> You don't seem to know this, but no traditional RDBMSs actually provide CAP consistency, for that they would have to use at least two-phase commit or something, but they don't.

At the single server level (which is how I think others here are interpreting your comment)? No, they all do, with the exception of some configurations of MySQL (especially older editions, which is why it's often maligned by DBAs). That's what transaction logs do. They're literally a write ahead log (WAL). You commit a transaction, and the DB first obtains an exclusive lock on the affected rows (or page, or table). Any other transaction attempting to read or update those rows will be blocked (with exceptions). It then writes the change to the transaction log and flushes the change to disk. Then it writes the changes to the database file and flushes the change to disk. Then it returns the results of the query to the user. Many RDBMSs let you control how tightly the locks are and the degree that the data are isolated during a transaction.

At the distributed network server level? Then I guess I kind of agree with you, sure. RDBMSs let you "get around" the problems of distributed scaling by not letting you do it easily. SQL servers often only have master/slave or publisher/subscriber setups or otherwise partition the data between instances with sharding. There's no need for raft or paxos type algorithms because they don't attempt to implement a true multi-master environment. There's either a fixed overall master, or each server is the deterministic master of it's own little world, so you avoid consistency problems with distributed data. However, in doing so you sacrifice availability, since if a shard goes down so does all that data, or if the master is busy then you can't always submit queries to the slaves. Replication is used for redundancy, not scaling or load balancing. The solution RDBMSs had was sharding + master/slave replication for redundancy, which can get messy fast and has issues like hot spots or limited queries or variant performance. It's just a lot harder to do than it feels like it should be, and with storage as cheap as it is it feels like a waste of effort.

That said, some RDBMSs do allow you to use multimaster, bidirectional, or peer-to-peer replication, but most of those configurations basically warn you that you're sacrificing consistency by doing it and all of them that I've seen are a huge pain in the ass that makes shard + replicate look like child's play. They also have schema requirements that make life difficult, and they're somewhat notorious for being difficult both to administer and develop for. You have to design the whole thing from the ground up to work with this type of replication, it still feels like a house of cards, and it's this exact level of pain in the ass that encouraged the partitioning and availability focused NoSQL data stores.

However... most applications don't need that kind of scaling. They don't need a database in every time zone for single millisecond response times globally. They don't have the users to demand it, or don't have the quantity of data to require it, or have other requirements that make a traditional RDBMS desirable where you can't accept a system that allows for out-of-date data (which is when PACELC theorem kicks in because NoSQL typically doesn't have locking like an RDBMS does to mitigate this particular problem).