of NYC is the salary to rent ratio (compared to other major American cities) if you're OK with roommates and a 30-45 minute commute on the subway. I wonder how much the L shutdown changes the math.
The where's Waldo April fool's joke makes it a little surreal: https://imgur.com/a/DoQEl

(Pardon the phone screenshot)
Funnily, 10 times harder is exactly my experience with most maven plugins. Maven is fine if you stick to compile, test, and jar. Anything beyond that just tends to escalate into madness.
The rental car insurance benefit already covered $2600 worth of damage when a rental car I had got banged up a bit.

I also get a $300 travel credit a year.
Monex in Billion Dollar Deal to Buy Coincheck Exchange
Not really - or, at least, not that simply. When my last organization moved to Gradle, and we had a Gradle ninja go in and migrate all of our build scripts to hundreds of lines of Gradle scripts, I thought the same thing. So I spent a month on-and-off studying and learning base Groovy (fending off coworkers who would pass by my desk and ask, "what are you doing?" "Learning Groovy" "Why are you learning groovy?" "So I can use Gradle" "Why do you have to learn Groovy to use Gradle, Gradle Ninja already did it for you"). I finally got to where I was, if not an expert, at least comfortable with core Groovy. But even then, there was a lot more to Gradle than just "a build script written in Groovy" - there's another learning curve to climb once you've learned Groovy.
We Let Our Readers Practice International Trade. They Started Trade Wars
We are all taking ubers/lyfts back home from a different Google building in the area per police/company protocol.

Source: I'm a YT employee working out of 901 Cherry Ave.
Why has Apple not started their own label? They have enough cash to buyout almost any artist.
I've been playing MUME http://mume.org off and on since 1992.

Playing this game feels like playing inside of Tolkien's books. Amazing detail, and they are still expanding.
IRA = Internet Research Agency for those confused by the title, i.e. the russian "troll" company.
(1) You could have said the same thing about cell phones, cars or any other technology which started out expensive before it scaled to the point where most people could afford it.

(2) If you fear death to much, you might not fight to the death in a war. Not everything in our culture makes sense in the modern world.

(3) https://nickbostrom.com/fable/dragon.html
Safety is ensured by ATC controlers. ETFMS is there to ensure that traffic does not increase beyond controlers capacity. I have read that without ETFMS, the traffic is reduced by 10%. I have been involved in ATC simulations where controlers had to land about 40 flights per hour using new procedures and tools. We have tried with 38 flights per hour, it was too easy for the controlers: their work was perfect even without tools. With 42 flights, controlers were getting angry because the traffic could not be managed. At 40, we could see the benefits of out new procedures and tools (more regular separation of flights). IMHO 10% less traffic gives far enough capacity margin to ensure safety.
From your link:

"There doesn't seem to be an official definition for a "mass shooting" in the United States, but according to the Gun Violence Archive, a mass shooting is described as four or more individuals being shot or killed in the same general time and location."

So, that doesn't specifically say that the shootings are by the same person or even related. It would include any given day in Chicago, which had on average 7 shootings per day in 2017[1]. Yet nobody was really holding rallies or protests about that, because it's mostly inner city gang-related shootings, and Chicago is already heavily gun-controlled which doesn't support the narrative that we need more laws regarding guns in order to protect the children.

[1] https://www.cbsnews.com/news/chicago-sees-drop-in-homicides-...
Let's say talking directly to the internet.
As mentioned elsewhere, "Peter-pays-Paul" is huge in Scandinavia.

MobilePay, a person-to-person payment app in Denmark, is a huge deal here. It had 3 million users in 2016 (out of 7 million people!), and its second-priority shop payment feature (that arrived much later) is challenging credit cards. It's used for everything from selling used goods to splitting bills.

Swish, the Swedish equivalent, has 4 million users.

Vipp, the Norwegian equivalent, has 2.7 million users.

Peter-pays-Paul has huge demand here. Bitcoin is just a terrible solution to that problem.

(uggedal provided the Swedish and Norwegian numbers).
What percentage of gun murders are committed by people with TBI, domestic assault, or state-known drug or alcohol problems?
I think the most common mistake I've seen is that people forget to use constant-time comparison function to verify MAC. AE/AEAD interfaces just have an open() function which returns NULL instead of the decrypted message if MACs don't match.

Also, AES-CTR has only space for 128-bit "IV" (counter that is encrypted), which is sometimes split into 96-bit nonce and 32-bit block counter, sometimes into 64-bit nonce and 64-bit block counter, sometimes IV is used directly and then incremented for each block. 96-bit is on the edge of collisions for randomly generated numbers, 64-bit random nonce is not safe, with 128-bit you're also limited with how much data you can encrypt without collisions... meh. XSalsaPoly accepts 24-byte nonce (can be random) and is good for 2^72 - 32 bytes (practically unlimited).

You also mention having separate keys for HMAC and AES, which is good, but you have to care about it (theoretically). With AE/AEAD you don't have to care about it.

That is, it seems like you can implement the system you described properly, but many people can't.
It's a joke. The joke is that RSA seems familiar, comfortable. Except actually there's a bunch of super subtle ways to mess it up, like padding, or primegen bugs. The bzzrt pop is just a reference to all of the exceptions and caveats, which all sound like arcane incantations instead of straightforward recommendations and are therefore no longer in this document.
The same is true for almost every subject intended to generate massive response, and less is more for news crews - less actual details allows them to push required/desired narrative to the listening crowd. Sometimes it's borderline disgusting (
blows my mind that people overseas still use cash. Literally the only reason I ever get cash out is to buy weed
First, its something you don't need at the start (and frankly they didn't need for at least a decade), and it not only complicates the code, it also complicates the maintenance and support burden. Interop is probably going to be some other mechanism and should be done only when you need it and have a clear understanding of what actually needs to be done.
There is also another german word in the realm of centralization - Gleichschaltung. It is nowadays exclusively used to describe the centralization of government functions and bodies during the beginning of the 3rd Reich.
Big central government offices, their tracking capabilities and emerging network effects were one of the required precursors for what came later.

It is why many parts of the modern/post-war German bureaucracy were intentionally set up inefficient and why we still dislike any "central databases" for anything, from law enforcement to tax collection. Slow, decoupled government systems slow down unwanted usage patterns much more than valid ones, are generally harder to game (try explaining your urgent need for some data to a rural bavarian city hall employee) and easier to monitor/verify for citizens.
Excellent work and a great example of how sometimes the best presentation of archival assets is remediation.
IPSec has a boatload of possible configurations, many of which are not secure. It's kind of a tire fire.
I hate that we've managed to fragment the tech markets again. Various websites I visit have exclusively Spotify or Apple Music playlists embeded, nothing modal that can be imported anywhere else.

Those websites will be looked at one day the same way we see Java and Real Player plugins today.
Oracle vs. Google: Android P Is for Poisoned Platform
The Origins of “Militia” in the Second Amendment
Nothing to do with ability.

Burnout, management, contentment with prior success, etc.