It is funny, because on a personal level, I have a rather distinct, if not opposite feeling about "code". But I never thought of it this way before thinking this answer. Thanks for that, and here goes.

First I tend to split the word from its meaning (because ontology matters, right?). I say "we code" just like "a driver goes back to his wheel" when we really mean his car, it's a figure of speech. Using a distinctive, hallmark part of something to refer to the entire thing (a "sail" for a boat, a "roof" for a home, etc.) When I hear a special one saying to a third party "oh he's coding", knowing she knows pretty well actual code writing is like 10% of the work, I hear "he's working, programming, doing his job/hobby". This thing.

I agree that a smug face dropping a condescending "that guy's a coder" may not be a particularly nice feeling though (but I personally hear "I'm too stupid to understand what this guy does, or I don't like doing it myself, so I'll just be a douche about it because it makes me feel better about myself", and laugh it out as you would imagine).

Then, the meaning. I come from a science background/interest, so there's code of the highest and noblest kind everywhere: DNA in bio, but also HLA; the Standard Model, and Information Theory, etc. Our reality is just a biologically-biased (i.e. "human") perception of what is, for all intents and purposes, code in the most fundamental of meanings. Even human languages are just code for our brains to communicate states.

So when I see our tiny civilization harnessing matter and energy into complex electronics, packing whole cities of transistors into powerful machines that spell a dramatically new turn in our quest against entropy (in other words one physicist's answer to "what is the goal of civilization?"), and how it's all just code... I don't know, but it inspires awe more so than anything (note that I don't care one bit how others see it, it's very personal). I see something graceful in the way we do that, in the way computer code is just our abstraction for finite state machines, just like a living cell runs on DNA and below all the cosmos runs on quantum fields. I tend to consider it a beautiful achievement that we've been able to abstract so much, so deep, considering the man hours required to replicate the activity of just one modern CPU.

Sorry for a long post, totally off topic as it stands. It's just that the social and historical perspective that gives coding a bad name rubs me in exactly the wrong way, as if it were belittling a god to say they've encoded this universe, or if the DNA in people (and links between them) wasn't just about one of the most important factor in their constitution and evolution. Code matters, as far as we know, and actually literally.

A TL;DR/ last minute poetry illustration: saying "a winery makes wine" doesn't fail to honor their work because we ommitted the seven hours out of nine when they're not actually making it; on the contrary the very superior nature of the resulting nectar speaks for itself of the high nature of their trade as a whole, and it's gratifying that we don't speak of all the behind-the-scenes not-so-glamourous aspects of it.

So I make code. How's that not beautiful in every possible way? :)