> not shown any evidence of their existence

What?

Do you deny that highly similar spiral galaxes seen face-on are roughly similar in star-count?

Do you deny the observation that there are highly similar spiral galaxies that occupy very different angular diameters on the sky?

Do you deny the observation that spiral galaxies with lower angular diameters have higher redshifts? And that the redshifts squeeze the entire emissions spectrum from such galaxies?

Do you deny the Lyman-alpha forest?

These are all observations that someone with a decent back-yard observatory could make on his or her own.

So what observations do you want to throw out? Parallax? The observation that stars within our galaxy and M31 differ on average only in the spectral redshifting from stars in the smaller-angular-diameter set that Vesto Slipher identified in 1914? Again, this is the sort of astronomy[1] you could do in a reasonably dark field near your home.

> It is an attempt to get a handle on understanding the universe around us.

Sure, that's what science is. And a viable theory is one that does not conflict with observations to date. Theories that are viable today can become inviable tomorrow; all it takes is a new observation. There are literally tens of thousands of theory-challenging astronomical observations made in any 24-hour period in 2017, and theorists get very excited by even the slightest inconsistency with the standard cosmology. Unfortunately such inconsistent observations are extremely rare, and tend to vanish under repeated observations (by the same and by other observatories).

> At this point, none of the models seems to cover enough bases to make it the most likely scenario

What exactly have you read about "the models" and the "bases"? Serious question. Is it anything more than mathless popsci articles or comments in technology-focused Internet discussion forums?

> gravity to give rise to "Black Holes" and yet has not stopped the "Big Bang" from happening

Go back and re-read the comment you replied to. The thrust of it is that galaxies exist even though in the past they were much closer together. Why haven't they collapsed gravitationally into something much denser? There are a variety of possible answers, but (paraphrasing myself), the most attractive one is that there is a component of the action of galaxies that acts against their mutual gravitational interactions. With suitable coordinate conditions, that can be seen as a fifth force, and with other coordinate conditions, that can be seen as a simple feature of the vacuum, and with other coordinate conditions, that can be seen as a fine balance between inertia and gravitation, and so forth. But unless you want to argue that the cosmological frame is an improper choice and defend that position, you're stuck with the reality that in that frame it is most natural to identify the action component with an energy density.

Put more simply, yes indeed, the crucial question is why hasn't all the visible matter collapsed into a big black hole?

Since you identified that question yourself, you're on the cusp of understanding, yet you reject the most obvious answer: there is something at work preventing the gravitational collapse of galaxies. The only additional step is that in certain frames of reference, preventing two massive objects from eventually moving closer together under their mutual gravitational interaction requires work to be done.

(Maybe there is an intermediate step: why don't galaxies individually collapse into giant black holes? Or why haven't the planets crashed into the sun? In both cases there is a lot of angular momentum that would have to be radiated away from the orbiting objects in order that they can get close enough for the gravitational interaction to produce a collision. That takes a long time. Gödel proposed that the entire universe is rotating around a central axis[2] so therefore there is a lot of angular momentum keeping distant galaxies in an orbit rather than colliding with nearby (to us) galaxies. Rotating metrics have been studied (thanks in large part to Gödel) and they produce very different observables of distant galaxies than the ones we have.)

> the supposed science into religion and religion is considered anathema amongst certain groups within the science communities

Georges Lemaître -- referenced in [1] below -- sure was religious! Nobody doubted his astrophysics chops. There are plenty of working cosmologists today who hold to some faith or other (they're certainly not all Christians! or even monotheists!). They go to where observations, experiments and other types of material evidence take them. As long as one does that, nobody will care what she or he believes about spirituality or even the presently extremely hard to observe early universe.

But you, who does not seriously challenge the observations or evidence, refuse to entertain their implications, and do not offer up anything to explain why other than that you argue (wrongly) that others' collaborative efforts to rigorously and formally follow those implications are "religious" because inter alia (a) incompleteness of models means the whole model is entirely wrong (b) General Relativity is self-inconsistent (it sure isn't!) (c) General Relativity is not a successful tool at the relevant length scales (d) strong gravity is in play at length scales in which one can observe galaxies at all.

Your argument is plainly based on ignorance and personal incredulity. It is easy to fix the ignorance part: there is a lot you can read; you might start with something like Carroll's textbook[3] working your way to Chapter 8. Wanting to reject the standard cosmology just because it doesn't sit right with your intuition is a character trait you'll just have to wrestle with, like any good scientist has to from time to time. But when your intuition isn't even informed and you insist that the standard cosmology (which you do not understand) is wrong, well, people will form adverse opinions.

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[1] https://arxiv.org/abs/1108.4864

[2] https://www.wikiwand.com/en/G%C3%B6del_metric#/Cosmological_...

[3] https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/259680.Spacetime_and_Geo...