skysight-inc/HackerNews huggingface dataset:
I'm 31 and I've never had a partner

8-O

If you want a relationship (and it sounds like you do) then you'd better take a deep breath and jump into one, because live-in relationships are psychically demanding and complex, and it takes significant time to learn how to do it - not least because it's hard to fully know yourself until you develop the ability to see yourself through the eyes of others. And I don't mean in little glimpses, but in the sense of giving someone time to fully know about you, including the parts of yourself you'd rather keep hidden, the compromises you make (or demand) when your interests are misaligned but you're tethered to each other, and so forth.

I don't want to go into specifics as it's not a competition, but I've been sexually active nearly as long as you've been alive, and spent about 2/3 of that in relationships of various depth and complexity in addition to more casual flings. I'd say it's only around this stage of mid-life that I've developed a high degree of self-knowledge, even though I've been introverted as long as I can remember.

Relationships are hard work, and you won't just lose sleep, you'll get your heart broken over and over. But loneliness and isolation are terribly, terribly corrosive, and I would say that to hold back from fully engaging with life is to literally waste your time. The value of being in love, loving others, and allowing them to love you are beyond price and enable you to overcome any level of fear. If there is a 'point' to consciousness, it is to fully experience this.

You could die tomorrow, so I beg you from the bottom of my heart to start living today.
I was having issues with my kid getting to sleep through the night. It turns out that we needed some warmer pajamas and to make the baby drink as much milk as possible. After that, glorious sleep-filled nights were to be had from then on. I wish I had realized that months earlier.
I would very much like to find a way to use something like this on old devices that have locked bootloaders that prevent third-party kernels from booting. Is anyone looking at a way to bootstrap a system like this underneath the manufacturer's Android kernel?
You wouldn't be able to rely on "turn right and go through 2 stop lights" type directions derived from OpenStreetMap, traffic lights aren't mapped all that consistently.
Finishing residency soon, graduation is in two weeks. The program has about a 50% graduation rate. Big fan of the Stoics.
I did, and do at my new place of work too. Usually for tooling, automation, etc. As of 0.17, I'm quite happy with the standard library, though I still think the Futures impl needs a bit of work.

I'm now using it extensively for a confidential computing and block chain project, which is quite exciting.
The issue is that you're punishing the victim. You're telling the victim of harassment that they're no longer able to participate in the community, despite them not having done anything wrong. And while you might not be interested in participating in things like twitter or YikYak, or even here on HN, others are. And it's really not fair to say, "You got harassed, now you don't get to participate. You have to go sit away from everyone else."
I am a fairly decent programmer with a good career but I'm not all that great at math. Not for the lack of interest, although tbh my interest in math developed after completing my formal education.

As for other programmers I know and have worked with I believe most of the good ones also had a good grasp of mathematics but there were also few like me.

So from personal experience I won't draw any relationship between math skills and programming.
What would you define as a lack of math skills?
Programming is math so every programmer use math, some well, most not so. Some use applied math in their day by day work, most of us don't. But I bet that compared to the overall society, programmers knowledge in math are far above average.
... That guide is actually fucking hilarious.

'However, that’s not too bad, because even the makers of GNU indent recognize the authority of K&R (the GNU people aren’t evil, they are just severely misguided in this matter)'
To be able to use VisUAL, your system must be compatible with the Java 8 Runtime Environment

Theoretically it should run on any platform with a JVM, although the lack of a JAR download (as well as 32-bit Windows) is a little odd.

Edit: I can confirm that the 64-bit Windows download consists of mostly a 64-bit JRE (56MB) and a JAR (<5MB), the latter of which works on 32-bit Windows too.
But then he goes on to say that "Suspending his account makes all the less sense considering the numerous genuine jihadi propaganda blogs that Tumblr has not taken action against." Which would be Tumblr doing the exact thing I said they did, as are the down voters.
Happy to hear that you found my answer balanced :)

> What would you say are the advantages of Nim over a language like Go? I see a lot of similar "value add" statements.

In all fairness I haven't given Go a proper try. But my main problems with it, based on what I've seen of it, are the following:

* Lack of generics

* Lack of exceptions

* I prefer the Python-like syntax of Nim

* Metaprogramming in Nim is fun and powerful

* Lack of (official) package manager
Makes sense. I (we) had that when we first moved to the US, and were not spending the night in adjacent futons. We got a bigger bed - and it helped. But I can see how that would work or not depending on...
Like other martial arts, shooting sports have to be different from actual combat to avoid actually killing the participants. Some (e.g., paintball or tank biathlon) are more realistic than others (e.g., sumo).
I think a good chunk of the OC on /r/dataisbeautiful is not done by statisticians. Honestly at this point in the game, a tiny part of me gets annoyed any time I see ANY data without some indicator of variance.
That's what they say about perl. Keep trying and itll make sense!

Granted, scala can be written to read much easier than perl, but that argument in particular don't carry much weight imo.
That's very much not true. College students can be just as petty and cliquish and bullying as high school students.

And saying "Don't go there" isn't really a solution either. While the victim might not be there seeing it, everyone else is. They're still having their reputation damaged by the harassment brought upon them.
+1 for a king sized. Also memory foam.

My wife and I went to a mattress store and tested out every mattress. One of us would close our eyes while the other got on the mattress and rolled over. When we couldn't tell when the other was moving we had our mattress.

It ended up costing like $3000, but if you can afford it I think that's a small price for something both of you will use literally ~30% of every day.
Thus whoever can seize control of things that can be copied and stop the copying can sell them at any price as long as people need it...an internet monopoly.
I wouldn't call ours a light sleeper, but she definitely starts to stir if someone walks on the slightly-creaky parts of the floor next to her. She'll often stir a bit even if we're just going to bed, and she's woken up on occasion.

She doesn't wake up from the TV-sounds-through-an-ajar-door, but being in the same room would definitely wake her up, to say nothing of falling asleep with that sort of stimulation.
I wonder if they will implement the scheduler/goroutines "properly" unlike gccgo with threads? That would be amazing.
In case anyone is wondering how Bayesian inference works on non-trivial problems:

https://arxiv.org/pdf/1701.02434.pdf
Much Kotlin. So JVM
We had the opposite problem awhile ago; we had a hot week or so in the city, and hadn't put in the AC yet - the kid kept waking up, and at one point when I went to check on her, I found her having unzipped her pajamas down to her waist and wriggled her arms out of the top part.

Making sure they're well fed is definitely a good idea; my wife was worried that she'd over-associate sleep with eating, and wouldn't sleep without eating first... but I never really saw this as a big problem. She's a baby; let her eat before bed.

But all kids are weird and different - some kids have reflux, and feeding them shortly before going to bed is going to keep them awake. Some get gassy. Some just don't like sleeping with a full stomach. That's probably the worst thing about being a new parent - you can read and listen to all the advice you want, but then you gotta figure out what actually works with yours and what doesn't.
The idea of a negative income tax is one that is new to me, but very interesting. I'm curious as to how it works for those who don't have jobs, though, which is arguably what something like welfare benefits was designed to address. Do those without jobs receive money, or nothing at all?

As I understand it, NIT is designed to supplement the income of those earning below a certain level (perhaps falling prey to the "lack of incentive" argument that propertarians like to use), but can it supplement no income at all? And if not, doesn't NIT therefore serve a different purpose to the welfare benefit system?

It would be nice if someone could correct me on this; I tend to disagree with Friedman on most topics, but this seems like a rather good idea. I've read that it was proposed by the US Green Party, too.
Standard strategy. Google has the info, they data mine this to death on a yearly basis only to find that when confounding factors are accounted for there's no "wage gap". That's not something you can publicly say though, if you don't want to be lynched by an angry mob. The only gap they could find was that women are less likely to nominate themselves for a promo, and they've been encouraging them to self nominate for many years. Not a heck of a lot the company can do if you don't want more responsibility though.
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DRop me a line at gmail, if you would. I have perverse reasons for not following up on another comment of yours.
Rouge avians -> rogue avians

Rouge avians would just be red birds. Not sure which is funnier in this example.

My school had geese, which were definitely rogue-ass birds.
Tragic news. Not sure what can be discussed on HN about it, apart from saying that.
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> Instead of drinking more, the crew were drinking less in the long run when getting more salt. So where was the excreted water coming from? “There was only one way to explain this phenomenon,” Dr. Titze said. “The body most likely had generated or produced water when salt intake was high.”

That's odd, what if simply a high-level of sodium reduces your perspiration? Wikipedia[1] says "The volume of water lost in sweat daily is highly variable, ranging from 100 to 8,000 mL/day." so between 0.1 and 8 liters per day! [2] even says 10 to 12 liters per day!

If on average over a long period the subjects drank let's say exactly 1 liter per day and peed strictly more than 1 liter of water, then I'd agree with what this Dr. said, but neither this nytimes article, nor the 2 papers mentioned [3][4] mention the word perspiration or sweat in their abstracts/summaries, why not?

Off-topic: Did nytimes.com made it hard on purpose to select text from their article? On Chrome and Firefox I can't select text easily, only Edge lets me.

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Perspiration

[2] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2267797/

[3] https://www.jci.org/articles/view/88530

[4] https://www.jci.org/articles/view/88532
Combining Mechanical Engineering and Programming?
What career paths open up if an ME learned to code? Anything beyond various forms of FEA?
You can engage in free speech wherever you want. But others are also allowed to engage in their free speech as well, which they can use to choose to rebuke you, and choose not to associate with you.

And free speech is not dead on college campuses. Speech without consequences is dead, and that's probably a good thing.
how is spicy food the only thing the tropic has? I always thought it preserved the food better.
>Immediacy -- who really needs it?

Needs it? Nobody. Who wants its? Billions.

But nobody really needs music and movies either.

>I mean, for a movie, just wait a few months and you can download it.

You must be new to earth.

>If you don't want to wait, you still have to wait for the next movie to come out, so it makes no difference really.

No, it really does make a difference. Waiting for something that isn't yet available is acceptable (and in any case, inevitable). Waiting for something that it's out already is not acceptable to most people.
Donald Trump hasn’t tweeted from his Android phone in two months
Do you know if there's video or audio of Peter's talk online? I just did a bit of a search but couldn't find it.
That may be true, but the further the reference gets from the original context, the more likely it becomes an appeal to authority that ends up misleading people instead of enlightening them.

Here are some important examples of quite powerful entities that do not accept the logic that you can't erase something once it's flowed on the internet: the RIAA, MPAA, DEA, various (most?) middle eastern countries, Great Britain (through the influence of the GCHQ), Mastodon servers located in Germany (see their ToS regarding holocaust denial), whitehouse.gov and various other sites that erase public statements after their criticism goes viral, various entities trying to shut down sci-hub (who will probably eventually succeed), and Barbara Streisand.

Taken together, these entities can make it practically impossible for non-technical people to access data that has a $0 marginal cost. So it's misleading to flippantly refer to the New Yorker cartoon's implication of general equalizing power of the internet as part of a fundamental critique of business models built around publishing data that has $0 marginal cost.

In that context, the comment by m-j-fox-- while maybe low effort-- serves an important function of undercutting the low effort premise upon which the article under discussion depends. Thus I give this higher effort defense of said comment.

edit: clarification
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I wish this contrarian argument would die already. It amounts to basically this:

"On average, X is better than Y."

"Ah but I would rather have the top end of Y than the bottom end of X, therefore comparing averages is useless."

Yes, a brand new Ford Focus would be better than a Ferrari that doesn't run, but generally Ferrari is the better brand.
Doing so, you're completely ignoring the problem of harassment. Not only ignoring, but basically putting up a huge neon sign saying, "Harassers come here and spew your harassment!" And I would have to consider working on such a project to be completely unethical.
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You seem to have gotten the lesson of bread and circuses backwards. It's not meant to be understood as a good thing.

It was meant maintain a docile public that's easily manipulated, taken advantage of and ordered around, as long as it was given enough food to eat and BS arena shows to distract it.

Rioting against scum like Nero (and modern equivalents) would have been the good and democratic option.
This is almost hard to believe. Europe is uber obsessed with women's rights, and no religion is more harsh on women than Islam. I mean, their holy book literally says it's ok to beat your wife!

I'm all for tolerance and loving people who are different than you. But how they can defend a religion that goes against women's rights they so vehemently support is beyond me.

Hopefully they will wake up and see the contradiction before people start going to jail for denying Mohamed's inspiration.
>Much prefer having my own room. //

I really like sleeping with my wife, and with the kids when camping or when we have guests over. However, I miss having a proper space to call my own when I'm awake.
That's interesting, did you control for changes in other diet elements, exercise, and water intake ?
Some more recent studies show that except for short term spikes in blood pressure, salt isn't that guilty for high blood pressure in healthy individuals.
Stop. It takes three years to build a business
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Every time I've had to do this, I set up a sample Rails app or use one of my past ones.

Depending on the assignment, I just assign them to add a new feature just to see how capable they are and what it looks like.

Once I get their code, I do a quick pull request to see the changes and scan for the basics: comments, capabilities, and security concerns. I'll often google some of the sections to see where they got it from and check it against security advisories and otherwise.

The cost of hiring someone who can't spend 5 minutes googling for the correct answer is far higher than the cost of me taking a good long look at their solution to the problem.
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As someone who has only recently broken up from an intense 10+ year relationship I can assure you it's not. From the moment we got to bed to the instant one of us sort of woke-up-but-not-quite and subconsciously reached for the other, the mere presence of each one's SO was incredibly soothing. This was an incredibly privileged moment that I cherished for all of those years, that is made all too painful now by it's sorely missed absence•. Sure sometimes one of us would wake up at night and inconvenience the other (and a pillow or three was definitely thrown, as well as one of us occasionally going to read a book and maybe crash too in the sofa on a sleepless night, and more often than not we would regularly wake up to the absence of the other some time later, and get out of bed to check out if everything was fine) but the togetherness was real.

While I perfectly understand that each couple finds it's own way, subsuming being asleep to be like some sort of deep, nightlong, perceptionless coma is just incorrect.

• God I miss those night kicks.
Anecdotes are not data and all that aside - your partner's movements are often something that can be gotten used to. As half of a happily "sleeping in the same bed" couple for around 22 years now, the only time my wife affects my sleep is when she isn't well; a time I don't mind being woken up.

It's amazing what humans can get used to. We recently got a puppy, and went from "wake up every time it moves" to "wake up only if it starts whining". Didn't even take 3 months.
New tech companies will make media noises in two cases:

1. Need investment

2. Have a product to sell

Currently carbon nanotubes firms/departments fill neither case. They have enough money, because of all the hype and they don't have a product, as there's still no known way to mass produce.

In a few years, once price efficient nanotube fabs come online, IMHO we'll see tons of amazing, ground-braking products out.
this is all correct and will not change until we reach a critical mass of devastating failures/breaches.

until then, don't hold your breath. people learn their lessons the hard way.
You've not shared a bed with someone that wakes you. I'm that person.

I snore. It wakes my spouse up at night, which causes him to wake me up... sort of. I'm not always conscious of him waking me, but I will temporarily roll over. I sleep pretty heavily (and always have), so waking me is difficult. I sleep more poorly when we share a bed, and he most definitely does.

The best solution we've found is one of us going into another room. Earplugs help little: He still needs to hear the alarm. I cannot be trusted to wake to them with regularity (living on my own, I'm occasionally late to work if I work early). They have vibrating alarms for the hard of hearing that might work out, but I have not tried.

We still have cuddle time if we should choose it and still do normal "bed" activities. If we both sleep well, we are both happier during the day. The payoff is definitely worth it. We occasionally sleep in the same room if he sleeps earlier than me, using our own blankets (common here in Norway). Which again, defeats the point for some folks but is really great because we both stay at a more optimal temperature, keeping us sleeping better than sharing.
Huh, there actually used to be a real benefit - free Drive storage upgrades once you hit a certain tier. Guess things got popular enough they ditched it.

(disclaimer: work on maps, nothing to do with guides tho)
I wouldn't expect rust to take much scala market share. A big part of he scala advantage is being able to take advantage of the massive number of jvm libraries available.
You don't get to keep your phone once arrested and booked. If the person processing your items is nice, they will look up a number for you in your phone and write it down on some scratch paper which you can take into holding.
Oh, she is onto something. I moved to Norway a few years back, and find that to be quite wonderful.
It's complex, and you're right to a first approximation. People (like GP poster) greatly overestimate the proportion of prisoners who could be easily and immediately released if the War on Drugs was ended.

On the 'could be greater than 14% side" you'd also want to know how many people are losing day release/probation/parole for dirty urine; even non-drug parolees and probationers might be tested.

Probably the other palatable change that would reduce incarceration rates would be to stop using jails as de facto asylums.
It's so weird (I don't know if you've left this thread or not). I'm working on a virtualbox linux at home and chrome doesn't work on drop-down menus. I only discovered this because I was trying out a browser called vivaldi (which I really like but it has chrome dna) and it didn't work there. So I tried chrome and- indeed- it doesn't work in chrome either. Works fine in firefox.

Upon googling, I discovered that drop-down menus have been an issue in chrome (even not using vbox). I'm using zurb foundation for the menu js/css, fwiw.
Right. The distinction I'm making is between the training and what is done in the sporting events. People taking self defense courses which incorporate aspects of martial arts learn and practice some techniques which are not allowed or advantageous in a sporting event.
Spin up VS Code and install the Nim plugin. Still not PyCharm, but damn close for my usage!
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Iirc, MS-DOS is open source and in some museum now.
When you stay up late, does your girlfriend also stay up? If it were me, I would stay up after she went asleep just so I could get some alone time. Maybe it's the same for you.
A good part of that is likely something that you can get used to, but the important factor is if your little one will get enough rest. That's something you'll know soon enough. Anyway, much good luck to you with this, you have nothing to lose by trying and if it does not work you can always simply switch back to the present situation.
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